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@whitelexi,
My point exactly!!!

hahaha, Surface see ur GP asap, it depend on camera used not really abt location.God! u are a nightmare Surface

Surface u are funny honestly, consider stand up comedy. u prefer the cold winter blood guys? hahah. i thougt that hot blooded blokes are better?haha

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@surface,

The same can be said about Nigerian girl i met online, that does not mean that they are all asking for mobile phone, laptop and stuff, yes i have met pple like that, at the same time, i have met nigerian girls who never ask for any gift or my number.

Don't paint all with the same brush. I do understand the point you made

@ surface,

How many 'online men' have u met to reach that conclusion? online men are as bad/good as online women.
Where do u think is the best place to meet bf/hubby? church? wake up.

Thats a very narrow minded comment.

NOW to the other issue.
Going home to marry sounds very good and many pple that does that have their reasons BUT it ends in tears sometimes.
My mate just did that though the wife is still in nigeria with a good job, the issue now is: can she get the same good job here? can she cope with the cultural shock? what will that do to the marriage?

I'm in that position now, i will be happy to meet a decent nigerian girl here for serious rela/ship then marriage at the same time, i'm thinking of home option as well.
Marrying here saves u alot of headache, e.g bring her here, settling her down, getting used to the system, etc.

I have dated all colours, nationalities, etc women are as bad as men, just go for the one that will stomach your nonsense just as u will stomach her's

@ pinky lady
I get your point

@ izeek

@ Poster

I feel your pain, i have been there before though not in marriage level but in rela/ship just recently. I think u have given her the impression that u can't do without her, u are ready to do nothing thing to please her, u stomach all sorts just to make things work, she is taking advange of this, if children are involved in this marriage then u need to consider that first befor taking any decision.

Have a serious chat with her, probably with your family as well if nothing changes, let her go and move on with your life, let her go and meet the UK guy, i bet u, it will end in tears.
Its not going to be an easy decision for u but living with a woman like that is a nightmare.

No marriage without trust

@ Oxone,

That is exactly what i intend to do

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Thanks for ur valuable input

@ to bedroom affairs it with somebody else.

Did he just rrealise that she is urgly or lazy? or after using the poor lady he is now making excuses to dump her

Thanks

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Yes i will but not when she does it over and over again, it has to be one off.

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