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Heathrow44:
Well I think if a professor wants to work in a uni, that has laws for LGBT then he/she needs to respect the identities and sexual orientation of this minority, I think she's a first offender and d school mgt won't sack her over this, but also on a second note, people are entitled to their personal opinions, there's freedom of speech, and nobody can force u to say things u don't believe in, on one side we re talking about freedom of association and on d other freedom of Speech when this two freedoms clash, the justice has to be apt without further ado

There is no such thing as freedom of speech in the West, it is a mirage.

You are not allowed to have an opinion.

abbey621:
You're spewing nonsense, I prefer to believe my colleagues over here than you, continue arguing with your phone.....PEACE!

Bro, first of all, you denied that legal prenups could be thrown out of court. Then I asked you Google, then you went & came back. Now to say It has only 10% of occurence, nobody is arguing about the occurrence. Knowledge is not about location, the information is online for everyone to see. The fact is that anything that can be invalidated by a Judge for any flimsy reason cannot be taken lightly & the woman can have someone testify against you in court that this happened years ago & you have no evidence to prove it otherwise except your prenup. That is the end of the road for you.

abbey621:
Claiming duress is different than proving duress, this is why a competent lawyer must draft the prenup, it must be signed by witnesses, be factual, fair and notarized. If all these things are present, the success rate of invalidating a prenup is lower than 10%, I challenge you to prove otherwise, this is not an argument, this is a fact based on experience and being conversant with the legal landscape in the USA, you don't have to agree

The lawyer who drafted the prenup will not be there many years later when the Judge is reviewing it, you people should be using your head. People have been trying this and failing. You better don't get married in American if you know yo have a lot to use. Don't say you were not warned. Be there and continue arguing. Even Dr. Dre's Wife claims his prenup was invalid, not everyone would be lucky like Dre eventually!

abbey621:
Are we talking about legally or are we considering sentiments? A prenup properly written by a competent lawyers, signed in front of witnesses and a notary will never be thrown out, California or not! You can't claim duress if the prenup was signed at least 2 months before the wedding and done in good faith. Your idea of cohabitation is also rubbish because if no women like to sign a prenup guess what they hate more? Lack of marital commitment!

Bro leave all this english, legally if you sign a prenup, the Judge can throw it out if your wife claims that she signed it out of duress.

The Judge is totally able to ignore any Prenup signed if he "thinks that it was unfair or signed out of duress.

Use Google bro, I am not here to argue. Prenup won't save you from shit.

abbey621:
First of all it is not 'most', the correct qualifier is 'some'! Next, why aren't men being sensible by having a prenup? A prenup 99% of the time solves the issue you brought up, the vast majority of divorce in the USA happens due to infidelity and statistically men get caught more then women when it comes to cheating hence the reason why the law is skewed the way it is!

A prenup will be 100% thrown out in the state of California if the woman claims that she signed it on duress. A prenup is a waste of time in many ways because it is almost impossible to convince your GF to sign the prenup. No woman wants to sign it. The best way to solve the issue is never to get married, just co-habit and then pay for child support if the kids come. That's why Mikel Obi or C. Ronaldo will never get married until his DEATH. So many countries or cities have unique laws against prenups and it will shock you that it doesn't keep people safe that much.

California co-habitation laws

"Living together without being married or being in a civil partnership means you do not have many rights around finances, property and children. Consider making a will and getting a cohabitation agreement to protect your interests."

airsaylongcome:
I know an open source Fintech app written in Java. In use by a number of Fintechs globally. Also used by at least one local Microfinance bank with good presence in Lagos

Your answer is the correct one, not all the nonsense people above are saying.

fman:
you are wrong cause what I meant was it's libraries

Ok, this statement from you will confuse too many people "Flutterwave was built using flutter frameworks".

meobizy:
Surely Jesus talked about it. Didn’t he?

I am just seeing this your thread, abortion is supposed to be killing a baby. We can both agree on that.

fman:
You r not getting me right .
What do u think that an SDK is
And a library?
You are actually getting urself confused here.
Google will only give u a micro insight into what it is all about.

Okay. Your point was Flutterwave was built with Flutter. It is not. But they do have a Flutter Library or SDk. Simple as that.

fman:
Go and check it's implementation and flutter libraries.
Flutterwave is way extensive
More than u think and can apprehend.
It has a vast flutter library with documentation..
Check their repository at GitHub.

I am not even a programmer, I am Cyber Security Analyst but I understand basic terminologies that you were suppose to study but you jumped hoops to where you are, typical Nigerians. Flutterwave is a payment/Fintech company that has many services built on micro service architectures. Those services that provide payments, transfers, receipts etc for you are the actual services. An SDK or Library is just a middleman that connects the Client (Which is you) to their services. A library or SDK is different from actual Flutterwave Fintech company & their services. The Flutterwave SDK is owned by Flutterwave but that isn't their main service, it is just a middleman.

Go and read what a library or an SDK is, then come back.

fman:
Let me educate u Abit.
Flutterwave was built using flutter frameworks....
Flutterwave is a fintech company.
Flutter is a framework built on dart.
Dart is a programming language developed by Google.
Shikena.
No dey beat around the bush wt plenty Grammer.
Else you get a bug..

Sorry but which part of Flutterwave gaan gaan?

Do you realise that the Flutterwave SDKs you are using is just a middleman to connect you to Flutterwave services. The SDKs is not even their main technology that processes their services, payments, switches and many more.

You can write your SDK in many languages depending on who is consuming it, iOS SDK, Flutter SDK, PHP Core SDK, Go SDK, Python SDK or Wordpress Plugins etc.

So I ask you again, are you sure you know what you're saying & which part of Flutterwave was built Flutter?

missimelda01:
As expected, blame God for your bad decisions.

The people above me have spoken so well, I think it's okay to leave your marriage because of the reasons you've mentioned. God is always there for you, he loves you and wants the best for you, it's not late to start all over.

got to know this things by plain accident after having lived with him for a few months. I still cannot understand how he cleverly hid this part of himself from me for so long. On the outside, he seems like a gentle man, always dresses in native wears so how come?

This is how she judges that he his a calm & God fearing man. Kaftan & nice native wears
Let us go and sow some natives this weekend, I am about to meet some new Wife materials

Mindlog:
Sex? Nah, not everyone can.

Let's not forget we have people who are asexual, amongst us.

That's the major point you are missing, the person hired to have sex is not attracted to their client. Prostitution is just a job like any other type of job or entrepreneurship that could have emotion/personal relationship has a side attraction but not really the vocal point.

We are paid to do a job, do it & keep it moving. That is what porn stars do, a lot of cameras while they are filming. Once the film is over, the male & female actors go their way. End of contract.

Mindlog:
But in reality, he can't be all that to her because he also has his own life to live.

You should have to consider that overwhelming majority of those into prostitution struggle with depersonalization, where they are disassociated from self in order to live through such life....there are mental health issues associated with prostitution and for many, even if you give them N10m, they will still continue prostituting.

I think men and especially women should be honest about this conversations, let's stop blaming our problems on depersonalization, depression and devil or any spiritual thing like some people have been doing on this thread, not you though.

Prostitution is easy money for people, It is simply high risk and high reward journey. The reason you give them 10M & they continue is because of the amount of brain work and commitment that is required to function in 9-5 environment or become a legit entrepreneur. Sex is a dumb activity, anybody can perform it and It requires the most minimal brain work.

In advanced societies like America, Russia, Czech Republic and Hungary have the world largest porn stars. I did this research years ago. As someone who has some family members in America, I can tell you that there are jobs every where that pays way above minimum wage but women still troop into the Porn and OnlyFans industry. America is not a place like Nigeria where there are few jobs to feed as long you can work, but women still flood porn industry in drones.

And yes, men also flood the porn industry too. It simply means they go where the money is, just like the women.

Sanchez01:
You are ruling out the Aregbesola factor here. Man is so bent on messing up Tinubu so bad and this guber loss for Tinubu is only one of them. With Tinubu's reckless utterances over the years in Osun, some of which are being echoed by the electorates recently, EscoBAT will definitely have it rough in Osun in 2023.

Tinubu problem is over confidence. He sees himself as God and that is what Nigerians don't want. We don't want another Abacha.

If this was America, she would have been making money on OnlyFans just for being tall.

Thank God for other parts of the world where there is normalcy.

ibechris:
One is plaiting hair...she read accounting!

Same way u are thinking,is same way some rich people are becoming poorer.

Anything is possible in Nigeria.

You sure say na first class she come out with

That one no be First Class oh

Vinnie2000:
A Unilag First Class graduate becoming a Keke Rider? Not Possible, right?

In my School Delsu, Abraka, First Class Graduates had lots of Juicy and Lucrative offers upon Graduation. (Particularly during the administration of Emmanuel Uduaghan. Cant say for Okowa.)
Even UNIBEN First Class graduates are Big boys in Town!

So i find it hard to believe all those Keke and Okada stuffs.

It could be 1st class graduate in Igbo or Yoruba language studies, so you can't tell.

Mindlog:
Mine was income generating before I arrived the UK, even from my third year as an undergraduate working in a therapy practice. I remember our H.O.D back then telling us in our first year that if by our third year we are not already earning income from what we have been taught, we are just wasting our time!

I know that Ojota chemical market very well because it was my hood, guys who mix chemicals there are cashing out. There is a lady who trended recently (not naming her), she is a 2.1 graduate of chemistry from Unilag and she is into bespoke body cream, many celebs are her clients and she is earning very well.

She is definitely providing value, thats why she is making it. I am sure this 1st class graduate has been carrying his CV about without doing anything tangible since.

Macphenson:
Yes it is, I have a first class currently working on my site as a Labourer. The day the person that brought him to my site told me about him, I started shedding tears.
Right now am even looking for job for him because its becoming increasingly difficult for me to behold a first class working as a Labourer on my site.
He studied chemistry.

He is probably brilliant but had no guidance growing up. I'm afraid that with his mindset, he will suffer more downfall. The art of making money is basically providing value that people can pay for, simple as abc. Your certificates don't matter in that regard, and when they actually do, it is because your certificate in that career path is what people are willing to pay for. You cannot pursue a career that your economy doesn't cater for, except you leave that economy.

Mindlog:
He also has to be creative and not just be looking for jobs. You see that Ojota chemical market in Lagos, he can comfortably earn his livelihood there if he is determined.

You think if people think this way, they wouldn't be in the position they are. That was why I asked if your career path had prospects the last time, because I was tired of people not being able to tie their passion to income generating careers.

TheRealOwner:
Simp

Ok

Itstemi10:
The wide view you see is not a house, it’s a block of houses and yes they rented one of the houses.
The houses are joined together unfortunately making it look as if they rented a small corner.

Joined or terraced houses are rare in Nigeria so you are not expected to understand.
Be a blessing!

Okay, I won't argue with you cause you're a fine girl.

Mindlog:
You don go do CID on top my head.

I have passion for children and adolescents, have always had keen interest in understanding the whys behind their feelings, thinking and behaviours.

Worked in a Child and Adolescent Psychiatric facility and it motivated me to do my specialty in it, thus my Msc in Clinical Child Psychology and hopefully, a professional doctorate later.

Career prospects is very bright with very cool take home pay as the skill is in high demand here in the UK and other countries like the US, Canada, Ireland etc because their systems invests heavily in the mental well-being of their young ones. Most importantly, it is fun working with young ones.

Cool, that's good to know.

Leemekzy:
did you read the part he said 4BEDROOM TERRACE HOUSE or you dont know the meaning of terrace house?

in LUTON my sister and her husband pay 1100 bpd a month.

Alright, shout out to your Sister & her husband.

Mindlog:
He rented the house, not owned.

Which licensed agency in the UK would rent a shared room with shared bathroom to him with his wife and 2 children?

Here in Cambridge, students are paying as much as £600 a month for a single room where they are sharing kitchen and bathroom, you just have work out how to be earning to pay your rent and associated bills.

Btw, why are you studying Clinical Child Psychology?

Are there career prospects in it that translates to good financial income or you're just doing it because it's your passion.

Mindlog:
He rented the house, not owned.

Which licensed agency in the UK would rent a shared room with shared bathroom to him with his wife and 2 children?

Here in Cambridge, students are paying as much as £600 a month for a single room where they are sharing kitchen and bathroom, you just have work out how to be earning to pay your rent and associated bills.

"He/she is taking pictures like they rented the whole house".

CountVersailles:
Why are you taking the picture like say na the whole house? No be just that one corner you rent? Quit giving an illusion of renting a big house

Rented a shared room with shared bathroom and posted it like they owned the house, Nigerians and fake life.

BorisJohnson:
Hello my country people, especially those living in Scotland. I have a quick question.

Can a tier 4 visa (student) get allocated a council/social housing (Housing association) house please?
And does anyone know ANY tier-4 visa holder who has been able to successfully apply for a Council house (especially in Scotland)?

Thank you for your help.

Change your name from Boris Johnson first, then maybe you can get an answer

oldienavie:
When I see people write something like this I just shake my head.
How will votes change the situation of Nigeria ?
The problem of Nigeria is not the president, the problem of Nigeria is Nigerians.

Every one is corrupt, lazy and entitled.
Is it the president that will do the work of ministry workers ?
Even if you vote in Xi of China, Nigeria will still remain the shithole it is until the average people on the street take responsibility and decide to be honest, compassionate and remove corruption from their lives...

Leave story MR NNPC, go and get your PVC.

Desire18:
Imagine if this one is a father and husband, Which kind wahala be this? Omtop wetin abegii

Imagine if this one is a mother and wife, Which kind wahala be this? Omtop wetin abegii

God, save your children.

Gabby2022:
Even if you are wayward,at least show some decency and class.

Decency and class with waywardness

Your sister's husband is the problem, he doesn't have boundaries with his brother. Nobody in my family can bring their babe to my house for knacks, I have never done that my SIster. Respect dey, I can't try that nonsense.