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Sagamite: So without knowing my religion, you cannot prove I am a hypocrite and you will not have a point?

Then shut the fck up!

You've lost weight but you forgot your boobs.

PAGAN 9JA:
where you alive before abraham's time

Anyways mostly muslims do it. stop labelling it as Hausa culture!


bethrothal is not marriage. The actual marriage was done at a much later age. (around 17-20 yrs) That is different.

Stop talking out of your azz. Children were engaged as young as 5. No I was not alive but my ancestor was. You see, if you left that your hole in your village your mind will open up to things you never knew about.

Is hindu and muslim the same thing?

Even in ancient egypt child marriages took place. I don't know where you got 17-20 from. Is that the time women in your village start menstruating?

Adoabi where do you stay? I know colourdraine.com sells good pigmented lipsticks. Revlon, sleek and mac etc.

mink505: not everyone sees marriage in that way. what about couples that choose not to have kids?
or couples that are infertile? or ones that have pets that they care for etc.
anyway, science has its ways. in the near future, women won't even need sperm to be able to have kids. scientists have been able to create artificial sperm cells from bone marrow.
even now, you can choose to remove your egg from your womb and let another woman carry your pregnancy for you. it's called surrogacy.
the traditional religious views of marriage is often dumb. imagine the catholic church banned the use of condom among married couples until 2008!! because in their mind, marriage is about procreation and nothing else. LOL

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-1223617/No-men-OR-women-needed-artificial-sperm-eggs-created-time.html

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besides, there is no need for "adoption" in naija. the govt is so inept that you can meet a random stranger and take their child in to live with you and no govt official will question you about it. you are never at any point in time asked to prove your biological parenthood. ex. child slaves househelps , black market adoption etc

I remember this when I had to write a case study on stem cell research and such back in school

greatgod2012: So, senator Yerima has mouth to be among those who ban same sex marriage, what about child marriage that he engages in, isn't that a crime too?


Same sex marriage is bad, as well as child marriage. What are the senate doing about it?

Yerima, shameless, pervert and wicked old hag. God is seeing you and your cohorts.

You are comparing same sex marriage to sexually abusing a child?

Na wa for you.

kulyie: yeah right like they save/invest it.

The money goes into maintainance of the total package e.g peruvian hair,designer pants,latest shoes etc.2 out of 500 of them think of the word called TOMORROW at least money wise

You will be the same one running after her will all that peruvian, designer pant and latest shoes. Nor be your caro be that?

jennyphrisel: Truth is,,no responsible girl wud do such,,I wonder where they even gather those ladies from

Missy, is your hymen still intact or was it intact on your wedding night?

kulyie: I feel for them especially 10 years later when they have nothing to shake again,no certificate ,no skills

Wait so you think video girls have no qualifications? We need to stop adopting this ignorant mentality. Just because someone is shaking her azz in a music video doesn't mean she has never had any qualifications.

It's the same way we assume artists have no qualifications. Your own naeto c has qualifications. That negro who calls himself 2chains has a very high I.q even though I can hardly understand what he is saying. Same goes for many in the music industry.

Nonsense, I speak the truth and you call it du.mb
See double standards. You cannot have your cake and eat. Like I said it could work both ways. If they want all mix race women or caucasian then that is what they want. If another only wantssudanese toned women for their videos, I want to see the outrage as you have shown here. Rubbish!

uzoexcel: stop lickin asss online!!!itz a bad habit

Licking azz is good for your health.

shoerack6: Lol at additives. But when will all these stop. I'm actually tired but don't want to leave because of my kids.

Stop using your kids as an excuse to your unhappiness. If you want to leave, leave and have your kids visit the father every week or stay over.

*rollseyes*

ileobatojo: More twists and turns?

Superstory tinz.

I guess my previous question has been answered.

shoerack6: Thanks for your advice but the thing is we have separate room but when it's time to sleep he comes to my room. So practically, when he's angry, he'll decide to sleep in his room.
Yes I have two kids. I've stopped cooking for him whenever is angry cos if I see d food there on the table, I get more heart broken.

Separate rooms? Are you in a polygamous marriage.?

Bantino: If you offend him, ensure that you appologise accordingly. If the cause of your misunderstanding is not your fault, ignore him for a while, ensure you prepare his food even when he refuses to eat.

If you guys don't have kids yet, wear some skimpy cloths at home, and try so many ways of seducing him without talking to him.

Walk out of the bathroom unclad most times, he may behave as if he's not noticing your moves, just continue. To break him, at night, just pretend to feel cold and tell him to hold you, beleive me, he will gladly hold you and from there one thing leads to another.

When you guys are done making love then you can have a 'brief discussion' with him concerning his attitude, Bleep him after the discussion then sleep off. If you get it right, he will change with time and learn how to talk issues over.

Lol nice one.

gcfr.com:
So the wife was the person that impregnated the husband?
PS: Men we better start watching ourselves o,b4 dem give us bele finish.

Lmaoo

YcBeat: U lot might call me stupid bt as im writing these, have got nothing in my heart bt pains and hatred to all these people i mentioned here... i want to thank my ex who left me for a much richer guy and her randy mother who always talk me down.....my mom who never liked me, my siblings who always pick fights with me.....and leaving me forlornly to suffer with my thought......thank you God for never being there, never blessing me with riches, thank you for bringing me to these bias world where some are very rich, while other are super poor.....thank u for not answering my prayers.....hope u don't judge me wrongly after i cross over......thank u seun thank you nairalanders.........BYE

You know people normally just commit suicide and then publish why they killed themselves afterwards. You are doing it all wrong.

Anyway, remember whoever you believe in is going to be very angry when you meet them tomorrow.

Before you drown, hang or shoot yourself know that there are people living worse off than you.

Don famous: tot you have the solution already. Becos someone lie pagan9ja is seriously waitin for a thread like this

Lmao

I think you guys need to realise that the wider the band the bigger the cup size. The C cup for a 32 is different to the C cup of a 34. So someone could have a 32C and not understand this post.

Seun: Don't shape your eyebrows. You will only make them uglier and it will take a very long time for them to grow back into the proper shape.

I don't know what you have against eyebrow grooming but stop spreading false messages about it.

Pour vegetable oil on you and then sit under the sun between 11 to 3 for a week and you will get your desired result.

Tbh colour has nothing to do with your lips tone but skintone. You can find a good pigmented lipstick that can cover dark lips.

Pretty girl

Lol

we are talking about is not the permanent type - it's only for the first 3 years of a child when the baby is in his formative years.

Gosh coogar you are so full of shyt. Your initial argument never said anything about temporary staying at home. It was no to career women. Majority working mothers do stay at home for a while anyway so what is your argument? Are you for or against a career woman because right now you're arguing senselessly.

lynk106: but you didn't answer the question. financial aid or not, survey all those students and overwhelming majority of them come from families with two working parents. In fact,you are more likely to find children from single (working) mom household than to find kids of stay at home moms at ivy league schools.

your idea that children raised by stay at home moms are somehow superior is very stupid.
I associate stay at home moms with either the ultra-wealthy or the hillybilly red-neck, ultra conservative christian whites who still believe that the world is flat and evolution is heresy. These aren't d folks you will find in d ivy league anyway.
those are the people I associate stay-at-home moms with. The rest are stay at home not by choice (lost their job, recently gave birth etc).

and talkless of blacks or africans abroad. I have NEVER meet a stay-at-home mom of black or african origin. unless she just came from Africa and can't yet find a job. Even children of African parents can feel the suffocation on their independence talk-less of women who are full grown adults to have to live that way and be dependent on their husbands. it will drive one crazy. I can imagine.
ex.I can never imagine my mom as a stay-at-home mother knowing my dad's personality. I can never be a financially dependent stay at home mother either.at least not to an african husband.unless he has a very gentle personality. I'd rather be a single mother than live like that becuase it seems to me like a recipe for disaster (potential for domestic abuse, deprivation etc)
Career leads to financial independence. truth to be told. and women should definitely have their careers. Just don't have a lot of kids/use family planning.

Well written, you!

Coogar, what myth exactly? We are talking about ivy league student with both parents working and not scholarships. Point is, children are still able to perform and become successful with both parents working.

There is nothing wrong with a woman being submissive as long as the man understands the meaning of it.

Okija_juju: All women who dont submit to their husbands end up like these women


https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/haleighluja.gif


Fat, depressed, desparate and ugly.. In church disturbing God everyday with prayers for a problem they inflicted on themselves..

Loool!

Lol, isn't it funny that it is the children of two working parents who normally make it to ivy league school. No housewives things.

coogar: you belittle yourself when you talk this way. I didn't give you much before though but then this has plunged you deeper in the sewers - keep at it!

Lol, what? How is it belittling for me if you're speaking through your azz? Lol stop.

assumptions could get you killed - stop assuming every man you come across share the same ideology as your bubblegum bedmates

I am guessing you are partially blind. Did you not see where i wrote I roll by myself? So why would I have bedmates? And what ideology is that?

i am quoting what a hardline feminist said about men & you are saying it's nonsense. at least, verify the quote instead of making yourself look like a clueless dingbat!

Seriously stop talk rubbish. In which book did you read that feminism is about a woman not needing a man in their lives? I want the name of the author and the book and chapter you got that quote from. See, start reading because you know what you just wrote is full of nonsense.

he would tell his wife to stop working & stayathome to nurture the kids. marriage is partnership(division of labour) so as to achieve the highest productive output humanly possible. that's how nature designed it to be. however, on the off chance that the wife earns a considerably higher income than the hubby then the husband should stay at home.

It annoys me when you are arguing with someone and they change their tune. I thought you said a father cannot stay at home and this isn't about money. If it isn't why should a man stay at home? See, how your argument became mine. Annoying! Stop it! Your argument was no to career woman, women should be at home and men working. Men cannot naturally care or nurture children. Stick to that.

If a woman decides to be a housewife she should have income coming in. Whether it is business or marketing. Designing websites. Yoh must have money going in your own account. You hear?

the key is having one parent stay at home...

Stick to your argumemt joor. So, now it is ok to be a career woman as long as you make more than the husband so he can stay home and phuck up the children since men cannot naturally care, nurture and feed children or teach them how to fend for themselves. Oh, gee, thanks coogar.

stop plumbing the depths of idiocy.
i am neither for/against career women. i said a woman that intends to chase her career aggressively should not bother having kids.

If someone is neither for or against, they usually say nothing. They just sit on the fence, watching. You were clearly against. Maybe now those for the working woman have convinced. You seem to be now in agreement but because you don't want to back down easily, you're arguing but unfortunately changing your initial stance. You were clearly against because you advised men to stay away from them. Chase her career aggressively? Wdh does that even mean? You either have a career or you don't. Or you mean those who don't have a career but chasing after it aggressively to get one?

you must be related to blind bartimeaus...
show me where i mentioned anything remotely close to sense of selfworth? so a woman who chooses to sacrifice her career for few years to nurture her kids has no self-worth?

A blind calling someone blind. And where did I mention, you mentioned self worth? Ohh, so now a woman can have a career but can nurture the children for a few years and go back, yes? Well, duuuuh! this is something majority of working mums do. That is why the government even gives maternity leave! You have changed your stance completely and it is annoying

a million apologies - i have clearly overestimated your intelligence.

No, coogar, I overestimated your intelligence this thread has shown me that you are not what I thought. You are just another clueless man beating his chest, huffing and puffing to make a clueless point. You cannot even stick to your argument.

another idiotic assertion.
we should all stop getting on a plane then since airplanes have taken considerable number of human lives all over the planet. what has an idiotic nigerian governor gotta do with this?

What a stup!d comparison. Your comparisom doesn't even make sense to what I wrote. Tell how do they relate. Trying to make another clueless point which makes no sense. You should have used a car if you were going to make a senseless comparison. Atleast, we have more deaths in cars than planes. We get on a plane because we want to get somewhere. We go to school because we want to get somewhere. We get our degrees not to decorate our living room but because we want careers that will bring us money. Now, there is no point in being on a plane of you don't want to go anywhere and there is no point being in school if you just want to be a housewife.

are you saying this governor couldn't have kicked the wife out even if she's working?
do women still not get the house & 50% of their husband's assets in a divorce? so what has the employment status of a woman gotta do with her being kicked in or kicked out?

Try to comprehend what people say, please. If she had something she won't be standing there like an ediot probably begging. She would have quickly driven to her own place to go over what happened. Lol, a working woman knows she cannot get kicked out. She knows her investments in that property.
And oh yes, you think it is that easy to just get 50% of your husband's wealth. Stop! Even if, women should be happy about that? Oh yes, i can be a housewife because I know when we divorce half of all this will be mine?

once again, you have shown this topic is intellectually out of your league.

clap for yourself for showing up show clueless you are in cognitive reasoning. so the temporary 4-5 years a woman takes out to nurture her kids is a good enough reason for her to shun formal education wholeheartedly?

you have the brain power of a pubic louse...

Oh please, don't flatter yourself. We know you have nothing tangible to say but please continue typing nonsense because you are a 'career' man.


I hardly have these long azz debates because I am hardly ever interested in them but when I do I want someone with good arguments that would even make me think twice, not someone who cannot stick to the initial argument.
Atleast a pubic lice has more sense than you. Your whole argument is stup!d. You cannot be a career woman, wait, Ohh, you can be a career woman, yes, as long as you take 4-5 years to bring up a child. Yes, that is all i can give you. If you want to be accepted by us you must take 4-5years, we permit you because we are Man. See, we are very lenient. If you cannot take 4-5 years out then we will shun you and you will have to turn to a lesbian because we don't want you. I know we initially said no to you but your argument was very convincing so we will give you a chance to marry too.

How stup!d is this? I am done with this. If anyone wants to argue with coogar, go ahead. He is still high on dog shyt and doesn't know whether he is arguing front or back. As you can see, he is now ok with a career woman. He is now giving them a chance. 4-5 years or no husband. With all my 8 children that is going to be 25-40years. Loool. Those of us wanting big families we'll be going back to our careers when we are in our 50s- 70s..