₦airaland Forum

platinumnk:
[glow=pink,2,300]Male bankers are

sha, Im cool

I like your signature Frank, me too [/glow]

are u a banker? just curious

Missy B:
Please spare us the women disparagement thang jare.
Did she engage in the act alone? Wasn't a man involved?

she is engaged, so should know better,

biola44:
what do u mean by u've not touched her body?

hahahahaha, biola44 i did not see that part

platinumnk:
[glow=pink,2,300]Shame on you

I got u Justwise. . like ur type
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The key word: pay back!!!!

@ Platinumnk, u know, alot of decent girls will respect a man who do not go around depending on girls, who work his backside off to make it, not asking gf for money and NOT paying back, sick

platinumnk:
[glow=pink,2,300]Would u still do it if you know that u might not make the money back? And she will be emptying her pocket? Would that make u feel like less of a man? [/glow]

Then i'm not taking from here, definitely, it will kill my spirit to see her empty her pocket, knowing full well that i can't pay back, no chance

i will take if i'm really really in need of money BUT i must give her back asap, i will take gift from her but not real cash

platinumnk:
[glow=pink,2,300]True dat, I dont support extorting money from your Significant other as well.

Some men think its the responsiblity to do EVERYTHING for a woman, and thats where the problems begin. . .

Someone posted "Is Love for the Poor?" That is a prime example that men believe that Girls only want men for $$.

My advice: Stop giving them money! [/glow]

Giving should be from the heart, not to buy her love or, i want to give and see her happy, but she shldn't demand it, i mean,

platinumnk:
[glow=pink,2,300]Women shouldnt be excessivly collecting money from no one. If she loves you, she loves you for who you are not what you can provide for them.

Biola44, u didnt answer my question?[/glow]

U see that is my prob with 'some' women, its all abt money money money, things like: if u love her then u shld be able to give her money, rubbish!! what happens when the money is nnot flowing? she will jump to another guy?

I will definitely look after my gf, without condition, she can as well sign a contract with me, i pay and get her services than calling it rela/ship

chiejik:
i donot think somebody that calls himself a man should collect anymoney from his gf.is not proper.but the story has change ,as awufu dee shaa

So women should be collecting money from their bfs? or have u been sleeping?

chiejik:
no idea but the topic is all against ladies is not fair

Yes women who ask for allowances

yes woo her again or leave her alone

Its simple, meet those requirements they pointed out to u, then reapply. U must prove to them that ur sponsor has access to the account, not company's account cos he is not the owner of that company. He should use his own personal account with enough money in it, say 2million naira. Get ur qualifications in order,

Then again, have u been given an admission by the school in the UK? Was it unconditional admission? i

iice:
[color=#9900ff]@Topic, some men don't mind giving or that their gfs ask for allowance. At the same time some men are the cause of this situation.

Personally, never have, never will. [/color]

I see ur point, some men show off their money just to catch the girls's attention, promise her heaven and earth, it gives some girls all false hopes, sometimes u should share the blame

sugabelle:
hmm'n, he wasn't a "baller" when we started dating; we were students in uni, and I stuck with him because what he lacked in giving cash, he made up for in being supportive and loving. And now that he's rolling in dough, who else is he going to blow it on but me, huh? . LovePeddler-talk or not, guys are demanding in their own rights, and if the babe is relunctant bc she feels he is too stingy to deserve her most prized possession, na crime? And for the record, I'm quite comfortable in my own right, but it feels extra nice when your man chooses to be generous and not act like he thinks you're a prostitute because you expect him to spend a little.

Yes thats fine, u are reaping where u sow, i got no prob with that, BUT demanding allowance just cos u are my gf is nonsense, i will definitely give to my gf willingly without any condition attached to it. When did being my gf becomes a career?

It becomes a prob when the strenght or the weakness of a rela/ship is determind by how much the bf gives her. What happens when i'm broke? Will she move to another giver or red light?

whitelexi:
I used to do that, then i heard news about where my money was really going. . . So i had to revisit the issue and now, the only person who has a monthly allowance from me is my mum. Not like it achieves much for her, no, but the mere fact that she will appreciate it and pray for more blessings for u - that alone is a good incentive.

@Topic: Thats a no-no!

@TheSeeker - 110% correct!

Exactly!!! my mum anytime, she is the only one that will[b] demand[/b] allowance from me, and i give with smile[quote][/quote]

sugabelle:
stay there dey ask. You are open to three situations:

date a girl who's not so rich, and fail to give her a regular allowance, then prepare to be cheated on as she sleeps around with those who will give her what she needs. she might keep u as her bf but will certainly have a richer and more generous lover to meet her demands

or, date a rich girl who won't need your dough but will still expect you to "shake bodi" just so she won't feel it's you dating her for her money. In short, rich girls demand just as much bc it feels better telling her friends "my bf bought this/dat for me

OR date a poor girl who's not demanding but would love to have the good things of life(which she's afraid to ask you for money to buy), and notice she might be secretly unhappy and this will put a strain on the r/ship. Who won't like to have good phone, enuf credit, nice clothes and hair, and if the bf can afford it, why not?
If you want her enough to ask her out, you should be ready to take care of her needs. If you can't afford a definite weekly/monthly allowance, at least make some funds available from time to time.
In conclusion and sorry to say, but real men in love don't ask this question you're asking.

One of the worst rubbish I ever read in my life…real man my ass

vezycash:
Like was stated earlier, you can buy a credit card with the money or you can Google "Free online bank account" with a couple of search you will find one that can send not only the money to Nigeria, but you can also send yourself a credit card with which you can withdraw money from Atms. Not only that, you might be able to set-up direct transfer from that bank to your Nigerian account here.

How do u buy credit card with money online? i mean are u joking? as a nigerian living in Nigeria? Is this legally posible? or u talking abt STEALING money online?
What prove will u show? Do u really know what u are talking abt? shocking!!!

beavers007:
I am with u on the boycott thing!!I have enough American and British Visas and I've never been treated badly by any of the embassies,but i feel the pain of lots of Nigerians.
The problem is that Nigerians are blinded by desperation and nobody is going to listen to u on the boycott thing.All those applicants at the embassy today are hopeful that tomorrow they will have a better life in America.
I guess u were in that exact situation 2 weeks ago and wouldn't listen to anybody saying you should abort your dreams 4 a boycott.
So my advice to u is this, go to a simple E.U country first(not those nasty coun tries U mentioned) and from there U can easily move around the world.

Thats is not true, its not as easy as u made it to be, if u travelled to say, poland as a visitor or to study, u can't just come to the UK or france that easly cos u are still Nigerian passport holder, u have to go through the same process as if u are applying from Nigeria.Make no mistake, u can't just work in and get visa stamped on ur passport. I know Nigerians who have tried is but failed even after graduating from Uni in one of those new EU countries.

@Gabry , very brave of u to do that, thats wat love is all abt, some pple are crying blood cos she spent on him, they seems to know 2moro, they have written him off,
But u took the risk and now is paying up,

Let me set the record straight here. I never depend on any of my exs, even when we lived together, i never expect any of them to contribute in either rent or bills, But if any guy found himself in a tight corner and the gf wants to help, WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT?, must we be the one to spend on girls?

She spent her money on who she wants to, student loan or no loan, bf/gf do break up whether u spend on him or not, for the fact that she spent on him does not mean they will stick together for life,

Now her prob is that she is looking for somebody who will spoil her, spend on her, etc,
Whats wrong in girls spending on their bfs? we have being doing that for ages, if don't even know how much was involved here anyway,

Give me a break with all thses talk abt student loan, its just one of those loans, when u get it, do whatever u wish with it.

This is interesting, its all good for us to spend on our needy gfs but its a crime for them to spend on us? how about : what a man can do a woman can do it better? Oh just remembered that when it comes to money the saying doesn't apply.

For a change let her spend on him!!!

FL Gators:
If he ain't her devoted husband, then he ain't worth it.

Spend student loan on boyfriend, say what!!!!

Dude, do you know how serious student loans are? Can mess up credits and u gotta pay back and all those interest. Apart from that, the brokeass nigga might leave her.

Its called LOAN definitely going to be paid back, whether u spend it on ur husband or devil, the interest will still be applied, she is spendin it on somebody who cares for her(financially sometimes, cos he spent the money on her as well). Yes the bf is broke today, 2moro will tell a different story, see beyond ur nose, if the bf is waste of space then he doesn't worth the time, but according to her, he behaves well, so i asked again, who deserved to be spent on?

FL Gators:
OMG!!! Child!!!
Don't ever ever ever use your student loans on any boy/man. They're not worth it!!
I love you I love you is just at the surface
Since he's taking classes, why can't he take out his own student loan? Should be ashamed of himself for eating out of your med school money, chei!

alai'tiju ni awa okurin of nowadays!

If you really want a guy that'snot broke, then I suggest you leave him. If he shows no sign of ever changing.
I understand that some people would tell you to stick with him and make it together, but if he shows no potential, abeg waka.

Who worth to be spent student loan on? How do u know that he doesn't worth it? Did u really read the post?

Well, i can understand how u feel, but look at it from another angle, if u were in his position, and get dumped cos of all the reasons u stated, how will u feel?, his situation may improve, he is a good guy like u pointed out, honest,,etc, now its upto u to chose what u want,

whiteroses:
i drink occasionally and never smoke but hubby doesn't talk about the things he hates you'll have to extract info off him do you think he think less of me? this thread is making me shake lol

Nothing wrong with drinking occasionally, not getting smashed either, He maybe watching u, u need to watch his body language, see his reaction when u drink, its not cool to see ur woman or man drunk

Hesperus:
I really dont mind, as long as all is done in moderation. That is the key word here. Drunk guy or drunk girl, both are equally unsexy!

Exactly, moderation, i loved her, but the drinking is a prob, smoking is even worst, the health issue matters as well, she comes back every wkend drunk, hang over, and when i complain, she came out smoking hell, oneday i got sick of it and ended it, felt bad but got no choice

Its not really cool to b with a girl who smokes and drink much, my ex will not stop untill she is drunk, she smokes more than 20 cigs a day, her drinking is all wkends thing, just not good to see a girl drunk.even a guy

sistawoman:
some things to think about:

The one child will look differently than their other siblings, thus the child will ask about dad. Are you prepared to tell the truth or will you lie.
The other children will notice your preference for that child and might feel slighted will you over compinsate.
Do you plan to have this child before marriage to a Nigerian man?
How do you plan to overcome the cultural stigma of being a single mom?

My point exactly!!! That child will stand out in the mix of ur kids, he/her will start asking questions, u can not love them equally, u will divide ur family. Make up ur mind, sis

Bembo:
hi friends

am in search of low tuition school in uk to do my mba .please i would appreciate if you guys could help me with any from range of 3000-5000 pounds .it must be within london

thank you

MBA? for £3000-5000, thats just ur rent for yr, no Uni in london or outside london will offer u that cheap fees, start thinking abt something like 12,000 up