₦airaland Forum

Only if we are able to know what's in the hearts of some of our ladies while watching the Man of God preach with swag - you go fear FEAR.

Funny world!

Obere4u:
Where's Atiku?

Job's done, he has no business in SE anymore.

MarieSucre:
Yeah I do. And that's not on her but for her sister to answer. How can she know why her sister slept for so long? How can she know whether she knows how many people are at home that time?

Even in a court of law, I'm trying to see how a defending counsel can pin all those questions on her and use that to throw out her case?

Busola will be grilled intensely by the defence counsel if the case ends in court and if she buckles under pressure - that's the end !

Mind you, this will set a bad precedent for future rape cases.

MarieSucre:
So the inconsistency is that her sister was asleep for too long to not know what was going on, and that the man did not know whether people were at home or not.

Lo. See ehn, I just watched a video on twitter, it's trending currently now, hopefully you're on twitter and you might see it.

The woman stop to shelter from rain in a photocopying shop, it has like the normal sliding glass door, this man brought out his pen!s and was stroking in front of her and was groaning in her direction, he was sitting on a nearby chair tho. He continued doing this till a woman walked in then he quickly hid it under his shirt.

Do you know what a man said in the comments, I'll paraphrase, he said that if the woman had merely tweeted the story without pictures, he would have said things like "NO SANE MAN WILL...", "HOW IS IT POSSIBLE THAT THE MAN IN BROAD DAYLIGHT IS DOING SO AND SO AND SO AND NOBODY ELSE SAW IT", etc etc etc.

See ehn life is not a Nollywood movie. It's not a script that happens in a a correct order of how we perceive it. Evil does not go with a plan. Evil just happens.

It must be a consistency you will understand. It is not a novel and it is not a movie. It is life.

Do you see the logic in the breakdown of the chronological events ?

You need to understand that this is a case that has to be proven in a competent law court, and it would be good if BF is nailed but if the Dakolos lose the case ehn - na yawa o!

SugarMuffin:
I see no reason why busola would grant the interview if she wasn't sure about what she's getting herself into,her husband is a public figure, so I don't think they'd stoop so low because of attention and dent their reputation. I really hope they get to the root of this matter because this allegation is too huge to be ignored.

SM is not the appropriate place to fix a rape case, we have competent law courts however slow their process may be.

Busola should have gone to the police to press charges, not granting some nonsense interview.

Nairaland and bloggers don hammer for dis Dakolo saga o.

nzeobi:
it's just an accusation but why always him

Coz BF is a fly-guy.

Jasen1:
But to be frank one of my aunth sexually abused me as boy that year, I was about 7/8, another lady called aunty Nkechi did same to me in her house back then in the village she will carry my tiny prick and put in her Pusey

And at the age of 15 my uncle wife sexually abused me
Though I never saw it as rape because i agreed while she promised to buy me things


But I'm regretting now

Sorry about this...lol

eltalentino:
My point is after the whole incident, she kept going to his church even as an adult, sang in the choir, went for prayers... I don't understand

It's now a case study.

Looooooooooooollllllllllll !

Robust response to Dakolo saga.

joseph1832:
Na real fresh fresh ushers. Lol.

If after all this noise making online nothing is done by either the Dakolo's or Fatoyinbo, then I urge every right thinking Nigerian to start questioning the church.

Question your politicians first abeg - talk of misplaced priority.

kennygee:
Stepping down isn't an admission of guilt. It is just about him respecting the position he holds

I wish this was said during Johnson Suleiman saga.

zeuss:
what is wise about assuming guilt before you can prove innocence? it should be the other way round unless you stand to gain something from his fall.

have u forgotten " Berger to Ajah' two accusers came forward..

had Uche been without proof his life was finished ..... or is it Neymer's case.

Please ignore ppl like kennygee to continue riding on emotions, she's yet to respond to breakdown of the chronological events of the alleged rape I gave her on another post.

Let's be logical, let's be guided.

BlueAir:
its not my composition giving u headache. ...its ur thinking capacity as u failed to deduce I might be typing with a small keyboard with no luxury of time and keyboard comfortability.

My pc is charging

So your small keyboard & insufficient time contributed to your poor sentence construction?

Wehdon sir.

GOFRONT:


Na waoo......I hope Pst Fatoyinbo has gone for HIV test??


Because the number of women he has slaughtered keep increasing

Using words like slaughter disparages the women folks, making rape/sex seem like a conquest - let's be guided please.

BlueAir:
those who claimed rape never stated defence during the sex...all made a common statement of not wishing for the sex but at the same time open up their legs. .obviously when any misbehaves threatenly about the consented rape! the man threatens just to save reputation.those "rape victims" opened legs up bonnet style and hotel style and kept mum for years till one decided to cry rape legal route


Seriously..

Obviously the man might be a vjay freeak but to choke him unnecessarily deadly by self pity and social sensitivity is wrong

Please try & work on your sentence construction, you almost gave me headache reading your stuff.

kennygee:
Oh, this one is also made up, abi?

There are inconsistencies in the story.

Have you tried to examine the length of time between

- when Mr Fato knocked the door,
- pushed her to the couch,
- forced her to submission,
- loosened up & pulled her underwear,
- she even recounted that Mr Fato couldn't gain easy access into her veejay (that must have taken some time as well),
- length of time on thrusting b4 climax & eruption,
- Mr Fato even enjoyed the comfort of going outside to his car to bring her a drink (krest),
- fed her the drink - of course we don't know how long he stayed before departure as he even enjoyed the luxury of a little conversation which involved - be glad a Man of God did this to you.

All of these happened while Busola's older sister was in the same building (supposedly in a deep sleep) and didn't wake up to check whom the early morning visitor was.

Also, we need to put into consideration that it's not established that Mr Fato had a prior knowledge of the number of inhabitants in that said building as at the time of the alleged rape - this calls to question the supposed effrontery alluded to Mr Fato - if it's even fathomable.

asuustrike1:
I agree with you on this. Because the alleged victim is a celebrity that is why many celebrities are reacting. The poor has no voice in this country

Reacting like chemical...

Beverlyjean:
How many people put mouth for that one ...besides, otobos case wasn't a case of rape... It was soliciting for sex... But for this guy, women are coming out to speak... Like he's a serial abuser

You have a short memory... sorry.

Xda59:
Fair enough just like stealing is stealing but the gravity of stealing 10 billion naira outweighs that of stealing a piece of meat from the pot of soup. I'm just saying so don't bash me darling.

But the one who steals meat from the pot of soup is lynched while the one who steals #10B is praised and protected.

Chai Nigerians !

Beverlyjean:
Even the presidential election dint take up this sort of space... everyone has gotten involved... even Satan put mouth for the matter... This pastor will never recover from this... This is what u get when u are selfish and try to hurt others to satisfy urself... I think he took advantage of her ,and these days it's classified as rape

Remember Johnson Suleiman...?

MarieSucre:
"There are some inconsistencies".

What are these inconsistencies?

Have you tried to examine the length of time between

- when Mr Fato knocked the door,
- pushed her to the couch,
- forced her to submission,
- loosened up & pulled her underwear,
- she recounted that Mr Fato couldn't gain easy access, - length of time on thrusting b4 climax & eruption,
- Mr Fato even enjoyed the comfort of going outside to his car to bring her a drink (krest),
- fed her the drink - of course we don't know how long he stayed before departure as he even enjoyed the luxury of a little conversation which involved - be glad a Man of God did this to you.

All of these happened while Busola's older sister was in the same building (supposedly in a deep sleep) and didn't wake up to check whom the early morning visitor was..

Also, we need to put into consideration that it's not established that Mr Fato had a prior knowledge of the number of inhabitants in that said building as at the time of the alleged rape - this calls to question the supposed effrontery alluded to Mr Fato - if it's even fathomable.

buharitill2023:
is she not suppose to tell dakolo before marriage or a year into the marriage, so why now? She was even a choirister in the same church for 5yrs, how was she able to cope for 5yrs seeing his rapist as a preacher everyday, was that not suppose to trigger the annoyance everyday that your pastor was the devil that rape you, and she was stil comfortably singing for the rapist pastor, what a world.

It's now become a case study.

Lokoyen:
i wish naija youths and celebrities could channel this energy to fight for the release of Leah Shuaibu.

Lol

Nigerians and misplaced priorities are like...

MarieSucre:
Apologies.

What determination? How has this determination helped the thousands of cases of petty armed robbery, missing persons, child trafficking and ritual disappearances.

Mind you these are cases where you can verify the evidence e.g I had a property for all to see now I don't have it again, Look!

Or I had so and so thousands in my account, but it was all withdrawn in one day and � atm cameras captured these, Look!

Or I had a relative who went to the market and they're not back and here is the evidence from so and so sources that they exist, Look! Or I am poor and my child is missing.

With rape it's a whole lot harder, even with physical evidence, it's your word against the rapists word.

We all gather here and agree that the security agencies are less that par in fighting crime, or solving crime or even caring about crime. For crying out loud the whole SARS issue is still on going. We all complain about the sluggish bureaucracy in the judiciary and share stories about how they have affected our daily lives.

We know these things!

We accept all these things!

But suddenly when it comes to rape, that's when everyone knows the security agencies should have be notified, sue them to court. Determination will take you far, yeah right!

Tell me how many cases of convicted rape of ADULT WOMEN have you heard about? Not children but women, or even men.

Come on girl!

You're repeating the same issue of failed institutions but back to Busola's case, there are inconsistencies in her submission/interview and it's robbed the case of any merits it might have.

Rape should be condemned in its entirety but it's dangerous to ride on emotions in a case such as this. Where do you put the rights of Mr Fato even as he's now subjected to social media trial? What happens to innocent until proven guilty?

If Busola has all the evidence, why not go to the police and press charges - why grant some nonsense interview - is it to smear him or defame his character?

Busola's compromised her case already coz what she's recounted on video cannot be refuted as she's now given Mr Fato something to work with.

Let's be guided.

blaqroy:
This story will make other young girls in that church to either speak up or be more careful.... To me I believe she was so naive to have spoken up earlier beside the man is still in the act, evidence or no evidence no body should shut her up for speaking up no one knows what she went through

This would be setting a dangerous precedent.

MarieSucre:
What if it's your family that is abusing you? Or your family shushes you up to save face? Or your parents are super strict? Mind you these cases are real. Search nairaland, you'll find many cases of this happening.

And please miss me with that many agencies bs. Only to report robbery at a police station na war, talk more of rape. Guy I dare you to try and go and report rape, do it as a social experiment and come and tell us the result.

Y'all know these things but will keep bringing up these silly excuses like you don't know the reality on ground.

I'm a lady so please be guided.

I appreciate that you highlight our failed institutions but it doesn't negate the need to keep one's determination to seek justice - except you're not prepared or ready for it.

Only if you know the meaning of determination, it features just as it's potent in every intention either good or bad.

yunafa:
I really hope Busola and Timi weighed their options before taking this step. Even as a victim, the ripple effect of reporting a crime perpetuated against your person can spiral negatively but I pray it doesn't happen.

I doubt a legal representative would advise them to go on social media.

yunafa:
I really hope Busola and Timi weighed their options before taking this step. Even as a victim, the ripple effect of reporting a crime perpetuated against your person can spiral negatively but I pray it doesn't happen.

Lol oil dey ya head. Watch as more skeletons are thrown out of the wardrobe.

Shît is about to hit the fan.

thesmallgod:
Coming online to tell people you are raped before taking a legal action is like releasing your starting lineup and formation a day before playing a football match

The case is already compromised but trust our judiciary as they will ignore this fact and carry on with a defective law suit.

Chithauri:
Too many inconsistencies in busola's story. Innocent until guilty. Until now Papa Fatoyinbo is absolutely innocent.

Busola doesn't come across as clean.