Nigeria is a very religious country..but why then do we have division, nepotism, favouritism, feudalism, bribery and theft at such a grand scale. We should be among the most developed nation in the world..see as people avoided the topic.. let's continue deceiving ourselves.
When I got into the university, I had this unforgettable experience. Every night, I saw a few groups of students going to read. They would leave their hostels around 9pm and return by 6am to prepare for lectures.
We all admired them. As they walked back to the hostels every morning, people would shout 'Genius!' 'Brain!' 'Your head is so hot, it's on fire!" One day, I decided to join them.
That night, with my bag full of books, I walked to the largest hall used for overnight reading. I moved quietly to avoid disturbing the students reading inside. But when I entered the hall, my jaw dropped!
Many students were fast asleep. Some even brought mattresses and pillows along and slept until morning! Others were watching movies, conversing loudly and playing video games. I was somewhat disappointed!
I just walked quietly to a desk in the corner, lay down, used my bag as a pillow and slept off. The next morning, as I walked back to my hostel looking tired, what were people saying to me? 'Genius!' 'Brain!' 'Your head is on fire!' For Sleep I sleep
Sometimes, imitation can lead to limitation. What works best for someone else may not work for you. Investigate before you emulate. Learn from others but discover yourself and build your own way of life.
I am writing to formally inform you to ensure you painstakingly and meticulously examine the type of guys your girlfriend has dated in the past. Please and please don't fall for the scam of " my past stays in the past". Dig the past, scrutinize all you have unearthed before you finally propose.
I saw a former colleague recently and he was almost a shadow of himself. He narrated how he is just recuperating from all his loses. He said his Church revealed to him that his wife is a pipe that keeps sucking his wealth and remitting his resources to the yahoo guy that performed the ritual on her. He explained how his logistics company crumbled and I almost cried. He said the court officially dissolved their marriage on a Friday, on Wednesday (the following week), a small reputable company gave him an offer to head their supply chain unit.
Please and please do not touch any lady that a Yahoo boy/man has touched. Fortunately they no longer hide their rituals. Please as an ambitious young man, dig into your potential wife's past. Know her dating history and the type of people she has dated.
Approximately 5 years ago there was this guy that invited us to a treat after his wedding while we were chilling someone asked him how did you meet your spouse he said "we met on a plane". To cut to the chase, the guy met a lady that a sugar Daddy was sponsoring to Dubai and "wifed" her. How can you meet a lady in business class who has no real job and the parents can not afford a 1999 Toyota and you say na she you wan marry? Although him body tell am and he advised himself.
As an ambitious young man the final trap ahead is your partner. Guide your steps towards marriage jealousy. The signs are always there. Your downfall begins when you marry an unfortunate person. I have seen someone who earns 650k monthly dismissed because of cheque issued on an unfunded account (No be juju be that?) He said the pressure from his wife was becoming unbearable. This was same wife that was catered for by a Sugar Daddy before the mumuni "wifed" her.
Finally, I will advise you to take this piece of advice: start digging. Never date a yahoo or sugar Daddy by-product. Your college girlfriend is using a premium iPhone and you know quite well that the parents are poor and she often calls you for bailout funds and you think one magical uncle gave her the phone?
He whom the Gods wants to kill, they first make mad.
Pukkalolo: "I just found out that my fiancée is cheating on me...I am so mad right now."
This is what this dude was telling me on the phone yesterday. I won't go into details about our conversation because I want to respect his privacy and all. But the surprising thing is, this guy possess a high degree of career success and he's financially stable but yet his fiancée is sleeping with other guys behind his back.
When I tells guys about fixing their behavior in order to change their dating and relationship game with women, some of them would say things like "make money and women follow you" or getting girls is all about money."
The dating scene is rough for young men because of they fall for some silly beliefs.
First, the society tells Sam that he has to treat Cynthia nicely and treated her like goddess so he could have a chance with her, but at the end of the day, that approach failed him: Cynthia friend zone him, treats him poorly, toy with his emotions and eventually reject him to go date some random asshole.
After that approach failed him, the society then tells him, "make money and women will follow you" or "getting girls is all about money."
There are quite a number of wealthy and successful guys who still got dumped by their women regardless of their wealth. From Bill gate to Jeff Bezos to Kanye west and many others. Despite Will Smith wealth his woman, Jada Pinkett is still misbehaving. Few months ago I watched Roberts Kiyosaki(Rich Dad Author) saying his wife dumped him because he was a beta(simp) despite his wealth.
Your level of money as a man has nothing to do with your manliness, Sexual appeal and your bedroom skill. Some men are foolish enough to believe that showering a lady with cash or gift would make her sexually aroused. But that's a lie.
Money may buy you female attention and sex, but money will never buy you long-term loyalty, respect and sexual attraction from a woman. I have heard many stories and I have seen with my eyes many women who are married to rich men but this women are secretly dating younger guys. The funny thing is, none of young guys are even wealthy.
Yes, no doubt, women would gravitate towards you if you're wealthy, but don't forget that If money was capable of buying long-term loyalty, respect and sexual attraction from a woman, there would be no divorce news coming from wealthy people, in fact there would no such thing as that unfaithful wife or girlfriend of a rich man.
The world is changing fast. Soon the dating scene would be rougher and tougher for men because women are becoming more independent. Many women are making their own money now. Many CEO(s) and managers are now women too. Soon many women won't need your money any more--What power will you now have over women?
You are not currently wealthy doesn't mean you have to allow ladies treat you like shit or friendzone you; and it doesn't mean you have to jerk off to porn continuously. Just change some aspects of your behavior and you'd see how ladies acting towards you.
Change you behavior with ladies by reading the following post:
It's good to have money..but having the mindset that its money that keeps a woman is the biggest lie ever..if you are going to have money have it becos it makes your live easier not becos u want to impress someone daughter.
A Nigerian lady has shared an inspiring story of how she overcame the odds before her and wrote her name in gold in the history book of Bowen University, Iwo.
The young woman identified as Ibukunoluwo Areo graduated with a first-class degree and took home a cash prize of N400k in the process.
But her story was not always rosy and blissful as she had been withdrawn from Obafemi Awolowo University in 2016 due to poor performance.
She enrolled into Bowen University after several trials and failures, and eventually graduated with several awards on her collar.
Ibukun took to social media to celebrate her academic milestone with beautiful photos from the convocation ceremony.
Ammishaddai: Oga , go and verify before saying what you don't know . Here's what a government issued card should look like. Now compare what you've done to this . So who is deceiving who ?
How can I get this registered since 2014...still have those 2 slips given.
marvelck: I always wonder why most girls are fond of rushing back home early the next morning, after sleeping over at a guy's place...
Why rush back home, when she can stay back till lunch time or go to her place of work/shop from the guy's place if she's working or owns a business shop
Or they think people don't see them when sneaking into their apartment the following morning
I just sighted a very fine 'yellow' girl, being dropped off by a guy early this morning in front of her house. If you see the way she quickly got out of the guy's car and rushed into her house, you'd think something else was chasing her...
If you are not proud of it...then don't do it!
Their time is 6:10 to 6:40am if na car drop 7am Arrival na 8 to 9:30pm..
Explorers: 15-year-old opened fire at his Michigan high school on Tuesday, killing three students, including a 16-year-old boy who died in a deputy’s patrol car on the way to a hospital, authorities said.
Eight other people were wounded, some critically.
Photos:
Swarms of police officers swooped in and arrested the suspected gunman within five minutes.
Parents walk away with their kids from the parking lot, where many students gathered following a deadly shooting.
Viraltrends123: A video of a treasure box found by some fishermen is trending online. People were seen fighting over it. Electric saw was used to break open it, just to found out it's contents were mainly alcoholic drinks.
Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU) is a federal government owned university located in the ancient city of Ile-Ife, Osun State, Nigeria. The university was founded in 1961 and classes commenced in October 1962 as the University of Ife by the regional government of Western Nigeria, led by late chief Samuel Ladoke Akintola.
It was renamed Obafemi Awolowo University on 12 May 1987 in honour of Chief Obafemi Awolowo (1909–1987), first premier of the Western Region of Nigeria, whose brainchild the university was.
These are lists of OAU-related matters that only Students from the institution will relate to :
Tabithatim: Come and see o! A particular loan app in this Nigeria has been threatening me over a loan that isn’t due, out of 6 instalments I’ve paid 3 and now just some hours after the 3rd instalment is to be paid they’ve started sending me threatening messages and even had the guts to contact people on my contact list that I’m late on my payment. This is so wrong!!
So in July I took out a loan of 150k to pay back in 6 months, they gave me their rules and how I’ll pay it (make I no even talk the big interest rate way dem give me, that one one na topic for anoda day). After confirming my loan on the 2nd of July, it took 4 days for the money to reflect in my account after many stories and mails to them. Can you imagine that these guys have been debiting me on the 2nd of every month claiming that’s when my loan was approved and it’s from my end there was a delay. That’s so unprofessional and mean! I’ve tried to speak with someone on their end but nothing…they’re just speaking English. I don’t know how to report them. Now they’re threatening me even though they’re the ones at wrong.
Most of these loan companies don't care about you or your reputation o. They will promise you heaven & earth everything join with sweet words, they will trick you with social media ads only to lure you in and torture you.
I just tire. I’m soooo pained that I even had to take a loan in the first place and this is what they’re putting a customer through. Na only to dey dirty people name them sabi all these loan apps are one kind and maybe even fraudulent cause not only is their interest rates too high, they shouldn’t be allowed to threaten people at all even if they’ve missed a payment date; it’s just wrong. Is this how all loan apps are? What can I do? I heard FairMoney and some other loan apps are better?
Lol...I heard those loan apps charge as high as 50percent per annum
envoymedia: Successful Nigerian comedian, Ayo Makun, popularly known as AY took to his Instagram handle to celebrate 13th wedding anniversary with his wife, Mabel, today 29th November 2021, IgbereTV reports.
He shared photos of himself and his wife. One of his posts was captioned;
nextBIGthing: Good day everyone I’m not good at writing so pls bear with me anyhow you see this. I’m a young man 24yrs old and my girlfriend 22, I just finished my undergraduate studies and about going for Nysc, While my girl is still in school but she’s already into some online business making good and enough money for herself money that ordinarily she can use to start up a good life. She does not know how to spend which I have complained severally, I don’t really blame her due to the fact that she gets money at any given time she needs it. She can be paid 100k today and be broke in next 3 days calling me and disturbing me for recharge card and all sort of things she can actually do herself. I normally give this to her but it’s now becoming worse and unbearable no matter the amount she gets, she’ll spend it for you in less than one week with no reasonable thing to show for and you’ll be amazed.
To cut it all short, I’m still unemployed but I normally do some little jobs that brings me cash just change compared to what my girl makes in a month. Let me add that she’s a very supportive girl, helped me during my school when I had issues.
I’ve talked and talked now she tags me a nagging guy, and that I have poverty mentality by telling her to have some savings not for me but for herself
I’m just tried and cos she’s not changing keeps doing same thing I’m even scared of taking the relationship to the next stage. Cos if things fall out for her I’ll be the one to take care of her excessive and exorbitant spendings. And I’m just a guy who’s starting life
Pls I need advise
She looks like a girl that loves the good life and is ready to put up with the hustle..but as her guy you need to continue to make her see reasons why she should not just save but diversify. And you need to upgrade your own hustle too. Help her be better even though it can be hard cos most ladies dont think they simply act.
stephenduru: A Nigerian man has brutalised his wife because of alleged infidelity. There was an argument between Mujidat and her husband Nurudeen due to alleged infidelity. Nurudeen brutalised his wife on the basis of allegations that his wife was involved in infidelity. She was transferred to a far clinic from their area around 1am while the husband begged the nurse to cover up the assault.
It was brutal that blood didn't stop oozing out from Mujidat's for hours. The injuries were severe that she was transferred to University College Hospital Sepeteri /UCH Ibadan for proper examination and test.
Mujidat, 30years old and mother of four is on the verge of losing her eyes because the doctor said the nerves seem to be affected and she needs quick attention. Her husband dropped her off and has refused to pay the initial deposit of N120k requested by the hospital. One of his friends deposited 50k.
Why wont they leave..the country is messed up..that salary is nothing to write home about..in their dm ppl keep asking them I have this this and this what is wrong with me, which drug should I buy(will spend money). which test should I do( will spend money). I have done the test! Snaps the result and send to WhatsApp help me interpret( doesnt want to spend money)..thank you Dr! How is the family, you guys are trying oo! I cant stand the slight of blood! You guys are always busy..ends the chat and the cycle keeps repeating itself..the salary is currently useless so why not save it to leave the country Get international passport 75k Ielts 80k Plab 1 239£ Plab 2 875£ Plab 2 academy may be Sampson or any other one of your choice to practise on their mannequins and do their mock 599£ Also budget for you ticket(to/fro) All these from the ever declining exchange rate and stagnant salary coupled with the insecurity and target for kidnappers..and you expect them to stay..to do what exactly.. but this is a perfect way of getting cheap labour by the whites and a form of neocolonialism. You dont need chains and whip this time around to put them in planes..infact they pay for the ticket themselves.lol
When the thing neva happen dem go dey blow grammar up and down..so after the crack breathe finish will it close the crack..if anything happens that man should be held responsible.
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For Sleep I sleep
