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CelebritiesRe: Nigeria's Hairiest Woman Now On Social Media by kandiikane(m): 5:12am On Jan 31, 2015
I'm sorry but what's the point of wearing makeup here? undecided

Don't quote me, I am just a hater.
CelebritiesRe: Did Halima Abubakar Shade A Fan Who Made Mockery Of Her Dress On Instagram..see by kandiikane(m): 11:03pm On Jan 30, 2015
I don't you guys got it. I could be wrong but the "fan" may be implying that halima was lying about it being a Valentino dress hence the felentino comment.

Na my understanding be that sha.
CrimeRe: Very Graphic Photos Of An Alleged Cult Member Killed In Enugu State by kandiikane(m): 6:34pm On Jan 30, 2015
We have been desensitized so much that, people can easily see this and just waka pass or continue eating their food.
CelebritiesRe: Osita Iheme Visits Adoration Ministry, Strikes Pose With Priest & Mass Servants by kandiikane(m): 6:18pm On Jan 30, 2015
bigtt76:
Point of correction - A selfie is a photo taken by the owner of the phone or camera device of him or herself and not by someone else on behalf of the owner ....this is known as an biographical-selfie grin
Doesn't necessary have to be the owner of the device. I can use your phone to take a selfie. tongue cheesy
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m): 5:41pm On Jan 30, 2015
obowunmi:
Kandi, you sound like a punta.
Did you not quote me because you feared my reaction? Don't worry, catch me on a day when I am truly ready to go down that route, for now, heed to your own advice.
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m): 5:24pm On Jan 30, 2015
obowunmi:
You sound pained. Very pained. Thus thread is about Tuface, yet you keep stalking me around the forum.

Keep on. Keep on.
lol...if it makes you feel better.

Have a good day.
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m): 5:18pm On Jan 30, 2015
obowunmi:
You are adamant about showcasing your foolishness.

Who are you to judge Tuface when the women involved willingly agreed to carry his numerous babies.

You are not God, so take your judgemental foolishness off my thread.

Start your own if you must. Rubbish~
See, when you open a thread on this forum, anyone or anything can comment whatever they like. If you want certain people to not comment, please, put that frustrated energy of yours to good use and open one.

You are immature and easily fooled hence why you have been easily persuaded to think it is "cool" to be sleeping about and making babies anyhow without any repercussion.
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m): 4:47pm On Jan 30, 2015
obowunmi:
Hurt? no one on the Internet can hurt me. Just Showed YOUR IQ level, home training, and decorum.

You should be able to make your points without insults. Since you're not making any sense or valid points, insults are your best shot at attempting to sound normal.
Listen, if you can open a thread with such rubbish, I do know for sure I have a higher IQ than you.
If you can open a thread to say it is ok to have babies littered all over the place by different people, it shows I had a better home training than you.
There is no such thing as decorum in response to people like you opening a thread to write such rubbish.

I was not insulting anyone, only stating facts. Only frustrated young men looking for someone to have sex with will be endorsing the nonsense on this thread. I know for a fact that you are not married, neither do you have a girlfriend-you can deny it.

I expect my post to not make sense to a frustrated man and what exactly is normal? You endorsing bastard children? Fatherless kids? Not being content with one woman?
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m):
TV01:
Your pursue a point about the prevention of pregnancy, which correct in a sense, as it is what the State is concerned about. But the true issue is about the age/readiness for sex (and by impliction in some cultures the readiness for marriage).

The whole of Western culture predisposes children to sexual promiscuity and as I said the State winks/tacitly endoreses that. I don't see that as any better than a culture that practices teen marriage. In fact, I see it as worse. It's how you end up with issues like young children in Rotherham being used as sex slaves.

TV
I pursued the point of pregnancy because it was the point raised in regards to the link you posted. My initial post which you quoted was about the readiness and age for sex...

I disagree that the state endorses sex to teens, the uk endorses more freedom and gives more rights to children than other countries hence why it cannot force children to not have sex. That is not their job, their job is to stop adults from having sex with kids.
Majority of countries that mostly practice teen marriages are those which have been forced, only a few practice teen and teen.

I'm confused about how exactly does giving sexually active kid's contraception and protection relate to becoming sex slaves. That makes no sense at all. A case of teenage sex slaves is much more likely in places where the system is not strong enough to deter sexual abuse which tends to happen more in developing countries than developed countries. You are more likely to come across an adult who was abused as a child in a developing country more frequently than you would in a developed country

That is not even the point. My point is grown ass men knowing who they should be sleeping with and who they shouldn't be. Even if there aren't laws to state an age of consent, I wholehearted believe one would be able to decipher that it feels somehow wrong/different to sleep with a small child because their mental capacity has grown to know the difference between a grown woman to a child.

The only exception I would give abit of leeway to are unexposed cultures, those where a teenage boy or girl marry each other. At least, they still have not reached that full mental maturity where they know that they are not ready. But, where many are now being educated, there is no excuse at all.
Just because the government gives out condoms to kids does not mean it is ok to have sex with a kid. I would prefer a government that gives condoms to teens to prevent disease and pregnancy but makes an effort to stop adults from having sex with kids than a government that fails to protect the sexually active and barely lifts a finger to stop adults from having sex with kids.

There is a difference between a law being passed and a law being enforced.
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m): 3:51pm On Jan 30, 2015
obowunmi:
How childish of you. Make your points without throwing insults.
oh, so it hurt you that I referred to you as a frustrated man who is only looking for a woman to dispense his fluids in? For that to have hurt your feelings, it must be true, yes? Abeg, go face your life and try to make yourself a better man and a good and faithful husband to your future wife.
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m): 2:53pm On Jan 30, 2015
Sophyrocks:
Dnt mind this obowumi. How can someone ask who an irresponsible person is? Everyone was created by God to know what is right and wrong. we all have conscience but the difference in us all is how we make use of it, how strong and how weak it is in us. If as an adult you are still asking who an irresponsible person is, then i wonder if your moral compass still works at all. I asked him a simple question. will he be willing to give out his daughter to a man with 3 baby mamas and children especially when he proposes to his daughter while one of his baby mamas is pregnant? He refused to answer, beating around the bush because he knows that people judge issues better when chicken comes home to roost. I asked him that question for him to determine for himself who an irresponsible person is. I am sure a lady with kids for several men will be good for him as a wife, who knows, since he doesnt wanna judge.
lol leave them abeg, even if one was to get a wife who is ok with polygamy or cheating, the stress of it alone is not worth it. They think cheating or having a second wife is that easy to live with and do. I don't blame them, many of them are frustrated young men who cannot find a woman to dispense their fluids in hence the excitement for all that nonsense.
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m):
Timbuktou:
Stop being deliberately stewpid. In ancient times, people married at that age. It didn't kill them, they bore healthy children and those women were stronger than the "fully-developed" wimmins we have now.

Oh, please. Maybe you speak for your own slice of earth, in my neck of the woods that person is dead. And you can take that to the bank.
You are ignorant and will forever remain one
You should have been an illiterate. Do you know how many "women" died during child birth back in the day? Do you know how many pregnant kids die during childbirth especially in a developing country? Do you know how many babies die at birth? Do you know how many suffer from obstetric fistula? Do you know how damaged their reproductive organs are because they are yet to be fully developed? How many of them have access to condoms or birth control in Africa?
You don't want to sleep with a kid or have someone sleeping with your kid yet you are defending the action? Are you okay?
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m): 1:55pm On Jan 30, 2015
Timbuktou:
So, it's about biology then. What if the 13 year old has begun menstruating or is a menstrual veteran? What then?

If I travelled to Angola, I'd avail myself of well-developed women. wink. Sorry, I don't do below 18s.

In our part of the world, the only reason a pedophile would go free is if the crime was unknown. Don't insult my people, woman. angry

If I had a daughter I wouldn't even want her to be looked at at that age.
Don't be silly, at 13 even if both boobs are out plus consistent monthly flow, that does not mean their reproductive organs has finished growing.
Oh please, how many times have parents looked the other way when their kids have been raped or sexually abused because it's an embarrassed or it is something that must not be talked about.
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m):
TV01:
I agree with your premise , but it's not true. There are Western liberal nations that wink - if not outright legally endorse - at intercourse with children. Even if it's with one another. But morally, how can you argue for a mature adult to not have intercourse with a juvenile, if another juvenile can?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2736517/Children-young-12-given-contraceptive-implants-making-vulnerable-abuse-sexual-exploitation.html


TV
Can you specify exactly what is not true in my post?

This is not the case of endorsing intercourse but protecting those who have actually started doing it. Obviously, in general sense it will look like they are pushing young kids to have sex but for one, young kids do not think they shouldn't have sex because they can get pregnant, there are loads of different factors and non-factors were either their brain is just not ready for them to start thinking about how it would feel for a man to be in them or if they have 'boyfriends' they are either scared or even just not ready.
Pregnancy has always been the least of a 12 year old's concern, if it was, they won't have the highest rate of teen pregnancies hence why the government is pushing contraception to those that have started at 12.

A case of prevention is better than cure. The government can only do so much, the rest lies in the hands of us ordinary people who must ensure that there shouldn't be any reason to be sleeping with a 12 year old or a 12year old having sex to even need the implants.
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m): 1:08pm On Jan 30, 2015
obowunmi:
I asked Sophyrocks to define irresponsible and she couldnt?

Is not agreeing with someone's lifestyle and choices, make them irresponsible? If so, who made you the judge?
If you want the definition of irresponsible google is there to educate people.

I guess then there is no point in us having police and criminal or civil courts because who are we to make laws to judge people that kill, rape, steal, break contracts when we are not God. Let's scrap everything. People should be allowed to make choices that hurts and negatively impact the people around them or those they are in care of without fingers been pointed because who are we to judge! Nor be so?
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m):
Timbuktou:
In countries, where the age of consent is 12 would it be wrong to sleep with a 13 year old?
The only country I know of where the age of consent is 12 is angola and for the fact that I am educated about the female body, it is wrong and irresponsible regardless of what the age of consent says. What then stops that 40year old sleeping with a 9 year old who looks like the 12 year old?
In your mind now, if you travel to angola you are ok to toast a 12/13 year old who probably hasn't started menstruating yet with one boob still yet to grow?
Anyhow, I am not surprised when in our part of the world, you can easily have sex with a 5 year old and nothing fit happen to you. But I can assure you no normal thinking educated father would want someone sleeping with his 12 year old regardless of what the age of consent is.
FamilyRe: Must A Married Man Be Monogamous? by kandiikane(m): 12:35pm On Jan 30, 2015
obowunmi:
How is he irresponsible if the women consented to have babies with him? That's unfair.
this is no different to asking, how is a 40 year old irresponsible for sleeping with a 13 year old if she consents. Use your head joor, is it okay to kill a man because he asked you to?
CelebritiesRe: The Okoye's Wives 'peter,paul,and Jude' Stun In New Photo by kandiikane(m): 6:27am On Jan 30, 2015
The lady in white standing has a distinct look compared to the two sitting. It's Very lovely.
Christianity EtcRe: Female Aspiration For Presidency, Governorship A Taboo — Satguru Maharaj Ji by kandiikane(m): 12:01pm On Jan 29, 2015
ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] You for tell us say you and dat babalawo dey shia dey same compound and d same brain else you for no come dey ask me rubbish question. [/color]
nor mind am, na because e don grow 1 hair for him blokos na dat make e dey yarn dust anyhow.
FamilyRe: Sex Secrets Of Nigerian Wife In The US Uploaded To Youtube by kandiikane(m): 1:57am On Jan 29, 2015
pDude:
I said I don't wanna propagate PORN. angry
You did though, described what went on and all. Gave a mental image. smiley

@dataloss, lol ok no worries.
FamilyRe: Sex Secrets Of Nigerian Wife In The US Uploaded To Youtube by kandiikane(m): 1:25am On Jan 29, 2015
pDude:
Yes I have it. But I can't send it cos I don't like propagating porn online. Tell someone else to send it to you
You don't want to propagate it "online" whatever that means but you posted a whole 3D picture of her? If you want to form good, the content shouldn't have been on here neither should her pic. You have already propagated it, anyhow tata. wink
FamilyRe: Sex Secrets Of Nigerian Wife In The US Uploaded To Youtube by kandiikane(m): 1:13am On Jan 29, 2015
pDude:
Nna na wa o grin cheesy

The video isn't interesting though it is very clear. Two nasty elderly people getting it on doesn't make very good entertainment. But it's your choice tho.
grin
Do you have it? I have always wondered what two elderly Africans would look like. I am curious.
FamilyRe: Sex Secrets Of Nigerian Wife In The US Uploaded To Youtube by kandiikane(m): 1:01am On Jan 29, 2015
datalossvictim1:
The video wasn't that intersting undecided well depending on the size you're into. It featured a very chubby aunty looking Nigerian with an uncle looking Nigerian(suprised he's an AA). Back shots were given grin jobs were done too grin

I came across the video from my very corrupt best friend cheesy cc: grin I'll spare you today tongue
Where is it? cheesy
FashionRe: Fashion Section Chatroom by kandiikane(mod): 6:21pm On Jan 27, 2015
joywendy:
hello kandiikane. nice work here. smiley

is there a way i can talk to you personally?
Hey you can email me and we can take it from there.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Lacks Will To Crush Boko Haram, Buhari Tells Kerry by kandiikane(m): 3:22pm On Jan 27, 2015
imsuboi:
and have you washed your yeast infested pvssy since last year?

I bet the odor oozing from down there would be enough to knock an entire city out.

You're fond of attacking people anyhow on NL without countering their points intellectually.

Better get a life! You worthless piece of _shit!
angry
yeast doesn't really make down there smell, just very itchy and sore.....just in case for next time.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan Lacks Will To Crush Boko Haram, Buhari Tells Kerry by kandiikane(m): 3:19pm On Jan 27, 2015
berem:
have you brushed your teeth this morning? Please do so fast and stop spreading bacteria on this thread.
lol
FamilyRe: Sex Secrets Of Nigerian Wife In The US Uploaded To Youtube by kandiikane(m): 3:41am On Jan 27, 2015
CoolKizzy:
everybody saying a thing or the other, no one giving us link to see the video for ourselves, make Una calm down abeg. **waka commot in Mr Ibu style**
Abi!
FashionRe: Ladies: Share Pictures Of Your Natural Hair Here by kandiikane(mod): 11:27am On Jan 26, 2015
chidyhels:
As in , Is her mother and father from Nigeria
long hair isn't a Negroid feature
don't be ignorant. If many naturals decided to straighten their hair today, you will take back that shyt you just spewed.
FamilyRe: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by kandiikane(m): 10:05am On Jan 26, 2015
marquiseT:
From your 'story' it sounds like one..the problem is not that you hooked up with your spouse very close friend,which shows you lack respect for your wife and lack of self control too, your problem is that you got caught...you obviously do not see anything wrong with what you did,you just hate that you got caught.
And how will everyone make excuse for a full grown man like you,from its your wives fault for bringing her friend home to help her nurse YOUR baby,to its wunmis fault for been endowed with a 42DD and definitely mamas fault for being in the wrong place and spoiling your fun.
Would it be too much for your wife to expect you to control your blokos in presence of her 42DD girlfriend.
I don't know why some men will have gold but still prefer to chase stones..
madam, you talk well. Everyone is calling for wunmi's head but what they don't know is that she has nothing to lose. The man on the other hand has everything to lose and he should have made sure he controlled himself and respected himself. I just don't understand how hard it is for someone to say no because I am sure the wife's breast looks better than the 42DD when the bra comes off.

42DDs anyone?
https://demandware.edgesuite.net/aaep_prd/on/demandware.static/Sites-1Plus_CA-Site/Sites-1Plus-master-catalog/default/v1381125204116/images/large/additionelle_719408_22_0.jpg

Op what's your wife's size? I think you were just being a glutton and you should pay for disrespecting your wife in her home.
HealthRe: High Cost Of Female Condom Affects Its Availability, Distribution – UNAIDS by kandiikane(m): 1:26am On Jan 26, 2015
profjustine:
It is essential to ensure that more counterfeited
female condoms do not swamp genuine ones.
We should also guard against Nigeria being
used as a guinea-pig for all sorts of invention
and innovation by capitalist nations. At the last
count, the United Kingdom has the highest
teenage pregnancy in Europe despite the free
availability of all forms of contraceptive devices
under their national health service. Nigeria
should think of its own brand of sex education
rather than copying everything the west does
or constituting a laboratory for all sorts of
experiment.
oh please, the reason why you don't hear about teenage pregnancies is because majority of pregnancy cases are unaccounted and many are also married off early.
P.s, the condoms have been around for a while and I guess it's this Nigerian brand of sex education that has been preventing people from getting HIV.

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