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phumeza:
,Ouch ,that must have hurt,may still be the truth. brother check your perfomance

samoral02:
Ask her why she took such act or may be u re not gud in bed enough 4 her.

samoral02:
Lol @ phumeza
Try and check all your performance not only on sex, may be the way you treat her problems when she shared it with u.
or May be u re not romantic
little things do count in relationship. Ladies count any lil things so try nd ask her where ur mistake belongs in one of those option

ammamat:
A 13-year-old British boy has fathered a child with his 15-year-old girlfriend, according to British newspaper The Sun.

Baby-faced Alfie Patton became a dad when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to a baby girl Maisie Roxanne Monday
Alfie Patton is pictured with his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman and their newly born daughter. 13-year-old Alfie became Britain's one of the youngest fathers after his girlfriend gave birth to a baby girl on Monday, the Sun reported.

Alfie was just 12 when he impregnated Chantelle, then 14, the Sun said.

The boy, who looks more like he's 8, not 13, vowed to be a good father.

"I didn't think about how we would afford it. I don't really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me 10 pounds (21 U. S. dollars)," the innocent-eyed teenager from Eastbourne, south England, told the newspaper.

STELARTOIS:
Dats your own opinion,i checked her profile.i dont think she is prettier dan me. For your information i'm a model,cant u seee my flat abs.How many girls has dat type of tummy

STELARTOIS:
pls dont hate me becos am sassyful.Guys i understand u r ugly becos nearly 80% of males profile i checked yesterday were ugly,i'm not shallow and i really hate to sound full of myself but i'm not ugly.But few of d babes profile are cute.Maybe i have to look some where else for my hottie pie

zimbabwean:
Hie guys. I was just wondering why loads of nigerian guys seem to be dating other nationalities more .
I am a zimbabwean girl and i have noticed that most zim girl in the UK is dating or has dated a nigerian, I asked some naija boys i know and some of them said zimbabwean girls are easy others said that nigerian girls are too uptight and after money whilst others said zim girls know how to treat men.

I then noticed that nigerian girls at my uni and community usually keep to themselves and i think they are maybe the most behaved compared to other african girls. So is it because nigerian brothers are looking for something easy but not seriouse or are my nigerian sisters taking the chase too far therefore chasing their boys away?

thanks a lot

hentee:
My wife is a loving woman that she does all she is suppose to do in the house in terms of chores. But the only problem is that she loves smoking. will it affect her from having children. i have tried to stop her but she keeps telling me she will stop with time. i smoke myself(maybe thats y she is finding it difficult to stop). what do i do? I love her more than life itself and i wont like anthing to happen to her. Advice pls

Shanda04:
NO ACTUALLY I HAVEN'T BEEN SHOWN AROUND YET AND I WOULD BE SO PLEASED IF SOMEONE COULD SHOW ME AORUND. FREE OF CHARGE. LOL

yamakasi:
Hello all,
I love this Nairaland website. There are great people here. I am new to this. Just want to say Hi to all

Shanda04:
YEAH I'M NEW TO THIS IS MY 1ST DAY N I'M EXCITED ABOUT IT AND I'M REALLY ENJOYING IT TO.

I L O V E I T

luckiest:
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ibrokay:
Inter religious marriage cannot work unless both of you

mutually agree to practise a common religion.

My Advice is for you to embrace his religion or call the relationship quit

bblacky:
All I see are they who are still looking for jobs, and I dont have time as my friend.

plz, plz, plz,

my 39yrs uncle is the MD in one of the new generation bankz n stil single searchin 4 a girl daz been once heartbreaked, so endeavour to reach out, Nonsense

u beta change dat requirement, to "ALL I WANT IS A MAN TO START THE JOURNEY WIT N MAKE IT TO D END" or else, u be left on ur own

CalabarMan:
My people its almost 5 years since I retired from field operations (Waka Waka) and decided to keep one babe. As an appreciation for the love, care, support and understanding she has shown throughout these challenging period I am planning a surprise holiday package for the two of us to celebrate the occasion and also to spice up and rejuvenate the relationship a little.

Can you people suggest places we can visit outside Nigeria and but within Africa (We have been to London and America together a couple of times so I want something different and less expensive). I would appreciate any links, cost information etc you can provide. If they are places you have visited or live in I would like to also have your first hand assessment.

Galaxy88:
I am a white girl and i have been seeing a Nigerian guy who is 3 years older than me for about a year now and things have been going well and we recently started talking about getting serious. Then he starting acting strange and when i confronted him he told me he had been holding something back which was causing him to act like that.

His parents were both born and raised in Nigeria and he is their only son and have always been very strict with him as he was growing up. He does not have a close relationship with him even though they live in the same house and they don't really speak to each other. A few weeks ago they sat him down and said that he cannot ever bring a white girl home and they would not even attend his wedding if his bride was white. His mother wants him to marry a black woman but his dad said only a Nigerian girl will do. His dad even said he cannot bring any white person into his home.

So now he feels totally torn and feels he has to choose as there is no point us continuing if he cannot stand up to his parents and tell them about me. He said he is scared to be disowned by his family which i understand. I have said that i will be there and support him what ever he decides but he does need to make a decision as there are feelings involved.

I personally feel that if if he doesn't stand up for himself he will be making a decision out of fear which is not what God tells us to do. I also think that God should be the first person he answers to and he should always respect his parents but the decision comes out of their racist view which is a sin. Finally if he allows them to make this decision for him now they will continue to play a part in his decision making forever and he wont learn to make hard decisions in the future and how can he run a home and a family.

I care about him deeply and i know it is ultimately his decision but i imagine being british i dont fully understand his culture and i doubt his family are willing to speak with me about it and i wanted to see if anyone else had any views or advice on the subject, ?

bblacky:
considerin d culture n norms of Nigerian, especially d easteners hardly can a man e allowed to get married to a white lady. they believe their children shud bring in a lady of same ethnicity, same believe, culture and norms into their home.

to ur post: dis guy is d only son of his parents n his parents do not agree on his marriage to u, my dear if d parents 4 one reason or d other refuses d son bringin u to dere home, den i fink u leave him to his parent, let him find another woman as his parents so need of him.

as for me, i dont believe in marriage without the parent's consent, it doesnt go down well along the line.

so dear, let d guy do as it so pleases his parents.

Good luck

tombola:
Galaxy

He is telling u lies. No adult man gets dictated to about who he marries in Nigeria, he is just finding a way to dump you.

Dynamic3:
I moved from Nigeria to the states to school and my boyfriend is in Nigeria. We've been together for a year now and it seems like he has started changing. The other day he asked me if he could sleep with other girls, no feelings attached. After sleeping with them, he said he will not have feelings for them. The reason he asked me that is because he said he has been keeping himself ever since I left and it has been hard. I didn't know what to tell him when he asked me and now I'm very upset with him. What do you suggest?

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Its wrong if he sleeps with other girls. Tell him to get used to 'cold shower', it helps

bamboke:
My heart is hard after having some bad relationships.

Told myself I won't love until after marriage. Then you know the guy is there and there is no going back.

Right now, I want to get married and wait for the good man who will convince me that it alright to love again.

All I see are they who are still looking for jobs, and I dont have time as my friend.

Will I eventually have a good man after been hurt?

I was once good and still believe I am but care less now.

FlyAway15:
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[/list] [b][/b] My fiance and I are scheduled to be married next week. I am christian american. He is african muslim. We always agreed that I would not convert to muslim religion. Last week he started begging me to convert so his family could see this as a "real" marriage.
He says he didn't know they would expect me (the wife) to convert. He says that he JUST LEARNED THAT IT WAS his familys tradition and expectation of me. I want them to all respect this union but now it seems that it won't be at all.

Me converting would probably kill my very religous elderly grandmother and raise caution whithin my family since I never planned on it before.

If I convert, and decide later that it is not for me, won't that be the same as not ever converting in the beginning? He wants me to convert so we can have our wedding. What do u think I should do?

Davidcares:
yes two years ago, it was just once

Davidcares:
I quick agreed wit u but a true love of four years cant just die in a day. The thought of leaving her is even killing me. I mean she was there when I had nothing. There was a time that I had a serious issue she stood by me. I cant just figure out why she has do that, now that things are getting better in my life, a good job n new life. I want to share everything wit her ijust dont know why she did dat

netriches:
I greet the House
If you have a girl that loves u so much and wants marriage, but you don't love her that much, but admires another girl in the neighbohood, what will do? Love the second and damn the first, or love both (but loving the second secretly) or forget the two?

Davidcares:
once again thax for all ur advices n comments, i only tot this kind of thing happen in movies.

opsydudu:
some guys can be mr. romeo anytime.

Do all this everyday of the week,

every week of the year,

every year till death do una part.

most all women will never ever be satisfied.

hojimma:
[color=#550000][/color]I beg make una try explain this one to me if its possibility at all at all. you work so hard to establish a relationship with one girl but then you never know if she's face down/ass up with someone.

Hoodwing:
1) Always reassure her you love her.
2) treat her like a queen and pay attention to her needs.
3) never hit or beat her.
4) always talk to her with a calm voice.
5) tell her your likes and dislikes.
6) never lie to her cos if she finds out you will be in a mess.
7) always commend her for any good she does.
never keep her and another.always be contented with her.
9) make out time for her and take her out once in a while.
10) always say your sorry when your wrong.

Hoodwing:
1) Always reassure her you love her.
2) treat her like a queen and pay attention to her needs.
3) never hit or beat her.
4) always talk to her with a calm voice.
5) tell her your likes and dislikes.
6) never lie to her cos if she finds out you will be in a mess.
7) always commend her for any good she does.
never keep her and another.always be contented with her.
9) make out time for her and take her out once in a while.
10) always say your sorry when your wrong.

u are speaking in tongues, why shld i spend my whole life doing that for teddy bear? (some women are)

its 50/50, no woman will take u seriously if u do all the above for her.