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AmazingGuy:
Its a different feeling wen u love some1 other than your wife,
I mean Extra Marital Affair, Its Fresh, Its awesome, Its mind blowing,
Its all different, Its real Love,

I found after my new love, that I was not at all in love with my wife,

Real love i can feel now, :-)

But its against the general perception,

why after marriage one looses his right of loving ?

As a single man, i kind of feel sick reading ur post, if this is ur view about marriage then why did u get into it? I just don't know how pple like u sleep at night

OneNaija:
Some Peoples will say Money is everything and some will say Money Is not Everything's. In my own Opinion I think Money is not everything's it can get to an extend you cant use money.Guys what do you think?

Absolutely not

AmazingGuy:
I just wanna say I luv giving love to my wife as well as my Girl Friend, What is bad about loving a Girl Friend while keep loving my wife, I dont understand why people say it bad, I dont find any thing bad in this,

My Girl Friend is also married and do appreciate the idea of EMA, She loves me more than her hubby,


If someone have any bad idea, plzz lemme kno,

Oh yes!! u eat ur cake and have it hun? kid in candy shop. Give me a break here, u are married and u don't share tha love with the 'other woman' i bet u wouldn't find it funny IF ur wife does the same thing. Just Stop it.

Personally i will not but i have dated some single mums b4 which ended when the issue of marriage comes up.

In ur friend's case, her Nigerian bf may not give a dam about her previous relationship and kids untill everything is done and dusted, i mean they got married, paper issues sorted out then he may strick leaving ur friend heartbroken, BUT i may be talking rubbish here.

In another scenario, it may work out IF her Nigerian bf has been married b4, maybe age 40 and above, not interested in having more children.

[quote author=ik_moore2 link=topic=269652.msg3833608#msg3833608 date=1241678185]IF I AM THE PARTNER, I PREFER TO BE TOLD OF THE VISITOR.
ATLEAST I WILL BE AWARE OF THE RELATIONSHIP FROM THE ONSET AND KNOW WHEN ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.[/quote]Totally agree with u, don't let him/her find out from outsiders, just tell him/her and clear ur mind

bongoman:
kuntash! abegi, do in time and help ur guy o!/ platinumk and yme do u hv any ofer to help? / @toocute i need both sex and lov coz av been together wit HER( my g.f) for more than 3yrs now. The most painful tin be say na she disvergin me o, although she wasnt a one. Am sure she went 4 another guy, wao! Anyway am 27 now and if u dnt mind let me knw u more@toocute!

Get urself a good damm vaseline and try DIY(Do It Yourself) it will never let u down,

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I think its completely nonsense for any scumbag to put down our 9ja girls, How many 9ja girls has he smell to reach that conclusion? Typical of some 9ja JJcs

Like i said b4, BBWs are gr8, alot of them look after themselves, trust me i'm speaking from experience, many of them know how to carry their body around, dress to fit their figure and always Hot, i definitely wouldn't mind BBW anytime any day.

racheal84:
I was curiuos, who would date, have sex or even marry a big gurl? Black or white? I dont mean just a thick gurl, i mean a large women. 250-300+ pounds.

Honest answers.

I will definitely, BBWs are gr8 in bed, always up for it, body hygiene is the area that bothers me b4, but not now again the ones i have been with are good, they look after themselves.

skyy04:
@Justwise

I'm not sleeping, this are normal club for both sexes
The pussy in circulation is not enough for felas around not to talk ladies running after ladies

I asked u that question cos u should know that lesbians and gays openly kiss even go far more in many clubs and pub in the UK, girls pull girls, nothing new there.gays does that as well.

skyy04:
I went to couple of clubs with my white friend on a saturday night in Manchester. For a change the aim is to get a one night stand however most of the clubs we went to was filled up with both sexes so action begins, amazingly most of the clubs we visited we realise that both sexes are after ladies.Inshort you see ladies dancing together, going to toilet, talking, laughing, some kissing all this together. Our desperation to meet a lady on this faithful night yielded no fruit hence the coment from my friend.

"It seems both men and women are after pussy this days", ladies on board Is it true?

Have u been sleeping?

dae:
hmmmm ok, well, so -- before any deal is sealed -- how much r we talking? (in $$ please and must be 6 figures)

hahah dea, u again? the bobo need luv and ur are asking for 6 figures,

Nostalgic:
Well my Naira Landers, there's this average bloke that I'm talking to, in the beginning, he would hit me up frequently and do almost anything I wanted him to. He asked me to be in his future and as soon as I started liking him, he CHANGED! This guy does not even seem to be interested anymore, we can go weeks w/o even talking or seeing each other (mind you we go to the same school). My question to all NL guys is that is it usually just a game to get a fine babe to like you or are you just scared of commitment? And to my NL ladies, how do you feel and what do you do when a guuy you like ends up acting like this? To EVRYONE in GENERAL:::::::> What do you think I should do? Leave him or Stick w/him hoping that he'll change, afterall he claims to still like me.

From your post i can see that u got attitude problem, 'Average bloke'? u got chips on your shoulder, stuck up girls like deserve little or no attention at all, i guess he realised what u are like and keep his distance, u don't call urself fine babe yet, until u sort out ur stuck up attitude, just can't stand girls like u, sorry u asked for 'our' opinion and i have given u one.

U want to know what u should do? TELL UR INNOCENT WIFE

oh yes! massge is a turn on, big time, if my ex is reading this now she will even say more, its not something u will ask non-bf to gave u in private.

Be strong and talk it over with ur man

dae:
well, u have ur reasons for saying so. But you men are worse i think. I mean, you consider some women the "weaker sex" and yet y'all still do some bleeped up things to hurt our feelings, whats up wid dat now eh!

Men hurt women's feeling just as women hurt ours, its 2ways thing. women are better liars(very good at covering their backside) men don't do very well in that area.

dae:
and men biznezz too , dont be a sexist lol

i know u are going to hit back with that comment, but seriously women are as bad as men, i have been in this dating business for sometimes now, good experience, i don't regret meeting any of them but will not repeat it again

dae:
hmmmm, interesting. I hv heard a lot myself but im always skeptical about what happens 2-5yrs Later. People who u meet physically can turn out to be a disaster, talkless someone u've never met. u get my drift?

yea u got a point there, but a marriage that will work will definitely work no matter where u met, only God can help us with this women business, lhaha

dae:
believe me bro -- i am not tryna be judgemental, i am just curious as to what kinda answer someone will give and what kind of criticism u gonna get and from who. You can meet a good person "Anywhere" i believe.

i definitely get ur point, but its not about where u met, its about how it ended or how both of u get along, Internet is as good /bad as every other meeting places, at the end it comes down to both of u 4real
Alot of pple have ur view about internet meeting as well, trust me i have seen internet romance that ends in marriage, i mean alot of them

hahaha i will be straight up with the answer, we met through social network, tell me this where do u think is the idea place to meet a wife?

definitely from experience, i have met one online lived with her, but it did not work out, got nothing to do with online.got more to do with life style,

hmmmm actually , no not yet but was considering it, the point is, no matter where u meet a girl it will still come down to her character and what both of u want, online makes it easier, faster to get to know each other, so yea.still thinking abt it

dae:
i'm already loffin you. You are cutting your coat according to your size ---chop knuckle jare! ori e foka sibe!

bluespice:
dae u will not kill me on NL


poster if ur looking for agbani cut to the chase n contact her publicist

yes now nothing wrong with hooking up online

justwise:
Why now? u don chase the brother with all these details, south African no count for abroad? haba sisi!

ahahah u really prepare some stuff 4him, i'm not sure the brother will show up again, ahah.

Me dey look for wife material oo but i no dey list the qualities wey i want here oo b4 u go send cluster bomber to my direction

dae:
B4 anyone considers you -- you need to let us see/ know what kinda credentials you got.

~ how much do u make per month?
~What kinda job do u have?
~ What kinda car do you drive?
~ Do you own a house?
~ How often do u travel abroad (not south africa and co o)

Since you want agbani darego --- Lets quizz you on what you got too.
are you honest, tall, young version of RMD, mannered, cultuerd,do u have good command of english and are u good cook?

Why now? u don chase the brother with all these details, south African no count for abroad? haba sisi!

neyo4real:
to study anyway.

Cool, as long as both of u are prepared financially and i mean it then give it a go, if not please don't even try

Absolutely!!! done it for 5yrs now

NOPE, u really have to be careful who is paying for the trip, even if she is paying make sure u have back-up money, just incase.

Another thing, what are u going abroad to do? study? work? with correct visa? give it long nad hard thinking

How much are we talking about here?

Boy!! well this is a simply one, u lost her the moment u were caught shagging another congo, so she got all the right in the world to kick u where it hurts.
Now move on and pray she changes her mind, no matter how much Ks u drop for rent or shoulder pad, no chance bros