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LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

Dump that lady...what did I just hear.....no what before marriage..how do she get pregnant in the first place..don't be a simp..see the entitlement mentality..how much are you bringing

Abacha steadily sending alerts

Greattestman:
This issue has been eating me up for so long and i don't know what to do. My mother began pressurizing me to rent my own house and leave her alone.

It was unprecedented and i don't expect that from her. I'm barely 20 and I teach in a private school. I also do home lessons so my monthly income ranges from 25k to 30k or thereabout.

This money will not be enough for me to rent a house, buy my food and take care of myself. I have tried to explain but she refused to understand with me. She told her friends to advice me to leave; that I'm matured enough to live alone.

I'm pressed and I need your advice.

Are you done schooling?

Islie:
https://www.thecable.ng/sources-buhari-approves-immediate-removal-of-nysc-dg-over-incompetence/amp

Election doings ...

Not true...

Skty:
I agree with u completely. "the most important thing is do unto others what u want them to do to you". By this alone, u are controlled. And u end up doing good. If u don't want to be killed, don't kill anyone. If u don't want something taken from you, don't take from anyone. If u don't want ur partner to have multiple sex partners , don't do same , the list is endless.

Lastly, love your neighbor as urself

Absolutely �

Skty:
Is there anyone that doesn't engage in at least one? I
Humans should have been created without them being in charge of their bodies then. Man should have be created in such a way that when u marry ur sexual organs then grows out. Because even pastors and reverend father de commit. My two cents

Always tot along this line.. I feel God main concern is to conquer the earth and multiply..how you do it is none of his business.. but the most important is do unto others what u want them to do to you.

Dailyparrot:
There has been an upsurge in the number of young Nigerians traveling to the UK for studies.

I'm sure most people here must have known one or two close friends that have left Nigeria to the UK in the last 2 years.

There's this girl I met at Lagos NYSC orientation camp during my service year. We became friends and have been in touch all this while. She is from my home state and her family house in the village is close to mine. She left Lagos to Port Harcourt after our service but I used to see her during Christmas whenever I travel to the East.

I checked her WhatsApp status recently and noticed the background of her photos didn't look like Nigeria. I asked her and she told me that she has left Nigeria to UK to do her masters.

I congratulated her and told her that I do assignments for people especially students in diaspora. She said okay that her cousin has been looking for who to assist her with her assignment. The cousin traveled together with her for the studies.

So, she gave my number to her cousin who got in touch with me. We reached an agreement and she sent part of the money so I can get started with the assignment. I billed her lower than what I would ordinary have billed her because of the relationship I have with the cousin.

Fast forward to few days later, this my friend chatted me up asking for her cut from the money her cousin paid me. I was more than shocked because I never saw it coming and I'm sure the cousin would be so disappointed if she gets to know that her cousin came to me to collect a kickback from the money she paid.

I told her that she didn't tell me it was a business for her so I could factor that in while billing her cousin.

She said she has two people who need help with their assignment. I told her that I will give her the commission from those new people since she's indicated that's what she wants.

But this girl has talked to me in a very condescending manner. I don't know if it's because she went to UK or what. I have known this girl for years but I never knew her to be like this.

Why are some girls this mean?

U no sabi say ppl for UK dey stingy...the economy make them so.

Racoon:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/11/shame-nigeria-air-may-not-fly-to-us-ethiopian-airline-subsumes-it%ef%bf%bc/

Are we saying we don't have the money to float a carrier or we are too incompetent to manage it hence the cold feet we are developing.

Mrkindness:
Done that with an epileptic girl before and when she was sucking my D oboy it happen oooo.



Shaaa I recovered the damage was not too much.

Dem neva bite off your j Thomas before..na then ur eye go clear.

Penflame:
My new girlfriend is asthmatic and I'm some how scared to initiate sex with her. Although, she claimed her health condition does not hold her from having sex, but I'm finding it difficult to believe.

What if it caught up with her while we are on it? I am not ready to go to jail.

What's your experience and any advice, please?

She should have her md inhaler close by

GREATIGBOMAN:
Thanks for the encouragement

But be prepared for a little dip...hope you won't be in need of liquidity anytime soon..lest you are in a tight corner and end up selling for less.

GREATIGBOMAN:
So due to how Naira misbehaving.

I went and withdrew 70% of my savings from the bank and bought $19,000 worth of USDT at N863 per dollar on binance p2p

Guess what.


I just check and they're currently selling usdt there at 722 naira.



My hard earned money just lost like that


I just deleted the app... If they like let them make it drop to N400


Crypto have really delt with me



Last year it was one merchant token that ripped me off $2000
Then Shiba Inu ripped me $1200


Anytime I do anything crypto related I lose money


Will anyone advice me to sell my USDT now at 722 and accept my loss or wait untill December if Naira will lose value further to say N900 to a dollar


Will dollar be scarce in December?


Honest opinions

Leave it..it would still get to 865 and above.. don't be moved..ur emotions is playing with you.
I once invested 1k dolls in a new coin currently with the market dip its around 850 but when It goes back up its going to 10x and above..so I am not moved by the mkt.

Terrible woman but God pass am.

Corrinthians:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CkxJQoaDGxh/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

His parents struggled to send him overseas to school..he choose to be a drug pusher.

samdavjustin:
So guys it looks like 50cent wants to produce series about the life of HUSPUPPI.
I personally can not wait for this to drop!!

Netflix official

He is enjoying himself. Especially with loved ones that's the best form of enjoyment but mehn their are some crazy yacht in this life oo..just Google nord yacht.

My entire street would vote obi.

If this man wins 2023 election...hmmm..una go see shege. Cos Nigerians can be very funny creatures that often times divided along religious and ethnic lines...they loose every sense of reasoning.

TheGistDay:
https://leadership.ng/ifeanyi-autopsy-likely-as-police-free-six-davidos-domestic-staff-detain-two/

Wetin concern cook with watching over baby...except person use am.

This country is no longer safe...a messed up nation.

bennybuhari:
https://independent.ng/budget-sanwo-olu-grew-lagos-debt-from-n542b-to-n797b-without-any-development-jandor/

Lagos shouldn't be in debt...in fact it should av excess to spend.

bennybuhari:
https://independent.ng/budget-sanwo-olu-grew-lagos-debt-from-n542b-to-n797b-without-any-development-jandor/

Borrow to fund Tinubu election

oshozondii:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0PLpJpYEYzfftEKogsb9gtKxtJYNnMsQgVKeMD8jVYXGeYmaELAvQL1kQLBV6wVfyl&id=803267836

Make dem do 5k note too..its about time.

No body is spared.make you get CA first na then you go understand the kind country wey u dey.

Like if you feel he will go to jail for murder, share if you think he is working out of this mess a free man.

Have u wondered why some countries are allowing immigrants cos most of their citizens belong to the category of the aged. Canada, noway, Australia, Japan, and so on

Correct the name

GOFRONT:
Eiyah!!!!

Their lamentation reminds me of one of NwaAmaikpe's powerful quotes which says "Marriage is the Greatest Laurel of a woman. NwaAmaikpe (2019)

Hmmm......."Lets talk"...... Our Auto Crooner

I hope your "Lets talk" is for talking out Auto business or negotiation and not some "Lets talk" that could mean Negotiation of her honeypot.

Oga G, if the latter is your plan, pls retreat, I repeat Retreat.......

And to think of all the single adult ladies crying to bed at night due to their unmarried status, Gazzuzz chose to "Lets talk" with the Fairest of all of them.......Who nor like fair matured lady?? ......But why the fair one??

Nwamaikpe is one intelligent dude..its been long i saw his post