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FamilyRe: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 10:37pm On Mar 03, 2015
Shollypopzz:
Seriously, what is y'all's problem?

Do you have any proof that their stories are fake?

You are one of the problems. Always finding ways to make fun of r*ape victims who are males. Do not ever accuse a r*ape victim of lying when you don't have proof.

You come off as insensitive and extremely ignorant.
I hope I am not included in this particular post because I am not one who takes male abuse lightly as seen in many of my posts on this forum.

I wrote what I wrote because from what I read from the guy who opened the thread it seemed he was actually making a mockery of abused men like they normally do on nl rather than actually bringing awareness. A title can state one thing and the content another.
FamilyRe: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 10:26pm On Mar 03, 2015
Shollypopzz:
All speculations undecided

You cannot tell anyone how to share his or her story. A lot more males have come forward to share their experience, thanks to this thread. So, you should be thanking the op, not shaming him.
I'm sorry how exactly is it speculation when the evidence is in his post?

Anyone can share a story but when such a sensitive story starts turning into something por.nographic then one has to ask whether the story is to really help others or help perverts.

Yes, others have shared their stories but it still doesn't change the fact that there is more to the original post than just bringing awareness.
FamilyRe: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 9:49pm On Mar 03, 2015
rugged7:
Thanks for sharing your story.
I know a lot of men will abuse u and say men can't be abused/raped by a woman, but i understand where ur coming from.
My story is slightly different...
I was quite young, and in my case, i had a much older auntie who would lie face down and ask me to climb ontop of her nyash.
I have a mental block of what happened subsequently but i can't recall that it went beyond that.
This is what happens in some abuse cases, people tend to repress the traumatic experience and have no recollection of what happens next. I think it's like a coping mechanism but as you grow older the abuse does affect you even if you don't realise it's the cause of your problems due to the fact that you have blocked it out.
FamilyRe: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 9:36pm On Mar 03, 2015
fellis:
Lololol grin Correct girl grin. OP is just a sad human being no need to get angry over his behaviour, just pity him.
lol I am not angry, just annoyed as I was expecting to read on how being abused has affected him especially as an adult. Bringing awareness to the fact that men too can be abused and it is wrong even if you "enjoyed" it.. But No, it was a sex story you would probably find on po.rn sites.
FamilyRe: Child Molestation - I Was Molested Twice As A Kid by kandiikane(m): 9:24pm On Mar 03, 2015
I am sorry this thread is bullshyt, a joke and I believe it is some kind of a paedophilia story to turn some people on.

If this was a genuine story about abuse there will be no need in describing exactly how your pen!s was stroked as a child and how the maid's vag!na smelt.

Well done! You have fulfilled the dreams of perverts for today.

Shame on you!

To those who have been abused and still suffering from it, It shall be well.
RomanceRe: Why Are Most Tattooed Nigerian Ladies Aggressively Rude, Unreliable&Promiscuous? by kandiikane(m): 12:26pm On Mar 03, 2015
remsonik:
You are right about this one. I only need to check a persons facebook page before adding as a friend or check your tweets before following you.
Most people say that's not who I am but if you constantly have to defend your actions which other people see as disgusting and offensive then that's who you are.I have seen scenarios where tattooed/pierced people are denied jobs,rejected by inlaws.
My ex once gave me a waistchain and insisted he ties it on my waist and I must always wear it. That same week I broke up with him, why? because I dont like it and wont want to be defined by it.
so you don't want to be defined by a particular object on your waist given to you by a loved one but rather by what outsiders and strangers think and say about you.

Wow, the logic mehn! It is much more sadder and lonelier to live a life defined by others than living a life of doing something or having something that makes you happy. Atleast, when you are being laughed at for having a tattoo you are doing something you like but what happens when you as a crowd pleaser fall short of pleasing the crowd? I would like to see the self worth and esteem then, when your back bone decides to turn on you(It always does, tomorrow your backbone could decide your big azz is not in vogue anymore)

At least a waist bead doesn't turn against you. It does its best to make your waist look nice, improving your already lowered esteem caused by society.
RomanceRe: Why Are Most Tattooed Nigerian Ladies Aggressively Rude, Unreliable&Promiscuous? by kandiikane(m): 12:08pm On Mar 03, 2015
Creamish:
Seems ur more comfortable living ur life based on wat ppl decide is best for u. R u a crowd pleaser? Indecent dressing is diff from tatts. Ur talking bout pple wit tatts having attitude. Ur profile pix says "church boy" but ur posts here are not totally "churcheous". So let's not go there.

Believe it or not, attitude comes from within since ur concern bothers on attitude. I may b dressed poorly but I speak wisdom. For some ppl, their appearance isnt far from who they rily are but u'd b wrong to say same for most ppl. I doubt UV had an encounter wit a reasonable number of tattooed babes to justify ur thoughts.

As per checking pics or comments to know who someone is, d fact dat u had to include comments means ur looking beyond d physical appearance. This is a faceless forum. U need more Dan pictures to know someone if ur rily interested in d person.

UV not met my tattooed friends... wink
@dotwillis1, the bolded is what you call a conformist, society's azzlicker.


Ediotic and very ignorant thread!
RomanceRe: Why Are Most Tattooed Nigerian Ladies Aggressively Rude, Unreliable&Promiscuous? by kandiikane(m): 12:02pm On Mar 03, 2015
rokiatu:
Poster is actually right.

Especially black girls with tattoos.
seriously? They got you too? undecided
RomanceRe: Why Are Most Tattooed Nigerian Ladies Aggressively Rude, Unreliable&Promiscuous? by kandiikane(m): 11:58am On Mar 03, 2015
Dotwillis1:
Not only r they ill-mannered, promiscuous, they r the most boring conformist chicks you will ever come across. They r aggresively dull as dirt! ...assaulting yhu with the most hackneyed left-wing tripe yhu will ever hear

buh lol, tosyn be ready for war with dhiz ya thread o
How exactly are they conformists? In what sense?
CrimeRe: 13 Students Infected With HIV As Teacher ‘practicalises’ Biology In Adamawa by kandiikane(m): 12:00am On Mar 03, 2015
moderatorr1:
FALSE story by OP and the Girl in Question
1.There is no mention of the 13 students in the post

2. Teacher isnt sick but student is sick

3. Student was molested 8 years ago and became sick from HIV this year hmmm very inspirational

4. Student didn't report then, na now wey devil don catch am

Tell me something else
1. The post did mentioned 13 students being infected and it came to light when [b]one of the victims [/b]fell ill.
It is possible she had never had any other sex.ual activity after the teacher hence the blame being placed on the teacher and with a bit of investigation, the other 12 victims came out. It is possible the victim who fell ill knew the other 12 and could have easily located them to confirmed her story of being abused so she won't be stoned to death for fornication or whatever laws they have over there.

2. Teacher doesn't have to be sick for someone he infected to be sick. once he infects someone it is now up to the person's body to fight it and if you have a weaker immune system, symptoms will show up quicker.


3. Aids can take years to develop.

4. Many sex.ually assaulted people do not tell others especially those living in environments where sex is fraud upon and the victim is seen as a source of shame.


However, I don't normally take these blog stories seriously but you must have been smiling when you posted your ignorant comment. This is not an insult because you are indeed ignorant about HIV and abused victims.
CelebritiesRe: This Time, Who Is More Handsome Jim iyke Or Majid Michel by kandiikane(m): 3:50am On Mar 02, 2015
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FamilyRe: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by kandiikane(m): 4:10pm On Mar 01, 2015
mcdokwe:
I believe there could be a better way to get around that. My daughter couldn't have asked for a better mum when she is in her elements. I trust her with the child and hope with time I could get to play a fatherly role without recourse to unnecessary litigation.
Speaking from experience, you waiting for time won't change the situation, unless you want to wait until your daughter is at an age where she just doesn't care who her father is then fine, that is your decision to make. When she is in her better elements? She should be a better mother constantly not when her jinn comes off her. Anyhow, it is up to you whether you want to be in your daughter's life from the start or midway through her life.
FamilyRe: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by kandiikane(m): 3:55pm On Mar 01, 2015
mcdokwe:
I don't and it is my greatest regret.
My hitting her can never equate to the verbal, emotional and often physical abuse she subjected me to even though the later comes to nought as I am stronger than she is.

Believe, any man who loves you would wish that you are all laughter all the days of your life, but women often give room for that as narrated above. And had women more physical power than men, the male folks would have gone into extinction.
No man would be as stupid as to hit a woman for no cause.
Why not take her to court? Do not make this an excuse to not be a father to your child. You probably don't want to cause anymore issues by going after her for the child but the woman might be ill, like bipolar or something. You need to make sure your child is with the right person mentally and emotionally. Your ex doesn't seem balanced in the head. I am not saying to take the child away but make sure he/she is in your life and don't feel sorry for the mother if the child has to be in your custody, your child's health and wellbeing is more important than anything.
FamilyRe: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by kandiikane(m): 3:18pm On Feb 28, 2015
you're making excuses for her.
RomanceRe: What Do Ladies Mean By Saying, "Take Me As I Am"? by kandiikane(m): 6:49pm On Feb 27, 2015
ronald4lif:
Hmmm

I think any lady that says such is trying to convey a certain message, that she might not be your first choice, but she's a great choice.
A woman should never be ok with being second best, if you can't be first choice, there are other men who would want you as first choice. Do not settle for less.
HealthRe: Oranges With Positive HIV Aids Blood In It. by kandiikane(m): 11:31pm On Feb 26, 2015
A rumor that HIV-tainted oranges from Libya has circulated heavily this week on Facebook and Twitter. The story went viral after the photo below began circulating with the claim that the alleged oranges were found in Algeria. One caption reads, “The immigration services of Algeria recovered a large quantity of these oranges coming from Libya. These oranges were injected with positive tested Hiv & AIDS blood. Please share this msg & warn pelpe of d dangers involved.”

The source of this image is unknown, although it has been online for at least a few months. The allegation that HIV-laced oranges are circulating has been made with no sources or corroborating evidence. No major news sources have reported such a story.
HIV Transmission

The CDC notes that HIV does not survive long outside of the human body. It specifically addresses the question as to whether or not HIV can be spread via food.

Can I get HIV from food?

Except for rare cases in which children consumed food that was pre-chewed by an HIV-infected caregiver, HIV has not been spread through food. The virus does not live long outside the body. You cannot get it from consuming food handled by an HIV-infected person; even if the food contained small amounts of HIV-infected blood or semen, exposure to the air, heat from cooking, and stomach acid would destroy the virus.
Bottom Line

The rumor regarding HIV-injected oranges from Libya is unfounded. Further, the CDC has already established that HIV is not spread via food and does not live long outside of the human body.
http://wafflesatnoon.com/hiv-oranges-from-libya/
FamilyRe: Her Six Months Old Baby Gazes Sternly At Her During Sex- She's Worried. by kandiikane(m): 8:57pm On Feb 26, 2015
babyosisi:
Tell your husband to pull out his ojolima and get out there find a better job and move you out of a one room so the baby can have their own room or else you will be doing it soon with 5 kids watching.
Lol...
FamilyRe: Her Six Months Old Baby Gazes Sternly At Her During Sex- She's Worried. by kandiikane(m): 8:55pm On Feb 26, 2015
There is no evidence that a baby will be trumatised by parents having sex. They won't even remember or know what is going on. Only time you should be concerned is when they start asking questions about what's going on.
CelebritiesRe: Emma Nyra Wins Worst Dressed Female Celebrity Award by kandiikane(m):
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RomanceRe: Signs Of A Potential Wife-Beater by kandiikane(m): 4:22pm On Feb 26, 2015
searching4love:
undecided



I WILL NEVER BLAME ANY MAN WHO BEATS HIS WOMAN. WOMEN ARE NATURALLY STUBBORN AND GOD MADE THEIR DISOBEDIENCE SIMILAR TO THAT OF A GOAT. YOU NEED TO BELT THEM AND NOT JUST BELT BUT THE IRON BUCKLES WILL RESTORE STUBBORN GIRLS TO DEFAULT cool
are you oK? You derive joy from "belting" ? Grow up! A woman is not a child you can just lay your hands on to try and discipline her. You have no right to put your hands on any adult you did not give birth to.
FamilyRe: How To Know A Husband Beater And Abuser by kandiikane(m): 4:14pm On Feb 26, 2015
Gloriagee:
I'm not sure I need to explain my thot process to u but since u asked.... His claim that The rate of domestic violence pepertrated by women is at an all time high. By some calculations as high as 90% is plain ridiculous IMO. Not sure I have the energy for people who cook up statistics, abeg
I actually believe the 90percent. Women love to raise their hands and open their mouths too quick. Women resort to violence more than men but the men won't know that it is domestic violence because there is no such thing as husband beater in our society. It is seen as a joke for a woman to beat a man, so it isn't taken seriously, people just laugh at it. Plus, many times women don't actually pummel the guys, just slaps and hits, may not seem major to what the men usually do to women due to size and strength differences but still violence is violence and abuse is abuse no matter how small.
FamilyRe: (men Only)ladies Please Don't Open by kandiikane(m): 4:01pm On Feb 26, 2015
SAMBARRY:
Child abusers on the prowl undecided


IN the guise of play now when eyes are not around he will put his phenese inside the child's mouth
Lol....
FamilyRe: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by kandiikane(m): 4:54pm On Feb 25, 2015
chibic:
are you insinuating that men are desperate for marriage more than women? Stop decieving yourself!! If any man sent you a pm or promises marriage,he's only trying to take advantage of the fact that women are easily decieved with marriage talks to get you laid.you think men are really that desperate about commitments? Pfft! What they want is your p.uss.sy and after that,you'll start opening threads to complain that you were used and dumped.

[b]Even at 40 or 50,a man, whether a widow or divorcee can still marry a young and beautiful girl of his choic[/b]e.so, that marriage thing no dey worry men.the only thing that worries men is how to make a good money.as for women,we can get them any time.but you cannot say the same for women,once you are above 30,problem don start and desperation will set in.she'll start making mistakes and falling for the wrong people.if she reach 40,smh case closed.just don't make mockery of men when it comes to marriage issue because we have it under control.we marries when we wishes but you cannot marry when you wish,except when a man proposes.
Stop deceiving yourself. Since we are being superficial, i hope you are not talking about nigeria, With all the stuff you say about nigerian women? Unless you have money you won't breathe the same air as a young and beautiful woman. And don't come bullshyting us because the likelihood of being a rich man in nigerian is like 0.00001. The thing is many nigerian men have nothing to offer at that age, it's not like they look like George Clooney, all they have going on is a pot belly and very strong BO( maybe an exaggeration but trying to prove a point here)

Case example: what exactly has this man got to offer this woman? Money
https://i.cdnnaij.com/o/gW3ZQLL2fuPQiJzcwfJvkyZX.jpg

This? Good genes maybe? Naah, money!
[img]http://1.bp..com/-yUE5vo_r-dY/VCQY3hsBjLI/AAAAAAABKdQ/mxP_SNOdMsE/s1600/ByUqA_3CUAAxU5A.jpg[/img]


Now, a young woman can marry will Smith or George Clooney even without their money because they are good looking older men that don't make their stomach churn.

Same way, a young man can marry jada pinkett, lola omotayo etc.

many of those who live in poverty do so because there is no other way out and the only way is to marry an older man to help them, uneducated women or those forced into marriages.

No, you cannot get a good and beautiful woman with good genes at anytime. you can only get a 50 naira ashawo you won't want to be seen with in public at anytime.

It is easier for women to get a younger stronger good looking man because they can do so without money. They are on average more attractive than men. Our society hasn't really opened up to older women dating younger men that is why you don't see many cases of it. It's not because they cannot get them. Check back at secondary school even, the amount of guys that reminisce about having a crush on a teacher and many still carry on. With men, you guys aren't so lucky, not everyone is blessed with huge pockets.

I am not trying to dampen anyone's spirit or make this a guy vs woman issue but people should be honest with themselves. An average older man won't just go out and pick up an attractive young woman just like that. Obviously, you won't understand until you get to that age But before then I hope you find a woman that you will be spending your life with at that age and not you trying to cradle rob.
FamilyRe: My Beautiful Baby Girl (photos) by kandiikane(m): 3:27pm On Feb 25, 2015
Awwh, so cute.
CelebritiesRe: Why I Dont Even Enjoy Sex Is Because I Am Circumcised - Linda Ikeji Reveals It by kandiikane(m): 3:03pm On Feb 25, 2015
It has nothing to do with circumcision since she still has sensation outside the vagina. It is possible it's just her naturally, some women don't have much sensation inside their va.gina- insensitive va.gina. If she stops thinking about the circumcision as the problem she will be able to have a great sex life with help ofcourse. She needs to change her mindset. It could also be that her va.gina is naturally looser so she doesn't get to feel or get a grip of the guy. She should go to a good gynecologist to specifically find out the problem and when the problem is found, find a good sex therapist. There are many things she can do to heightened her sensitivity inside there.
RomanceRe: Do Guys Like This Really Exist? by kandiikane(m): 2:11pm On Feb 25, 2015
jnrbayano:
Yes there are.

But;

....don't seduce them
....don't demand for money

If you do the above two you may have given them the reason to ask for it.
na prostitution?
FamilyRe: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by kandiikane(m): 9:44pm On Feb 24, 2015
funmilayoB:
how can i use it? it just displaying the link
Copy the link and the paste it inside the img code. The button after the red A.
FamilyRe: Will You Allow Your Wife Use intimacy gadgets When You Are Away? by kandiikane(m): 4:56pm On Feb 24, 2015
This thread is full of stup!d!ty, I wonder if it is actually real adults typing or just young teens. Smh
CelebritiesRe: Ageless Beauty: 60 Year Old Woman Looks 18 Without Plastic Surgery! (Photos) by kandiikane(m): 4:48pm On Feb 24, 2015
stupor:
She's' looking very young and good to go !

Asians normally have healthy diet system like the Americans and

*A healthy nation is a wealthy nation !
(I am not a Doctor)
Which America? Be specific because when you say America this is what comes to mind.

CelebritiesRe: ''Can You Afford A Girl Like Me?' - Skales' GF Blasts Wizkid & Haters On Twitter by kandiikane(m): 2:04pm On Feb 24, 2015
deebrain:
STORIES.


kindly read the three paragraphs again and understand my point.

The first paragraph was more of an introduction-the general point unknowingly made by a lady when she uses the "can you afford me" line.

The paragraph also states the general actions an average guy would take (ofcourse prompted by the said test of the guy's ego by such statement) to impress the lady and show he is man enough.

Now, connect a phone charger. Put the charging port inside your ears and charge your brain for three hours.

Revise the three paragraphs once more and you will understand.

Thanks.
I don't care about the rest of the paragraphs because they are contradictory to your first paragraph.

You specifically said "is it not to sleep with her, take her out etc. What else but her body?" You went on to contradict yourself by saying the value of a lady is not how much is spent on her, oh sorry, the value of a lady is her body.

You don't see anything else except her body and spending on her yet you say she should see more to that. A very silly logic. Your idea of getting a woman is to do the first paragraph, you will only attract women who expect that from men as proof of their undying love.

Start spending because you want to and without any intention of getting anything out of it. Don't spend on women because you are insecure and feel like the only way to get them Is to buy them out. Stop seeing women as prostitutes that you must pay to be with. With this, you will find women who know that their values aren't instilled in the pockets of men.

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