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coogar: oh shut up with your council flat language. where do you think you are, you old cargo?

Lol, what? Like I said stop speaking out of your azz.

who chastises single mothers? biko, speak for yourself......

Well, pardon me if I assumed you are a hypocrite.

you must have been born in the wrong century. women with feminist views have long figured this out & they have concluded a woman needs a man in the same capacity as a fish needs a bicycle. you are behind the curve.

Why don't you read once in a while rather than makeu up nonsense from hearsay

what kinda gutter reasoning is this?
so regardless of the amount a man is making, he cannot tell his wife to stop working & take care of the home front? why won't you think like this when the majority of the men you roll with are on minimum wage?

Stop making up shyt! I don't 'roll' with men. I roll with myself. I am going to point out where you contradicted yourself later on. Why would any sensible man tell his wife to stop working and stay at home? Only a control freak and a thoughless man will say such a thing. Hell, i am sure even bill gates made sure his wife had something going for herself because he knows he isn't really going to leaving his hard earned money for her.

listen to me & listen good....
some men make twice or thrice as much as the national average. it makes no economic sense to them that their wife that's making less than £25k per annum is working. what she brings in is too little to justify her absence from home & let some thai woman do the child care. if a woman earns considerably higher than her hubby then same rules also apply.

Ok, wait, are you for or against a career woman? A man should stay at home to look after the kids if the wife earns more than him? Are you confused? Wasn't your argument against women working?

a family ideally = a man + a woman + children. the issue of money has nothing to do with this equation. i mean, what mathematical expression says a high earning husband needs no wife or a high earning wife needs no husband? are you high on amphetamines?

Then why the hell are you arguing? See your contradiction? If the issue isn't about money why should a husband tell the wife to stop working? Naah, i think you are the one high on dog shyt. If a family is equal to man+woman+child then what is your problem with a career woman? She is part of the equation, na or is she not a woman? As you rightfully wrote, it isn't about the money but the sense of self worth even if the husband was making 10times more than average salary! Unless, you were born with a vagina, you can't say nada. Your type will be the same man who will look down on a woman who isn't working. Listen many women have tried this housewife nonsense and they suffered severely for it. I am sure we all saw the thread a while back of a nigerian governor in American who one day decided to kick his wife out of his mansion along with his kids. I don't blame him but the useless wife who felt like because she was married to man with a mansion she could live comfortably by just sitting at home doing nothing but enjoying the wealth she accumulated through marriage. Nonsense! To all the wannabe housewives on here, make sure you enjoy that more than average salary your hubby is making ohh because when he is ready, you will be frying plantain by the road side like you use to.

Coogar, please, when you have your daughters make sure you don't take them to school ohh. You don't want them becoming career women and defying what you stand for by working hard for themselves and making more than average salary. Make sure you keep them locked up and marry them as quickly as possible so to avoid the embarrassment of them looking after you when your pubes have turned grey and you are on your deathbed. You don't want them using money on you, noo, you want them to be housewives. Feeding children and cleaning because that is what you brought them in this world to do.

Coogar, you will be the same one looking down on single mothers. What is the point of having a man in your life then if he is unable to bring up his children too? If bringing up a child is for the mother, why the hell do we chastise single mothers? I mean, apart from those living on the dole, many are working and raising their children so there is no need to have a man around since women are more efficient in bringing up a child, yes? If one salary is ok to you, then being a single parent is not a bad way to go, no? I am sure many would rather that than have a man who does nothing to contribute to the upbringing of his children. Your 8hour salary won't bring up your child.

coogar: nah - mothers know better than making their sons effeminate. men however forget these fine margins & make their daughters boisterous.

Stop talking out of your azz.

Learn to swim first before deciding to swim.

Rip

LOL! Oh i am sexist? Go look at the definition and then look in the mirror. I believe you need to learn some economics and not me. One parents salary isn't enough in these times and economy we are in. Get that through your head. Is it the parents who look after the kids in nursery? Again, another ignorant comment, are you saying fathers are unable to care and nurture for their children naturally? So, i am guessing gay parents, stay at home fathers or single fathers are doing a phucked up job in raising their children, right? I don't know but I have certainly seen many fathers feeding their babies.

2legit2qwt: Good topic.

I hardly find suits that fits me right off the shelf or even online. My biceps makes it hard that when it fits my arms, the sides become too loose. I guess that's the cross i have to bear for my unconventional body shape

Lol stop with the steroids then.

coogar: would that be because i have mammary glands to feed my baby with? see her mouth like stayathome?

Well, yes. they have portable ones for stay at home dads in Asda. Your wife can pump bweast milk every morning before going to work and you can use formula for the rest of the day.

Mz_®ae'®ae:
pls wat ar dos....nd how lng dos it take to get rid of dem...wit dos stuff u mentioned..cos i cant travel wit dis tin o..plz

Go to your doctor or something and ask for retinoids and also go to a spa and ask for dermabrasion. I don't know you will have to ask them.

spikes C: I ran over a dog today
It's probably dead

It was crossing the road with a fellow dog. I didn't see it on time.
Was so sad when i saw the other dog trying to drag it up to his feet

you did not take it to the vet?

coogar: if she wants to raise children, she should leave her career. if she's not interested in having kids then she can pursue her career aggressively. matter of fact, i will support her morally & financially in getting more certifications to rise to the very top.

am i an understanding hubby or not?

Why don't you be a stay at home father?

Nashville: Back to the topic, stereotyping women is not only in Nigeria. Even Mitt Romney was accused several times of doing this during the last American elections when he made statements like - "women have to go home to cook every night" and "he has binders full of women". This happens more amongst older people. In the UK you hear people talking about dumb blonde girls whose life ambition is to become WAGs.

But the truth is that each of us need to know what we want out of life. Marriage is very desireable, and[b] I have noticed that most of the people who criticise the marriage institution are just jealous either because they have never been married or they had failed marriages.[/b] Check every single one of them and you will see that any woman that expressly criticises the marriage institution will fall into on of the two categories i described. Sorry but why should anyone take Cossy seriously. She doesnt even deserve a response in my opinion so her words should carry no weight.

Marriage is very honourable and comes with it a certain amount of responsibility. It also even implies that someone has considered you worthy enough to want to spend the rest of their lives with you. How can that be bad? Raising children and managing in-laws isnt for lazy people at all, on the contrary, marriage actually makes you alot more responsible.

How ignorant is the bolded. Are you saying people who plan and want other things for their lives rather than follow the rules society has placed for them way before they were born is because they are jealous or have failed marriages. Unless, you want to go back and live during the times of your grandmothers, marriage is very different to what it was today and so are humans. You cannot expect a divorcee not to criticise the marriage institution, for christ's sake she has been there and done that. To those who haven't but criticise it, it's like someone who criticise drugs but never done it. Do you have to do drug to criticise it? Not every woman who takes the bus of life wants their last stop to be marriage.

Many of these women against career women will be the same ones crying everynight because their husbands treat them like shyt. The men will be the same ones treating their women like shyt because they feel like the woman does nothing but stay at home and eat his money. These are the same men who insult women who eat men's money, call them golddiggers and all that nonsense. Erm, well wtf do you want if you don't want a woman who also brings home.

Many women still manage to juggle their career and children and build their family. A man should be looking for a career woman who is willing to build a life and family together and trust me, your life will be much easier.

Get out of that bullshyt mentality. You cannot have it both ways. If you want just a housewife go marry an illiterate. To women, if you are against career women why bother learning to be doctors or bankers. You are wasting money, na.

Even your ancestors were not just sitting at home and cooking and cleaning. They were also at the market all day long selling to bring money for the house. If you did not realise, that was a bloody career.

Idowuogbo: ALuta, if na play stop am! Nothing dey my eye again o! My head don dey bang sef.Abeg pity me hen! Sis, ozugo oooo! She's aite

Idowu and aluta please take heart. She is in a better place now.

...When men talk shyt.

Most women have stretchmarks so these men talking shyt here most likely have girls friends with stretchmarks. Nansense.

It's something most women develop during puberty, whether slim or not. Some women are just unlucky to have loads or huge noticeable ones.


My ex boyfriend only noticed my stretchmarks 2years into our relationship. Most of you don't even notice so please spare us the bull. To the women worrying about it, especially the ones on the nyash and bweast, don't worry, men hardly notice or give a damn when they are with you.

If you are still concerned, get dermabrasion or prescription retinoids.

deols: I remeber the topic at the family section on test driving.

well, they can discuss it b4 marriage if they would not. But I dont know how well the talking can express it.

People can also Pray!

Ah, yes. Through prayer God can tell you the man with the right sex drive for you. Lol

ichommy: So Sad. RIP. I hate swimming.

It's because they couldn't swim that was why they died. You need to start loving it and learn how to.

deols: I pity the man because..he claims to love her- donno how anyone beats their loved one

...and he did not marry another woman because he could not afford to.

Thank God for this woman because she had the courage to leave before he killed her.

Now we can only hope that the next woman is on his level.

This is exactly what they mean when people say test drive the car before buying so you know what you're in for lol.

I just cannot come to terms with the fact that people deny their spouses and partners sex be it man or woman. I mean, i understand that it may be that time of the month and tiredness etc but there are so many other ways without having to use energy.

deols: Not all women should have babies though..some are bad mothers.

Lol i didn't say it was a must but what i meant was woman are the ones with all the bits to have babies.

Seun: Because such a case won't be taken seriously by the police and judicial system, family members, friends, etc. They will all just laugh at her.

She did not see it as raape if she did, she would have filed against him.

I think such things are subjective when it comes to marriages and relationship. Every individualsl deals with their relationships differently. E.g in uk law, consent is the key and you have to make sure consent is clearly shown, if that is the case then many wives/girlfriends are being raped constantly. How many men ask wives can we have sex? Most of the time it is grab the woman and do the thing. Even when they are asleep. In it's literal sense, it is rape but because it is up to the individual, it is for them to decide whether they were raped or not.

Why did the woman not file for raape?

deols: I disagree with the last statement. I think marriage is for sex. Babies can come up later.

Women were made for babies and marriage was made for sex.

deols: It is wrong to be forceful with her. I said that

But he does deserve the satisfaction. Everyone in marriage deserves this gratification.

I agree with you. Divorce is the only solution. It is noone's fault she has a low labido and it is not his fault he had a high sex drive. He must get a woman who has the same sex drive as him.

Seun: Most married couples don't have sex everyday. Most married couples don't even have sex every week. Marriage is for babies, not sex.

Seun, i know you are a eunuch but stop smoking that grass.
Marriage is for babies? Oh and that's why we now have more babies out of wedlock than in wedlock?

Lool. I don't get it. Why marry if you are not willing to make sex your daily bread? It should be like eating 3times a day with snacks in between.

Rest in peace vivian. How sad and shocking. No more stressing about life or worrying about it. God knows best. He had taken you to a stressfree place right under his bosom.

Ndeysan! RIP

zeefever: I think she looks like a hot mess. The blouse has too much going on.

You dey see wetin i dey see.

She looks beautiful but there is so much going on with her white outfit. You don't know where to look. It's like a flowery gangnbang. The necklace is taking away from her top, the top is taking away from her necklace and the everything is taking away from the wrapper on the shoulder blah blah blah.

Beautiful anyway

[img]Original copy A copy is not original. It is just a copy.[/img]

Ofcourse but it can be an original copy if there have been many other copies made from it.

redcliff: TSK

It's called highlighter. Nansense!

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Pretty woman

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This lady needs to stop wearing geles. Her forehead aint having it. Or have it a different style or something.