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Delph123:
You correct bro
Nothing really different between us, I think that’s the best way to live long
Women women chai
Just stick with your believe and don’t let anyone pressure you
Take care of those beautiful children you’re bless with
Bless up Real Niggarr

Bless you too bro. No be me them go come kill with their stupid dramas.

Delph123:
As in I don read comments tired nah poor bachelor dey feel lonely
Born child and train them don’t let woman pressure kill all because to satisfy what people will say , you’re alive that’s why they are talking ,if you die today no one will remember you again ,just live your life
But make sure you get the big bag �

You are my kind of guy. I ve 3 boys from 3 different ladies. None stays with me but I have weekends to stay with all my kids together. Any of the baby mama that fails to bring over my son on weekend or holiday will lose the child. I don't care.No marriage for me.

mariahAngel:
Sigh!

Yesssss. Anything wrong with that? Any of them not happy that I don't care about her should bring my kid back to me. Period.

I'm enjoying my bachelorhood. I ve 3 kids from 3 different ladies. I take care of my kids and free to live my life anyhow I want. Good a thing they are all boys and they the kids comes around every weekend and on holidays.

I don't give a damn about my baby mamas.

igbowoman:
Men have been sleeping around from time immemorial ,it seems not to make news,many don't see it as a big deal anymore but it is.

The news is different when a woman cheats,in fact men who sleep around would cry blue murder when their own wife gets caught in adultery.

The question is why do women cheat?

Men and women cheat for different reasons.
Men do it for the thrill of it, opportunity availed itself, stolen waters are sweet the bibke says,, some to prove their manhood and boast of their sexual conquests etc
Women cheat for an entirely different reason.
No woman who is emotionally satisfied in a relationship will cheat.
I repeat.
If you are handling business well, no woman will cheat on you
Never.
Women cheat when the emotional connection is not in the marriage or relationship.
She is talking to you,you are flipping through your phone,glued to the TV
She is pouring out her heart, you rush her through or shut her down, start snoring
She is telling you the housework, babies and your family members are sapping her emotionally and you carry your own wahala join ,yelling at her like she were a kid
You don't listen to her
You don't connect to her
You disrespect and call her names
You are hardly there ,always gone
You are there but you seem faraway,engrossed always in your own stuff.

She will look for other means to fulfill those emotional needs youre unable to meet and it will happen in one or two or both ways.

1.Some will become church and religious junkies. Running from programme to programme,from one prophet to another looking to fill the need with church activities

2.Some will seek out another male to pour their hearts to ,a co worker,an old flame or even a pastor.

Those men will listen to her, give her time and attention, empathize accordingly to the things she's been trying to tell you, be concerned with her about your lack of love and naturally she becomes emotionally attached to them.
They are listening to her
Something you've been unable to do
That bond she could have had with you,she has with that other man,sometimes the pastor who has been listening and praying with her will become that man
Once a woman is emotionally attached to another man,she sees him as very physically attractive too.
It's a matter of time.

If your woman cheats on you,you are not providing her emotional needs.
If you are sincere with yourself,you'll agree.
You can argue all you want but this is the truth

I thought this abandoned Feminist had sense.

igbowoman:
I dont even know why young ladies feel the need to confess up and down to men things they would never know.
Ladies please learn to keep your mouths shut.
Stop telling boyfriends how many men you have slept with before you met them.
Stop telling them when you err
Stop seeking forgiveness up and down
Stop being needy.
Please stop it!!

If you've committed abortions ,tell it to God,repent and do it no more.
You don't need to tell your life stories to boyfriends.
Your past is your past,keep it there.
Stop getting too emotional ,not good for you.
These things only hurt you in the end
Many of these men have procured countless abortions for people,raped women, raped little girls,slept with people's wives and grandmothers,some have slept with their fellow men, paid and slept with prostitutes,done yahoo, were cultists on campus, stolen and done all manner of evil in their past, they don't tell those stories to every girl they meet.
They ask God to forgive and turn a new leaf and move on.
But females will let their emotions take over and be answering questions no one asked them.

This is a timely advice
Ladies please stop tarnishing your image with your own mouths.
Those same boyfriends will be sharing your conversations all over the place even on nairaland.
Zip your mouths
Pass on this timely advice to your friends.

Fine but don't ask him for money or any assistance be that strong woman.

GeneralPula:
The marriage favors her a lot..

To the woman of Olden days, a good man is a good man and he’s usually very cherished by the females..

To the women of these says, a good man is a weak man and he’s usually being manipulated by the females..

Don’t be a good man at all if you don’t want women of this generation to torment you..

Nothing but the truth. Only a wise man can understand.

Op is a big simp. No wonder both his wife and the guy man dey call am small boy.

I pity any man who still trust a woman

Still searching for how you hurt your mum. All these mummies pet sef

sben2308:
Am very sure you are not married because ask yourself do u want to live long or die young ,once u av d answer den u understand y men choose to keep quiet

Is only the woman that have the monopoly to kill? Ask yourself this question and understanding why I said only weak men condon such.

Hehehehe. If you can't stand the heat, nwanne waa from the kitchen. Stop complaining already. Who dey beg you. So you want 2baba to forget his other children.

Juliusmomoh:
Just as the subject above.

Have you ever slept hungry just to prove a point to your wife or girlfriend that you are angry ??

Yes, i did it but she later beg me..

Share yours

So instead of you to correct and caution her like a man ,you slept without eating. Lol. Weak ass men everywhere. Tueh.

Simps need to wake up

They will still tell us that he has repented.

Lol. Like husband like wife. That's a draw. Dissolve the fucking marriage. They should go and continue fucking outside. But nah this kind man and wife for go bbn since both are fucklicants.

How much is she selling it?

Semaj77:
You're avoiding the main issue , she isn't angry because he's fulfilling his fatherly obligations but because he continues to sleep with Pero. He can take care of his kids without having carnal knowledge of the Pero , please know the difference

And how did she know that he is sleeping with pero? Does she travel with him to see pero or is it from someone else or mere suspicion? She is toxic and insecure. Period.

Is high time men realise that women are not capable of loving. They are only interested in your pocket and once it is finished,they jump unto the next guy with fat pocket. Guys, beware of ladies of this generation.

FLYFIRE:
Did you see the post on the plight of children in divorces? If yes then, number 1. read it again, number 2. Dey grow come first
But seriously, MAY GOD HIMSELF GIVE US PEACE IN OUR HOMES ...THIS ONE NO BE BY MIGHT OR PERSONAL WISDOM

Oga forget about that. Only weak men uses kids as an excuse. Wether you are there or not the kids will grow up and become whatever they will be. Even kids with both parents cann still grow up to be useless. So my point is that instead of a man to be die out of manipulation using the kids,he better allow them to go and stay alife for his kids. I keep saying it no weak man live long in marriage.

neonly:
U have a point sha
Live to see yur kids grow men dat deep really deep

That's the most important thing to me. My kids. And If idie,then I ve lost everything.

Mavor:
Gbam!!!! Kids or not, I will never take such nonsense in my matrimonal home. I will treat her well and expect nothing else in return. She try rubbish and I send her packing. My kids remain with me. in general, 9ja girls of today's generation are not worth the hassle. Dont understand why women of our mother's generation didnt pass the virtue they have to the younger generation of today. That is why I am not keen on getting married, at least not to a 9ja girl, and I'm almost 40.

They use the kids to manipulate us. I keep saying it,I will rather throw her out and live to be seeing my kid than to die in such marriage. So many weak men abide now.

neonly:
D emotional attachment with yur kids will make u fall into depression except u don love them
For d wife me I don't send them I live around unilag Smally pently die has long has u are willing
But sometimes this children look up to u for comfort and almost everything it will be hard for u to fall der hands
Talking abt myself sha am really attached to my children but I do let them know if because of them am taking shit

We are saying the same thing. It only takes a strong man to do such. I love my kid too but Is better I live to see them grow than to die from a woman's wickedness and not see them again.

Chai. Naso? After missing kpokpogarri's dick.Continue to rest in peace mama but your daughter is very shameless.

AbujaCitiBlog:
Married men take such rubbish because of other stupid and foolish men out there. If any issue concerning husband and wife come out in the open, you will see most men siding with the woman against their own gender.
It is almost as if most men hate each other and are jealous of each other.

Now let me shock you. The case of Chidinma the murderer is a very clear one. See the way male hegoats were fawning over her, granting her interviews up and down with reckless abandon, even she was driven to court without handcuffs in a private car not even a black Maria! Most men are foolish when it comes to woman matter. Your uncle knew that most of the males in your family will take the side of the toxic wife.

Another example is Tonto Dike, did you notice with her level of toxicity spanning several relationships, most men on social media are fighting for her!

Most Men hate themselves and their gender!

When it comes to marriage, the formula of our forefather remains the best. Young men of nowadays are completely clueless about woman. They just wan Bleep! Useless generation!

Oboy.you re a man. Preach on bro.

neonly:
Not has easy has you think bro's honestly

That's why I said that if a man is weak or Lilly liverd,he can't do such.

Is better to separate or be divorced and live to see your children than for you to die and let your children be told lies about you.

RPG2020:
My brother there is love in sharing

No mind Annie. As if she alone can finish his dick.Mitcheww.

Wetin do her tummy?

lwisee:
What is hmmm madam futureisfemale na una destroy this world

No mind her. I wonder how most of them reason. No shame at all.