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iamsparrow:
7. Spending hours/days in Church premises. Nigerians are prepared to forgo earning a living just to spend days in a religious place of worship. You find that churches and mosques draw more people than social events that would benefit everyone.

they would rather sponsor pilgrimage than to fix the road close to their house

if we know our value, decision won't be hard.

in the same vein, if we understand our problems well enough, solutions will not be far fetch

its either you choose to be a well fed slave or an hungry free man


the only genuine problem I can see is No 2

the solution is to think out ways to increase the left over money because a bird at hand is better than thousand of birds in the bush

1) you can move your family to a smaller and cheaper apartment
2) invest the money wisely
while searching for a better job
3) cut all unnecessary expenditure

when succeed in doing these, you can send yourself on any course
if you like go to space to study *home economy*


that's the road to a wealthy life

smh

eyinjuege:
1. Maybe the sex has become boring. She doesn't enjoy it anymore with you.

2. Or maybe she's really tired as she says she is.
Does she work? What time does she get home from work? Who picks up the kids from school? Who takes care of them after school? Who takes care of the cooking?, cleaning, washing?
If she does all these alone, she will be genuinely tired everyday. The traffic situation alone can cause a headache on its own. Having young children screaming I want this, I want that can cause another headache. Cooking different meals for the children, and then for the older ones too everyday can stress you out too.

3. Also, women do think about money issues too.
So if she's broke and there are some expenses pending in the home like house rent, school fees, changing her car because the old one keeps giving her trouble, sex would be far from her mind.

Some men find sex as a stress reliever, and when stressed they want sex.
Its not the same for most women, who when stressed see sex as more stress or even a stress inducer.

I have some questions for you

cococandy:
How did those ladies calling you get your number? You're married and still distributing your number everywhere and have the guts to brag about it.
If you want to smoothen things over with your wife, talk to her about it not us. We can't say anything that will make her change Except you're going to show her this thread. And stop giving ladies your number.

you are so wrong !!!

habebe1:
I would like to let you know that this response is not aimed at discrediting your experience. However, it still does not answer a question I have been asking for a long time now? What is exclusive to christians? I am agnostic but was born into a liberal christian family. My doubts developed in my early teens even before external influences such as books or Internet.

I can't deny that there were times during my late teens and early adulthood that I felt the emptiness. This made me consciously seek God but every time I sat in church I just could not comprehend what these guys were talking about or why they used very funny fatuous stories to explain passages. I gave up, it wasn't for me. ( Guess the devil really has a hold on me)

Back to my question, what is exclusive to christians? Money, happiness, long life? I respect the christian institution and what it has done for Africa but can't understand why people freak out when I choose not to live my life according to the principles of someone whose life did not cover such important areas like marriage and owning a business to name a few ( Being very basic here). I honestly wish I was in the born again bubble sometimes, I have really tried but like I said earlier it did not work.

Maybe God would find me one day like Paul. Until then I live my life happily as I can in this tough but promising country called Nigeria while not being an alcoholic, chain smoker or drug user. I refuse to believe I would be sent to burn in a special furnace for quenching my biological needs( thats the only "sin" I think I commit now). All the same I am happy for you OP

my problem is some people think they've seen it all

they judge every other things/being by their own experiences

they measure every other things/being by their own strength

now if a Muslim narrate his own story, it won't make any sense to the op

4everGod:
smh. Where did he say he saved himself from himself or even where did he say he saved a man from himself?

I used the phrase because he left deceit to self destruction and claiming been saved by change in perception ( believes /God/religion )


you can as well pay attention to my signature

winner01:
TheSixthSense, I praise God for your life. I've also been in such a situation. I stem from an islamic background and later professed Christ (after someone preached to me) even though I didnt even know what I was into. I sought to know the reality of the scriptures. Nigerian churches were not helping matters. During my service year, I had to stop going to church because the preaching and testimonies and even seats were clear show off, no single regard for the poor and needy. They had few churches around and most were the same. I remember my older brother who had just got converted telling me to just seek God and keep an open mind. I had told him earlier that i'm okay and I live a good life, I didnt need anybody to tell me what to do.
I didnt want to be affliated with religion or even atheism. I just wanted to be that free intelligent and self-reliant human. My parents also encouraged freedom of religion so that made it easy.

I "enjoyed" my life to the fullest. What we call enjoyment is actually killing us. I lost 2 of my friends to alcohol. One drowned while drunk, the other died while driving him to the hospital. I remember we had an accident while coming back from a club in lagos, the car summersaulted from overspeeding, no one was injured, we all got down laughing at our drunk friends who drove.

Recently one of my very close friends called me to tell me that she does not have a womb anymore. Do I need to talk about my battle with glaucoma. Most of the friends that I had are either addicts of alcohol, marijuana e.t.c. So I smile when atheists are telling me to enjoy my life. I actually live a better life right now than the sick, unrestrained and devil controlled life I've lived as a young man. I've noticed that the devil is in control of most of the lives of those people who think they are directing themselves.

My being sober still did not lead me to Christ, an ex-cultist made me see the world for what it really is. A man who was active in a spiritual realm controlled by demons started to tell me the inner workings of such government. I started to think to myself "are these things real?"...

Bros, lemme just stop here. I've seen things in this life. I'm more than convinced that Jesus is Lord. Maybe I should just open a thread on why I am a Christian.

I think you are more confused than convinced

you can't save a man from himself !

2BB4CB3E:
later slim creatures will be claiming relevance

No matter how ugly ure, just have a big butt and the world is yours!

she is not famous because she caught saddam or she destroyed isis, she is because of the beauty behind her!

that tells you alot about the power of a big ass!

in other news heard that a guy came back to life after seeing her butt

you no go kee pesin

this is what she went there to do

ah!!

TerrorSquad147:
Since I was born I've dated only older ladies, and the truth is I've always enjoyed our relationship. But the sad thing is that they can't continue to wait cos of this marriage issue. I miss them so much, even though we still contact each other. I've trying to date younger girls, but it hasn't been easy for me cos it seems like we don't have same ideology.

thought i'm the only one with this issue

good, good and good

adewumiopeyemi:
4. Flower Warning
Please, the school that whoever wrote this sign went to deserves to be closed.

seriously ?

what can you do ? what will you do ?





if that happened to you.....





























































you are a fucking fool

JerryGonzalez:
edakun epp me
how's it done

by sacrificing two solid balls to save one big BALL

JerryGonzalez:
without fuckdingg

maybe if you wanna fu*k, you know what to do

Love Machine:
It is her right hand finger

finger ke
her hand go long pass oparun be that na

its not what people think, you know cloths can be acting on its own sometimes ?

TrapQueen77:



I wanna find someone who can appreciate love as I do

yeah!! I did check your profile are you satisfy ?

they actually need your love to do their job, why don't you give it unconditionally ?

bisi16:
Do u have up to N7million?

7m or 45m he is talking about ATPL not CPL plus Buhari is ruling

on point

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lively piece

ok

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lol

marriage stressing people unnecessarily. you have a very honest husband right there, but if you refuse to realise this, you might change him in no time.

but then, "crush" is just a fantasy, most people realise they are been fooled by their imaginations when they finally meet their crush but they would have thrown away good people before then.

even if it true, you can save him from his illusion.

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