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platinumnk:
ifeleke whats this with pat and OXone


pat?


@topic- online friends are just that- online friends, taking it past that is weird and can sometimes be dangerous like the craigslist killer.

U can meet a killer anywhere, not just online. killers u see on the street don't have it written on their forehead.

U can meet a killer anywhere, not just online. killers u see on the street don't have it written on their forehead.

ThoniaSlim:
I'm not gonna explain my point of view further. . .cus I see it a waste of time. . .we differ in opinions. . .and so ama let u stick to your opinion. . .while I stick to mine. . .

Very fair i guess, no hard feelings though

hardberry:
i suggest you leave them both and get sometime fresh . or try to work on your present relationship. leave that guy alone . he wants to have u all . he would go for your younger sista next . Be careful

Do u know that guy? Or u just jumping into conclusion here.

@ThoniaSlim,

I'm sorry but, they weren't going out B4. they got nothing going b4, he asked her out and she politely said NO.Then the bloke moves on and tried his luck with another girl who happens to be her friend.
I ask again, whats wrong with that?
These 2 girls are not sisters, they got different choice when it comes to men and they both made their choices, one said NO and the other said YES, hun?

horlahmie:
Why do guys feel superior after sleeping with a gurl. Don't they know the gurl also slept wiv them? i think its a 50-50 relationship

Probably cos 'some' girls think they got gold in between their legs. so when the poor bloke work his backside off to land it, he works with his shoulder high

heather:
SERIOUSLY I JUST THINK IT DOESN'T MATTER WHERE U MEET THE PERSON. IT IS THE PERSONALITY THAT REALLY MATTERS. MY FRIEND IS GETTING MARRIED WITH THE PERSON SHE MET ON FACEBOOK. IT WORKS SOMETIMES

My point exactly!

sinceerr:
i agree, i dont really believe in this online dating thing. Works for some. Not for many.

It must NOT work for everybody. Its just another way of meeting somebody, probably faster.

van der jo:
@heather,
I will advice you try and make ur relationship work,why is not working?it is not right heather expect you are not a Nigerian,.

What does been a Nigerian got to do with this? i'm lost

@ThoniaSlim.

Sure thats another way of meeting too. that doesn't make it the best way or the worst

ThoniaSlim:
The more reason you should be happy that your not ending up with such a pathetic fellow!


I mean it kinda of reveals to you the sort of character you would have been dating. . .or calling a boyfriend. . .

A dude who hits on two friends. . .Is simply pathetic. . .and such dudes should be avoided at all cost.

How do u mean? He asked her out and she said no then he tried her friend and she said YES wats wrong with that? They are not going out at all. i mean wat are u going on about?

@ThoniaSlim,

Its all the same, no matter where u meet somebody, cheatting will still go on, Internet is just another way of meeting pple, just as meeting in church or club. It will finally come down to who the person is. For the fact that u met him online doesn't nt mean u going to have virtual rela/ship.

U will finally meet up and make up ur mind.

Pple u met online are not monsters or spirit. They are the same pple u might meet in church or suppermarket,

horlahmie:
my cousin once told me abt the guy she met on the internet. thats was wayback 2007, they never shared their pix and they were just flowing on the fone. i just told her "what if this guy has a haunch back? what will you do?" she just told me she "anytime he is going to come around, i will flash him while i am far away to know his physique".

i later told her no shakes. In the long run guess what? the guy was EXTRAORDINARY UGLY wiv 11moustache, LOL!!!

That was careless on her part. They should have exchanged pics, even see each other on webcam, just to be sure b4 meeting. Never meet somebody u never saw his/her pic, seen live on cam. If u do then, u need to get ur head checked.

@heather ,

Is he a distance uncle or very close uncle? U know in Nig we call alot of pple Uncle.

Well my  inlaw younger sister got married to her elder sister's husband younger brother and they are still married till now. Hope that makes sense

heather:
last yr my uncle got married and the wife's younger brother met my cousin on the process of the whole show, they started dating they told me all about it i said it was nice that am in full support of the whole affair as long as the guy is serious and loves her. they call me on the fone sometimes. the relationship lasted for 4 months until wen the guy had a business set back and all, they broke up cos the guy couldn't cope with anything then even though my cousin was supportive. last month he called me and said he is now in uk we started talking exchanged e mail address and all now he wants to date me, do u think it is proper though my cousin is now married. although am in a relationship at the moment .

Nothing wrong with it, as long as u are not double dating. If u got seriously feelings for him then go for it, or if u think u can work things out with him then give it a go.
BUT finish the current rela/ship b4 getting it on with the new bobo.

rashy:
@ justwise


Guy! why the ishon? it never happened to me, i was just asking. Its a general stuff i think.

Oh ok, my apologies then, i thought it happened to u, no hard feelings.

Keep ur nose out of it. u said NO to him, she saw something u did not see. Be happy for them or backoff

Lexiwhite:
Nothing wrong with meeting people online, i met a few and so far not good enough for me but i meet loads of people in church and at friends parties etc who are also definitely not good enough. I met someone new and she's looking really good so far and guess what? though no on nairaland, I met her online!

Exactly my point, i have met somebody online from another country, she moved to the Uk, we lived together for sometimes b4 she went back, cos of lack of Job. Its all the same

biola44:
u see pple u meet on d(street/school/church/suppermarket) face 2 face(seeing is believing), u dont only hear em, u look into their eyes, u can read their body language, u dont get false info, d diff is endless bro

I get ur points, its all the same, when u met somebody online, u chat, u plan to meet face2face, then u see him/her on one-on-on bases, look into his her eyes, read body language, etc.

The same pperson u met on the stree/church/club, could be met online as well, whether u met somebody online or in the church does not mean that the person will not cheat on u. lie to u about his age, occupation, his qualification.

It comes down to individual. I'm talking from experience. Doesn't matter where u met them. The rela/ship will end one way or the other

@biola44

Wats the difference between somebody u met on NL and somebody u met on the street/school/church/suppermarket/, ?

@OBNOXIOUS ,

Seriously have u met these girls in real live? Have u been with them and know how they really are?

This is serious name calling, what evidence do u have? i'm speechless

amarilo:
Have met few of the them same thing. What might be the course plz.

How many Nig girls have u been with to draw that conclusion?

edogram:
wow what a wonderful too good to be true, i wish i am in ninja,

but wait oh, what is the caught, this one u preferably igbo, why becos ibgo na mumu,

if really u need handsame guy, why u nor need Edo State, the handsame guys.

So u really think that Igbo guys are mumus? and Edo guy like u is smart? Wise? God help Edo guys then.
Words like smart, Wise, Intelligent , etc shouldn't have anything to do with u

Yes online rela/ship is very common now, is the age we live in now, it works for some pple and for others, its a nightmare. I have done it, met quiet alot of pple. Some lasted, some did not. It all depends on who u met.

U can't lie online and get away with it for long, the rela/ship moves faster than the conversional one.

It gives u the opportunity to ask as many question as posible within very short time.

There are alot of advantages of online rela/ships, though some pple will disagree with me

douecho:
The story is not false, but this doesnt happen only in Nigeria. I blame the Nigerian govt, and Nigerians for allowing everyone else believe that this only happens in Nigeria and we're the worst in the world.who no go, no go know say this thing de happen everywhere else.d'u want to tell me that all other african countries that are thriving tourist attractions dont have any of these?even some of the european countries too. but Nigerians allow themselves to be put down

For the fact that it happens in oher countries doesn't make it right. Crime is Crime no matter where it hapens

Grow up man, wats wrong with u? she is messing about with another man? Never told him that she is engaged? She slapped u? and u getting worked-out cos she is gone? Wake up and be serious with ur life.

Only a big fool will fall for this, pple think!!! How will u give somebody ur PASSPORT, BANK STATEMENT, ADRESS, PHONE NUMBER i mean all personal detials. Then he goes away and come back with 'visa' at that point he can ask u to pay ANY amount because he has everything about u.

AND u are not sure IF the visa is real.

All these pple saying, i'm interested are not real as well, they are planted to post just to make the OP look real.

FOOLs!!!!

They did not even tell the whole truth, nobody should blame them, they are just doing their job. We Nigerians brought ourselves where we are today.
No blame shifting please.

[quote author=ekene .o. link=topic=283131.msg4017394#msg4017394 date=1244801465]I love her so much and plaining to spend the rest of my life wit her as a life partner,but one day i asked her weda she realy love me and she told me dat she love me naturally (ie) she has a natural love for me.pls dis kind of love is it a marriage love,should i believe her dat she really love for marriage[/quote]Thank ur God that u have somebody who even mention natural love. u better treat her well and don't let her go else u will know what un=natural love is when u get dumped