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Illuminated993:
You've been able to whitewash your husband. The next step should be heeding to the advices of the useless women in the comment section, so that you can finally destroy your marriage. When you destroy the marriage, I'll be here to congratulate you for joining the club of the "liberated sisters".

As a kid, I watched my parents quarrel and argue almost all of the time. My dad would throw her boxes out, she would take it back in, my mum would throw crazy abuses at him in her bid to disgrace him publicly and destroy every shred of self-esteem in him, the man would insist on not wanting the marriage anymore, neighbors would start pleading. It was terrifying. But as time went on, they outgrew those toxic traits, they stuck together, they got used to being together in peace and harmony with no more quarrels whatsoever. Marriage is a serious long term project offering profound lessons necessary for being a better human, not the fantasy as depicted in movies.

I know that we men can be controlling and act like bastards sometimes, but no matter how big a bastard a man is, only a woman who respects him makes him act right. If you want that man to get worse with you, try to show him he's not the boss, after all, he contributes almost nothing. My point is, you can make a man be whatever you want him to be, it all depends on the mannerisms you adopt with him.

If you think your husband isn't treating you properly, you don't get him treating you properly by standing up to him. You keep talking calmly to him like a wife married to a king, and quit looking at his failings, because it subconsciously makes you loathe and have no respect for him.

Money will come, keep praying, keep hoping, things will fall in place. In this Nigeria, there are women who are the breadwinners, and they still treat their spouses like he's the one doing everything in the home, and their marriages are thriving.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.

. Link to her story pls.

Kingrexyl:
I hope he's still fine? at least he has learnt from his mistakes, am sure he won't try it again.

The guy is ok now Got married to another lady.

Speechless

Minemrys:
a 15 year old boy get a 22 year old lady pregnant? Na d gal u go blame na. She dy sleep b4 him climb am?

The girl you quoted has no brains.

Millenniumlady:
He might have gotten her pregnant who knows.......just saying

Yes look at them, hypocrites. Talking and liking trash. And a 22 yrs old girl opened her legs for him to PREGNANT her abi.?

Still Searching for the pointed bress.

My cousin did it and the girl left him to marry another guy. He almost committed sucide if not that some people where monitoring him.

anytaij:
you don't need to be angry he has sister or cousins too so all girls them join too .

The thing is getting out of hand.It is becoming so annoying.

You guys should stop all these rubbish.
Can't we just respect ourselves for once? If you don't wanna Bleep,don't Bleep. Leave their pussies alone. Enough of all these.

BonPatrick:
She is from nkanu Enugu state

You are very lucky. She for tye you with JuJu.

MrBrownJay1:
come on bro, in these covid-19 difficult times, unless you bring FOOD to the table, and MONEY to survive, none of these women will evaluate your case!

btw if you look like king kong, then best bring A LOT of food and A LOT of money!

Na real uppercut you dey give this guy soo.

Cholls:
my brother with that information coupled with her experience I can proffer a solution

Ok. But just that she didn't tell us what she meant by hurting him. Is it that she want to avenge her mum's suffering on any man that she finally settles with? I'm yet to know her reasons of wanting to hurt an innocent man whom she claims loves her so much and she herself loves him so much too.

Cholls:
my sister which astrological sign are you,

Does her fears have anything to do with her astrology? I was thinking that she has grown to never trust a man due to the way her father treats their mum.And I guess,for that reason,no matter how a man showers her with love,the pains inside her will still be there.

Anitafire:
hello everyone I have a pending problem there is somebody in my life who I love so much we've been together for the past one yearas friends.

He asked me out I really love him but deep down inside me I have been saying no for a reason not because he is at fault but because I have my own issues.

Now this is the issue I have, I come from a home where my dad virtually abused my mum so I've been scared always of men, I'm also scared of committing myself to him looking at what my mother went through and I wonder all the time if my mum could suffer the same fate would anyone still love me all that and it has been winding a me down I get depressed and I really don't want to put those baggage on him even though I love him so much please I need advice how do I let go of my past how do I let go off of my issues because I really can't see myself with any other person but the same time I love him too much to hurt him.

What makes you believe that you gonna hurt him?

Phenomenal16:
I saw a post today
"Nobody treats u better than the guy u don't wanna be with"
This might be true to a reasonable extent
Who knows whether my husband might be in my friend zone?
Who knows?
Brb

Na your type go see a man Wen eh love you and put am for friend zone. By the the time wen those ones you are dying for Bleep you and dump you, nobody go tell you. Ode.

Preshieben:
no wonder you are so bitter

Bleep hard to get a daughter ohh

I don't wanna give birth to hoes like you.

Nawa oo. Nigerian police competing with Coro on who will kill more.

GreatResearcher1:
I never said sending pm makes u a simp. I only say that I doubt SIMPs would stop sending pm.
The way girls on here feel when they got pms from guys got me sick.

ok

GreatResearcher1:
Hey fellas! Is it possible that dudes on this forum can stay from this day 18th April, 2020 to 31st December, 2020 without sending any NL girl a pm? I doubt. Simps everywhere.

Sending pm those not make one a simp. He only becomes a simp if he allows the lady to be trampling on his intelligence and emotions. Example. The ode that his girlfriend is sleeping in her neighbours rooms and he was here asking what to do about.Or starts paying her salary. Omo,get her and Bleep her punna without mercy.