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Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?

never...cos am a sapiosexual, but why choose one when u can have both in the same person.

the ikoyi boy...is talking trash.

probably a jilted guy!

them go still bring substandard product for Nigerians... american coke and Nigerian coke no be the same oo.

ersonleads:
Good morning! I'm a guy who is really disturbed on a very pressing issue concerning a girl I've never met myself but my parents did. It all started on a faithful day when my parents went out to get something, they met a beautiful girl & they eventually approached her & talked to her cos of how decent she's looking. she gave my parents her number so as to give me their Son. my parents actually wants the best girl for me.
when they got home, they gave me her number & I actually saw her on WhatsApp, start talking & all. The girl is actually what Every responsible man needs. she's, beautiful, soft spoken and have all the good traits to make a good wife. She is still a student though.
But, I later found out she's into a serious relationship after some time on WhatsApp & call. she really doesn't chat with me much or even if I call she rarely picks. Her boyfriend is always around her close marking her. then, I initially gave up cos she really doesn't even want to come see me for the first time at least so she can @ least see me in person & we talk since we have become mere friends. for months upon months(4months), I've been a friend zone on WhatsApp cos she is well mannered & doesn't wants to double date. she still doesn't wants to come & see me in person cos she is faithful. But are always close marking (clinging boyfriend) doesn't see it. she Even gave me her boyfriend last 2 numbers sometime ago that if he calls I should not pick. Was surprised cos we just friends & I don't call/ chat her often. It was always rare cos she has a guy & she is faithful. I actually told her that it makes no sense in what he does cos I even barely called her. she doesn't even pick my calls most times.Within me I said what kind of a clinging & no trust guy he is.
Just 2wks ago, she was sick & I asked what happened, she told me malaria & typhoid. she later told me she's facing heart break also. Her guy cheated on her with another girl she knows. I had to send money to her to buy fruits. I've been consoling her as a friend & we became more close the past few weeks. I'm on my leave @ d moment, really had time chatting & calling her & we planning to see. she actually told me her guy cheated on her with a girl she knows cos she doesn't want to have sex with him.
yesterday, she was telling me about the guy coming to beg her & for them to come back & that the guy has been begging her friends @ school to talk to her. now she said she wants to be going to school from home cos she doesn't want to be seeing the guy daily cos memory of the past flashes back. Then I told her, if he is actually ur ex as you have said why you allowing him disturb your sanity? Do you wanna be going to school from home cos of someone that doesn't deserve you? I con ask am if e rent the house for you? she said No.
I'm actually becoming fond of this girl.she is a good person & soft spoken. cannot you see the guy is taking Advantage of her good nature? I told her yesterday to choose between Sanity & heart breaks. You can imagine she is scared to stay in school hostel cos she doesn't want to be seeing the guy daily. We are suppose to see this week I've not seen her in person before Now that oga dey put pressure for her body again. she actually told me it's her first relationship and I can relate. she actually needs time to heal.The guy is actually using Advantage of her simplicity. Why will you want to be going from home cos of fear of not seeing a guy that broke your heart. She needs confident to stand on her ground. What can I do cos I'm beginning to like her person on phone call & Whatsapp. I really want to see her. I really felt bad yesterday for her saying she wants to go from home to school for sometime cos the guy will be disturbing her & she can't stand it cos I understand it's her first relationship. Plz help

she is going to use you to get back together with that guy.

another eboue loading!!!

they all have the federal govt backing!!!

buy btc

no be only Fadaka...na wura.!!!

its more fun spending on luxuries than investing in assets cos investing is a very boring process. doing the samething over and over again.

time for those reps and their dogs to cashout big time.

most gals are liabilities..cos even if she gives you end up giving more..but nature made it so.... men need women not becos of asset or liabilities.. a man wants peace of mind and respect...take away DAT being an asset or liability becomes worthless.

migrantDentist:
I have been reading people's post for a long time here.
I decided to contribute my quota.
Life was hard for me as a dentist in Nigeria. i decided to leave 2016.
I was earning 90k per month as a dentist combining with another locum earning 40% per case treated. I researched all developed countries as per practicing dentistry there.
The obstacle were numerous. Exam fees, low pass rate, tuition for re -enrolling.
I opted for African countries. Ghana was 1st option; exam fee was $700. I dropped the idea. I tried Sierra Leone, Liberia and Gambia.
Gambia was were breakthrough came.
I was offered a job of 1k usd as a full time dentist from Nigeria.
I migrated 2017.
I'm still in Gambia.
if you are a dentist hoping to leave. Try African countries. Migrating as a dentist is hard.

sorry about my write up.
i scribble, i'm no writer.

I know many dentists in Canada.

Ghostty:
Hello guys
Good morning to you all.

Remember this thread I created sometime last year?

https://www.nairaland.com/5448693/accept-job-offer-continue-job

Well as God would have it, a Nairalander whose moniker is very popular on here(Wouldn't mention for obvious reasons) reached out to me and asked me to send my CV to his email address for review.

At first, I was reluctant and didn't want to send the CV considering he's always not serious with his posts and also a troll here or so I thought. But on a second thought I decided to give it a try. Few days later, he sent an email requesting that I meet him at a particular address the following day on the Island here in Lagos.

The following day I got to the address, it was actually an office complex with the company occupying about 6 floors in the entire building. I met with the Nairalander, we discussed at length and in the end he asked me when I would love to resume.

I later got to know he is the General Manager, Group Learning and Human Resources for the Company(A Privately owned Oil Firm) after resumption.

Fams, today I'm gainfully employed with a pay four times bigger than what the Chinese company had earlier offered me in my previous thread.

I want to use this medium to thank Seun Osewa and most especially God for sending an helper my way when I thought all hopes was lost. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

PS: Some Nairalanders are super rich and connected guys, believe me. Learn to respect people's opinion on here as you may not know who you're dealing with. For those who are still searching for jobs, please do not stop believing as your breakthrough is closer than you know. Thank you.



Modified:

I know you would most likely see this Sir. May God continually bless you, guide and protect you. I appreciate you from the bottom of my heart, God bless you. Amen!

Its nice to know good ppl exists.

those house of rep men dem go just share all the slots, among themselves go their constituency look for ghost workers! give dem stipends and collect a major chunk of the salary...na their way be dat.

adenigga:
https://m.punchng.com/News/FG-set-to-go-ahead-with-$1.5bn-refinery-revamp-despite-criticisms

do you really think Dangote would allow those refinery to work.

someone must have tipped them if the money really existed. this is a moral lesson...alaye dey ur dey.

dibu with his clean BMW... U NO fit chop money wey no be ya own get peace of mind.

guess he isn't DAT Good. but na ppl like am dey sell Lgs

NA AUDIO...OOH NO.

Reyjavik:
Good day nairalanders

Please I met an honest and religious girl, lately.
We began dating, and relationship began to move progressively. We stayed in the same compound so it was complicated. I usually go to her place to gist with her and collect movies. One day I told her I was coming to meet her, when she agreed. I made a joke if I can stay overnight, and she replied “I don’t understand “. We talked normal the next day about me going to her church. Which she was adamant it wasn’t necessary.

After that week, her attitude towards me changed for bad. Ignoring my messages and later telling me she didn’t agree we should date and she is not interested in me. And giving me a hint that what I said that day was the cause and I should choose between Christ and Devil, Now she have blocked my Whatsapp number and my Phone number. The only way I can reach her is if I used another number and even if she will pick she will be so rude.

I really miss this girl so much, she doesn't even want to see my face again or be a friend sef. She keeps telling me she has forgiven me for the message but still acts like I am an enemy.
I really want this girl. I can’t even get my self since then.

I am scared another person getting this girl. I believe she is beginning to see me as a psychopath.

go back to her and tell her your mind...tell her I really like you and I wanna date uu. why is she being childish and blocking you. and if she is not interested she should avoid you.

Lagos to calabar by rail...e go too make sense..but persin go too they for road..

edoairways:
Did you consider the cost for purchasing semo, wheat, yam, spaghetti if you only cook stew and egusi soup with just N8,000?

that's d advantage of buying in bulk. before you go market again e fit reach next month. but the soup and stew no go too last 1 week plus.

use 8k cook pot of stew and egusi or ogbono soup put inside fridge dey combo d stew with rice, rice and beans, spaghetti, yam. and the soup with EBA, semo, wheat, poundo yam.

antysocial:
Hi guys, I’ll make this as short as possible.
There is this babe I’m dating, we’ve known each other for about 3 years and were very close but started dating about 5 months ago.

3 days ago, I told her there is this business I want us to do together, she really liked it and she told me she wanted to speak to me about something. She sent a voice note where she said she’s likes me , my personality, and all, she sees me as someone she can talk to about any issue and all of that but she still finds it difficult to come to the realization that I’m her boyfriend and hence cannot feel that “love” for me

She was like she seems me as a very close friend and all that but can’t picture herself sharing sexual energy with me. So she finds it difficult to say She Loves me but she definately likes everything about me

She says it’s not my fault and it’s more of a physchology issue with her, She mentioned her mum and Dad are separated and with that experience, she finds it difficult to really go in love and relationships , a reason why she was single for over 3 years since before dating me.

Now a lot of things make it complicated
1. She’s definitely not cheating cos even though she’s not the type, I still made my findings

2. I’m not physically and financially bad or something, I mean

3. The relationship has been cool up until now, we shared moments, gone on outings, shared kisses and romantic moments , imagine the “God when “ couples you see on social media

Now, I am not a time waster or simp, if someone says they are not interested in me, I’ll let them go

But in this case , I don’t know what to do but I’m thinking of taking these steps

1. She said she had the same issue in her last relationship, so I’m thinking of physchological ways to help her solve it

2. I want to break up with her cos it’s difficult knowing you love someone and they reply back with they like everything about you but can feel like relationship love for you

3. I suspect something fishy is going on but I cannot pin point it.

What do you guys think? I need an outside party eye view to this

if u want her simply tell her u no do again DAT u can't wait forever and walk out. don't pick her call or reply her text and if you meet for road avoid her...SAY NO TO TIME WASTERS!!!!

nomads have always been known to be violent.. if you read the book the outliers you would understand why.
banditry/cattle rustling/kidnapping.

papiforreal:
Na person wey go school de do yahoo

true talk.

Abeg when them catchat least 3 suspected yahoo boys for kano or Maiduguri make them let me know.

in a way NIgeria condition has its benefits. cos if d minimum wage was 200k to 500k ppl go dey born anyhow and before you know it we don become India. these days ppl wey dey earn better money dey think twice before dem born sef. talkless of ppl wey dey earn sub minimum wage wey con Neva see salary for 6months.

ChizzyBuna:
Gone are those days when people who study medicine, study it because of passion and knowledge.

These young doctors were either forced by their parents to study medicine or they study medicine to earn big money.
Not because of the knowledge.

These young doctors in Nigeria are the worst set of doctors I've ever seen
Very clueless, always doing guess work with people's life.
Doing misdiagnosis and prescribing wrong drugs
80% of them study medicine because their parents force them so they can booast that my son/daughter is a doctor.

Anytime you enter a hospital and the doctor is a young guy or girl
PLEASE RUN FOR YOUR LIFE
They make a lot of mistakes and are inexperienced.
Only go for the senior doctors or elderly doctors. Those ones have years upon years of experience.
These young doctors are very clueless
THEY ARE USING PEOPLE TO LEARN WORK.
Avoid them or ask for a senior doctor

an experienced doctor was once a young doc...if you want an experienced doctor be ready to pay heavily or you wait in line till it gets to your turn. just pray it isnt an emergency. which big money 200k per month or 350k per month as a family man.