₦airaland Forum

makajibbz:
wtf who gets married at 18yrs
sorry, but is she even done wit uni yet? i dnt think any 18yr old girl will want to be a housewife,

Disreal Am:
hello poster you are still a baby and not even sure of wat you want, she is also i baby and she at this age thinks only in one direction. so pls be calm and let u babies glow up b/4 marriage.
if you tell your friend, he will spank the hell out of his sis.

Thanks alot both of you. I don't know how some pple are encouraging him to go ahead. We are talking abt Nigeria not the UK or USA where a 16yrs old is regarded as an adult.

@poster, have you got a steady job, house and saves to take care of a family?

simplicit:
She is 18 and am ready to marry her

18? and u are ready to marry her? ur age please if u don't mind me asking?

Disreal Am:
man that is a very important question that matters alot.

if you must tell him you must consider her age.

And that was why i asked that question, i got the impression that the girl is too young.

Nonsense!!

simplicit:
jamesmart is right u can study abroad for free but what he is saying that i don't like was the fact that he bought the E-Book for 5,000 that's a lie from the pit of hell. I have the E-Book also. U can contact me for more info. here is my mail, dsameasme@gmail.com or call, 08068048858, 08058463166

Have you also used that e-book? Why are u still in Nigeria if that e-book can get u scholarship?

[quote author=siyanda.N link=topic=450372.msg6108585#msg6108585 date=1275054253]What made you think that ALL Nigerian men are scammers?

Well if its not ALL THEN its 99.9%. I am sorry but Nigerians are NOT to be trusted. I am in South Africa and there is a Christ Embassy church here by Chris Oyakhilome, his brother Ken Oyakhilome's wife is heading it. Come on!!![/quote]What you just said now is like me saying 99.9% South Africans are HIV positive. Do you have any evidence to show that Ken Oyakhilome's wife is engaging in any fraud activity? Where did you get that 99.9% figure from?

I'm really really holding myself back as i type this, why do pple with little or no brain at all keep insulting Nigerian cos of a few scumbags?

simplicit:
I am in love with my friends younger sister, in fact we are both in love and currently dating, but my friend doesn't know and she also does not want him to know but i feel i am betraying him because he is a very close friend of mine.
What should i do? should i tell him or not because inevitably he is going to find out one day, but she doesn't want me to tell him

How old is she?

stontblaze:
@ justwise i haed u
what do u say i should do plzzzzzzzzzzzzz dont had 2 the problem solve the problem ok

If ur a.s.s is not written: EXIT ONLY then for it

Disreal Am:
why not let her crew you in the a.s.s first and then u crew her later?

waooo that will be,

Nice one, . . poster u got an answer here

[quote author=siyanda.N link=topic=450372.msg6107200#msg6107200 date=1275040576]Do you know if any Nigerian man cares if u exist?
I WOULD HAVE TO WORRY NIGHT AND DAY COS THEN I WOULD A VICTIM OF A FUCKEN SCAM FOR SURE, SO I AM GLAD THE BLOODY THIEVES DONT@![/quote]What made you think that ALL Nigerian men are scammers?

[quote author=siyanda.N link=topic=450372.msg6106605#msg6106605 date=1275032905]I would never marry a Nigerian man, that for DAMN SURE![/quote]Do you know if any Nigerian man cares if u exist?

humblemoi:
@ Justwise, thnks a great deal. Your explanation was very helpful. I got a mail from the Institution telling me that i should just print a one month bank statement and not bother about the previous month at which the deposits where made or i should just print along the last date at which the deposit was made. Thanks anyway, I'll find a way to go about it.
But you didn't attend to my second question as regards the University certificate for my friend. She was awarded a degree in Business Education and it was written as Bachelor of Science (Education) but on her CAS it was only stated as Bachelor of science , BSc.
Would this in anyway that affect her application when the time comes?

The school is right, all you need to print is one month bank statement (the 28days) all the activites in that bank account within that 28days should be shown.

For your second question. . it will not affect the out come, all the documents she used when she applied for the course, should also be used for her visa application

humblemoi:
Hi Justwise, please i'd like to ask what you mean by
this is because i intend to do the same. Why i'm asking is because the Teir4 guidance states that the required money should be held in your personal as it applies to individual for a period of 28days consecutive ending no more than one month before application is made. So this end, i feel when one is to print the statement he'she would only print a maximum of one month.
Will it be possible to avoid showing how the deposits were made in such a scenrio?
I'd like to also ask, that a friend studied business education(BSC ed) but on her CAS, it was just written BSC hope it won't affect her application when she tenders her application.my first time here, pls answer appropriately. thank you!

Yes, there is nothing wrong with depositing the money in your personal account, but deposite the money sensibly, when you make 4 huge deposites totaling N4m a day, it looks suspicious.

You can't print bank statement without showing how the money were deposited, activities in that account , don't just print the bank balance, ALL the bank details should be shown in the print out

@fgrant

Why have you not use that book urself? You don't want to travel abroad?

@Naijalande

All the countries u mentioned there are not English speaking country(Officially) And if you are leaving Nigeria for 'hustle' please get the right visa. . .e.g work permit, don't waste ur money tryig to leave Nigeria with just visitor's visa and hoping to change it to any other visa.

Think very carefully

@Baba Ibada

There is nothing wrong with ur elder brother depositing the money into ur account. Since you share the same famliy name with him and he got a good job, all he needs to do now is to give you letter of sponsorship, and proof of his source of income, e.g payslip,active bank statement or any other genuine source of income he has.

The BHC will check if he can afford to sponsor you. As long as the huge deposite can be justified then u are ok interms of financial requirement.

jamesmarti:
I bought the E-book my self for N5,000, why should i give it out free to people

You should think about it yourself

Am only trying to help period!!!

So are u studyng abroad free now?

Ghana Gal:
I WOULD NEVER MARRY SOME 1 ON NAIRALAND , N DATS A FACT, i cant believe da amount of people who actually fall in love ere. DIZ IS A FORUM if y'all 4gotten, kmt

Who is even proposing you? Dream on my dear!

[quote author=Ace (f) link=topic=451842.msg6096677#msg6096677 date=1274880152]if u can be of help i dont mind. i really ned to change her mind at all cost.
1. she is a banker
2. the relationship is just 6 mnths old nothing much to my own undastanding
3. never dated married man b4. just fed up with guys. good xtian right from childhood.
4. not at all.
5. YES. as far back as at least 5 years back.
6. YES. and she is children loving person. she even said had it been she has one now she would have just forgotten abt married issue.
7. just to be happy. she is not an high class person.(i think i get u right)
8. she used to. but lately it seems her heart is hardened due to her unhappiness abt the whole things. loneliness.
9. NO. she doesnt but very curious abt having one from a right person.
looking forward to getting your timely response.[/quote]Hang on! Are you bizgirl? How many IDs have you got?

sylve11:
lol, oboy dis one belike swear na



@bizgirl, your friend thinks she gat real love?

No na, think of the marriage she is wrecking.

Missy B:
I assent!!

obamma:
Tanx alot justwise for your contributions. I really appreciate. Pls can you give me a complete guide on how to go about it in order to get the work permit withing 2 weeks. Also my email is bajax2k2@yahoo.com, we can chat pls.

Your starting point is to get the letter of employment from them, if they refused then it will be difficult for you get a visa.

If they do give you one then ur next point of call is their embassy website, there you will see other requirements for work permit including the lenght of time it takes to get the visa. You don't set the time, no agency set the time, the embassy does.

stone4rock:
@justwise thanks jo,

Am an immigration lawyer and i have a serious problem selecting a uni/col for my clients, cos they are willing to part with little money as initial deposit infact the least deposit i have seen is 1,500pounds have you seen any1 lesser?
Dont you think a married person applying for a student visa should submit a marriage certificate has proof?
1luv

The school set the deposit to be paid, its up to the applicant to pay more but not less.

Yes if she clamined to be married then marriage certificate is a proof.

Ghana Gal:
i would not marry an ugly n POOR man, i repeat ugly n[b] POOOOOOOR man [/b]

How rich are u?

obamma:
No letter of employment, that's the issue. Because, if there was letter of employment i will try do it myself. The company said they are not sponsoring any work permit for any body. So once you have work permit, is as good as u have the job. Thanks.

You don't have a job then. If you are given a job by a foreign company they will give you letter of employment, that letter will be used for ur visa application, without that, u got nothing to show the consulate officer.

Where do you want the travel agent to get one? Forgery?

obamma:
Dear all,

Recently, i have a hanging job offer in the czech republic as a software consultant. The job sure will be given to me if and only if i have a work permit for Czech republic. Right now am in Lagos Nigeria. 2 weeks is required of me to provide the work permit and take the job.

Does anyone know any expert who can help secure this work permit. You can also drop your email or number here i will contact you. Thanks alot.

Why don't do it urself? Have you be given letter of employment by the company?

bizgirl:
hello NL
please your candid advise is needed here. my childhood and closest friend now 33yrs and still single is in love with a married man.she had many disappointments in the past which made her believes love does not exist. all of a sudden she came across this married man and father of two who showers her with all you will expect from a lover. initially she declined his proposal but now she cant even breath without him.
is love still blind? because the two of them even practice diff religion. As per the man he really wanted my friend claiming that he will make her happy always, of which he has been doing. please help me advise her as her pastor or parents will not even consent to this. but it is 100% sure she has made up her mind that it is this man or nobody else.
your objective opinion will be well appreciated.

She will still be single at the age of 63 if she keeps dating married men

stone4rock:
Hi every1,

Before now the maintenance fee one is meant to have was 7,200pound, i was reading an article from a registered sponsor suggesting that their prospective student should have the sum of 9,600pounds as their maintenance fee using the calculation of 800pounds per month multiplied by 1year.
wot do ya think?

I don't know where that registered sponsor got that figure from. maintenance fee for london is £7200 for a yr and outside london is £5400.

x trix:
i am thinking of paying half of my fees to holborn college which is £2500, but will the remaining £2500 and £5400 be in my account for 28 days .

There is nothing wrong with that.