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CelebritiesRe: ''Can You Afford A Girl Like Me?' - Skales' GF Blasts Wizkid & Haters On Twitter by kandiikane(m): 12:54pm On Feb 24, 2015
deebrain:
Is it not to sleep with her, take her shopping, take her to dinner and outings? What else but her body?

So annoying some ladies are yet to understand that your value is not how much is spent on you being a liability, but being an asset.

Even through their statements, you know the character status of a lady.
You imply that she is a liability yet your first statement was to take her shopping etc.



You need to start using your brain, you are all birds of the same feathers. Your worth is to shop, buy and take her out and her worth is to accept, take and eat. If your mindset in getting a woman is like that, you will only attract women who love men like you to buy, shop and take them out. That is the only way to prove your love for them.

your statement is no different to complaining that your friend only stays your friend if you help them out but you initially started the circle and still continue the circle because you have nothing else to offer other than helping them out. You can't even offer an interesting conversation or a sociable moment for both of you, just the times when he will say "oga, I need you to go buy me Okra from the market." That is Your day to day life with him, nothing more. With out that okra, you won't have a "friendship".
CelebritiesRe: ''Can You Afford A Girl Like Me?' - Skales' GF Blasts Wizkid & Haters On Twitter by kandiikane(m): 12:28pm On Feb 24, 2015
Had to check her on instagram. Very pretty girl, not surprised many of the nl females are bashing her, they are easily affordable. tongue
the guys definitely cannot afford her. cheesy

She probably didn't mean afford her as in her wares but maybe he cannot afford her as a person, maybe she is priceless. Blah!
FamilyRe: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kandiikane(m): 12:06pm On Feb 24, 2015
FamilyRe: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kandiikane(m):
funmilayoB:
some r females but have men's genes in their DNA They
1 They chase d opposite sex
2 they have extreme sexual urges
3 The cheat
4 Masturbate E.t.c
all these r not typical of a normal female behavior
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@topic, to have an affair is a whole lot of work. Being faithful is easier than having an affair. I don't understand how people make excuses, because if one really intends to be faithful they will be regardless of whatever is in their way. Block any distractions, stop encouraging it and occupy yourself. Cheating starts because you put yourself in a situation to cheat. To discourage such nonsense, you need to stop entertaining people-men and women who throw themselves at you. No one is that stup!d to not notice the hints. Nip it in the bud before it Blooms. Discourage the conversations, stop the people, masturbate if you have to, change your mind set and most of all, stop making excuses. You have lived years before without having sex and you were just fine.
FamilyRe: Is This Enough Reason, why she filed for a divorce *screen Shot* by kandiikane(m): 4:22pm On Feb 21, 2015
moreeni:
Charlie, I understood every word written there the best I could. I wonder what your wife was thinking? How very inconsiderate of her to think a mere conversation that whiffs of innocence between your and your cousin is a big deal. Your cousin kept herself for you...you call her baby...you kept missing appointments though you participated in creating them in the first place... She doesnt understand why she's hung up on you...You kept leading her on...Whew! Your wife simply overreacted undecided

Clean up your act and concentrate on your marriage if indeed you really want it. Sure you have your real baby's number...dial it!
I don't understand this Charles story. Where are you guys getting the extra info from? The "baby" the cousin? I checked his posts can't find them.
FamilyRe: Hillarious! Satisfy Us In Bed Or Face Mass Divorce - Kaduna women protest by kandiikane(m): 1:29pm On Feb 21, 2015
Hm, if this is true, they need a very good lawyer. That barrenness and Miscarriage could be turn to cash.
TV/MoviesRe: Fifty Shades Of Grey Banned In Nigeria Cinemas Due To Sexual Content by kandiikane(m): 1:24pm On Feb 21, 2015
You guys should protest.. I mean, how can they suggest banning po.rn? I don't care for 50 Shades, it could have been any sex.ual movie but you should protest for the hypocrisy. I agree with the commentator who said they will secretly watch it whilst depriving you. The only movies that should be banned is child pornography and whatever messed up things humans get up to that's detrimental to the population. Not allowing people to understand themselves and sexuality is messing up the nation, leading to the ra.pe of goats and mad people. Indian is one of the most repressed nations in the world and see what happens on a daily basis, ra.pe is like tea over there, a cuppa to boast and have you up and ready for the day.


Those doing the banning have aristos and boy toys in their beds almost every night watching xxnx, do not allow them to oppress You.
RomanceRe: What To Do If Your Man Watches Porn by kandiikane(m): 1:04pm On Feb 21, 2015
NinoBrown888:
I know your type...you click 'delete' after watching...
delete The history? Why not make it easier by opening an incognito page?
CelebritiesRe: Kuti Shares Throwback Picture Of His Mom And Her Jumbo-sized Weed…(PICS) by kandiikane(m): 4:26pm On Feb 20, 2015
queensmith:
same kandi? how u doing girl!

thank you for this! im soo disappointed! if he had posted a photo of his dad doing the same we wouldnt be hearing such nonsense - this is the same man that is being praised in every corner, immortalized in Nigerian culture and at the same time has committed more offences than the devil himself!
lol, it's annoying. For me, the picture is a beautiful reminder that youth and living life doesn't last forever. When you get the chance you should take it but these neanderthals won't get it. All they know is how to throw stones from their glass houses.

I'm good, how about yourself? Long time, you went MIA
CelebritiesRe: Kuti Shares Throwback Picture Of His Mom And Her Jumbo-sized Weed…(PICS) by kandiikane(m): 2:58pm On Feb 20, 2015
I swear Nigerians are hypocrites, so what he should be ashamed that his mother loved to party and smoke weed? He should instead post a picture of his dead mother looking fat and frail nearing her deathbed? Naah, I rather capture my mother's youthful essence and cherish that memory than any other memory of the days she lived on earth. No one should be ashamed of the days a mother lived her life with her hair blowing in the wind. Those are the best of the years one can never ever get back.

I don't even even see you guys issues with weed. If you have never tried you really shouldn't open your mouth to talk trash about it.
GamingRe: Chess Basics For Beginners by kandiikane(m): 10:32am On Feb 20, 2015
this is so new, I have not played chess in years and I think I use to play it like draughts, not sure.
PoliticsRe: Gov Suswam,terhemen Tarzoor Spotted With V.P Namadi Sambo In Gambia by kandiikane(m): 9:50am On Feb 20, 2015
benuejosh:
bunch of failures....
your life is a failure compared to them.
RomanceRe: Would You Date A Girl Your Brother Slept With? by kandiikane(m): 9:49am On Feb 20, 2015
chrisbaba1:
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Bro, i dont think it can work, eitherways.... Even as a guy uno how we get when we feel lonely, sometimes guys flirt with the wrong girls becos of lonliness... if the brother in question is a real womaniser, he would successfully sleep with her again, they will both regret their actions, then do it again and again till they dont care..... As humans we just have to be able to let things and people go, in a short while he will be with a girl he loves and laugh at himself for thinking his brothers ex was the one for him.....
your loneliness has nothing to do with her. Just because you got an ere.ction doesn't mean she would do you a favour of helping it go back down.
RomanceRe: Would You Date A Girl Your Brother Slept With? by kandiikane(m): 9:37am On Feb 20, 2015
chrisbaba1:
Its not safe mehn, i know u might be deeply in love but its not safe.

From my own experience,a guy can sleep with almost any lady he has had a history with in the past or at least flirt, for some reason i don't understand, it just works that way, soul ties i guess.... So let the girl go and don't cause yourself unnecessary pain in the near future because if things happen, ud hate ur brother, hate women and this girl will vanish into the arms of a guy who knows none of her history while u pick up the remnant of ur messed up heart
For a woman, that's not how is works and remember both have to agree before any sleeping begins. Like the op said they have not even spoken since, meaning that it was probably a one night stand with no emotions attached so I doubt any of them would want to sleep with each other.
RomanceRe: Would You Date A Girl Your Brother Slept With? by kandiikane(m): 9:30am On Feb 20, 2015
I don't get it, when men sleep with two sisters, I never see such responses. The girl may have probably met the op randomly and probably actually really likes him and now has to walk away because what, she and the brother had sex years back? You guys must think every woman thinks like you but no, not every woman will want to go back on old rubbish. The older brother is probably a regret, a drunken night's play, what woman ever wants to go back to that? The lowered expectations? Ew!

@op, you should not enter into any relationship feeling lukewarm. You either trust her and move on from her past if like you said she is a nice person and just forget everything. Don't start dating her and then start using her past against her. You are either in and ready to build something with her on a clean slate or you are out. Worst thing is to pretend to not care but then later make her suffer for her past that had nothing to do with you.
RomanceRe: Meet The Naija Guy Whose Girlfriend Said She Loves F*cking by kandiikane(m): 1:05pm On Feb 19, 2015
diddydiva:
Love in Nigeria cheesy cheesy

that gal is dumb tho because the guy is not passing the same message with her.
huh You should point that finger at yourself.
EducationRe: My Experience With My School's Bursar by kandiikane(m): 10:12am On Feb 19, 2015
Pweetyradiance:
sorry man, with the confusion in my head. didn't know where best to post it
my post wasn't referring to you but the title itself on frontpage. It should be sexually assaulted, I don't understand why it says romantic even if it's in quotes.
EducationRe: My Experience With My School's Bursar by kandiikane(m): 8:45am On Feb 19, 2015
Seriously, the title though on front page..."romantic"?
PoliticsRe: PDP Sharing Rice And Yam At Campaign Venue (Photo) by kandiikane(m): 3:03pm On Feb 17, 2015
DaBullIT:
Reasonable people would know I meant 2.00 blame auto correct
Reasonable people are not in your head to know that it was autocorrect.
PoliticsRe: PDP Sharing Rice And Yam At Campaign Venue (Photo) by kandiikane(m): 1:35pm On Feb 17, 2015
lolaxavier:
Obviously, it was a mistake. He meant less than 2 USD.
ok oo. I am not Nigerian so don't know.
PoliticsRe: PDP Sharing Rice And Yam At Campaign Venue (Photo) by kandiikane(m): 1:29pm On Feb 17, 2015
DaBullIT:
6 solid years

they can't farm, help farmers , build rice processing plans or even sugar refinery


but they share seized but customized rice to Nigerians


Why won't they collect when Nigerians live on less than 200 usd per day
collectively or per person? The 200usd
HealthRe: 16 Female Patients Accuse Nigerian Doctor Of Sexual Assault by kandiikane(m): 1:10pm On Feb 17, 2015
Babymama1:
These may be false accusations

See this case



https://www.change.org/p/arizona-medical-board-restore-dr-gabriel-ogbonnaya-s-license-2
I am not saying he did it but when it comes to sex.ual offences it is not easy to convict.

Seriously, I know many may think someone can easily scream ra.pe and the guy goes to prison but look at cases, many are acquitted, doesn't mean they did not do it but since we are law abiding citizens we must agree with the law. It is in Africa that some just need to scream and justice is taken without due process.
I know if I go out and stretched out my hands, I will easily touch people who have been abused one way or another and their case won't see a day in court.

16 allegations aren't just a coincidence but whatever the case, innocent until proven guilty.
http://jezebel.com/5676504/how-to-rape-a-woman-and-get-away-with-it
https://rainn.org/news-room/97-of-every-100-rapists-receive-no-punishment

If it is hard enough to prove Ra.pe how much more a finger stroke of a va.gina. I am not saying women don't cry wolf....
PoliticsRe: Armed Soldiers Beating Innocent Citizens Now At Sun Tan Beach Badagry by kandiikane(m): 5:23am On Feb 16, 2015
This is a lesson for men who like to jump on women in club/dance scenes. Be a gentleman and ask for permission to dance or to grind up on her. Don't just creep up behind her and start thrusting your semi-hardon on her backside like a bloody weirdo.

...I'm joking oo (that was very wrong of the soldiers) or am I? Abeg whatever
FamilyRe: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by kandiikane(m): 1:58am On Feb 16, 2015
Funny thing is, SeneGambian women, especially the wolof are the most loving and loyal wives I have ever known. Mehn, they will become strippers for you in the bedroom just to make you happy and keep you sane. They will do whatever it takes just to make their husbands happy, even let him marry oyibo and pretend to be his sister just so he can have his life long dream of going to babylon. The fact that there is a senegalese woman in there just shows the men are just naturally phucked up in the head. This has nothing to do with the woman not cleaning or cooking or even stressing the guy which would have been even more phucked up because that is just a sane person killing for pleasure.

You would be surprised at how many murderers from nigeria roam the streets abroad.
FamilyRe: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by kandiikane(m): 12:42am On Feb 16, 2015
pickabeau1:
Tragic
lol....
FashionRe: Are You Addicted To Fake Nails? by kandiikane(mod): 9:44pm On Feb 15, 2015
fredoooooo:
may grandma soout continue to rest in peace sad
me too can't just wait for iyabo .. oooshey !!!! grin
I don't like this oo. so unfair! This one even know honey loops' father, me, to see D-photo she nor gree.
angry
FashionRe: Are You Addicted To Fake Nails? by kandiikane(mod): 9:11pm On Feb 15, 2015
fredoooooo:
Kandiikane still dey ise Google , well for tour information brother kamoru my uncle in ibadan is the brain behind yoruba translation on Google. .. na night Scholls bros go grin grin
lol I hope it is not one of those unknown uncles that doesn't know you exist.

Did he interpret it correctly?
FashionRe: Are You Addicted To Fake Nails? by kandiikane(mod): 9:09pm On Feb 15, 2015
Idowuogbo:
Let me think on it first. tongue
i hope say you know I nor fit do that. sad cry

Yea sure! When you are ready,let me know.
Alright.
FashionRe: Are You Addicted To Fake Nails? by kandiikane(mod): 9:01pm On Feb 15, 2015
fredoooooo:
Mba ... a ki fi omo ire bo ire ... Idowu translate for ya partner in crime grin grin
Google says a child's welfare and interest?

Idowuogbo:
d-day.
Price starts from 40 upwards.
Haba, don't do that now. My eyes are sacred too so you fit trust am. Biko. grin

Ok, you fit send me the name of the place?
FamilyRe: what does Nigerian law say about children born out of wedlock? by kandiikane(m): 8:48pm On Feb 15, 2015
I do not understand why people are looking for faults. This lady could have been the best thing since sliced bread to him but maybe he just did not want to do anymore. It happens! It doesn't mean the woman was dirty or outspoken. It is not by force to be with someone if your heart is not there anymore, the woman's main concern is her child. The man needs to take responsibility. I am not that much familiar with naija law so those that know should answer instead of fishes for things the woman may have been doing which led to her being asked to leave. She does not care about your opinion but that of the law.
FashionRe: Are You Addicted To Fake Nails? by kandiikane(mod): 8:46pm On Feb 15, 2015
fredoooooo:
See these two thieves , no be una Maga go pay for the nails grin grin
lol, you wan join pay?
FashionRe: Are You Addicted To Fake Nails? by kandiikane(mod): 8:37pm On Feb 15, 2015
Which one the d-day or price?

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