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tomi87014:
Help, Trouble In My Marriage

Hello Nairalanders.

I have been married for a year and half. I thought hubby and i have been living happily and i would've swore he was faithful. A few days ago i saw that a random lady messaged him on Facebook and they got talking. I was shocked at first to see that he was chatting her up. Fast forward to yesterday I checked his phone and saw that himself and the lady had more conversation and what started as facebook chat had progressed from phone calls to whatsapp chat. The content of their chat seems they were eventually planning to hook up.

I confronted hubby but he wasn't remorseful and told me he doesn't owe me faithfulness and went on to sleep in the other room. Hubby and I pray together and are looking towards a very bright future together, this is not something i really saw coming from him. I am very troubled in my heart and pregnant for our first baby. He dozent feel any atom of pity that the whole issue might cause me problems and I have been wondering what has come over him. I am 100 percent faithful to my hubby and want the union to work out. I am at work typing and holding back tears. Please i need advise from mature people in the house, how do i deal with the situation. I am in my late 20s, he is in his late 30s.

Most men cheat but their reaction when caught goes a long way.
Sobfor your husband to blot out he doesn't owe you faithfulness to be honest this is just the beginning, he is going to cheat alot more without remorse
Advise# ask him if he feels he doesn't owe you faithfulness what about you?
How would he feel if he sees you chatting with a man,
Truth is mostly cheats are very jealous of their possession,so he wouldnt want that

Esseite:
Can someone put up picture of known ty danjumas highrise in the heart of V.i?

Can someone put up pictures of known atiku's highrise in the heart of V.i?

We fail to pursue people without and iota of career/business profile to check their massive wealth amassment but we dilly dally on that which have a track record of.. charge her to court and convict her period.

The moment Pdp's struggle comes to an end........ dieziani comes up all over the media..

Previous opec president
Prebious Minister - mines and steel
Previous minister - transportation
Previous Minister - Petroleum
High ranking - oil and gas coys board member international and local asides other sectors coys and member of their boards...
International accolades etc...

If kachikwu earned over $1m in mobil oil as Vp/mth, asides gifts and cashbacks, entitlements and PR. We are now talking about a woman who held positions miles ahead of that..

FAMFA oil and gas is the richest woman i guess, how did she amass her wealth, this is a woman who joined the oil and gas industry when dieziani was an ED with shell ?

We have not even asked questions about one time governors that turned multi billionaires and trillionaires or senators or old military men etc..

She might be guilty of crimes, charge her to court and win the case.. not all this propaganda here and there..

Wow smart response, the problem is our judiciary is a joke, filled with corrupt judges,
Our EFCC seems incompetent, instead of gathering facts, they spend their time in media propaganda ,
When they get to court, they are unable to prove beyond all reasonable doubt that someone embezzled,that is why no one has been successfully convicted for corruption by them

MissRaine69:
What if the mother in law is not being Wicked
She is telling the daughter in law to make a stance
These are women from different generations , mother in law's view on philandering in marriage is to be stoic about it not to tell the whole world about your marital issues out of misguided pride.

Daughter in laws way is to be histrionic about her marital status. We don't know the history between these two women or the conversations that happened before the ones ss. The daughter in law cannot understand why the mother in law refuses to be involved
Why is she refusing to intercede on behalf of her daughter in law? We need to ask ourselves this.How many times has this happened before? What if she has got involved and things backfired?
How many of us have got in the middle of relationships and regreted it be it family or friends?

Finally it's possible her mother in law does not really like her and has met the other woman in her sons life. There are women like that, who have such a warped view on marriage, their role as mother in laws and they behave as if they were never daughter in laws or their daughters will not have a mother in laws.

It seems this young mother has much to think about. HIV is real.

I pray you experience such in your own marriage, so that you will understand The pain this young mother is going through and not spew thrash next time

Wow and these areas are close to my estate, sunrise estate emene Enugu
Please the governor should do the needful
MODs kindly push to front page

One thing I noticed is that any guy abused as a kid tends to like sex a lot, was a victim and I love sex,if You See the way I try to get laid when ever am Hot, you will marvel.
There was this teenage lady back then,she would call me to get room cos I was very handsome as a kid, she would close the door, carry me up and start having sex with me, was less than 10 then,
It made me also start having sex girls of my age then

MChoc24:
I think the fifth group of ladies mean serious business to and have a purpose

By their words you shall know them
We know you belong to that category

Wow na my classmate for CIC be this o, O town boy, I dey feel your swag

Esseite:
YET NO INTERVIEW WITH THE GIRLS.. for security reason
ALL TO BE TAKEN TO SAFE HOUSES.. for security reason
WHEN WOULD THEY BE RELEASED.. dont know for security reason
WHY DO THEY LOOK FRESH...boko haram took care of them for security reason
WHAT WAS THE EXCHANGE?... cant say for security reason...

IF SAMBISA WAS CONSTANTLY PATROLLED AND COMBED FOR 4-YEARS approx.. to the extent we eventually lost hope, vehicle movements went through rigorous search. WHY DO THE GIRLS LOOK ROBUST AND HEALTHY, THEY DONT LOOK LIKE GIRLS UNDER SAMBISA SUN?... i guess for security reasons also

Now I believe chibok girls is scam

ellagabs:
u make sense sha but........

bro abeg no confuse us wey wan do masters nau...
wat kinda yarn is dis again dis mornin?

U dream-dreams abi?

He is telling you the truth bro

2shur:
Na alibaba.
Its called email cloning..e.g garybiller@gmail.com(cloned version...garybilleR@gmail.com
Fake invoice
Bla bla bla
Redirecting payment deposits to company acct
Mostly aboki.
One of my chairman dey run am
He dey malay.
He dey pick 250m 400m
Na transfer and alibaba
All them nanocore.
Rat
Crypter
Static i.p
And other virus dem.
Na mostly yankee and germany australia e dey work cos dem dey do online transactions.
Dem don cast alibaba.com

Baba ur mind dey game

Did you tell me before u went and took an oat in this 21st century? That was a very foolish move

Does anyone know about G O language and its demand in nigerian tech market

klefjoxey:
I don't know why people keep asking "I want to learn a programming language which one should I learn". What do you want to do:
1. Game development- you need to learn c++, c# and game engine such as unity3d
2. Desktop app- java, c, c++, c# and python. These are the best
3. Web development- Frontend: HTML, CSS, JavaScript, bootstrap. Back end: node.js, Python or java
4. Mobile development- just go for java.

So choose what you want to do out of these 4 and sign up for coursera.org or edx.org. I hope this helps.

nice one

uzobaby:
EFCC should beam on these ponzi schemes operators that open today and close tomorrow e.g double cash,spring cash,changinglives...they have defrauded so many people

lols 042 boys no dey carry last

Proud of you Bro, keep it up

HRich:
This is a Big Lie about the Beer price,

I can even tell you guys the Name of the Hotel

Its at the back of My apartment

But I have not been there for day

This Hotel is Just One Week Old

Yeah they dance Naked, But about the price they are paid nobody know,

Beer is never sold 500/1000 inside there, its a big lie,

There's nothing like Entrance fee, they don't collect any money there,

do your investigation well before coming up here with lies!!!!

Abeg what's d name of d hotel,let me check it out, when nxt am in kd

dnapstar:
Incase you know someone who might be interested.

We are currently doing a project in kaduna and would be need 3 supervisors urgently. To start immediately.

Preferably
Male.
OND.
Electronics/ electrical background.
send CV to chrischidumije@yahoo.com
should be based in Kaduna.

I studied civil engineering, and I have a place I can stay in barnawa kaduna, can I apply for the job?