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ihe, wetin sele wey u deactivate your account.

hope when the food is ready, you post our own.

i pray she's found alive and in good health.

world: I quiet agree WI u...but Av searched my self n Av done absolutely nth. Even in d mist of dis situation I still try ad hard as possible to be loving to him...i a very romantic person....but no matter wat I do is just didn't help..av talk to him abt it n he apologized n told me he loves me n has Neva stop loving me....infct I feel miserable

my dear, don't feel miserable. i think you should try and make the little time he spends with you worthwhile. let him enjoy every bit of it. show him love. find out that particular thing that when you do it to him, it makes him happy.
for example, when my husband is around, he always wants me to be around him. either holding his hand, touching his lap, massaging him or doing silly things to each other.
when you make your hubby happy, i bet you that he'll prefer your company than that of his friends.

merry xmas baby mama.

make una explain well make we understand na. shuuuu
merry xmas.

the hubby should ask the wife to return the gift.

merry xmas.

papa_nnamdi: You have a 100% of not havin an SS kid if you both decide not to have kids,
Oh I forgot to add, I am AA plus an additional smal 'a' , if you come with me, we can have as many AA kids as we desire

why joke with such sensitive issue.

my dear, i think you have to think twice about this. i guess you don't want to have kids with genotype ss. even your child will never forgive you for making him/her go through such pain. i'll advice you ask those who are ss to come tell you about their crisis. my advice is you both can decide not to have kids of your own and opt for adoption.
my 2 cent.

tonychristopher: basic grammar you don't sue somebody to court...you either sue somebody or take somebody to court...what happened to WAEC

English teacher e pele ooo. hope you've received an award for this. mtchewwww

back to op, if we are no longer together and he refuses me custody of my kids.

Les: Sex is too important not to wait I like that it was on nairaland that someone said he met his wife a virgin but after three years, they divorced because the wife was lousy in bed, very lousy. I'm not an advocate of premarital sex. This story is already changing the mind of young girls like Martha. That's the essence of this story, do you think they would have divorce If they have improved on their compatibility If sex determines compatibility, what are sex therapist there for, with determination and with help of therapist, every couple can always improve on their sex life, whether married virgins or not.
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LAsT BULLET;[ don't let this story lead you to premarital sex unless you want to, gullible ones will let themselves wallow in immorality because of this story, watch and pray, less you run into temptation.

GBAMMEST!!
God that said no to pre marital sex knows what He's saying. we shouldn't in anyway right what God has said is wrong. i know i also failed in that aspect but should i start advocating for it hell no. to each is own but lets not right what is wrong.

see the way una siddon on top tiwa savage matter

Chillisauce: Go get yourself a replica of hubby blokos.
And buy some Duracell batteries.

Chaiiiii.......chilli no go kill person.

Davidoff2000: [size=15pt]
stoooopid biatch...dumb asss schmuck...ishilove..or ashilove u mean..are u a whhore? dis is an open forum so total idiots like u come here to offend our sensibilities thinking you will be applauded for that. if u decide to try to throw a pity party, do it in private.cos if u decide to show ur foolishness in public, you will be hit hard for it.so if u, per adventure you are thinking of coming here 2moro wit a tale straight out of ur arsehole that..who knows..maybe ur sister is jealousing u...think again.
u r the poverty ravaged type i was talking about..inverted snobbery is what we call what you so poorly tried to do.nonsense..your sense dey ur nyansh..more than 300 people have refused to support the OP and she prolly has realised her folly and refused to trade words..you feel you are up for it..come on.

by the way, have you eaten today?stooopid whoore, fucckin around for money for internet bundle maybe.[/size]

You are such a f0000l.
You lack decorum. Lack of home training. I think a section should should be created for kids and low lives like you.
Idiota.

What a match.

PocketEconomist: my sister na true o. With wetin i dey see for unilag, i don learn my lesson. If you see as strong men dey flog married students, post graduate students and even married female lecturers you go shake head. Their men no dey try at all. I get one story to share but make i look, make sure the person no dey for hia **looks left, looks right, runs away* i dey come.

I beg come tell us the story oo.

PocketEconomist: Simple and short. Maximum pleasure for both parties. #NoCompromise

Yes oo. That's how it's meant to be. If a man knows he can't go down on his wife, he should not expect bj from her.

benedicta0: firstly, I must really thank you all for your great and realistic input in this thread.To the questions, I don't think you will be happy married to a man with no blokos,even if he is very rich,I am sure you will be missing the really thing,with time you will start feeling disgusted, no matter the size of his wallet.
Secondly,I have a question for the married folks,is MouthAction compulsory for couples to stay sexually connected?does every couple practice it?for those that are not getting it are they old-fashioned?dose it make a man to feel loved and cherished?

Mouthaction is not compulsory. But if your hubby likes it, don't hold back. Funniest thing is not all men like mouth action. And I don't see why a woman should not willingly give in if her husband likes it. But it should always be do me I do you. When You give him bj, let him also go down on you. Let both benefit from the enjoyment.

I'm already blessed with two. That's enough.

Can you all please leave the op alone.
Op, you shouldn't have assumed her not greeting you as jealousy. Cause it's possible something is bordering her or probably she didn't hear you when you greeted. If you greet her again and she doesn't respond, pls just ignore her.
Almost everyone here do as if they don't know that some people are just born to be jealous. They don't ever want you to progress even when they are financially stable than you.

Roles of a wife? I dey come.

And dis tin dey fp. Na wa oooo

Kanwulia: This is the right age to get married.
The most important thing is to FEEL ready.
I am sure there is a woman there for you,

Good luck!

Seems kanwulia went for deliverance oo

Everyone should do what suits them. If you need house help fine and good, if you don't want all well and good. Must you force your opinion down someone's throat. @pamela, your attitude was just uncalled for.

When I read stories of wicked MIL, I just thank God for the one He has blessed me with. I still think it's better for a woman to have her mother around than her MIL cos you tend to be so free with your mother. You can always tell your mother to do something for you unlike your MIL where you'll have to think twice before telling her to help you cos you don't know if she might take offence to that.
@derin, pls when next you put to bed, tell ur mum to come for the omugor. You'll feel so happy and relaxed that when it's even time for your mum to go back, you'll not want her to go.

Lol....dis is so funny.

Na wa ooo. This is so serious.

Baby mama, God bless you. You just don't know how many adjustment I'm planning to make after reading this your mind blowing piece. God bless you once again

Yes I do. my MIL is not a trouble maker.
She'll even be the one telling me J, that soup I ate in your house, come and cook it for me. I really enjoyed the one you cook that day. My MIL is one in a million.

Aunty CC, thanks so much. Will always try not to make it an issue again. God bless you.