₦airaland Forum

Gbawe: I agree with you. However, we still have to respect the fact that she is officially a permanent secretary in a Nigerian State even if her husband has reduced Nigeria to a theatre of the absurd. We should, as Nigerian citizens, ask her to face her official duty as perm sec instead of marauding the political landscape disturbing other democratically elected leaders trying to do their job.

[color=#1E90FF] If you don't have a record on, you paint your opponent as someone everyone should run from.

The problem with PEJ and GEJ is just that they are both confused failures who have nothing to offer. If not they will concentrate on discharging their duties and expect that people will vote based on their performance and achievements. But reverse is the case here, that's the reason for all the political hullabaloo that we have seen in recent times.

Honestly even if we tell her to discharge her duties, I know she won't. We are left with just one option, send all of them parking in 2015, which I know you agree with, the only problem is just that some Nigerians are gullible and will still vote this deficient leaders.
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[color=#1E90FF] Ofcourse she is the minimum requirement I can take as a wife.
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Idowuogbo: Sharrap joor! Get me a nice pair of silicones or stfu! Na my fault I carry hips& yansh and God forget I go need extra time for front? Ewu! Liv me o! If u sabi fevk, d bobby no marra... As my Jamo friends dey talk am,

Big Bosom nuh hol mahn again...

Tell dem dey ah gud hole ah do it, ah gud hole ah do it...

Flytefalls and Kails.. Come sing with me!!



On a Sunday? Idowu may God forgive u

[color=#1E90FF] Me no just want hole, big hips and big bossoms are requirements.

@OP, nothing do you, if bossom dey part of your requirment, just move on. In the market, na wetin you like you go buy, it will be utmost stupidity to settle for less.

In fact you can sue her for deception which is a breach of contract (trust).

Disclaimer: Don not attempt to say anything about my color and font.
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[color=#1E90FF] It starts 8.00AM and ends 12.00 PM.
I arrive church at 10.00AM and I leave 11.00AM. All I care about is the sermon.
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[color=#1E90FF] ofcourse nothing wrong.
If AA doesnt mary SS, then I wonder who else will marry them.
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[color=#1E90FF] You can't eat your cake and have it at thesame time.
Vote wrong people and you get bad leadership.

Also when capable people refuse to run for political offices, the implication is that they get governed by their inferiors.
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[color=#1E90FF] A typical case of a he-goat.
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[color=#1E90FF] A typical case of pot calling kettle black.
Jonathan has caused more damage to Nigeria than Amaechi's damage to Rivers state.
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[color=#1E90FF] you didn't say a word about yours.
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[color=#1E90FF] Simply because I know my best friend is a good friend to me but I know him well enough to know he is going to be a bad husband.
The last specimen to confirm my hypothesis won't be a relative of mine.
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Gbawe: I thought this woman was busy trying to move Bayelsa forward as a permanent secretary in the State?

[color=#1E90FF] Permanent Secretary my foot. Does she even know the meaning of a secretary, it will be outrageous to have expected her to discharge her duties when in fact she doesn't even know what the office entails.
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[color=#1E90FF] He had no choice, there was no condom in those days, I'm sure if there was one I wouldn't be here.
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[color=#1E90FF] Sadly, I so detest him.
To answer your question, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
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[color=#1E90FF] Unrealistic occurrence, except nollywood.
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[color=#1E90FF] My penis is like a dictionary. How about we go back to my place and i shoot some words in your mouth.
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Now am beggining to wonder what the difference bewtten a hooker and a gf

[color=#1E90FF] Girlfriend= love, Hooker = money
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lynpetra: As long as him never kill,no problem.Can't risk sleeping with a murderer for fear of having my life sniff out of me while I sleep

[color=#1E90FF] Person wey do abortion never commit murder?
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[color=#1e90ff] This is alarming.
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Caracta: So it is very easy to get over breakup from someone you loved deeply. God, i need your help. Never knew it was that easy.

[color=#1b81e5] This is one school of thought I subscribe to.
If she says she is moving on, then I just have to let her go. That's in my Circle of concern, I have no influence on it.
I just have to move on, I was born without her and the consolation is just that there are too many ladies around to cry over spilled milk.
Soldier come soldier go, barack remains. Infact I'm not scared of break up, I'm always prepared for the worst possible scenario.

Watching of too much hollywood and nollywood movies give you the impression it's not easy, but in reality is that easy as long as you understand that you are not controlled by your emotions. Loving someone is a choice and you can as well chose not.
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[quote author=Mynd_44]Humans do. They say those that don't get jealous are robots.

This is the biggest piece of cap I have read all year on NL. That's saying something[/quote][color=#1E90FF] Na y I no one say everything wey dey my heart, because dem go say I dey heartless and I no get emotions.
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alutacontinua: Ok, so, do you get jealous? Have you felt jealousy before?
Let's change question for a second.

[color=#1E90FF] Well he must have.
I guess when he was a kid, he loved like a kid(which contains some element of jealousy), but when he became a man he put away childish Love.

Mynd, don't lie, remember primary school and secondary school days before you respond.
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alutacontinua: Mynd and Ogugua, the question is not if you act jealous, the question is 'do you get jealous' To say the truth, everybody does...it comes with love, you might not act it or act on it, it doesn't mean it's not there.

Even Mynd agreed with me in the beginning, why did he change mouth again?
Badosky, are you the one that replaced his mouth with the new one he's using?

[color=#1E90FF] It stands to reason, that if at all you get jealous, it's only because there is lack of trust like sexkillz illustrated in his post. Ofcourse I can't date someone I don't trust, if there is any element of doubt in the relationship, then it's about time the relationship ended.

All generalisations are wrong and so is this.
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[color=#1E90FF] IMHO jealousy is a function of INSECURITIES, not necessarily gender.

So it varies from one individual to another.
My point: Gender is not the determining factor, rather it's the confident each person has in their self.

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[color=#1E90FF] OP in the 'University Of Hope', all things are possible only if you can believe. If you chose to enroll in the University of Hope, He will surely come back in your imagination, but in this present world he is gone for good.
Just go and find something productive to do with your life, you are just 19 years and over 19 better guys than him will still ask you out.

But honestly, between You and I, you know you messed up and if you really did love him at first, you wouldn't have committed that offence.

Never forget you are born without Him, there are thousands of guys that are just like him and their are hundred of thousands that are even better.

If I were to be in his shoes though, I'll pretend to love you and I will just use you for se.x and I will dump you, since you seem so interested in me. My point, the one who loves the least controls the relationship. The implication of that is just that you will be too stupid to realise he is using you and in the end you will be hurt beyond redemption. Now that you can still redeem yourself, move on. It'snt that hard, just cast all those stupid thought and emotion into the trash bin and stop listening to all those dead romantic song that make you imagine crazy things that would never happen in this life.

My2cent: Even if he comes back, he may not necessarily be because he loves you and ultimately you will be magnificently hurt on the long run
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pleep: I really really want to help this lady...

[color=#1E90FF] I agree with you.
There are sins that are unforgivable. We need to ascertain if it's a first degree offence or just a minor offence.

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smothly: My dear try and forget him,cos he's not worths your tears.this guy you are talking about has moved on with his life and there you are killing youself for the guy who doesn't even care,if u should die today because of the pains he caused you belief me the guy will still kiss other ladies that are far better than you and of course he's doing that already.
So dear i know its not easy to let go someone you really love,but you just have to be brave and move on too.
Best of lucks

[color=#1E90FF] Rubbish.......

So the guy is now the devil, the guy didn't cause her any pain.
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joeydozzy: There isn't a specific time
it could even happen in the car tomorrow

[color=#1E90FF] My goodness [/color]

IS THERE ANY CHANCE THAT HE MAY STILL LOVE ME AND MAY TAKE ME BACK

[color=#1E90FF] There is a 0.00000000001% chance that he may take you back, the bad news is just that the probability that he will take you back tends to zero.

My2Cent: He has moved on, so should you(I know it's hard, but you just have to let him go). You messed up and it was costly, just ensure you don't do something stupid in your future relationship(s). [/color]

[color=#1E90FF] Sounds more like fiction to me.

Since you are confused I will advise you to sleep with her, ensure you dig your grave along, make sure you enjoy the train ride while it last though. Goodluck. [/color]