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Alexgman1:
U mean it?

ReverseIlamina:
So Me and this girl have been friends last year on the Same Campus though we kept it lowkey. My friend noticed the girl on campus one day and they proceeded to talking stage.

My friend showed me the girl and I told him we were just friends I gave him the go ahead. But actually I was interested in the girl but I wanted to study her before making any move.

So Fastfoward, they dated for a month and broke up. He said he wasn't interested anymore and I could go for her actually. I'm now close to the girl. I had to let my friend know about it. He said he wasn't bothered but went behind my back and told my other friends what happened.

Now all of them think I'm a snake . I'm I wrong?

DanBJ:
Please I need mature advice, my wife of one kid had issues at her current work(teaching) place and wants to change the job. Her friend(unmarried) introduce her to a hotel work as a receptionist. Please is it advisable to let your wife work in such environment?

Orkpekyandega:
Argue with these facts not the poster.

Dear Ladies, Am going to hurt some of you with this post but kindly read and digest…..

•A Lady who cannot make her hair without asking a guy for money. And if not given -would call the guy BROKE.

A Lady that cannot subscribe her phone without sending “Can you do me a favour..?” to her random boyfriends on Facebook or whatsapp, and if not given would call them BROKE

A lady who does nothing than to jump around from one bed to another to pay her rent, feed and forming fake life on Facebook will be calling a guy who hustles; pays house rent, feeds himself, does everything for himself, BROKE.

A lady who is Jobless and lazy will come on Social media to argue how she can't marry a man who doesn't earn 100K a month.

Isn't it Funny that Ladies who can't foot their bills call men BROKE for not dancing to their drums?

Ladies, How I wish you understand how cheap you are when you Embarrassed a guy who didn't give you money for your hair.

How I wish you understand how Cheap it sounds when you say a man who can't buy you the Latest phone or trending stuff on a date is not man enough to talk or date you .

Stop demanding from men If you can't do it yourself.

Before Calling a guy broke, let it be that he can't take care of himself not because he can't take care of your personal Bills .

If not you are the broke one here...YES

As a Lady you should think of Building your self-esteem, Creative, Learning skills and praying to God to Direct your path.

Stop, Embarrassing yourself with guys, if a guy can't pay for a plate of Rice in Mega-Chicken..
Aunty why can't you pay for it?

Come to think of it ,If we Interview most ladies the way they examined most men, you'll see that many ladies are LAZY, JOBLESS and Lack COMMON SENSE but forming Rich and Sensible..

On the Other hand, Men are Hardworking and Resourceful for themselves.

Go get a life,
Set standards,
Be financially independent
then you can talk of not marrying a broke guy.

Calling a guy broke when you are broke.

#Copied#

Ezendimmuo:
I feel like hurting my ex
I wanna hurt her so bad
I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together...
She's older than me by a year...
She's 26 and I am 25..
She's in her final year...
I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with...
I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had
I had to go through her phone..
She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend...
I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then...
Whenever I objected...
She'd turn it into a huge fight..
I'd just have to finally let her go see him...
I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy)
This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o..
I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well
She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense
When I confronted her..
She wasn't sorry...
She was angry I went through her phone...
The next morning....
She came and apologized..
I stupidly accepted her back...
There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge..
I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge...
One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room..
The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry??
Do you blame me??
She came into my life and made me insecure...
I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend"
I just had to end it all...
For my mental health..
I still love her... that's the annoying part...
I stalk her status...
Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"...
That's how cheap she can get...
I hate her for making me love her!!!!
I know I'll get over her soon sha

Guys..
Don't ever let any lady take you for granted...
You are the prize!!

powerfulguy:
https://www.channelstv.com/2022/07/14/just-in-apc-postpones-offiicial-unveiling-of-vice-presidential-candidate/

Tonero5200:
no replies.

that night she told me she will give me reply the following day...till now nothing.
I asked her on Sunday, she ignored my chat and replied in the evening after hours.

I asked again, she ignored and responded the next day with just hello, good evening, or anything that doesn't relate to the proposal.

the thing is I'm angry, this lady looking me like a kid for not giving me a sensible reply Instead of snubbing me.
even though you not interested, tell me to my face so that I comoth my mind.
why snub me? she texted me yesterday and I deleted the chat immediately.

I want to move on
but I noi go like do am like quarrel?
make it noi be say I dey vex because she nor gree
how do I go about it?

LOVEGINO:
real women don't like calm guys.

LegitBoyy:
Hi everyone,

I just wanted to share this trend I have noticed in my relationship life with you all and see if anyone can relate to it. I have just noticed recently that most girls I meet will suddenly want to “settle”.

You would wonder why this should be a problem right? Exactly. I am looking to getting into something serious myself so it should ordinarily not be a bad thing. However, I am seeing a pattern which is why I am worried.

I have met quite a few girls recently and many of them who are obviously still very active players on the ’street’ and as soon as we get talking, they suddenly want to exit the ‘street’ and want something serious with me.

For context, I will be 27years old in a few years, comfortably building a good career and a very calm person. It is not even about money or sort as many of them have met people with much more. I don’t know if any guy or lady out here actually understand my situation here?

I am looking to go into something serious but this pattern just doesn’t look all okay with me. Is it because of my calm nature? Maybe a calm guy is suitable for a husband kind of situation right?

For guys who have been in this situation, how did you dealt with it please?

Savageman:
Hi everyone, after wasting 5 years of my life in benin doing Yahoo yahoo, gambling and wasting all the money i made on clubing, women, drugs and police case.. I came back to my parents house in Abuja to start a new legit life.

I'm 24 years old, a phone technician. When i came back to my parents house, i use the little money with me to open a phone repair shop in my area and some making little money. After couple of months working i meet this beautiful girl, who came to my shop to repair her phone. We got talking, exchange movies and contact and we became very close. She always come to my shop almost everyday and anytime she comes she will ask me of money (sometimes 1k or 2k) for something.. We would talk and watch movies together(she loves movies)..

Story short after about a month, i invited over to my house(parents house, but my room is not joined with the house) we were together and watching movies, well we had s*x. That's how it started.

Well the thing is she always bill me 2k, 1k, 5k. And am trying to arrange my life with the little money I'm making from my phone repair business. I'm saving up to buy a laptop to learn programming. and this girl always bill me anytime she comes to my shop. and anytime she come over to my place we always have s*x.. I want to stop all this, we are not in any relationship, she told me she doesn't have a boyfriend. I'm tired and i want to save up for my future. Im just confuse, How can i tell this girl i don't want this kinda friendship/relationship?

Please help me move to fp
lalasticlala

kakaaa77:
and why do you want to know?

PenSniper:
Are you aa virgin ?
From a natural and screening committee.

dodgelord:
"I am Ready To Marry Homeless Veteran Nollywood Actor, Aguba" - Nigerian Lady Cries Out!

"I heard General overseer OPM is looking for a wife for Kenneth Aguba , please Tell Him I (Annastasia Micheal Olamma ) am willing to marry him,i am ready to be Mrs Aguba ❤️❤️ I will love him and take care of him very well. They should come and see my people bikon ��, I am 24 years old and i am from Enugu state,.. Aguba Deserves to marry me because I am a wife material 1000 yards,I can help him regain his sanity and I will take very good care of him and feed him well.

I can't wait to marry my Agubabym ���."

#AguAnna2022

politicoNG:
https://www.nairaland.com/7206104/relist-nigeria-violator-religious-freedom#114320796



https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2022/07/04/nigerian-govt-replies-u-s-senators-over-allegation-of-christians-persecution/?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter

lalasticlala:
A gorgeous lady on Twitter Dev @slvyed_ has shocked social media users after sharing a photo of all her aborted babies.

Sharing the photos via her page, she wrote:

"The mom, the offspring (yes i kept all my abortions. I love my babies)"

Is this a joke to trend or she actually meant it?

kakaaa77:
sometimes I wonder why you do stupid things sometimes, the same person will say something and still the same person will use another account reply his self by the way how did you even' change my name to make it look like I'm the one that just said what I tell you?

ExAngel007:
A 21-year-old woman has celebrated being a virgin.

Ezinne Obianuhu Nwa Jane who revealed that she's been
tempted so many times, also said that she has lost so many relationships because she's still a virgin.

She wrote on Facebook;

Being a virgin at 21yrs it hasn't been easy

Alot of temptations

And losing relationships

Sometimes I just want to open my legs but am strong in the lord, he said thy shall not commit fórnicate.

https://www.facebook.com/100059753642703/posts/pfbid02S4ZLVdZTZbrwhaS1FpYS2wegmTGTf8T34A6oeJdoLfm2MVHWSXdZ9Mav2fkaDxbql/?app=fbl

Dynoz01:
your Stupidity is legendary

You are a vagabond released in this faceless forum

You are looking for unnecessary cheap attention which is so porpestrous

Keep on adding volume to your Stupidity

You are nothing but being food for worms