₦airaland Forum

doveda:
I don't think we are talking about the same thing. Those who are complaining about Buhari are basically. Those who expected Buhari to just wave a wand and make everything better. Those people are the ones I call mor.ons. I am not saying Buhari was the wrong choice. I still think he is what we needed.

blueAgent:
Idiot but you believe Evolution without seeing it.was evolution and Bigbang not written by men? have they been proved?
You don't know how stupid atheism makes you look like.

KingCheezyPuff:

KingCheezyPuff:

RoyalBlak007:
Interesting

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halfricanadian:
Ho!
Wat happen

halfricanadian:
things like this makes we singles happy we dont go tru dis no more yaaaaaaaay

SANDOSKI:

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#B7CEEC][/color]*If you do,I'll leave again [/color]

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#B7CEEC]*Sing
...like a song?
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KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#B7CEEC]*Kay[/color]

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#B7CEEC]Uhm,yer difficult.
....bye[/color]

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#B7CEEC]*but you where chastising me, yeah[/color]

Estharfabian:
You need chemistry to Love someone.

pennytration:
I'm not talking bout lust/infatuation but real love. Can u love her with all ur heart to the extent of marrying her if she was the one that chyked you? Or do you think she's not worth it?

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#B7CEEC]*Can you say that in English?
°•I'm American an I think yer ranting at me but....[/color]

humilitypays:
Before you read further, please note that I do understand that there are both male and female feminists; people who believe in equal right for women, and again do note that I am only concerned about Nigerian female feminists because I know that there are no sincere male feminists in Nigeria.

Any Nigerian man you see forming or claiming a feminists just want to attract cheap-admiration from the feminists women.

Now to the topic, feminists will continue to be jokers in Nigeria for the following reasons:

1. Most Nigerian Feminists are Ugly, Unattractive Women: ‎
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In Nigeria, once a lady is ugly, physically unattractive to men, she automatically becomes a feminists, using feminism to show her anger towards men.‎

2. Nigerian Feminists are Heartbroken, Lonely, Bitter Women!

You can hardly see a young pretty Nigerian lady enjoying the company of amazing men, and who gets showered with love, gifts, money and favor talk about being a feminists.

Nigerian ladies only turn to feminists when they fail to find a male partner to love, when many men have broken their heart due to their greed and selfishness in selecting a man to date or marry.

If you doubt me, from today, observe those Nigerian ladies who claim to be feminists, you will discover that they have been heartbroken many times by men, reason they forcefully became fake feminists to wage their anger and frustration with men, pity them‎

3. Nigerian Feminists are Hypocrist:

In Nigeria, girls, ladies and women believe that it is their sole right to be taken care of by men. No Nigerian lady would function in a relationship she is sharing 50-50 of the expenses and running cost.

No Nigerian lady will gladly accept a man who earns less than her as a boyfriend or husband. If she does, it's probably because she couldn't find a richer man to love or the richer guys she desires only used and dumped her for other women, which made her to settle for a man she earns more than grudgingly most times.

And even after accepting such man, she will make life a living hell for him by reminding him of his financial shortcomings whenever an opportunity avails.

In order words, Nigerian women want gender equality but still they want men to be in charge of their financial upkeep.

Nigerian feminists only remember gender equality when it comes to good jobs, political posts and appointments, etc, but when it comes to spending, dating, marriage and finance, they forget gender equality and expect Nigerian men to spend more since they are the men.

Why don't hear that Nigerian feminists are fighting to have equal number of combatant soldiers in Nigerian army? Instead they struggle for office jobs where they will sit with computer in a cozy office to browse the social media and get huge pay at the end of the month, and then come online to claim feminists while still searching for a richer man to spend on them and come pay huge dowry to their parents in the name of marriage, smh

How many Nigerian feminists have bought a car, a house, etc for their boyfriend, lover or husband without complain or noise? But majority of ‎Nigerian men do this on daily basis with joy, yet Nigerian women come online to claim feminists that want gender equality and treatment, how?


4. Marriage Dowry:

So long as Nigerian feminists allow their parents to keep collecting or accepting huge dowry to marry them off to their suitors, then Nigerian female feminists will continue to be seen as jokers!

If you want gender equality, then abolish traditional and cultural practices that appear to sell the woman to men.

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5. No Feminists Exist in Nigeria Anyway:

Any lady that tells you she is a feminist, ask her religion; if she is a Christian or Muslim, then she's just being bitter out of relationship and marriage frustration, you know why?

The Holy Bible made it clear that the man is the head of the family!

Quran ‎also exalted men above women, reason men are allowed to marry as many wives as they can care for in Islam.

So in conclusion, ignore any Nigerian lady calling herself a feminist because she is just acting out of frustration.

Nature didn't favor everybody equally, so no need of forming one thing just because things didn't go the way you desired....keep hoping and believing, and with time, you will achieve your goal, no need of venting your anger on men in the name of feminism and those gender equality nonsense that can never be achieved till the end of the world.‎

Enahi:
Why me? Why are you men very manipulative?
I am tired, tired and irritated.

It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little.
The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.

Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.

Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.

I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.

I am tired.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#F87217]*° You ran into 1 of the playas amongst us!! [/color]

rose54321:
Guys try not to f.uck up, this could be u
Girls, say NO to second chances...

IRserveMyComent:
thats when the bro is under the influence of something stronger than him

daretodiffer:
I am glad you know what you are

daretodiffer:
Some people sha like to think like mor.ons.

In Nigeria, we have several homes where the elder brother beats up junior sister. Would you say she would be right to light him up so he could receive sense?

IRserveMyComent:
That she came online is another thing all together. If you decide to quote me argue within my comment not bringing another issue all together. No clear headed soul can do that to their own blood. Its either he is under the influence of drugs, alcohol, or bad friends.

Amaechi5:
I decided to write this because i think this issue of our network providers deceiving us with their fake data plans is getting out of hand.

I will say this this started with airtel Nigeria, transferred to Glo and now mtn. Why won't they be straight forward and be truthful with their data plans, airtel will tell you you can get 10gb data at the price of N3500(example), but in the true sense it is 4gb for N4000 with their DATA ZAPPING.

Glo followed suite with Glo blackberry plan which normally last longer but now you can't use Glo blackberry plan for 3 weeks. Then the one freaking me out is MTN NOW ZAPS DATA. I'm still trying to figure out how 3.5gb data that i subscribed last two weeks Sunday without downloading or updating my apps, is now remaining 266mb right now.

Mtn are not known to zap data and this isn't the first time i subscribed for their new data plan but it seems they have followed the footsteps of Airtel and Glo to zap data or maybe what happened to me is a network issue as some are complaining about the new data plans.

But why will these networks entice us with low cost for a high bundle plan. When i used airtel 9gb for N3,500 i nearly broke my airtel sim card with anger as it didn't last up to 2 weeks without any sort of downloads. Am afraid etisalat might soon join the trend.

MTN if you are offering 1.5gb for N1000 or 3.5GB data for N2000, let it be real. Not 600mb in disguise of 1.5gb or 1.2gb in disguise of 3.5GB data.

Airtel if you are offering 10gb data for N5000, let it be real not 4gb in disguise of 10gb data

Etisalat i hope you guys don't follow this trend as I'm planning to fully port to etisalat because of this issue.

IRserveMyComent:
My dear from my comment i did not judge the bro. I only said I dont think any one with a clear head can do this to their elder sis no matter what she did. Truth be told, can you do a thing like this to your elder sis wit your head very clear?.

IRserveMyComent:
From her lamentation about being raised in a Godly home and asking what the guy has turned to, i guess the guy has joined a bad group or has started using drugs. No younger bro in their right senses can do this to their elder sis no matter what she did.

thesicilian:
There are some things that sound good to the ears and seem to make a lot of sense, but on indepth analysis turn out to be not so true. This article is one of such.

I'm almost certain you aunty did not on her own decide not to attend a university, it is most likely to have been due environmental factors such as finance, external exams like WAEC & JAMB, or even her own flair (or lack of it) for bookwork..

The richest man in the world did not drop out of university because he did not like university or he was too dull, he dropped out because he was too busy with his programming and the school work was a distraction. Mind you, he was enrolled at Harvard, an elite school strictly for the creme de la creme.

Not every graduate looks for a job. Some get a job while still in school, some right after school, some start up their own companies after university.

Not all job seeking graduates are unkempt, like the one you described above.


The fact that one person made it without seeing the four walls of a university does not call for a condemnation of those who graduated from universities. Your aunty may not have attended one, but its most likely that she had benefited from the knowledge of those who did, either in the planning stages or in the form of formal or informal consultations.

The university does not make you to be dependent on a job, it is the kind of education you give yourself that determines how you turn out in life. The university is a place for learning and research, it is not supposed to be a sit-in-the-classroom-and-copy-notes set up.

And finally I think if anything is overrated, it is the notion of "do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life''. Yes it may be less stressful because you have a passion for it, but you still have to work your ass off daily if you intend to make any meaningful impact...

Explorers:
I even said "Imagine ordering 5plates" it never happened, just an imagination.

Adaobi12:
For a lady to come along with three of her friends on a date, means only one thing: YOU ARE A MAGA. A lady that likes you will certainly look forward to a time alone with you.