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chika98:
Take it from a man(Justwise)

Things will come around. It may take you longer than weeks. For some it is months and others a year or so. He will come around to beg like he always does but you've got to stand firm! No body deserves to be treated like that. 5 and half years is a long time so go through all the emotions. Please don't jump into any relationship soon.

Absolutely! being inlove is gr8 but don't waste ur love on somebody who doesn't deserve it. Don't stay in rela/ship just to save face, stay cos both of u got something special going on.

parates:
Met a girl last month through a female friend of mine and I started wooing her, after like 3 weeks, I think I am in love with her and I can tell that she likes me too because she likes introducing me to her friends and anytime I want to see her she is always happy, but she said she is in a relationship, and she would want us to be friends, should I still continue wooing her or should I respect her relationship and cut all ties with her because I cant be just an ordinary friend with her, the feeling I have for her is so strong, your suggestions and advice will be welcomed

Yes please do that

[quote author=*SteLette* link=topic=451663.msg6094164#msg6094164 date=1274827049]tnx guys, was watching the TV and ddnt even realise I was crying, it hurts so much, your right, and I know going back should nt be an option as he will not change, i know that, tx, will try n find a way out of this one,[/quote]Don't worry, you will be ok with time, going back to him is just to let urself down. I went through such thing, it was hard for the first 2-3 weeks but trust me it was the best decision i ever made.

Don't make urself the second best and NO not all men cheat, some do yes but there are alot of decent men out there.

Don't settle for rubbish cos u can do better than that.

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=451598.msg6093212#msg6093212 date=1274812640]What would u do if your ex invited you to his apartment and you're still in love with him and he's engaged but the girl doesn't live with him. Will you go?[/quote]So you have accepted to be second best?

@ bantyray

How many invitation letters can you provide?

@col dubako

You are right about the importance of more education and ur sister is also right when she said Msc will not guarantee you a job however there is no guarantee that the business will be sucessfull as well.

Are you interested in business at all? What is ur interest in life?

How are you sure that the family friend of urs will give you that money cash to start a business?

crown22:
GHANA
TOGO
DUBAI
HONGKONG
SINGAPORE
BENIN REPUBLIC
SAO TOME
ETC

You are having a nightmare not even a dream

ruffhandu:
White Garment Gathering I presume

maybe u are right

warripekin:
While I will go for proverb 31 woman any day , I will not marry a deeper lifer, a mountain of fire woman(too much , fire and die) , a christ embassy & winners ( too superficial). I can't marry a naughty woman of the first order , a slut of any kind ( whether it is asewo kobo kobo, or high maintainance ). A brainless , yet material concious man eater.

tyolsgirl:
@Justwise:
Thanks for the response the other day. I have now moved the money from fixed deposit to my savings account, splitted into four and deposited same day, I hope this doesnt matter at all.Secondly please kindly clarify this issue: Is it compulsory for me to show tax clearance certificate as part of my supporting documents for the student visa? if No, then what will I need to show as the source of where I got the maintenance fee from
Would appreciate your responseThanks

You shouldn't have deposited it that way, that will raise suspicion, like i told u b4, since u still have about 3months left b4 applying for visa, u should have paid it in every 2weeks or every month.

For tax clearance certificate issue, its always good to provide evidence of source of income, either payslip + bank statement or the
tax clearance certificate, you need to convice they that you did not just borrow the money just for the visa and when the visa is issued you return the money. BHC knows that u don't work, somebody is sponsoring you and they want to know if that person is capable of doing that and have steady/genuine source of income.

Echidime:
I can never marry a woman who is not in the same[b] brotherhood [/b] with me

Which brotherhood is that?

obalukan:
1,000 pounds for diploma thanks

You can't get that even with certificate course. Diploma here will cost you from £4000 up depending on the school.

eloon:
that was for enquiry, this is for treatment!

How do you mean? pple asked questions there and get answers. What else?

obalukan:
for diploma and degree thanks

How much are u budgeting for the fees? diploma or degree

eloon:
My services is born out of a genuine desire to help prospective students wishing to study abroad in U.SA. OR the U.K.
My agency is fully registered with the corporate Affairs Commission , Abuja. should you wish to verify this claim, feel free to come to my office at:
NO. 6 BENDE STREET, PORT HARCOURT, RIVERS STATE.With a genuine desire to offer consultation services for seroius Nigerians wishing to acquire qualitative education abroad, you start name -calling , 419, Barawo and all that simple because you happen to be moderator or what?
I belive this forum like any other forum 's dutybis to offer services to like -minded people. you should have first of all verified my claims rather than name calling. I am however not detered by your naivety. I have my evidences to back up my claim.stop insulting people more knowledgeable than you are. tel.07089716487, Eloon.

Why have you not taken advantage of that scholarship?

eloon:
All u.s.a visas questions will be treated tommorow here!

There is a thread for USA student visa already here.

obalukan:
pls any body that know low tution fee school in uk pls let me know.

For degree, masters or diploma?

victor01:
Here in naija,Lagos presisely.yeah i think a girl can only only go crazy about you if you ready to get her needs met.I wonder what the world is becoming these days.Well if you are willing to pay a good price then you will get all the love you need as a dude.I hope am not getting it all wrong, i think i can very well use a womans opinion as well

That is the problem, love is sold and bought by the higher bidder, women becomes mere property to be used and dump. Whoever wants ur pieces of cake pays for it. .in a way u become a car to be hired. Is that life?

victor01:
Am just crazy about cars,,,I hope you like it? so, whats your own story?

Oh ok!! Nice car 4sure. Love? Does real one exist out there?

@victor01

And the car is for?

vivaladiva:
in the family section, some1 dey lament say her moda inlaw carry her pikin go give am tribal mark
the problem with human beings is, when a tantalizing question like this is asked, it revs up our sentiments just because the person in question is our mother
we seem to forget that the human ability to aggravate and infuriate knows no bounds and sometimes when a person is pushed to the blink of imploding it could lead to even murder, n u people r here gyrating because of slap

if my moda inlaw carry this beautiful pikin wey i just born, go tear tear n patch patch her face in the name of one dirty smelling culture
walahi, him pikin go wish say na only slap i slap am

That made me laugh now. . .you are one funny nutter

ibkaye:
i love it when people say this lol

. . . seriously i will skin the slowpoke that tries it.

likeithot:
Hi Justwise,
Pls I'd like to knw your opinion on University of Glasgow nd d city itself.

Then when do u tink I shuld apply for my student visa.

Thanks

Glasgow university is very good, ranked well as well(19 in the uk), i don't know about the city but from what i have heard, its a nice place to live or study.

Applying by July will be ok.

giggsy:
@ justwise- Thanks for your prompt response. Its the University of Hull.

Oh ok, its a good university and Hull is not a bad place to live too.

vivaladiva:
by hit, u mean just start wacking about her like a mule
i dont tolorate domestic violence but if i was a guy and some raving lunatic chick was waving her fingers at me and insulting the poo out of me, no sweat
but if the bi-tch comes up to me trying to scatch my face or trying to hit me, confirm, i will give her a slap that will echo like ten times
women come here shouting about double standards but when it comes to the nitty gritty, u want pref treatment even if your acting like the biggest stinkiest c-u-nt on earth

I see ur points but i rather hold her down than hitting back, just to stop her from inflicting injury on me then walk away. Hitting back will not solve the prob.

vivaladiva:
people play this woman and mother card thing too mch abeg
people sud respect other peoples boundaries no matter wat, man or woman

Not playing any card, i don't believe that a man should hit a woman, its wrong simply

OgidiBoy:
Just what if the mother is strung out on crack or PCP and misbehaving, then I would think it's justified to slap the mother.

No its not justified, walk away as a man if you can't control the situation

I will skin him/her alive. . . nobody touches my mum, no matter what she did to that person

Shock:
the more reason why young people should be encouraged to másturbate more, don't you think

I agree with u 100%

funkybaby:
no mind am.
he's a disgrace to his family !

Now his DNA is taken, full CRB ruined, just for 5mins of cheap quickie