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hey dude, whats the millage of the car. i am interested. Is it Nigerian used? why are you selling? inbox me at kaybedavid@ymail.com. lets talk

I've met SISQO, he was in my uni a couple of years ago. we hung out..he was such a nice guy. he knew so much about Nigeria. Met Genevieve Nnaji at Heathrow last year. Also met Tuface, Stella Damasus, Uti, Julius Agwu.
Most post modern stars from Jos were my friends/acquaintance b4 they hit it big. P-square, MI, Katung, Kevin Pam. I remember paying P square 30,000 naira to perform at my show in 2002

pls send images to kaybedavid@ymail.com pls..im interested

Nice one from Otedollar.It still doesnt change the fact that you are a snitch and a M0RON.I repeat You are a M0ron

Ladies..If the pick up line is dry tell the guy. Its bad enuf bring a son of a b.itch, U dont have to be a st.upid son of a b.itch

1.me; Am I invincible?
Girl: no
Me: can u see me?
girl: sure
Me: are u sure u can see me?
girl: yea, why
Me: how about tomorow, coffee? Tea? a movie

2.You are so beautiful u made me forget my pickup line
3. I spent over a grand on viagra today only to come here and see you and find out i dont need it after all
4. Me;If u were a tree You would be that tree
Girl: why?
me: cos I like that tree

Even though I do not think GEJ is capable of leading Nigeria, It is an exactly move Col Sambo Dasuki is Baddass. This is certainly an IBB appointment because the guy is really close to IBB. Means IBB might have decided to help GEJ end the biko haram saga. That is if we can trust IBB to keep his words. Being a direct decendent of Othman Danfodio and an excelent military intelligience guy he will have a lot of respect from the military circle. Col Dasuki was part of the Obasanjo/Yaradua/Gwadabe Phantom coup during the Abacha days. He left the country before he was arrested. This is the best move by GEJ. welldone

THISDAY newspaper has clearly shown that it is a PDP paper. They seem to be getting all the exclusive news from otedola's camp. Segun Adeniyi and Nduka Obaigbena are Just interested in making money. How else can one describe how Segun Adeniyi Betrayed Yaradua by milking Official and personal information abt the late president and smiling to the bank with his book. If a Revolution ever takes place. these guys should not be spared.

Ngozi ambition was just a day dream. My problem is that it is a day dream that the entire government believed in..such a shame

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A smart, honest and brave Nigerian who speaks the truth no matter whose Ox is gored.

There are the most Ignorant f00ls we have in Nigeria, A typical lagosian will tell u benue is the capital of Jos or that hausa's inhabit Kogi/North central states. they know nothing outside lagos or at best Yoruba land

I would go with Mo however IMO MEE MOFE DAMIJO was the best, these three dont come close to her MEE and U show, For those who were 90's TV peeps.U know what Im talking about.

logica:
Which mushroom universities are these people mentioning?

If the ranking I was familiar with a decade ago still holds, then the ranking is in this order:

Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife
University of Ibadan, Ibadan
University of Lagos, Akoka

All of them for SW abi? berra be sure b4 u post crap?

Unijos and OAU use to have the best Pharmacy schools for ages, Dont kno about now, There consistently competed at the annual pharmacy competitions, There are about 8 universities doing pharmacy in Nigeria abt  5 yrs ago, dnt know abt now though

nice move boss,

victorazy:
@ kbdrim:
why they no go brazil? who sabi play ball for naija again?

U c ur life? Look at way u talk u cockamamie

iDIOTA, NA QUESTION I ASK, WHO SABI PLAY BALL FOR NAIJA?, NOTHING WILL COME OUT OF IT, ALL NA JOB

what is PAWA 774

Zina na yoruba name abi na ibo?

why they no go brazil? who sabi play ball for naija again?

in order words buy your second hand vehicles from me ;d ;d

Is masturbation wrong?

candleby Matt Slick

The Bible does not discuss masturbation at all. This seems a little odd since it is such a strong and prevalent human event. And, given that Leviticus has so much to say about sexuality, one would think it natural that the subject would be covered. But it isn't. Masturbation is not specifically declared to be sinful. Nevertheless, we must be cautious to pronounce something to be sinful or not sinful when God has not discussed it. Therefore, we have to derive principles from scripture on related sexual issues and see if we can wisely apply them to the subject of masturbation.

First of all, sex was created by God for procreative purposes, physical enjoyment, and the demonstration of intimacy between a husband and a wife. In this context, the sexual act is intended to occur in a healthy marriage relationship between husband and wife in purity and holiness. In contrast to this, masturbation is the self-stimulation to the point of sexual release without the gifting of a spouse. It would seem that masturbation is a denial of the sexual design of God for couples. But, is it sinful? Again, answering this question is difficult because the Bible does not pronounce it as sin. Nevertheless, there is the principle of purity that is obvious true. Does masturbation fall under the category of purity?

We can say this for sure. If masturbation involves sexual fantasies and/or pornography, then it is certainly not pure and is very sinful. The Bible clearly teaches that our minds are as important to God as our bodies are and that we are to remain pure in both. Jesus said, "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery'; 28 but I say to you, that everyone who looks on a woman to lust for her has committed adultery with her already in his heart," (Matt. 5:27-28). Jesus is saying that thinking lustful thoughts is sinful. Therefore, masturbation involving sexual fantasies (at least not of one's spouse) is undoubtedly sinful.

But this brings up the issue of a spouse masturbating while thinking of his/her spouse. Is it sinful? Again, since the Bible does not declare it sinful, can we? Let's say that a wife is incapacitated by an accident and is in the hospital for an extended period of time. Is it alright for the husband to masturbate if he thinks only of his wife in order to relieve sexual tension? Again, without a specific declaration of scripture it is difficult pronounce it as sinful. On the one hand, his body is not his own and it is for his wife and he is not to be mastered by anything (1 Cor. 6:12). But on the other hand, she is not available. Would his masturbation be sinful should he commit it if he only thought of his wife? I cannot say for sure.

Then again, what if someone masturbates with absolutely no sexual fantasy of any sort. Is it then sinful? Again, this is difficult to answer. But, since the Bible doesn't condemn or condone it, can we make dogmatic assertions? Furthermore, what if a person masturbates in order to reduce the sexual urge in an attempt to not commit fornication? Certainly, actual fornication would be a sin, and masturbation would be preferable in this instance. But does this mean that the person is being mastered by the flesh? If so, then that would be wrong. But, does it mean then that a self-release of sexual tension is then acceptable if it is to avoid fornication? Again, since the Bible does not declare masturbation a sin, I cannot say it is.

Let's look at some verses that speak of sexual morality. I will comment after each one.

1 Cor. 6:18, "Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body."
The Greek word for "immorality" is porneia which means illicit sexual intercourse, i.e., fornication, homosexuality, lesbianism, bestiality, etc. The English word "pornography" is derived from this Greek word.
Eph. 5:3, "But do not let immorality or any impurity or greed even be named among you, as is proper among saints."
Again, the word for "immorality" is porneia.
Col. 3:5, "Therefore consider the members of your earthly body as dead to immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry."
Again, the word for "immorality" is porneia.
1 Thess. 4:2-5, "For you know what commandments we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus. 3 For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality; 4 that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, 5 not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God."
Again, the word for "sexual immorality" is porneia. The reference in verse four to "own vessel" is to having a wife so that fornication would be avoided.

Conclusion

The goal of the Christian life is to be pure in thought and deed. I believe that the issue of masturbation comes down to this. Therefore, I believe that though masturbation under certain circumstances may not be sinful, the desire to be sexual pure and holy should move the Christian to avoid it. Instead, he or she should seek to master the body and not give into its desires. The fight against masturbation can be a lesson in controlling the body which can have great spiritual benefits. Giving in to masturbation can have spiritual consequences and mastering the body can bring great spiritual benefit. Perhaps God did not mention masturbation the Bible because He is so aware of our sinful tendencies, our situations, our difficulties, etc., and desires that we seek holiness and purity by seeking to master our own flesh. If God had declared that it was not a sin, then we can rest assured that we would misuse the act and become enslaved by it.

If, however, you are bound by masturbation and war against it because it masters you, then you continually need to go to the cross and ask the Lord to forgive you. Also, pray and ask the Lord to provide you a spouse so that you would not fall into bondage of the flesh.
What about Onan in Gen. 38:9?

Some erringly cite Onan in Gen. 38:9 who spilled his seed on the ground, as a justification for masturbation. But this is a mistake since this is not dealing with masturbation.

"And Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so it came about that when he went in to his brother’s wife, he wasted his seed on the ground, in order not to give offspring to his brother," (Gen. 38:9).

This is not about masturbation. It is about the failure of Onan to give children to Tamar, the widow of his brother, and fulfill his duty to raise offspring in his brother's name. By refusing his obligation, he sinned.
http://carm.org/masturbation

queensmith:
Are u minding him? Mshew. Like a bank teller doesnt use his salary to sustain his family. Such ignorance.

I would suggest a teenage section on nairaland. u certainly aint reasoning like an adult. If u dont really know what a career really is, I dont know the basis upon which ur entire arguement has really been

ronkebp:
i was just saying a teller today can be a CEO tomorrow and can decide to have a career in banking.

A CEO tomorrow is most likely to see his time as a bank teller as a job not a career, Let us not mix things up, How many CEO's started their banking careers as bank Tellers, Over 90% of bank tellers cant develop careers from that JOB.

ronkebp:
So a teller cannot have a career in banking?

IMO and again I cud be wrong, Sacrificing Family for a career as a teller doesnt make sense, That is a ''job'' for school leavers in developed countries

davidylan:
Secondly i here a lot of folks bandying the word "career" around. Are we really clear what this means or are folks who work as bank tellers also claiming to have a "career"?

Nice one mate, that na Job no be career. These days even  9-5 call center work don turn career for some people 

cold:
The journalist just wrote Toto without indicating where it is located based on the assumption that everyone must know where Toto is.How silly is that?For the record,Toto is a local government in Bauchi state & not the Toto on everyone's mind .Hope that clears things up

Are you sure Igbo boy?, the last time i Checked it was in Nassarawa State and not Bauchi, Nassarawa Toto is the fullname.

hbabe:
Thats good to hear.  So what do you do around the house to lighten the burdens on your wife? (I am assuming you are married)

Im not married yet but very soon I hope to be, I ve got an idea of what a perfect man should do and I ve decided I would work hard to be that man. luckily for my spouse Im not really a food person but I would never allow my wife slave herself in the kitchen while I sit reading newspapers. we would work together cleaning the house, Cooking together. I would ask her to take time off once in a while to go have fun with her friends while i take care of the kids for days. I will be a slave for her if need be. Im not a sticker for made at home meals 24/7 so if we are not up to it we can eat out,  I would also take care of all the manly stuff-fixing the car, electronics etc, Life is simpler than we make it to be.

queensmith:
i was asking! m[i]o[/i]ron! hence the question mark! f[i]o[/i]ol!

To answer ur question yes she was married thrice and had kids, She did accomplish very great stuff, As Africans dont read You wont know her, I see her as the greatest female writer of all time but at the end of her life she was bold enough to let people like you know that you would probably find more satisfaction in life when relationships take priority over awards, money, careers, properties. that it is not decisions we take when we are young and ignorant that matter. it is how you feel at the end of your life. Most successful people are not bold enough to admit at the end of their lifes that they were not happy people and she was bold enough to do that. Go read biographies of great people like Paul Getty and others and you would be able to reason better young lady and not follow opinions of talk show host who havent come to the end of their lives yet. A word is enough for the wise