₦airaland Forum

MANNAABBQGRILLS:
30 years old? Let me shock some of you. Do you all know that Chidinma was a part of the cast in Sound Sultan's mathematics song in the year 2000 or so?

Now be the judge if you think she was just 9 years old here.

Kewtt:

Baba ijesha....is slimey and a chronic paedophile. Unless comedienne has been pimping the girl out before ( I strongly suspect that). The confidence of the molester is unreal!

The adults who allowed these to go on are also very culpable. I would not allow comedienne to foster any child for any reason...... She is an irresponsible person.

Would comedienne allow her own biological daughter to be so molested? I don't think so!

daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!

ManuelNate1:
Ok, I just wanna share with u guys my earlier experience today
There's this girl I met on Facebook. We got chatting and became acquainted. She came visiting. I actually told her to come to my office. Later took her to my apartment. We had a lil chiy chat and den she left.
Few days later this later called that I should lend her 5k. I knew the money would go to voicemail so I declined. After a lil while she called and requested for airtime, I told her it was too early and I hadnt even gone to the office. I can't send her airtime.
So our communication slowed... It wasn't frequent again. So she offered to come visit me and get sum cash... I told her that if she's gonna come slip over ama give her the cash. That I wanted to Bleep her. This girl started singing songs of Solomon to me on how shes not that type of girl blabla...
I didnt even bother about her matter sef...
Fast forward to today... I saw her missed call...called back and we got talking. She said she was coming over, I said okay. She came over and we got talking.she went to the kitchen and prepared wat we'll eat.
Afterwards I started caressing her, babe didnt kept still... From one touch to anoda... We got fucking.
To be candid... She was sweet and soft.
People of God! Twas after three rounds of raw fucking that that my brain booted to default settings that I realized I didn't use condoms.
I went to the bathroom and cleaned up...dashed out to the pharmacy, got
2 determine strip(HIV testing strip, blood lanset, and mormal saline). I came back to meet her... Did the test for the both of us and it was both negative.
Omoh I heaved a sigh of relief... We still continued our fucking... I bleeped her till she became sour and cudnt take it no more��
Babe start singing love songs to me about how she didn't realize she loved me dat much until naw���,dat I need to cut off from my other girls. Plus she asked if I had a girlfriend... I denied ������
And told her I had a girl but it was a long distance relationship.
Babe now forced me to accept that we are officially dating ( chai!!)
While going she almost emptied my cartoon of noodles and and crate of eggs.
I was just cursing her in my mind.
Gave her money for to and postinor 2.
Now she's now allowing me to rest with love chats on FB... She's beginning to annoy me already.

Newstractor:
My boyfriend is a fuckist just like we have rapist but the difference is that he does not force me, I like it. He messes with my brain during sex that I'm about to go pay my own bride price.
I know it sounds crazy but I'm not here for advise but just to rant my stupidity.
He bleeps every reasonable sense in my head that all I have is an empty brain moving. Like I'm not functioning like a human being. If I try to complain he hit my body herder and I get more stupid. I know I'm stupid because this man is jobless, a school dropout, has no focus or ambition. All he does is have sex with me, eat and play video games and this he has done for 4 years with me. While I go out to work he doesn't cheat, has never cheated and will never cheat. All he says he want is just for me to Open anytime, crazy enough I don't ever get tired my body is always ready.
It's been 4 years and I asked where the relationship is leading and he said once I pay my bride price, he will marry me.
We talked about it and he decided to marry me but I will provide everything and give him my bride price to pay. I'm about to take that crazy decision now. Don't advise me just wish me luck. Let me wallow my foolishness in peace, I just want to rant and tell all the foolish girls like me who are not bold enough to accept my foolishness that they are not alone. This platform has helped me a lot and I'm sorry to disappoint you all that after all the stories I read I did not learn anything but ended up foolish. Pray for me. Good evening.

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darkstar6971:
She betrayed me and i want my phone back, Should i meet her parents or ? plz advice me Nairalanders

pete1234:
I am terribly heart broken at the moment, I played a fool all along, when I love I love with all my heart and soul I detest cheating or double dating, but lo and behold I have been stabbed in the heart by my girlfriend of three years.

She was misbehaving I asked her wat the issue is she said nothing, she came to my place the next day cooked for me and then broke the news

I don't really know what I feel for u, I have waited three yrs for u,someone is actively asking for my hand in marriage.

This is somone I told that in April I will visit her people even went ahead to put a call across reminding them.

During our last discussion I begged her saying if I do not go this April then she can give the guy a go ahead, unknown to me she had already in someway given the guy her word while we where in the relationship.

She now tells me it's too late, I pleaded she says none of us should call her for the next one month that she wants to think. Or confused.

I will never put my eggs in one basket ever again. I will be a super bad boy now as I am terribly torn in my heart.

Pls if u read carefully I spoke to her sister of my coming prior before this whole thing, is it still ok to call BK informing her that I will not come again

lilije:
I have been dating this guy for close to three months now. At first, we would talk and chat late at night but all of a sudden, he told me about his younger brother who just came back from school. Since then, he doesn't take or return my calls when he's home. He visits my place often but wouldn't want me to visit his. I have complained about his attitude but he has refused to change. I'm thinking of calling it a quit. Your candid advice please.

iamyemiakins:
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Bch

Hintona:
So, I showed this list to my cousin yesterday and she was shouting, I don't understand there are just 7 points on the list.

My own that has 30 points what would she do?

Below is the list of the qualities my friend wants in a man, she says people are laughing at her list and she doesn't like it. So I asked her to snap the list and send it to me so I can ask nairalanders if her standards are too high.

As for me I don't see anything wrong with the list.

People have their preferences.

1. He must be extremely wealthy (I'm talking Dangote wealthy).

2. He must be loyal, kind and very generous.

3. He must be more famous that Christiano Ronaldo.

4. He must dedicate more than 12 hours of his day to me.

5. He must love and value me above every thing or person.

6. Must be more handsome than Adonis.

7. Above all he must be rich.

Are her standards too high?

bepositive11:
Why do you say so? You only get to see the surface. You don't know the full story. Davido is not an idi*t. He really loved her and treated her well. Something really bad must've happened to make him change his mind. During an interview, he said that she should have gotten to the money first before getting pregnant.

We may think that Chioma is an angel, but we don't really know who she is. Maybe she was only after him for the money after all and he came to realize it. We will never know

FBIBOT:
Sad nothing like urgent in Nigeria hospitals they waste too much time... Remembered when I took my mom to one hospital for ordinary blood test... It took them like 5 hrs to produce results... No to talk of the lack of equipment

Emeskhalifa:
Can we say crypto currency trading is the new age betting??

I have lost countless money to crypto currency. Na after I don buy d price dey crash

lecturer50:
Please house I need an advice.

Ever since I got a federal government job,

my relatives have been disturbing me for money.

There must always be an issue that involves money which they want me to solve.

Recently, my mom become sick.

They are threatening me that I would be held responsible if my mom dies,if I don't make sure she is cured.

But I have taken her to hospitals, and she is trying to recover.

I do this whenever I visit home since I am working in a state far from home.

Her health challenge is due to old age.

But today my uncle called me that I should resign, get back to the village and personally take care of my mom,

failure of which,if she dies, the whole family would hold me responsible for choosing job over my mom.

Can you imagine resigning your federal job to get to the village and start staying?

The calls, the demands, the attacks are getting too much for me.

Please should I just switch off my phone so that no one can contact me?

I just need advice?