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Politics / Re: NLC To Commence Nationwide Strike On Wednesday, If PMS Price Isn't Reverted by kazyhm(m): 7:32pm On Jun 02, 2023 |
Jorussia: You don't don't even understand basic economics yet you know economics decision that is the best. Let me asked you, NNPCL is the sole importer of Petroleum products into Nigeria; 1) who is paying subsidy to who ? The NNPC has not remitted any dime to the TSA.... 2) so are you saying even the payment Subsidy, NNPCL is running it operations at a loss ? 3) When is the subsidy paid; is it at point when NNPCL import or at when they load to markers or tankers....? If it is at point of import, NNPCL declared the stock as we speak will sustain the country for the next 60days, why did the Mr president announcement of subsidy removal increase the official price of the stock ? 4) Why is NNPCL GMD telling us that local refinaries will not change the price of the product.....while in the same vein they were calculating landing cost for imported petroleum products ? 5) What are the names of the refinaries that refines our crude oil? 6) Which shipping companies ships the refined product back to Nigeria and at what cost ? 6) Why should Dangote refinary buys Nigeria crude in Dollars? 7) What is the volume of petroleum products Nigerian consumes daily ? 7b) Why is Lagos #488 and port Harcourt $511 ?They both have sea ports and deport. Maiduguri is #557, sokoto #540, Yola #550. Please consult Nigeria map and explain what is the factor the results in the difference of #69 and #46 between Lagos and Maiduguri and port Harcourt and Maiduguri respectively. 9) Where is the subsidy from Diesel and kerosine ? |
Family / Re: Lagos Court Grants Wives Equal Rights Over Husbands’ Properties by kazyhm(m): 7:06pm On May 30, 2023 |
oluwaseyi0: But the man said the house is not 400,000....and I understand a house in festac is Worth more than 400k. Besides, they still legally married and the case is about consent before disposition of the asset not sharing formula. I have never like judgement of any female judge.........it always lace with emotional bias |
Romance / Re: I Give Her N30K Monthly — Husband Who Earns N75K Rants As Wife Call Him Stingy by kazyhm(m): 1:10pm On May 28, 2023 |
kwaso2: I was discussing this issue with one of my colleagues.....I pointed out that our choice for private schools over Government schools for our children is a matter of class, comfort and safety.......not quality per say...... Most private school teachers are in for survival and always looking out for better jobs.......you can't compare such teacher's teaching capabilities to that of a career teachers in Government school.......... If not for the rigor of getting admission in Federal Government colleges, Military schools, missionary schools; majority of Nigeria parents prefer them to privately owned schools where they pay exorbitant fees.....besides, many parents still encourages their wards to attempt entrance exams in these Government schools before opting out for Private schools..... That been said, those of us that attended public schools still out performed majority of those from the privately owned schools at the University.......come to think of it, what has change in the Nigeria labour market since the businessmen dominated the primary and secondary school education sector ? What have the graduates of these schools invented ? The only noticeable impacts is the intense competition at the labour market......teenage graduates are now able to apply for jobs. Nigerians from public schools are performing well in foreign school academically...... We're only subtly encouraging stealing to find classless class! |
Romance / Re: My Experience With Nigerian Police. by kazyhm(m): 9:09pm On May 27, 2023 |
OralB: I wouldn't have shown them the evidence in the first place.........what actually saved you was that.....they fortunately for you forgot their modus operadi ( cease your phone first) You risked your life.....after a headway. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Give Her N30K Monthly — Husband Who Earns N75K Rants As Wife Call Him Stingy by kazyhm(m): 8:38pm On May 27, 2023 |
Majority of fraudulent activities, embezzlement of public funds etc are as a result of something like this..........your husband earns 75k a month and the wife earns nothing yet she is the one that defined stinginess......let her be the one earning the 75k.....the world will not rest from her posting pictures everywhere and badmouthing the husband as a lazy man..... Any amount is enough provided you are contented at the stage you're in life at the material time, have short, mid and long time plans and stay focus...... Never allow any woman push you to your early grave by suggesting additional jobs for you...and be aggressively pushing you to earn more through whatever means possible just for her to live above her means......and the heartbreaking part is; she won't be satisfied still.. Rome was not built in a day....Adenuga, Dangote, Otedola etc all started from somewhere. It is in marriage that I get to understand that a redundant and dependent partner is the chief pilot.......while in the corporate the world......you have to be intelligent, consistently productive, brave and efficient to be the boss.... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 11:44pm On May 24, 2023 |
Family / Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 11:24pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: It is clear you know nothing about this practice.....career requirements set by who and to attain what ? |
Family / Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 10:45pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I never claimed to have any fact whatsoever pertaining to this story.....but many theory, motives and ideas about what transpired in this story have been coming from you...... My take is.....if you so much love your single, unrestricted life.....stay clear from any kind of committed affairs...........life itself is a crazy ride......so is marriage. Nothing is special about being a medical doctor........and I believe the husband is not a vulcanizer. |
Family / Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 10:18pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Lol..... you're very talkative.....about things you know nothing about.... Were you there with them at the beginning.....what is so special about being a medical doctors ?...and even with carrying the profession on her head, she won't still be responsible for any bill in the relationship....untill when the carpenter of her husband is dead broke....... When you're responding...... consider that you're not talking to kindergarten. |
Family / Re: Women Are Not Divorcing Men In Nigeria Enough! - Vash Offo by kazyhm(m): 9:57pm On May 24, 2023 |
isabi2lof: Good observation....we don't know this particular Doctor.......hence the story can't be verified. 1) Saint obi is popular....the the stories as narrated by the friends are true. 2) We know Anie Idibia story aswell 3) Pero Adeniyi case 4) Emeka Ike story is there 5) Mercy Aigbe story 6) Nedu case is there7 7) The MD of I can't remember the name of the bank now is verifiable Wizkid baby mama....we all read the WhatsApp conversation 9) Davido baby mama drama We all watch Johnny Depp case both in the UK and USA.......... Enough verifiable evidents for men to learn...... I know of a hell on earth marriage between an Accountant (Husband) and a Surgeon (wife)... You'll shed tears........the man doesn't even talk but I bet you can't live in the street..... you'll kill the wife yourself....and fullfil you did. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: There Is No Victory For The Poor Ukrainians - Hungary PM, Orban by kazyhm(m): 12:00am On May 24, 2023 |
It is now obvious that American are self-centered and greedy... Lessons is....be wary of anyone that knows more than you yet give you support for a battle with an opponent that will obviously defeat you... America is the real devil. Zelensky is the fool. 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Tacha Claims She Paid $20,000 (₦15M) For Her Blue Dress To The AMVCA by kazyhm(m): 3:28pm On May 21, 2023 |
IkeIgboNiile: It was very annoying.... especially there is these two guys that sat at the front roll, dressed in Arab regalia. |
Family / Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by kazyhm(m): 3:22pm On May 21, 2023 |
Family feud loading...... |
Romance / Re: Fundamental Issues (church, Family Etc) With Potential Wife. by kazyhm(m): 10:15pm On May 12, 2023 |
cazchi: You're playing with fire....and it will burn you so bad.......... you'll question why you were born |
Romance / Re: Brown Ideye Abandoned And Denied His Children With His Ukraine Girlfriend Yana V by kazyhm(m): 10:00pm On May 12, 2023 |
Forcing someone to be in some other people's life by proxy should be criminalized....... because it is a tactical extortion.......and a master and slave relationship. |
Family / Re: My Wife Secretly Told Her Friends I Was Loser. Now What? by kazyhm(m): 6:32pm On Apr 29, 2023 |
Lol.....sold your properties to give a better life to your family (wife and daughter)...now the same wife is mocking you.....she already perceived the move as a miscalculation and if things did not come back to normal on time, your marriage is as good as gone (she is done with your ass). that's woman for you..... A french proverb says and I quote "women's words are written on an ice". How did you get to trust your wife to take this kind of huge risk......I guess you think she's your support pillar pending when you'll able to sort yourself out...... Alas you're wrong.....she will dump your sorry ass and still feel she did the right thing by leaving a sinking ship while she can...... after all, she has her own money....lol she can takes care of herself..... Fact about marriage is........as a married man.....the survival of your marriage is solely depends on you (husband)...never take unnecessary risk...that will give room for see finish....your wife would rather wing swing instead of sticking with you when things are down......no matter her financial status. As a leader of a team..... don't ever get yourself overwhelmed with situations.......if you're, your team will be at disadvantage.....pay no mind to fantasy of women.... claiming they can hold ground when you're weak and vulnerable.....it is a lie........ they'll look for an alternative/additional support (a man). 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Young Girls Early Marriage Or Wayward Lifestyle by kazyhm(m): 7:21am On Apr 29, 2023 |
This is a very good topic for deliberation. My first problem with your perspective about this challenge are.... 1) You didn't do any research to ascertain the proper causes, consequences and effect of these challenges for you to proffer practicable solutions. 2) You just sit down somewhere and think you know the cause, the challenges of the people in the North and south pertaining their cultural practices and just concluded a way out in your head...... In the North.....the motive for marrying out their daughters early apart from religion reasons is to curbs promiscuity, protect their innocence and give them a sense of direction in life and this is not only apply to girls alone.....most of their boys get married early too..... And there an unwritten agreement.... depending on who is involved.......for example, if a young girls is being married to a much older men......it is expected that the man takes care of the wife which includes sending her to school.... Many of these men tend to meet up with this expectations until the girl in question started some funny character as she become mature.....this in turn make the husband to lost trust in her and change his mind about where to channel his resources to.....this most often lead complications and divorce which is why there many divorced young single mothers in the North than any other place in Nigeria. This girl usually remarry after sometime.... finding husband is not even hard.... Northern Nigeria is a close society.....just be a good girl and boy. For the boys and girls that got married early....it is the parents that take that decision for them....and the boys father is the one that cater for them both....he provide shelter and feeds them, send them to school while they produce children until they'll be able to live on their own......in some instants, the boy's father can marry more than one for his boy..........this arranged marriage usually stand the test of time in the North........most part of these practices is not strange anyway......it is generally expected that a man takes care of his wife anywhere in the world.... irrespective of the status of the man relative to the wife. Others are people that are poor.....they surely get married and contentment make their marriage last. West is somewhat a control society when it comes to marriage.....until the brainwashing of the woke creep in....... The west has a strong cultural procedure for marriages..the same motive for early marriage in the North is why the Westerners give formal education to their children male and female alike....... which is why they are educated, enlightened and open minded.......inclusiveness of extended family members on almost all things.......as a matter of fact.....during traditional married, the bride is handed over to the groom's father; culturally, the new family is an extension of the groom's father family, hence the groom's father has the responsibility to guide the new family through the right path to happily ever after......just has he is sustaining his own They are conscious of the consequences of given birth out of wedlock, divorces, separation etc......the west also take work very seriously before marriage..hence every family fend for themselves and assist other extended family members. The East has their peculiar culture that provide for single motherhood, expensive Marita rites, surrogacy, adoption etc.....the consequences of some of these cultural practices is late marriage, unmarried males and females, promiscuity etc. One common things that have affected marriage in Nigeria is the infiltration of foreign cultural practices....and there is nothing that is good without it bad side.... The problems has become compounded because we did not have any cultural shock absorber for the shortcomings of these foreign practices we embraced...... This foreign practices provides for 1) Marriage counselors for marriage challenges.......every culture has it own conflict resolution approaches that had worked wonders in the past....a culture that discouraged third party interference in marriage still provide for paying a third party to tell a wife/husband the effect of nagging, being secretive, being self-centered, being irresponsible, cheating etc on her/his husband/wife ?....that is a society that lacked accountability..... Nigerians has inherent consciousness principles that guild our conducts. 2) Child custody after divorce....there was nothing like child custody in Nigeria before now.......child care is everybody's business.... including relative, neighbors and relations 3) Calculated responsibilities for divorced spouses........How can one accurately and precisely calculate what a child would need and required to be properly trained ? 4) Religion solution to marriage challenges..... Apart for swearing an oath, seeking solution to childlessness........there is no religion solution for bad character, disagreement and disappointment etc in marriage 5) advocate and promote spouses independence and privacy in marriage.....there shouldn't be privacy, secret, personal goals, personal progress between spouses in marriage except for their offsprings....all these should be collective in marriage. 6) Elevate career prosperity above family value and peaceful coexistence..... undivided peace is a prerequisites for progress in a union.... everything cannot about only you and you're still wondering why there is a distrust and resentment. 7) Provide for individual difference, satisfaction and fulfilment above collective family progress......life without sacrifices is not worth living........ 8 ) Discouraged leadership in a marriage......a union without a defined leader won't go far.....there will be lack of coordinator......note. the foreign approach tend to treat marriage like an organization, they alluded that marriage is a partnership for some controversial reasons.....meanwhile in cooperate world, organization has appointed/elected Head (manager/director/ CEO). What all these is doing to us is subtracting trust for agreement in marriage........ 1 Like |
Family / Re: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by kazyhm(m): 3:33pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
godliman: What you outlined in your initial post is the danger of having a side chics to men......I quoted them and asked the question? Maybe you didn't understand what you posted to start with. |
Family / Re: You Left Your Husband Because He Was Cheating. Then This Happens (pix) by kazyhm(m): 2:01pm On Apr 28, 2023 |
godliman: Be deceiving yourself.....what you're saying in essence is that women divorce men to protect men ? |
Family / Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by kazyhm(m): 3:54pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
dhiqson: Persephone1 |
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by kazyhm(m): 11:20pm On Apr 10, 2023 |
The op is not serious What is the correlation between divorce and table |
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by kazyhm(m): 8:49am On Mar 31, 2023 |
[quote author=2016easy2017 post=122187572][/quote] Likewise you......when you become of age, you'll understand what the op wife did. |
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by kazyhm(m): 8:22pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
donaldchidi: You typed absolute nonsense!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by kazyhm(m): 8:08pm On Mar 29, 2023 |
ozalogbo: If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything. My question are ... 1) At the time you sent your mother away, did you actually feel at peace ? 2) At your mother's burial, did you feel she was proud of you as a son ? Being agreeable is not a recipe for peace.....as a matter of fact, if you want true peace, prepare for war!! Ori o j'ori .........that is my submission 17 Likes |
Crime / Re: Any Person Who Unlawfully Kills An Animal Is Liable To Imprisonment- SP Hundeyin by kazyhm(m): 8:03pm On Mar 25, 2023 |
Meaning the Nigeria police have not been doing their work diligently then.....what about all the sallah Ram been slaughtered every every year ? |
Education / Re: Second-class Upper Is Overrated In Nigeria By Deji Yesufu by kazyhm(m): 8:30pm On Mar 22, 2023 |
The conclusion of this article is still the Nigeria's wrong approach of accessing who is doing well is equal to material acquisition.... The article is rather confusing......2:1s are lecturers..... meaning knowledge 2:2 are business men.......meaning trying many error methods till you hit it This article is in a sense very senseless. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by kazyhm(m): 7:09pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
I don't usually understand the contradiction that someone that is always having her ways in every issues is a good person. |
Politics / Re: Mercy Johnson Speaks Esan, Thanks Electorates For Voting For Her Husband by kazyhm(m): 8:46am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Feminist will never use this as a reference. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by kazyhm(m): 8:38am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1: Your age is not a secret going by your experiences with this two men you stated......at what can a gal go spend weekend with a boyfriend? O ti n doko, ojo tipe. |
Politics / Re: Presidential Poll: Why Pollsters Got Outcome Wrong by kazyhm(m): 8:09am On Mar 12, 2023 |
I didn't believe any of the pre-election polls....for just one reason. The responders to the 2023 pre-election polls are the aggrieved. The rest of the population are not keen to participate in pre-election poll.....this is what I believe introduced bias into the sample size of polls survey. Ordinarily, you shouldn't expect 100% accuracy.......the election has its obvious irregularities........ notwithstanding, the pre-election polls presented the intentions of those that participated. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: 4 Ways You Can "Honor Your Father And Mother" by kazyhm(m): 7:38am On Mar 12, 2023 |
toloohthegreat: Different interpretations has been right and wrong all along.....the spirit of God has being the most subjective and factional reference......... ironically......how knowledgeable the interpreter is, is a factor. |
Religion / Re: 4 Ways You Can "Honor Your Father And Mother" by kazyhm(m): 7:13am On Mar 12, 2023 |
You points are subjective..........in most part, your fact and misconception contracts..... 1) Accepting an authority that is not the ultimate?...at some material time, that would be problematic. 2) Holding strong opposing beliefs is a recipe for intolerant. 3) Your parents' traditions is what they are.....and by extension what you are...... traditions are not necessarily evil. 4) In some context, control and guidance can be used interchangeably. |
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