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Lol, me cook? I didn't oo. We argued over his definition of what my role should be and I was just sooo pissed off. Just had to go have a drag because I was shaking all over.

They sound so patronising when they bring up that rubbish and it just grinds on me.

Lol, do I even have time to eat in the morning? It was him that wanted stew, jare.

I've started taking felvin, it's actually very quick and works wonders. I don't know what's in it. Just found huge loads of packets in my friend's bag.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]I'll post my hair pix today, combed out and not curly.

Girl, wait in anticipation for the queen's picture.

I know MzD is the most excited one of my fans. Opening picture wills start at 7pm Eastern time. [/quote]Damn, did I miss it?

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]Best questions ever!!

It's not even about being a good wife or not, it's common sense. So many cavemen in/from Nigeria with cavemen mentality. It's beginning to disgust me.[/quote]I know right!

I remember one time I had an argument over this same issue. Early morning, I only just woke up oo and he said he's going to cook stew. I said ok. I got ready went to meet him in the kitchen to help him and he's like I should actually be the one doing the cooking. Going on about my role as a woman blah di blah!

I mean, like what the hell? What was wrong in him doing it?

seunajia: Kandi
Hide ID ke? Lol

Let me put it this way, I'm the best of both worlds. I'd like a babe that won't be perturbed by the charade called feminism and at the same time be independent (Educationist are make good wives eg mama! ) Let's not deceive ourselves, it is not easy for a woman to juggle her "career" and her gender role on the home front.

All this career woman BS is foreign. The end result is usually we ending up as absentee parents and having morally decadent children; junkies, crack heads, derelicts etc.

You wonder why women have so many health issues these days?-- Depression, bipolar and eating disorders etc--its because of the pressure they face!

I dread having a banker as a spouse, I dream of leaving my children to my babe. She has better skills, naturally, to manage them and the home.

I'm becoming verbose Kandi. I hope you get my drift. Be good!

PS: I love cooking and won't mind cooking or helping out with other household chores when time permits. After all, I did all those as a bachelor. Most importantly, I would want to set good examples for the children and to encourage the missus.

Heeey!

Listen, I don't consider myself a feminist. I'm actually more traditional than people think. I have nothing against a woman cooking but what I'm against is men who sit on their azzes and dictate the roles of women. E.g. A woman should be in the kitchen because that's her job and the men should be out their working. We have moved on from that age.

We have more men nowadays who are not taking care of their responsibilities as fathers or partners, we get women who work 24/7 to put food on the table and provide for their familÝ.

We don't need you to tell us what we need to do. We are our own person and we'll decide whether we want to be in the kitchen or get a maid to cook for the household whilst at work.

Forget that notion about a career woman being foreign. By saying it's foreign shows a backward mentality and you not wanting to progress forward. Even in Africa we are getting more women doing jobs that were supposedly a man's job.

Just because a wife or female partner is not at home cooking you a meal doesn't mean they are incapable of looking after their family. Just because they find a cook to help cook doesn't meal they are incapable of looking after their family. They are capable that's why they can afford a maid to cook. It's silly for someone to actually think such because it's not the lack of culinary skills which makes one a bad parent.

Women who are out there working still bring up children who come out with stars not junkies or such and such. Lack of cooking or her having a career won't mean her children will turn out bad.

I'm single now and I cook for myself when I feel like it. I will cook if I'm with my partner but it's not because it's my 'role' but because I'm hungry and because I feel like it. I don't need him to wake me up and ask me to cook, I will ask him, "what about you? Did they chop your hands?"

If I 'marry' and im at work but my husband is home, why shouldn't he cook?

What pisses me off is when parents tell their female children they have to learn to cook for their husbands. No, no, no! You have to learn for yourself first, not for anyone. This should include both male and female.

Who says she will marry sef? Probably will still be 40 and not married. Parents should be teaching their children how to survive in life instead of teaching them about to make someone else survive.

Crazy thing.

uzoo: @kandiikane

Seriously, you're a Guy?

Transgender.

seunajia: Kandi Kandi Kandi

The traditional role of a woman is managing her home, this also includes cooking delicious meals for the family, No? What's your opinion on this? And please don't come up with the career woman BS

Lol, who yÓu be sef? Which Id are you hiding?

Traditional my foot! You definitely dey inside stone age. I've done the career woman bs in mý previous post so no need.

Seunnaija, can you not cook delicious meals?

seunajia: Please tell me you were kidding? Please?
Career woman abi?

And why would I be kidding? Are you part of the stone age men too.

gmyguy: all em ladies justifying the inability to cook, should remember the fastest way to a man's heart is through his stomach...that is a quote by a wise man...heed it.

Stop chatting shyt and fooling yourself with that clique.

We all know the fastest way to a man's heart is the thing between the woman's legs.

ItsModella: Everyday, I absolutely cannot do without it. Anything that has a bit of transparency, phone screens, glasses, computer... Gotta take a break and check out my fabulous self

Lol!

Ok, this one is definitely for vanity reasons.

stagger: My friend, just as every house has a foundation, there are basics for every relationship. Women are the home makers, men are the breadwinners. Any home where this is not the case is going against the laws of nature and there will be innumerable problems.

See this? You are still living in the stone age abi? Have you not seen the way the world is today, oh, you think it's still in the stone age like your self? Unless, you want an uneducated woman these your so-called laws of nature won't work with modern, educated women who are also working their azzes off to do things you cannot do out in the work places. Don't even try a rebuttal because the same way you might come from a 9 to 5 tired is the same way a woman would. P.s, not every work person works the cliqued 9 to 5, many work 24/7. That's why many resort to helpers.

If parents taught these men how to cook in the first place, we won't get them thinking the world has ended just because one doesn't know how to make egusi.

*drops mic*

strangest: I have a feeling that you can't cook.. Just a feeling

You can feel shyt for all I care..

... Mek I modify quick time sha.

^there you go.

2buff: They usually are.

I'm still waiting for you to carry me with those your steroid filled. Arms.

obowunmi: Are you paralyzed? You can't cook.

Thank you!!!

Imagine, acting as if the world has ended because his "fiancee" can't cook.

What rubbish! What about you? Were you born without hands and feet?

Rubbish!

Shaw007: Mehn. . .ugly bOiz full NL o!! No be small

the same way some ladies got you(me) wishing.like . . . Phew!!

....I bet you're the ugliest of them all.

tellwisdom: Just to encourage people like you to post more pics where u have g-strings ON

I want to see you in g-string, bent over.

rokiatu: That sucks.

I am rushing to born for two reasons,

1 bigger boobs

2 my period pain going away.

You know the bosoms will become smaller than they were once you stop breast feeding. All wrinkly and saggy. Awwh!

One day, one day.

beqs101: I like my man slim and athletic with six packs.u know wat I'm saying?*lol*

*thinks*

Neeeeh!

[quote author=Mrs..Chima]We both don't like fat on our bodies and we exercise together every morning. [/quote]Lool!

You know I've always had this images of you being overweight.

I don't know. If they have spas they should have the rest. Google or ask around.