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Romance › Re: Why Are There So Few Good Guys Out There? by justwise(m): 11:55am On Jun 06, 2009

sexyLeamon:
I'm lucky to be with one but I know very few guys who are good. Meaning they treat their women well, don't cheat respect them and aren't abusive and all around good guys. Why are there so few of them?

I think the prob is that 'some' women are looking for ready-made bf, they don't want to bring anything to the rela/ship apart from attitude, moaning all time about what the guy did not do for them.
They read a book on how a guy should treat his gf and go out looking for that quality in a guy.

Some guys will not give a monkey about ur looks if u got hurrible attitude. Take for a example, some girls want to date a guy who got a good job but she is jobless, how does that work? U want to date a guy with 6pack but u are bloody FAT, what do u expect?

Romance › Re: I"ve learnt, lol! by justwise(m): 11:43am On Jun 06, 2009

, i know who the sensible guys are so i don't push them away for these losers anymore!

I love that last part of ur sentence. U see, this is the problem in rela/ship especially when u know exactly wht u looking for but suddently u come across 2 big jokes(men/boys) and the experience they left u with might determine how u treat the next guy u will meet.

U become abit judgmental, mind reader, body language expert, etc. approach every rela/ship with an open mind, don't keep comparing him with the previous failed encounter.

I don't know about other guys but personally i hate it with passion when i'm been compared to an ex by a gf.

U may have to meet 2-4 bad ones b4 hitting the jackpot.

Good luck

Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Would Rather Go To The Hair Salon Then Attend My Boxing Match by justwise(m): 9:38am On Jun 06, 2009

Itohan123:
so she doesn't love me amirite

Maybe she knows u are crap and doesn't want to watch u get beaten up, just trying to save face

Romance › Re: Sturborn Girls! by justwise(m): 9:29am On Jun 06, 2009

190:
believe me
there are some sturborn girls out there
some do not have good habits,lack manners
or good parental up bringing!
but definately some one is gonna fall in love wit them
now tell me what can be done about these type and kind of women should
you find yourself in love with any of them!

Take her for what she is OR let her go

Romance › Re: I Want To Win Her Love by justwise(m): 9:27am On Jun 06, 2009

Slipknot:
What can i do or say to a girl of my dream to win her love?

Tell her the truth

Romance › Re: What Do Think Of This Guy? by justwise(m): 7:46pm On Jun 05, 2009

Slipknot:
Pls stay cool n calm, give yall ur opinion on this. There was this guy that said 2 his girl that he is going 2 be there for her whenever she needed him most. So one day he was working n the girl was at home. She started started feeling this pain on her chest, she dial 911 for the ambulance. While at the hospital she called her boyfriend, wanna know what he said to her. He yelled at her n said WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH U dont U know that i am at work!!! . And she started crying. What do think of this guy?

This is a tough one, Maybe he was stressed up at work or the girl was stalking him with calls while he was busy, sending a txt and explain the situation would have been better. then call him later.

I know it hurts when u needed somebody to be there for u and he let u down. But u have to consider the other factors that might have contributed to his hash reaction

Romance › Re: Can You Do This by justwise(m): 7:38pm On Jun 05, 2009

scantee:
i guss the girl is confused, she dont know what to do, is like she dont want miss the opportunity of this marriage.

I get ur point but keeping the secret will make it even worst, its better to clear the air now and start with clean slate.

Romance › Re: Can You Do This by justwise(m): 6:46pm On Jun 05, 2009

dabriggs:
JUSTWISE NA WAH FOR U O!!!!

Not a wise idea at all!

Think about it, for the girl to keep quiet even when she knew that these pple are related means she is bad herself. She should have told her new bf what is going on, that will break the ice.Keeping quiet means she is looking for dirty b/z

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Lady Interested In Serious Minded Guy by justwise(m): 6:42pm On Jun 05, 2009

Sasha009:
@ miss jerkmiss, OP

You dont come looking for a life partner, the father of your future children, and someone you want to spend the rest of your life with on nairaland site! Why do you belittle yourself so much?
The men you will attract here are people who re just out to make fun of you, use you or even lie to you. C'mon you have to be smarter than that.
You may be brigning problems on yourself with this advert, you will attract all kinds of jerks. some men re looking for women to use as their voodoo, be careful you re in nigeria.
I wish you luck, better to delete this post if you truly put your real phone number and email address

What do u know about Internet dating? u still living in 1908, wake up. Nothing wrong with internet dating, depend on who u dealing with.

Like somebody pointed out here b4, men/female u met online are as bad as those u met in church, suppermarkets, through friends. etc

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Lady Interested In Serious Minded Guy by justwise(m): 6:39pm On Jun 05, 2009

Aprilmay:
I need a guy too dat is ready to settle down as soon as possible but preferable a worker,i dont want a job seeker.Thanks

Send ur picture lets see first.

Romance › Re: Can You Do This by justwise(m): 6:27pm On Jun 05, 2009

Thats good news to ur friend, tell him to keep quiet, meaning he can always get frequent congo, while the secret last

Romance › Re: Caught Between Two Perfect Men. by justwise(m): 6:24pm On Jun 05, 2009

If she got ring in her finger by one of them then what is she doing with the second man?

Romance › Re: Do You Believe In For Better For Worse by justwise(m): 11:16pm On Jun 04, 2009

I don't think one should hang-on when the marriage is un-workable, if u have tried all u could and nothing seems to work, then walk-away for ur own good. Staying just to save face make no sense.

Romance › Re: Disrespect! by justwise(m): 10:11am On Jun 03, 2009

izeek:
wat if u guys are supposed to get married soon, and this is not the first time she has displayed such attitude?

Well, we don't know alot about this prob, whether he has being acting like that or its just one-off thing.
If its one-off then calling off the marriage doesn't make sense, he need to be spoken to calmlly and with every sense of seriouness. BUT if the opposite is the case then put the marriage on hold untill he shows some respect.

Personally, i can take insult from my gf in private, never in full view of my friends or public. Like i said b4, i will walk away from there and have a chat with her later but i will hit the message home as hard as i can.

Romance › Re: Disrespect! by justwise(m): 1:05pm On Jun 02, 2009

izeek:
ladies lets assume you have a little issue with ur fiance whilein the presence of ur friend,
he gets angry and call u stupid, wat will be ur reaction.

just asking, u dont need to answer if u feel its childish.

Do nothing while ur friends are there, talk to him after and make it clear how u feel about his action.

Romance › Re: Disrespect! by justwise(m): 1:05pm On Jun 02, 2009

izeek:
ladies lets assume you have a little issue with ur fiance whilein the presence of ur friend,
he gets angry and call u stupid, wat will be ur reaction.

just asking, u dont need to answer if u feel its childish.

Do nothing while ur friends are there, talk to him after and make it clear how u feel about his action.

Romance › Re: My London Cyber Girlfriend by justwise(m): 1:43pm On Jun 01, 2009

Bros, 4get her and move on, but ur so called friend is a sub-human being. she will play a fast one on him too, its only matter of time.

Romance › Re: My London Cyber Girlfriend by justwise(m): 1:41pm On Jun 01, 2009

maray:
u dont bring sensitive matters like dis to Animal kingdom,if truely u need a genuine advise

And u are one of the animals in the Kingdom

Romance › Re: My London Cyber Girlfriend by justwise(m): 1:40pm On Jun 01, 2009

spikedcylinder:
What if she did it thinking she was still chatting with you i.e what if she didn't know you had left to go to the mall?

Its webcam. so she knows what she is doing.

Romance › Re: Strictly For The Ladies by justwise(m): 2:02pm On May 31, 2009

edogram:
Something must be wrong with this guy, look at how ugly he was.

And he was so brave to show he’s face, LOL.
u must be joking, get a life,

Romance › Re: Nigerian Guys And Zimbabwean Girls by justwise(m): 1:58pm On May 31, 2009

zimbabwean:
ha ha ha, wow im going naija this summer . cant wait 2 visit ur country people. my mum workd thre for some time and she said its great,
I just hope nothin goes wrong since i dont know any body there

U gonna have the time of ur life, gr8 weather, food, pple, just enjoy! but pls take somebody who u trust very well, that can take u around. the person will know where and where not to go.

Good luck

Romance › Re: Strictly For The Ladies by justwise(m): 6:29pm On May 30, 2009

geraldford:
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Have u seen ur doctor recently?

Romance › Re: So difficult to find a nigerian Girl you can take home to mama in London by justwise(m): 5:44pm On May 30, 2009

raregem004:
@ POSTER

Can i link you up with a naija FINE gal in the same predicament searching for true love?Interestingly she is still a virgin

A virgin? where is she?

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