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FamilyRe: Older Man Caught In A Hotel With A Secondary School Girl (photos) by kandiikane(m): 10:58pm On Mar 08, 2015
deb6:
why is everyone bashing d man? D girl i know she wasn't kidnap 4rm home to dat hotel
Because whether the girl carried her two legs to seduce, the grown ass married man should have known better.


@topic,That girl's face should not have been shown, she is most likely still underage and her identity should have been protected.
Jokes EtcRe: See What Happens When A Calaba Girl Visits You. (pix So Funny) by kandiikane(m): 9:55pm On Mar 08, 2015
This picture is very annoying! Poor dog, I hope nothing was broken.
Christianity EtcRe: Where Was God Coming From Before HE Started Creation? by kandiikane(m): 11:13am On Mar 08, 2015
Rogbese:
The moment you get to the point where you start asking "who created God," you have allowed Satan and his horde of demons into your life. Do not ask questions that will get you into trouble. Save your soul. The devil is looking for a multitude to take with him into the depths of Hell.
Nonsense! Why would God give us brains if we aren't allowed to think or ask questions? No wonder you guys are being fooled everyday by so-called men of God. Imagine ediots actually believing a pastor when he says pay money so I can check whether you name is in the book of life? The only people the devil will be taking with him is those who fail to use their brains.
Christianity EtcRe: 20 Common Dreams And Spiritual Warfare (please Read) by kandiikane(m): 7:32am On Mar 08, 2015
EggovinMma:
I kept seeing a young man I dated one time in my dream, always in office clothes, carrying his laptop bag.Everywhere I go in the dream, he seems to be there but never speaks. angry angry angry.The worst is, he keeps looking at me like he wants to say something, but he doesn't.
na your spiritual husband. cheesy


@topic, I don't believe these things posted. Sometimes, you dream things because they are the things actually happening in your physical life so your subconscious turns them into something else, something random in dreams.

For example, I have issues with planes so any time I am about to travel or a loved one is travelling I always dream of planes, either I am on the plane waiting for it to take off(feeding my anxiety even more) or I will see the plane land somewhere odd without even seeing myself inside, just random dreams about planes. One time, I dreamt I was living in a plain house in the middle of a field, I saw a plane fall from the sky crashing near the house. I saw myself helping people out of it, a lot happened in the dream but that's the whole thing I can remember from the dream clearly now, the other parts of the dream I remember are just odd bits here and there. This was not a spiritual attack but my subconscious taking over my fear of planes and flying.

I mostly have dreams that portray what is going on in my life. I am able to find solutions from the dreams.
My dreams paint what's goes on in my waking life in weird and simple formats so I am able to calculate the problems and obstacles giving me solutions I won't normally see or think to apply in my waking life.

I can easily interpret dreams but sometimes I do have odd dreams without finding meaning right after waking. I.e. I once had a dream that I was in my home country and the house I was in flooded. I saw Kim kardashian's dead body floating in the water and the following week after the dream, heard my granddad's son died at the beach, they found his body later. I was trying to link the dream to his death and I thought maybe I dreamt of Kim Kardashian because it was a face I could place. When I left the country years back the boy was just a baby and I don't know what he looked like hence the need to put a known face to the body. You cannot dream of a face you have never seen before. The dream could be a coincidence but I do get some weird dreams like that, that seem like I am having precognitive dreams.

Forgetting dreams are normal, nothing spiritual about it. Your brain forgets most dreams the moment you wake up so the dream you might be recalling could just a tiny part of it, something that stuck to your head when waking up.eg. seeing a colour. You tend to remember dreams abit clearer when you wake up during REM.
CelebritiesRe: Ex-beauty Queen "Anna Banner" Expelled From Dubai University by kandiikane(m): 8:44pm On Mar 07, 2015
pretydiva:
So as dat gal small reach,she don mk herself baby mama..if dis news is actually true, den she's a disgrace 2 womanhood. In short all d baby mama's r disgrace 2 womanhood.

God save dis generation
Very ignorant post.
Music/RadioRe: 'Satan Be Gone' By Asa (Watch The Official Video) by kandiikane(m): 10:04pm On Mar 06, 2015
I like asa but this song builds into near climax and instead of releasing it just flatlines. Very annoying as I was anticipating something from the buildup and did not get it.

Video is ok.
FashionRe: Senegambian Couture In Pictures! by kandiikane(mod): 8:32pm On Mar 06, 2015
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FamilyRe: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 8:25pm On Mar 06, 2015
babyosisi:
People like you are the reason most abuse victims don't come forward ,live in shame and often end up in destructive behavior because heartless people like you will call them liars,ridicule them and traumatize them the more
[size=18pt]Shame on you!! Eediot[/size]
Go sit your azz down you old azz piece of shyt. It is not my fault your husband refused to tell you he was abused. Bloody cow, you must alway come open your slippery mouth rata rata just to feel among. You better stop doing this bullshyt and go play bingo with your husband, goat!
RomanceRe: Eight Reasons Why I Should Marry A Prostitute by kandiikane(m): 8:54am On Mar 06, 2015
It is good to know that you consider your mother a slut. I mean she gave birth to you so she must have slept with someone.

P.s, don't be offended as you can see you have called every mother and non-virgin a slut including your mother abi you forget say your mum is a woman too? It happens, sometimes men forget that the human who gave birth to them is a woman.
CelebritiesRe: 14 Years After The First Harry Potter Movie, How The Kids Are Looking Now [pics] by kandiikane(m): 8:39am On Mar 06, 2015
Angelina johnson's picture is wrong. That's Megan good.

This is Angelina Johnson but if I am not mistaken there was a previous Angelina Johnson before this one. Two people played the character.
https://images2.fanpop.com/image/photos/10800000/Tiana-tiana-benjamin-10863752-682-1023.jpg
FashionRe: Male Transformation Wit Make Up (photo) by kandiikane(mod): 2:00pm On Mar 05, 2015
Before I marry any guy, I must make sure I take him for a session at the local swimming pool.....Who knows whether that low cut is even real
HealthRe: STIs: The Facts You Need To Know by kandiikane(m):
People need to really use condoms, hpv is the most common, imagine, just 4 partners? It might not seem bad as the immune system gets rid of it in majority of cases within two years but imagine having to deal with warts(low risk strains) constantly, even if you have the opportunity to get rid of the warts, the possibility of it coming back is very high. It can be with you for life.

Imagine having to worry about having cancer one day(these are for the high risk strains) or someone dying of cancer not realising it is because of all those blokos she has allowed to enter without raincoats. It will be a case of "had she known." Now you know.
Condoms people! It might not protect you a 100 percent but it's worth using.
FamilyRe: Gender Equality: Male Wrestler Takes On Female Wrestler (video) by kandiikane(m): 9:57am On Mar 05, 2015
Timbuktou:
You're the one spamming the thread with irrelevancies, hence, apples and oranges. How about you argue with some logic? You don't even know what you're selling, how do you expect to make any profit?! Smh
Seriously, what is this one talking about? Logic, apples, profit, selling, goats? Are you ok? I don't like being quoted by mad people, ok? Your mates are in yaba left, go talk profits with them.
FamilyRe: Gender Equality: Male Wrestler Takes On Female Wrestler (video) by kandiikane(m): 9:37am On Mar 05, 2015
Timbuktou:
Of course, you didn't search them out, they just happened to pop up on your laptop on cue. Madam, abeg, go sell your fruits to someone else, this fella aint buying.
I am not the one who offered apple and oranges so please if you have nothing relevant to add, waka go!
FamilyRe: Gender Equality: Male Wrestler Takes On Female Wrestler (video) by kandiikane(m): 9:15am On Mar 05, 2015
Timbuktou:
Yeah, cool story. So, you're saying that these videos have the exact same elements as the one in the OP? You'd be more logical if you spent less time on youtube searching for videos to do your apples and oranges comparisons.
After all said and done, in the end, apples and oranges are both fruits.

Anyhow, I posted real life scenarios, could have posted some professional wrestling scenarios but they are mostly fake and made up fights so no point.
I don't need to search youtube, I have them all saved as favorites waiting for such a moment. wink
FashionRe: Nairalander - Onyx Godwin pictures From his Make-up Project In School by kandiikane(mod): 9:09am On Mar 05, 2015
Nneka123:
so what exactly is allowed? Not everyone will think the op looks good without trying to say exactly how they feel about him
I understand but calling him gay when he hasn't specifically said so may be detrimental to his reputation or status.
FashionRe: Nairalander - Onyx Godwin pictures From his Make-up Project In School by kandiikane(mod): 9:08am On Mar 05, 2015
Setaje:
But freedom of sexual expression is absolute undecided
No it is not. There are limitations to everything. eg. It is illegal almost everywhere to have sex with dead people or children.
FoodRe: Romantic Or Scary? Would You Eat This (photos) by kandiikane(m): 8:41am On Mar 05, 2015
MissEse:
Not looking good!
If all these are from one farm, the owner should be questioned!
lol..
FashionRe: Nairalander - Onyx Godwin pictures From his Make-up Project In School by kandiikane(mod): 8:36am On Mar 05, 2015
Nneka123:
who is hiding my post na? undecided what happen to freedom of speech! lipsrsealed
freedom of expression is not absolute.
FashionRe: Nairalander - Onyx Godwin pictures From his Make-up Project In School by kandiikane(mod): 8:33am On Mar 05, 2015
Only a "real" man who is confident enough can do makeup and share it with his fans.

If a woman can wear pants or a dungaree without discrimation, a man can also wear makeup if it pleases him.

Irrelevant info: Once upon a time, high heels use to be a man's thing.
FashionRe: Male Transformation Wit Make Up (photo) by kandiikane(mod): 8:31am On Mar 05, 2015
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FamilyRe: Her Husband Ogles Other Women....... by kandiikane(m): 8:22am On Mar 05, 2015
missberrypop5:
[b]that's one problem most women face. [/b]They think they can change a man's attitude towards some stuff.

If u notice something u can't tolerate in a wanna be spouse, pls back off, n stop complaining angry life is as simple as that.
That's a whole lot of women, "most" could be 99% of women, are you the remaining one percent that doesn't try to change a man's attitude?
FamilyRe: Sacrifice All For Sake Of My Hubby by kandiikane(m): 4:37am On Mar 05, 2015
Misssessay:
We were living together when married... this long distance thing is quite recent :/

You speak allot of sense - I have no family but a few friends already in Nigeria.

Your right even if I didn't I wud still hav to move sad

Now - my hubby says that in Nigeria it is not typical to share accounts.... :/ and that if there is anything I need he will provide me.... so I guess that's out of the question
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Not exactly the way I'd like things to be - but just trying to save as much as I can before I go
Is the bolded truehuh

......I am not Nigerian.
FamilyRe: Gender Equality: Male Wrestler Takes On Female Wrestler (video) by kandiikane(m): 2:14am On Mar 05, 2015
Timbuktou:
I bet she was paid to be in that ring. No woman would be so stewpid to try and prove a non-existent point.
What, this point right here?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wfIi0ZSVOPs

Or this?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DcBTKZ9-QkE


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=86or700Hk3E


People talk shyt because they haven't met their match.
FamilyRe: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 7:48pm On Mar 04, 2015
zeongeon:
Be reasonable. People have every right to express how they feel or describe situation using words they feel would be able to paint an exact picture so that people could understand better..I can decide to write on the wrongs of rape using words like " he squeezed her boobs just like a thirsty man squeeze pure water satchet" that doesn't mean am trying to use rape to entertain people.

Well its not about what the op wrote or how he wrote it, it op is trying to pass a message and the question is did u get the message?
Yes the same way people are able to paint an exact picture of abuse by sending videos or pics round saying they are trying to bring awareness probably titled "how sad or how sickening or see what this wicked man did to this Child.
Does the recepient ever ask about the exact motive behind the video being sent round? Or does he just pass it to others too like a pervert? Maybe it doesn't matter as long as they are passing the "message" to the masses. It doesn't matter how the awareness is shared, expressed or maybe like some ediot wrote, it's just a good"narrative".
People will become more aware by knowing or seeing every single details of how the victim is being stroked like an "instrument," the reactions of the victim and abuser or the perceived smell.

Please, I don't want to be quoted with comments I perceived as rubbish since they make no difference to me. You should stop as you can see I am heartless and will just keep on posting heartless stuff!
BusinessRe: Hilarious Photos Of What A Young Man Does For A Living(Very Funny Photos) by kandiikane(m): 11:43am On Mar 04, 2015
How is this different to a lady being paid to strip to her undies? huh You go bless this one's hustle but not the lady's.
FamilyRe: What Kind Of Woman Would You Love To Marry- Choose (picture) by kandiikane(m): 11:39am On Mar 04, 2015
People can lie mehn!!!


@topic, beautiful girl joor! Is food that scarce that you want to deprive your unborn children of being called "beta pikin"?
FamilyRe: He Announced My HIV Status In The Presence Of My Husband. by kandiikane(m): 7:32am On Mar 04, 2015
Generally doctors are bound by a duty of strict confidentially but in such situations, if he believes it is necessary to prevent a serious risk of harm, he can breach his duty of confidentiality. That's the law here, don't know about over there.

Knowing Africans, he probably did not say it because of the risk of harm, I am sure if it was the husband with hiv, the doctor would have kept mute.
FamilyRe: UK Twins Turn Heads: One Is White, The Other Black (Pics) by kandiikane(m): 6:39am On Mar 04, 2015
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FamilyRe: Gender Equality: Male Wrestler Takes On Female Wrestler (video) by kandiikane(m): 5:23am On Mar 04, 2015
Lmaooooooooo grin
FamilyRe: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m):
And to those who think my post was made towards abused men or that it implies the op is lying about being abused at the age of 10 then you are all ediots who need to read a book or two and should be put in a corner for even attempting to say someone is ignorant for doubting the exact motive of the thread being open.

I just do not believe his exact motive was to bring awareness to how wrong male abuse is, how it affects and can have a major impact on the victim.
I find that the thread was opened to tell a story about smelly maids as an entertainment under the blanket of Male abuse awareness

How exactly does "I felt fulfilled as her fingers were all over me as If she was working a guitar" or " she opened her legs and a smell filled the room" make any difference to the opinions of those who do not believe men can be abused?

All that is left is for people to take a seat around a fire to listen to the storytelling before they go to sleep.
what a joke!
FamilyRe: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 10:58pm On Mar 03, 2015
Shollypopzz:
You accused the op's experience as being a joke. You claimed his intention was to appeal to perverts. Since, you are no mind-reader, I do not see how you can provide evidence as to what the op's intentions were.
If you are offended by the explicit detail of his encounter, then report to the mod. Let them decide if it is appropriate for this section or not. I found absolutely nothing wrong with his description.
"but it still doesn't change the fact that there is more to the original post than just bringing awareness." Yet another speculation.
The same way I could say your idea that his story has nothing more to it is speculation. What evidence do you have that your opinion is not speculation? My evidence is in his post so I don't know why you will wonder where my evidence will come from.

Listen, I have written all I need to write on this topic and I won't continue this back and forth with you.
if you feel like there is nothing wrong with his story and that it has made a difference on how male abuse is seen then good for you.

I still stand by my first statement. I do not need to report anything to the mod. I have stated what I got from it and that's all that matters, it is none of my business whether someone disagrees with me.

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