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Shollypopzz:I hope I am not included in this particular post because I am not one who takes male abuse lightly as seen in many of my posts on this forum. I wrote what I wrote because from what I read from the guy who opened the thread it seemed he was actually making a mockery of abused men like they normally do on nl rather than actually bringing awareness. A title can state one thing and the content another. |
Shollypopzz:I'm sorry how exactly is it speculation when the evidence is in his post? Anyone can share a story but when such a sensitive story starts turning into something por.nographic then one has to ask whether the story is to really help others or help perverts. Yes, others have shared their stories but it still doesn't change the fact that there is more to the original post than just bringing awareness. |
rugged7:This is what happens in some abuse cases, people tend to repress the traumatic experience and have no recollection of what happens next. I think it's like a coping mechanism but as you grow older the abuse does affect you even if you don't realise it's the cause of your problems due to the fact that you have blocked it out. |
fellis:lol I am not angry, just annoyed as I was expecting to read on how being abused has affected him especially as an adult. Bringing awareness to the fact that men too can be abused and it is wrong even if you "enjoyed" it.. But No, it was a sex story you would probably find on po.rn sites. |
I am sorry this thread is bullshyt, a joke and I believe it is some kind of a paedophilia story to turn some people on. If this was a genuine story about abuse there will be no need in describing exactly how your pen!s was stroked as a child and how the maid's vag!na smelt. Well done! You have fulfilled the dreams of perverts for today. Shame on you! To those who have been abused and still suffering from it, It shall be well. |
remsonik:so you don't want to be defined by a particular object on your waist given to you by a loved one but rather by what outsiders and strangers think and say about you. Wow, the logic mehn! It is much more sadder and lonelier to live a life defined by others than living a life of doing something or having something that makes you happy. Atleast, when you are being laughed at for having a tattoo you are doing something you like but what happens when you as a crowd pleaser fall short of pleasing the crowd? I would like to see the self worth and esteem then, when your back bone decides to turn on you(It always does, tomorrow your backbone could decide your big azz is not in vogue anymore) At least a waist bead doesn't turn against you. It does its best to make your waist look nice, improving your already lowered esteem caused by society. |
Creamish:@dotwillis1, the bolded is what you call a conformist, society's azzlicker. Ediotic and very ignorant thread! |
rokiatu:seriously? They got you too? ![]() |
Dotwillis1:How exactly are they conformists? In what sense? |
moderatorr1:1. The post did mentioned 13 students being infected and it came to light when [b]one of the victims [/b]fell ill. It is possible she had never had any other sex.ual activity after the teacher hence the blame being placed on the teacher and with a bit of investigation, the other 12 victims came out. It is possible the victim who fell ill knew the other 12 and could have easily located them to confirmed her story of being abused so she won't be stoned to death for fornication or whatever laws they have over there. 2. Teacher doesn't have to be sick for someone he infected to be sick. once he infects someone it is now up to the person's body to fight it and if you have a weaker immune system, symptoms will show up quicker. 3. Aids can take years to develop. 4. Many sex.ually assaulted people do not tell others especially those living in environments where sex is fraud upon and the victim is seen as a source of shame. However, I don't normally take these blog stories seriously but you must have been smiling when you posted your ignorant comment. This is not an insult because you are indeed ignorant about HIV and abused victims. |
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mcdokwe:Speaking from experience, you waiting for time won't change the situation, unless you want to wait until your daughter is at an age where she just doesn't care who her father is then fine, that is your decision to make. When she is in her better elements? She should be a better mother constantly not when her jinn comes off her. Anyhow, it is up to you whether you want to be in your daughter's life from the start or midway through her life. |
mcdokwe:Why not take her to court? Do not make this an excuse to not be a father to your child. You probably don't want to cause anymore issues by going after her for the child but the woman might be ill, like bipolar or something. You need to make sure your child is with the right person mentally and emotionally. Your ex doesn't seem balanced in the head. I am not saying to take the child away but make sure he/she is in your life and don't feel sorry for the mother if the child has to be in your custody, your child's health and wellbeing is more important than anything. |
you're making excuses for her. |
ronald4lif:A woman should never be ok with being second best, if you can't be first choice, there are other men who would want you as first choice. Do not settle for less. |
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babyosisi:Lol... |
There is no evidence that a baby will be trumatised by parents having sex. They won't even remember or know what is going on. Only time you should be concerned is when they start asking questions about what's going on. |
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searching4love:are you oK? You derive joy from "belting" ? Grow up! A woman is not a child you can just lay your hands on to try and discipline her. You have no right to put your hands on any adult you did not give birth to. |
Gloriagee:I actually believe the 90percent. Women love to raise their hands and open their mouths too quick. Women resort to violence more than men but the men won't know that it is domestic violence because there is no such thing as husband beater in our society. It is seen as a joke for a woman to beat a man, so it isn't taken seriously, people just laugh at it. Plus, many times women don't actually pummel the guys, just slaps and hits, may not seem major to what the men usually do to women due to size and strength differences but still violence is violence and abuse is abuse no matter how small. |
SAMBARRY:Lol.... |
chibic:Stop deceiving yourself. Since we are being superficial, i hope you are not talking about nigeria, With all the stuff you say about nigerian women? Unless you have money you won't breathe the same air as a young and beautiful woman. And don't come bullshyting us because the likelihood of being a rich man in nigerian is like 0.00001. The thing is many nigerian men have nothing to offer at that age, it's not like they look like George Clooney, all they have going on is a pot belly and very strong BO( maybe an exaggeration but trying to prove a point here) Case example: what exactly has this man got to offer this woman? Money https://i.cdnnaij.com/o/gW3ZQLL2fuPQiJzcwfJvkyZX.jpg This? Good genes maybe? Naah, money! [img]http://1.bp..com/-yUE5vo_r-dY/VCQY3hsBjLI/AAAAAAABKdQ/mxP_SNOdMsE/s1600/ByUqA_3CUAAxU5A.jpg[/img] Now, a young woman can marry will Smith or George Clooney even without their money because they are good looking older men that don't make their stomach churn. Same way, a young man can marry jada pinkett, lola omotayo etc. many of those who live in poverty do so because there is no other way out and the only way is to marry an older man to help them, uneducated women or those forced into marriages. No, you cannot get a good and beautiful woman with good genes at anytime. you can only get a 50 naira ashawo you won't want to be seen with in public at anytime. It is easier for women to get a younger stronger good looking man because they can do so without money. They are on average more attractive than men. Our society hasn't really opened up to older women dating younger men that is why you don't see many cases of it. It's not because they cannot get them. Check back at secondary school even, the amount of guys that reminisce about having a crush on a teacher and many still carry on. With men, you guys aren't so lucky, not everyone is blessed with huge pockets. I am not trying to dampen anyone's spirit or make this a guy vs woman issue but people should be honest with themselves. An average older man won't just go out and pick up an attractive young woman just like that. Obviously, you won't understand until you get to that age But before then I hope you find a woman that you will be spending your life with at that age and not you trying to cradle rob. |
Awwh, so cute. |
It has nothing to do with circumcision since she still has sensation outside the vagina. It is possible it's just her naturally, some women don't have much sensation inside their va.gina- insensitive va.gina. If she stops thinking about the circumcision as the problem she will be able to have a great sex life with help ofcourse. She needs to change her mindset. It could also be that her va.gina is naturally looser so she doesn't get to feel or get a grip of the guy. She should go to a good gynecologist to specifically find out the problem and when the problem is found, find a good sex therapist. There are many things she can do to heightened her sensitivity inside there. |
jnrbayano:na prostitution? |
funmilayoB:Copy the link and the paste it inside the img code. The button after the red A. |
This thread is full of stup!d!ty, I wonder if it is actually real adults typing or just young teens. Smh |
stupor:Which America? Be specific because when you say America this is what comes to mind.
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deebrain:I don't care about the rest of the paragraphs because they are contradictory to your first paragraph. You specifically said "is it not to sleep with her, take her out etc. What else but her body?" You went on to contradict yourself by saying the value of a lady is not how much is spent on her, oh sorry, the value of a lady is her body. You don't see anything else except her body and spending on her yet you say she should see more to that. A very silly logic. Your idea of getting a woman is to do the first paragraph, you will only attract women who expect that from men as proof of their undying love. Start spending because you want to and without any intention of getting anything out of it. Don't spend on women because you are insecure and feel like the only way to get them Is to buy them out. Stop seeing women as prostitutes that you must pay to be with. With this, you will find women who know that their values aren't instilled in the pockets of men. |
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