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Kobojunkie:
No mind dem . . . Many of the men wey dey even marry dem already know story wey dey ground sef. A friend told me of a gal who went off to italy to LovePeddler. After 10 years in the biz, she is now a mother -- you see am today, you will never connect her to the story. ROFL


By the way, I don't see anyone asking if the men who patronize them do get married as well. This discriminatory mentality so many continue to exhibit is reason why I am in support of legalization; that is really it for me.

Yep,you're making perfect sense,
Too bad its flying over the heads of the simpletons in here.

ATLgal:
so you agree, that even though it's not legal it still happens? not legalizing it only affects and puts the poor at risk. if it was legal they could be mandated to take STD/HIV tests and they would also be subject to paying taxes.

It's all hypocrisy. most politicians use escorts. difference is they don't pick them off the streets.

Well said.
Legalising prostitution would,
1)Ensure they all get HIV/STD testing.
2)They would all be registered and have licenses, and pay tax.
3)Cut out pimps
4)Eliminate abuse of young underaged girls by pimps.


Having said that it would never pass in Nigeria,Nigerians are not culturally civilized enough to handle it.Perhaps in 50 years or more, even americans are stil not advanced enough to do it, the only place in the US were it is legal is in Nevada.

arsenefc:
Maybe she is not a lady.

It doesn't get any more boneheaded than this comment^^^^^^.what a jerkoff

Ijogz K:
I just wonder why babes can't go out for a date or special occasion in a whole day without chewing gum, No matter how late they are. Some might forget to have a shower before going, some might forget to wear their bra or pant. But very few forgets the chewing gum. Why is this so. majority claim that they always wanna keep their breath fresh. But what bout we guyz, we don't chew gums every now and then, and our breath is still very much ok.

Now my question is this. Is it that the babes are just too lazy to brush/floss, or they are naturally dirty, Or is it just part of fashion cuz it makes them feel more sexy. Because a friend of mine once said that is babe looks sexier and hotter when she is chewing Gum. Weird i must say.

So why do you chew gum?? Ladies in the house

Seems like you are taking out a lot of "hookers". , oh and lots of guys chew gum also, .Epic failure thread.

Kobojunkie:
WOW  . . . . she agreed to be ra=ped. This is from Police in Nigeria. WOW! This in the year 2011 . . . . WOW , . . WOWOW!

Yep, I call bullsh.it on this, the corrupt and incompetent "nigerian police" just wont and can't do their job here as always.

so they "blame the victim" , just sad.

That folks a snapshot of what a failed soceity nigeria has become.

now men are free to gang ra, pe women all over nigeria without fear of repercussion, because in the end the police will blame the victim

minute:
Yes, sadly he passed away this morning. Some say they named the iPhone4S after him. . . (iPhone for Steve)


Is he going to be buried in an iCasket?

Just classy
Are you going to be buried in an icasket?? or better yet, at least he will have some sort of a legacy, unlike you.

[quote author=big_sean link=topic=775904.msg9284545#msg9284545 date=1317861913]Yeap, the dude is Dead!
The Board of Apple saw this coming that's why "he resigned" last month i think[/quote]Correction, everyone knew he had pancreatic cancer, nobody survives that
even he knew he would'nt last long, you think he uses "native doctors'.smh

[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=775090.msg9277795#msg9277795 date=1317773780]How come Our Nigerian ladies are always nicer to white men Many Nigeria Guys notice this too You will see a white guy open a door for a Nigeria Girl and she will be with all smiles throughout the day and return unlimited calls!!! When a brother does it, she may just ignore or nod her chicken head and run through quickly as if his chivalry is just something to be expected. Imagine if they are in a normal store and a white guy just says something to them just to make a small talk, there will be a lot of smiles yet our Nigeria brother does it, they act as if he has some bad hidden agenda

Peace out[/quote]It goes back to the deep self hate that some of them have,the notion that white guys don't have hidden agendas is just laughable.
Relax and pay them no attention,those are the bottom feeders.

You can always try surrogacy, , or fertility drugs,I guess end up like Octomom with 8 kids at a time.There are lots of options

nuzo:
Very wrong analysis my friend.
In fact the reverse seem to be the case.

I was chatting up a young lady from Uniport. . . . the young lady was just about the same age with the lady that was supposedly violated in the video. Guess what her response was when I advocated for life imprisonment for the rapists?

"No be she carry herself go there?"

To the best of my knowledge, Nigerian women have contributed much more than their male counterpart in making womanhood a "joke" in this country.
What are women doing about underage marriage. . . or is that not a more serious case of violation?
What are women doing about circumcision?
The list of how women have aided the menfolks to bastardize their self worth and turned them into objects of sex in Nigeria is staggering.

Men are in postion to change this dynamic but they won't, its men who marry off these child brides, its men who by far abuse their female maids, its men who discourage women from having a voice other than to say yes and nod in agreement.

Nigerian soceity is by nature extremely sexist and male driven, so you get a bunch of young women who have bought into the notion that they are not to have opinions or voices

You can't tell me that because she may have been hanging out in a spot where men frequent that she is "promiscuos", a woman is not a piece of meat,last time I checked.

[quote author=alj_harem link=topic=768717.msg9222585#msg9222585 date=1317043711]To me, I don't think it was a case of violation. This is a university we are talking about, people do wild things which includes intimacy. Yes it was a case of 5 men and a girl but according to the report gotten from the video, she did not struggle but only tried to push one of the guys a couple of times which we know women do even with their lover. Perfectly normal.

Although there was also a point she said so reluctantly "kill me" there was not scream or what ever and she said just once within the space of 3 seconds and did not repeat it again. Which violation victim does that ?

Maybe it can be called intimate harassment because it was recorded and according to our moral standard of Nigeria, that was bad but I am not sure if it could be classified as violation.[/quote]^^^^^^He's got plenty of experience with cases like thses obviously, thats the norm in a lot of communities in the north,where women are treated like second class citizens and property, child brides and all that utter bullcrap.

If you folks lose an entire generation of upstanding women, at least you know whose fault it is, its men like him who are chavanistic and sexist to the core.

[quote author=alj_harem link=topic=768717.msg9222585#msg9222585 date=1317043711]To me, I don't think it was a case of violation. This is a university we are talking about, people do wild things which includes intimacy. Yes it was a case of 5 men and a girl but according to the report gotten from the video, she did not struggle but only tried to push one of the guys a couple of times which we know women do even with their lover. Perfectly normal.

Although there was also a point she said so reluctantly "kill me" there was not scream or what ever and she said just once within the space of 3 seconds and did not repeat it again. Which violation victim does that ?

Maybe it can be called intimate harassment because it was recorded and according to our moral standard of Nigeria, that was bad but I am not sure if it could be classified as violation.[/quote]Tts Ra-pe, no doubt about it but given the fact that Nigeria is populated by people who don't seem to grasp the pain and pyschological torment that a woman goes through whne a man or men take advantage of her,

People like you,who are caught up in political correctness who refuse to stand up for womens rights everywhere are letting all women down.

Seriously, the video tape clearly incriniates these perpetrators in this crime??

What else is there to determine??Why all of a sudden, nigerian men have once again shown themselves to be hesitant to allow females justice??

Once again it is clearly seen that is the case in nigeria,that crimes against women play second fiddle The men will say two things

1)She was flirting around with the guys
or
2)She was dressed promiscously.

Im dead sick of this hypocrisy that has taken hold in nigerian culture, we are better than this by far, this is not Afghanistan or Pakistan.

If you men won't stand up for your mothers,wives and daughters, who will

If you believe this crap, you will believe anything .

I wonder who thought this was appropriate for the front page
Willy Wonka

Its worse, should be about 90%, cause nobody counts the aboki families, in those huts they could have hundreds of illiterate women and children that no one ever sees

IfeLuvely:
N its attitude like yurs that will make you to be going to parents evening with your walking stick or on your mobility scooter, FYI not only my parents, its all other couples near them then and tbh all of them have strived really hard; by God's grace are financially increase and still increasing today

Listen,airhead , I don't have that problem,I am self made,in control of my own financial future, I am only giving you a little education on why in 2011,it is just plain dumb to go out there and impregnate a lady,and fill a house with kids without any LONG TERM PLAN.

Only a mindless dolt would put marriage before their career .Might as well get married and sit on the corner asking for handouts.

Who in their right mind would want to live their entire lives surrounded by an environment riddled with abject poverty and hopelessness .
No Electricity,No running water,No sewage,scant public services,corruption on every rung of public service.

Nigeria is decades away from resolving these issues,probably not in my lifetime .

There was recently a story about a nigerian who had leukemia, and there was not a single bone marrow registry in Nigeria, , which means if he stayed in Lagos,he would have died, he is now on the list to get one in the US.What a shame

Who in their right mind would want to live their entire lives surrounded by an environment riddled with abject poverty and hopelessness .
No Electricity,No running water,No sewage,scant public services,corruption on every rung of public service.

Nigeria is decades away from resolving these issues,probably not in my lifetime .

The best two cars ever made by Toyota and Honda are these, Toyota Supra and Honda NXS-R.Period.
Accords and Camrys are for the elderly,mothers with babies and Chinese people.

jidegirl12:
ChillaX , it's just a thread to have fun with.

Its been done over and over again, honeybun, no need for us to dive into it again, the OP is just being lazy

Siena:
I don't get it - this same topic's been done to death on Nairaland, a quick search would find several similar threads.

Yet this one makes the Home page.  

Yep, I knew someone else would notice it, I mean seriously this thread is a waste of time, over two of the most BORING PIECE OF CRAP cars ever, seriously who fawns over choosing between a Camry and Accord, they are both bland,sorry and uninspiring as a DOORMAT

Serves the sorry brain dead monkey right

Only armor vests can stop bullets and even then not at point blank range, Darwinism at work.

anyone else who wants to test their plam fronds and leaves should holla at me, lets see how you can stop a hollow point bullet

kingjoe:
please i want someone to help me  in making a choice between a toyota camry 2000 or 2001 or a honda accord 2003 or2004. please in terms of cost, fuel consumption and maintenance . i will be very grateful,

Really

Instead of starting this thread you could have easily done a search through the "Yahoo Nairaland custom search" and found that , THIS HAS BEEN DISCUSSED ON NAIRALAND QUITE A LOT OF TIMES , you don't need to come up here asking us to make the decision for you,do your due diligence ,do your homework and use the internet, use edmunds,use google,use kelly blue book,use motor trend,use auto trader, stop wasting our time and your time, some folks on here don't even have bicycles yet they'll advise you on "BUYING A CAR"

Don't be lazy and search the internet, it should'nt take more than 10 minutes to find good comparison reviews and opinions from "professional car reviewers" on the internet

Marriage is over-rated, do you.
If you like someone, date them if you like, if it works fine, if it doesn't work, ya move on, keep everything simple without drama.

Or else you will wake up one day after 10 years of marriage wondering, why the heck that I marry this fat slob who has bad breath,leaves his clothes everywhere,doesn't take you out anymore,stays out late with his "boys",doesn't hold me close after lovemaking sessions, and spend more time watching TV than me, kind of guy

, and you will discover that , you can't just leave  , Good luck.

Isn't there one woman on here who doesn't want to get married right now and just wants to have fun

sexkillz:
The difference between dating and courting is >>>>>> NADA!. . . . . . There is no difference! Dating is regarded as a legitimate way for two people to become better acquainted. It's all in the motive behind dating! Either for FUN or for getting SERIOUS! Dating leads to courting! Courting is an ADVANCED form of Dating! As i am yet to see anyone, man or woman that approaches any opposite member and introduces him/herself with " Can i court you?" It's always Date! Date!! Date!!! Then after the first date and subsequent dates, courting ensues in some cases though!
And who the hell says dating leads to break up? Can you say the same for dating that leads to courting?
Is it all courting that eventually leads to marriage? Anyone?. . . Dating is an avenue to get to know someone better and determine if you could court the person with a view of marrying them! It's not by force to court whoever you dated neither is there any written law that you must marry whoever you courted! It's all in the motive of individual personalities! Some people might take a casual view of dating. It could be that they just enjoy each other's company, without any intention of marriage. Some might even view such a friend as little more than a trophy or an accessory to be seen with in public to boost their own self-esteem. Often, though, such shallow relationships are short-lived. They often lead to break ups! Of course, you cant expect marriage from all dating, right?
People who date for fun, come to view relationships as transitory—which in a sense prepares them for divorce rather than for marriage. Clearly, when you date someone, you’re affecting that person’s feelings 85% of the time. So be sure your intentions are Pure, though not everyone thinks alike. But it saves a lot of unnecessary discombobulation of emotions!
Some people just date, and it ends there! For others, it leads to something else! I think you should date someone when that person really means something to you and you feel your future together has potential. You care about a person, not just the idea of dating!

Sorry for the long post though! I also used to think Dating and courting were Different! But now i know Better!

See my post above, not everyone is dating with the idea of getting married, thats why there is casual dating and seious or committed dating.

Those Abians are racist,nuff said.

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=760213.msg9149983#msg9149983 date=1316059136]Guys: do you date women or do you court them?
Women: do you prefer dating or courting?

what do you think the difference is? and why?


I personally think that nowadays, men don't court women anymore. It's all about dating in today's world. we have lost respect for the traditional way and this is why divorce rates are going UP. courting prepares you for marriage. dating prepares you for break-up [/quote]You guys are taking this way too serious here, there's casual dating and serious/committed dating, I doubt courtship exists anymore anywhere in the world,period.
everyone dates,and if you are casually dating,that means both of you are going out,testing the waters,feeling each other out and either it ultimately leads to commited dating, or it fizzles out and both of you guys move on, simple.

Committed dating might lead to a more serious relationship or it may not, not everyone in the dating pool is on the prowl for marriage.Some are in it for just companionship

There are many women out there who are not looking for marriage,likewise men, and just because its called "dating" doesn't mean that they are desperate to hop into bed with you.

gwas:
I learnt people have been dying after answering call from 09141. I heard about 7 people have died as a result of this. Has anyone here heard such? Pls lets share it out.

No 09141 is NOT a killer number

No the world is not flat

No there are no such things as mermaids

Gawd, you must be the most mentally "special" person in Abuja, matter of fact you should leave Abuja and head to the hamlet , because big cities are meant for people who can process logical thought.

How on earth can a number kill a physical human being

If you are attending school you should drop out because you are just throwing hard earned cash down the drain, your brain would be better put to use, telling late night stories to kids, because you have such a twisted and vivid albiet, weird imagination.

Beaf:
The US is already our biggest oil customer, so your story doesn't wash. The likes of Chevron are US companies as well.
The only thing that upsets the US is if there is a threat to its business with Nigeria. There is no part of the World where the US is lifting free oil.

If AFRICOM ever lays boots on Nigerian soil, it would be because we opened the door with our shabby approach to each others welfare and the ease with which we toy with the future and rights of our children and their childrens children.

BEAF just took the words out of my mouth