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CILondon:
People may say "don't paint with the same brush," but in truth when you keep coming across the same observation time and time again, you are justified in drawing some conclusions.
Time and time again, this has happened to me, and other women too who have spoken about it - and always with Nigerian born, not UK born Naijas, therefore I think I am entitled to draw my conclusions based on what I see or would you prefer that I disbelieve my lying eyes?

U hang out with a wrong crowd or u sending a wrong message to them. Sometimes pple treat  u good/bad depends on how u present urself.

CILondon:
I lived in Nigeria for at least 10 years, so I think I know more than 10 Nigerian born and raised men. I am qualified to comment - I'm not one of those "ajebotas" that has never been to Nigeria. My older sister also has the same problem with Nigerian men coming on to her, and many other women have spoken about it. It can't all be my imagination.

I'm not disputing ur case or experience at all, i'm basically saying that its not fair to paint all of us with the same brush.

Whether Nigerian born men or not its still a very silly thing to do.

[quote author=ksa-girl link=topic=365346.msg5104411#msg5104411 date=1260721216]look i take addmition in London college for my bechlor degree .but ECO refused me.
and my appeal also dismissed only for one reason. so i applied for reconsider.
but now i want to visit in London.its very necessary for me.
thats my story [/quote]U are confusing things, u posted here:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=127964.msg5094030#msg5094030

That u were given a visa after a month, now u are applying for visiting visa?
Don't be in a hurry to waste ur dady's money applying for any visa.

Flavio:
@Justwise
[i]
[b]I dont have any proof, or need to have any proof.
Im nigerian, engaged and have loads of female friends. Amongst my female friends are three of my ex's.   I personally dont have a problem with being platonic friends with females.  I always make sure it doenst go past the platonic boundary no matter how hot or sexy the chic may be.   

In this case here, the poster is likely to be hot and sexy, so what else does she expect from nigerian men?.lol [color=Black]All im saying to her is that she shouldnt generalise,

That is my prob with her.

Flavio:
Yes I agree. Its is indeed the nigerian born and bred ones, who have problems being platonic friends.

Any prove? Or u just want to say something?

hax:
Then you must be really hot.

Or you just meet the wrong people and make silly generalizations.

I go with that.

CILondon:
Funny, you mention that, but it is the Nigerian born and bred men who seem unable to just be platonic friends with a woman. I don't have this problem with UK born Nigerian men, they are happy to just be friends as most of them already have white girlfriends which suits me just fine.

I'm sorry but this is nonsense, i was not born here but 2 of my best friends here 2 zambain ladies, i have known them for 5yrs now, share flat with one of them but never ever cross the line, they were my course mates, we club, shop, cook together.

STOP saying Nigerian born men, u probably don't know more than 10 of them and yet u are painting all of us with the same brush.

U were groped by one or 2 of those half human beings not by ALL Nigerian born men.

In as much as i agree with u that there 'some' Nigerian men with such attitude towards women and should never be encouraged.

I'm strugging to get my head around ur generalisation, who told u that 'Nigerian men' are been avoided around the world?

How many women did u interview to draw ur conclusion? U got every right to raise this issue cos u are speaking from personal experience BUT using the term[b] Nigerian men[/b] is very offensive to millions of decent Nigerian men who never ever get involved in such behaviour.

kpolli:
well, thats rite but lets also acknowledge the fact that he picked his wife to do it wit,
i know men that sleep around cos they cant b adventorous wit their wives

Yes but she HAS to approve it, it supposed to be 'love making' forcing his 'fetish' on her is like rape

[quote author=ksa-girl link=topic=365346.msg5104007#msg5104007 date=1260714676]ok thanks
i am student of london collge and i submitt my application with my father payslip, letter, letter of employment and all document which i told here before.
lets see what happen? [/quote]Are u doing distance learning or what? How do u mean by student of london college?

kpolli:
wait husband is doing it wit th wife, y'all r complaining, should do it wit someone else?

She is not a s.x toy, her wish should be respected

Read everything u need abt Uk student visa here:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-331618.0.html

chaircover:
Its cheaper in tescos et al[b] but they won't let me lug a 1 litre bottle through airport security with this 100 ml max liquid law [/b] so I have no choice but to buy it after I pass through security

Yea, its a prob, the last time i was traveling to hong kong i had to bin my mouth wash and body cream at the airport cos i 4got abt the 100 ml law and had to buy the so called duty free.

chaircover:
Thanks but no thanks to your offer

If I could drive to Nigeria sef, I would. The only reason why I choose direct flights to Nigeria is becuse I have to take off and land only once

I always make sure that I buy Baileys at duty fee so I can take swigs during the flight to calm my nerves & catch some sleep and am drunk as a skunk by the time we land spending the next day in bed with a nasty headache

Hahaha. . . Honestly u are a character, i love Baileys, though free duty is not really cheap, its even cheaper in morrison.

oyibomoses:
THERE ARE MANY INVITATION LETTER FLYING USA TO NIGERIA EVERY DAY, AND WHEN YOU GO TO THE EMBASSY THEY TELL YOU THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE ENOUGH PROVE THAT YOU WILL COME BACK TO NIGERIA, TELL YOUR BROTHER TO REGISTER YOU EITHER IN A CONFERENCE, SCHOOL OR ANYTHING THAT REQUIRE THEM TO GET A STAMP INVITATION LETTER EITHER FROM HOMELAND SECURITY OR IMMIGRATION VISA THAT WOULD BE THE ONLY WAY OUT NOW, UNLESS YOU HAVE TO HAVE A COMPANY HERE IN NIGERIA OR WORK IN A VERY GOOD COMPANY TO SHOW PROVES THAT YOU EARN WELL IN YOUR COUNTRY AND A GOOD ACCOUNT STATEMENT TO BACK IT UP WHEN I MEAN GOOD I KNOW WHAT I AM SAYING, THERE ARE OTHER DOCUMENTS YOU WILL NEED JUST HIT ME UP AND I WILL INFORM YOU BETTER
ONE LOVE

U are just pretending to help but u have a hidden agender, which other document do u want to sale to him? Strange.

brooklyn99:
@NCHARA :HHMMM, sorry,wont be posting any african pics, could care less about what happens down there. but,if ure insistent, i'll gladly post pictures of any of the five boroughs. u know, brooklyn,queens, staten island, manhattan, the bx. thats if u insist though. as.s hole. lol. see how silly and fickle minded u r? still cant get it past your shallow mind that i aint nigerian.guess what tho, if i was to be nigerian, id kill myself if i came out ibo.

What is that all about?

[quote author=ksa-girl link=topic=365346.msg5100260#msg5100260 date=1260648516]my cousin is studetn so he cannot give me letter for sponsor.
i have monay in uk thousend pounds & return ticket .yes my father also gave the letter of responsibalities but dont have statement but he may gave me payslip.
so what you think k i go tomorrow for submitt my application?[/quote]Ok, nobody can give u 100% assurance that the visa will be issued, the ECO has final decision, just submit and prepare for the interview. No need to panic.

Good luck.

pespes:
My dad is my sponsor and he placed a foreign and a nigerian Account .

Does that mean that i might still have to wait for one whole month?
what do you think ?
Thanks

Even if ur dady 'placed' 1billion in those accounts BHC will still take the due process, it may take a wk or a month, like flekan said, it depends on how long it takes them to finish ur application. Just relax.

@ksa-girl

One of the most important thing here is to prove to the ECO that u will return to Nigeria after the 18days visit, evidence of any family or social ties and responsibilities to return to matters alot.

Your dady can support your application with his bank statement or payslip and a letter stating that he will be responsible for your financial needs and that u will be coming back after your visit,  using company's bank statement maybe not help cos he is not the owner.

Or your cousin can send u letter of invitation with his bank statement or payslip to prove to ECO that he will be able to take care of u through out your stay.

Please make sure all the documents are original. Not photocopies from an agent.

Visit uk border agency website for more information.

Please if i'm wrong let somebody add more.

Good luck.

jossassist:
I think u guys are sick, Do u people smell any fraud in this?? Big fools. Is studera not free? tell me u bastards!!!!! I only ask to assit people AND NOT TO SCAM ANYONE. I can see that you people are being fustrated.
justwise@Who do u know? U must be telling that to your papa. I posted a real nice suff on here and u came on with your silly thought. U are such a dull man bro!!!
OMO IBO@@ your name has shown that u just came from the village. empty score!!!

Mother fuckers!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is not new, many fraudsters react like this, u are not doing any charity, u have ur target, unfortunately nothing here for u.

sugar pp:
@ justwise its easy to say that now but when things fall apart peeps will be sayn why didnt people around her advise or say something. I dnt mean to b skeptical but i kno how some nij men r ruthless heard a story about a woman that did a similar thing for a guy then after about 2 or 3 kids he now startd complainin 2 d world that he cnt stand her n she has body odour. Cn u imagine? evn if true look how ungrateful n callous a guy cn b he didnt kno that wen he was beggn her to bring him to europe. The stories r plenty i personally think citizenship status declarations r on a need to kno basis

Thats life for u, some women does the same thing, so it goes both ways. If we are to count all that nobody will get married, sometimes marriage is a risky business.
She should not expect too much just for the fact that she brought him to the UK, it should be abt love they have for each other not abt materia gain.

sugar pp:
i dnt kno if it is fakei tink its a mistake cos the guy has ntn 2 lose n d whole process cost the girl lots of money, time n energy (she had to travel to nij a couple of times to prove to the british the union was genuine also they had a quickie weddn in nij). So far the guy has investd ntn in d union but he will soon b getn british citizenship

Is she complaining? She did that for love, i don't think she was forced into it.
She knew what was involved b4 going into it.

the marriage is still young so u can't draw conclusion now, its not business that u expect gross/net profit.

Why do u think its a big mistake? @OP

Nobody need to call or email u, if its free indeed then anybody can grap it online.

Read this and see if it helps:


This page explains what documents you should have when coming to the United Kingdom as a general visitor.

They are:

=if you are employed, a letter from your employer granting leave of absence from your job for a specified period - the letter should also say how long you have been employed by that employer, in what job(s), and when you are expected back at work;
=if you are self-employed, evidence of your business activities and financial standing;
=evidence of any property you own in your home country;
=if you are a student, a letter from your school or college stating the course you are on, its start and finish dates, and the dates of the holiday period when you intend to visit the United Kingdom;
=evidence of any family or social ties and responsibilities to return to;
=evidence of any firm travel plans you have made;
=bank statements going back over a period of several months; and
=evidence of savings available to you.

flekan:
Nothing!!! Depending on how good you are at SWIMMING though, Just SWIM your way to the U.S.A

Best answer, case closed

@jossassist


There is no fraud in this subject. We can go to the internet cafe together to apply if u have any doubt about it.

I think u are one of those old customers with a new ID.

U can run but u can't hide.

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=362953.msg5094248#msg5094248 date=1260553559]@ Toowise, McKokoro, my Deltan Prince Siena, Adetutu and co, we need to find a catchy name for you guys, you are doing a rollicking^antonym good job here, keep it up [/quote]Our NL queen, how u dey?

I was reading ur post just now on this:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-161505.0.html

I can't stop laughing here, i'm in pains

[quote author=ksa-girl link=topic=362953.msg5094144#msg5094144 date=1260552536]can you help me please [/quote]Please how can i help?