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Romanoff:
The reason that man might not be able to ask the wife is cause he's into a vice that drains his money.

Think about it.

It's funny that a simple point that every one is making cannot be understood, how would you feel if a coworker keeps coming to borrow money from you? Does that make you happy, are you fine with that? Because me I don't understand all this excuses.

Jan: Roman, please Borrow me money
Fed: Roman, biko borrow me some money
....... till dec
Dec: Roman, abeg can I get 20k from you make i use celebrate christmas

This continues till December. Shey you no go tire?

The way you are giving excuses, be like say na you be the wife

wpadmin:
Let's assume that you want to travel to Canada by December and you need 3 million naira.

Your salary is 350,000 Naira monthly.

You need to save 250,000 for 12 months to complete the money.

Now, you know that you are an extravagant spender..

Won't you find a way to save that money by all means even it means giving someone you trust to hold it for you?

I have a friend that locks money on Piggyvest because he wants to start a business. When he exhaust the cash he has for expenses, he begs his friends (like me) for money. I am the only person he told that he locked the money because I introduced him to Piggyvest.

The OP's friend has an end goal and he doesn't care if he has to beg for small money to reach that goal.

The only mistake he made was telling his friend that his wife holds the money.

Oga no problem sir, please when you and your friend lock your money in Piggyvest, please both of you should not come and disturb us that you want to borrow money.

We also have families, kids and siblings. Don't inconvinience us with your lifestyle.

You are not the only one that wants to travel to Canada.

Romanoff:
Well, it's a flaw that his wife has helped him curb.

They didn't have when they got married, they grew and prospered together. Today, they are wealthy.

The wife handles all their finances including sending money to both their parents, subscribing DStv for both parents, health care for both parents etc.

So this is how the man would go around borrowing and inconveniecing his friends in the name of It is working for him, abeg let him borrow that money from his wife and not distrub coworkers. Case solved.

Coworkers have wives and family too, we don't go around asking every body for money.

Romanoff:
Have you considered if he's a gambler or a frivolous spender?

That is what I am saying, he needs therapy. Woman not accountant. If she dies tomorrow (God Forbid), it means the family will die of poverty because he cannot cater for his family due to his terrble habits. Are women made to solve men's terrible habit in marriage? Is that the reason women get married?

lagosrd:
Good , but let him spend his peace and stop going about inconveniencing people of their hard earn money kept by them for personal reasons.

Pure unadulterated stupidity taught in most climes nowadays, how can you keep your alert with your wife , even your ATM . Afriend of mine that did that years back got his hands burnt. The lady always withdraw the money to give another guy and they even rented an apartment together with my friends money. But today he is a us soilder while the girl is a medical doctor fucking around

Thank you sir, married folks people would come to the office and start begging me for money. Borrowing money. They are inconveniencing me because I am a coworker. What kind of life is this? If it really works for him, then why am I suffering from another person's problem. What have i done?

You earn a living but you will not let others rest because of stupid personal decisions.

Romanoff:
The man probably can't go to the wife cause he's either a gambler or plans to use the money for frivolous things.

I know a marriage where the wife manages the finances cause the man is a cheerful giver. E fit comot him shirt give person.

She gives him allowance.

Once allowance finishes, whatever else he needs money for, na to go meet wifey explain how e spend him allowance or wetin e wan use the money wey e wan collect do.

Wifey is a bank manager, he's into construction.

If they don't do it that way, they wouldn't have a dime.

He his a very stupid person, so he wouldn't have prospered in life if he never married his wife?

Before he got married, how did he save for marriage.
How did he save to help his family and needs of his family, He needs therapy.

Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

How come he his now begging others for money if it works for him?

People won't agree something is foolish.

lmao madame, start by sharing yours first.

Fake stories every where

knowhowk:
. Hmmm ! Don't U think it's better to Jejely Watch am here for CUBANA hotel rather than Gambling looking for US Visit Visa ,One might End up been Scammed now...Or Denied D Visa Self with all Documents and Statement of Account Presented .American No Send ooo. Well It's well Well Just Joking Sha ..It's Well

True, but that money can give you so much more. Rick Ross isn't even popping anymore

10 Million will take you USA on a visit Visa, pay for his show during the summer, watch him live and enjoy yourself.

You will still have change like 6M remaining.

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Oh so Ukraine believes there is Witch Craft, i thought they were all Athiest and THERE IS NO GOD NOR LUCIFER!

Okay, so we are back to the basics now.

adeolaben:
Bro, I like that part wey u included " men" ... Most people keep saying women and children, like say men lives no matter....

Yes bro. It is the propaganda of the WEST, notice how Ukraine soldiers now restrict men with NON-BINARY tag from leaving the country saying they must fight because they are men.

WE AFRICANS, THE WEST, THE LEFTIST & LIBERALS, THE RIGHT-WING & CONSERVATIVES ALL KNOW THE TRUTH. But we choose to lie to ourselves.

Jeromejnr:
Where is that Ferdinandisback abi what's her name with her crew that wants Russia's downfall

The earlier you guys leave CNN alone the better and stop with your emotional rants not founded in reality

That's how one fellow was giving fake analysis of how EU countries already have alternatives to Russian gas..not knowing it will take about 3-4 years to build a gas terminal..

These people think it's like going to filling station by the Road side to get fuel in jerry can.

Rubles to the moon.

I am sure Ferdinandisback or Ferdinandisgone is seeing your Tweet. She will ignore it because she knows she has nothing to say here.

I don't agree with PUTIN because people are dying, men, women and children, but neither do I agree witht the WEST. I just want the war to stop, to be fair It would have been handled better.

That GAS they want to boycout will not be easy. Saudi should tell them the truth. It's just a welcome development that nobody has POWER authonomy.

I would reverse time to 2013, when dollar was 220 Naira and we lived in bountiful harvest.

Economy was good, food was cheap, transport was cheap, babes were cheap, life was soft.

Now every thing is hard in Nigeria.

Agbegbaorogboye:
It will be difficult but the UCL is more about experience and confidence not necessarily fitness at that stage of the season. Madrid will have both going into the tie given that they currently top the league and qualified via a dying minute resurgence. Whichever way you look at it, snatching victory from the jaws of defeat against a team containing the likes of Neymar and Messi is a morale booster for any team, speak less of Real Madrid. Coupled with Chelsea's off-field issues and how their title hopes has fizzled out, I see RM having the psychological edge going into that match.

As for Atleti, everyone knows they enjoy being the underdogs as it enables them to play rough and dirty with no baggage. Coupled with how the English press will expect Man City to go all out and beat Atleti 7-0 or 10-0, and also counting the fact that the Atleti team are more battle tested and mentally tougher than the whimpering and entitled kids of City, I see Atleti taking this one too.

Bookmark this post!!

I dom bookmark am, e go shock you sha.

internationalman:
Chelsea vs Benfica.

This I've seen

Omo dem dey lie for you.

Na Bayern you go collect.

airsaylongcome:
I was doing IT-related stuff in Supply Chain Management.

Oh okay, thanks.

pansophist:
Our resident twins UyaiIncomparabl and iyaebe will not agree with you. For them, love and money goes hand in hand. Pay as you go. They want their men to adhere to 20th century roles where it benefits them, but they want to be 21st century women with progressive laws.

It's a man's duty to be a provider, no wahala, but somehow, its not a woman's duty to be a virgin, and accept to be the fourth wife. Why the selective application of culture? Its also against the bible to pay bride price to non virgin, should we adhere to that one? Lol.

Same reason why I keep wondering why Nigerian women talk about Celibacy and Feminism, two totally different concepts but both cannot exist in Nigeria. How can I be paying for your house rent in Magodo and you tell me you want to be Celibate?

She is claiming to be a feminist at the same time, oh well return the money I sent you, so you can be celibate and feminist in peace. That is when the trouble started.

thatthickgurl:
I don't have the strength for any other person. I'd rather wallow in misery

So go for the first option, that was what I did when I had an heart break last year. I worked myself to death. Then went to South Africa for a vacation of 2 weeks afterwards. If you have money you can take a trip to Calabar and see some fine places, it won't cost that much. Before you know it the thought will fade away.

thatthickgurl:
Please I'm begging you with the name of God, recommend something for this pain.

This is too much for me to bear, I'm typing with tears in my eyes.

I can't eat , I can't sleep and I've been unproductive at work. I need someone to talk to.

This is my first heartbreak, I've always avoided being in a relationship because I know I'm too soft.

Until this man came and broke down my walls.

I caught him cheating two days ago.

Please speak to me, before I commit suicide. I need someone to talk to

Please

There is only one method to get over heart break, it is called time and getting into more activities. You will have to put all your effort into other activities so you can forget about what happened.

Another way is to have a rebound, because your heart is void and needs someone else to fill it, this may sound like a terrible idea but it always works. As long as you let the new guy knows it’s just a casual relationship. Be open and honest about it. Don’t go and start trying to scam him or get pregnant in the process.

airsaylongcome:
@tensazangetsu20

Are you saying 3 months is not possible because this person is a complete noob? I have become very rusty in programming haven stayed away for almost 10years but I feel like I can get back to top levels if I spend 3 intense months re-learning.

I was glancing over some videos on Quicksort and Big O analysis and something inside me was waking up in a funny way. I stopped programming because for me it was very draining taking huge amounts of my time

Sorry but please if I may ask. Why did you leave programming for 10 years? That seems like a very long time.

Did you move to another career that was more lucrative? I am just curious.

nomenclature:
But wait oh ,i don't have issue if you buy anything for your wife. That is your own but my question is this.
While you had only motorcycle,was she driving a range Rover or she had nothing too?
So a poor man dates/marries another poor woman,and the poor man starts thanking the poor woman for staying with him.does that even make sense ?
She didn't have options that is why......If at that time davido came knocking,she go japa

I thought about this too, usually people stay with you when they know there isn't any body better coming forth. Nobody is really a good person, it is the absence of opportunity.

Acidosis:
It is her responsibility to stay with you, in wealth and in extreme poverty. You dumbvss should stop attaching your insecurities to your social media-inspired gifts.

I thought about this too, usually people stay with you when they know there isn't any body better coming forth. Nobody is really a good person, it is the absence of opportunity.

Sezua:
I thought we all did basic maths?

My brother, some people no do Maths at all. Dem just land for SS3 from Primary 6.

Sanchez01:
Two million might be enough to sustain you for a year and half if you want to pursue a career in tech, only possibly if you are a minimalist and not banking on paying rent from that money. Say feeding, data and a few other things, but definitely not rent.


I switched from telecommunication to tech at 30+ and I do not regret it one bit. You are not old at 30. Some say life begins when you have an awakening, be at 40, 50 or 70. The question is whether or not you are ready to chase your dream.


Answer these questions, not necessarily publicly:

1. What part of tech are you eyeing?
2. Do you have a good laptop (as I know every part of tech requires one)?
3. How cheap or expensive is your rent? If you take out your rent from N2m, what is left?
4. Take out a data budget for a year and see how much is left.
5. Calculate your feeding on a monthly basis, multiply by 18 months and see what is left.
6. You need to set aside some money for emergencies. How much are you willing to spare?
7. How much do you spend on utilities monthly (electricity, waste, gas and water)?
8. If the answer to your number 2 is no, find out if whatever is left can afford a decent laptop that won't freeze or crash while you learn your new tech skill.
9. Finally, can your side hustle run conveniently even when you learn your tech skill?


This isn't exactly bad. If you don't womanize, club and party hard, just learn idea of stocking up monthly. Go minimal. Don't eat out. Always cook.


You could. Or not...

Note that picking up a tech skill doesn't mean you will get a job next month. Depending on the skill and how fast you learn, you might not be able to successfully get a job until you learn the ropes, not fully but decently. I'd say 18 months, if you are a fast learner. Say the basic role in the industry.

PS: DON'T PAY FOR TECH SKILL! If someone has told you to pay to learn, depending on the area, there are tons of resource materials, YouTube channels and resource websites that you can leverage on to up your tech skills.

Since you switched from telecommunications to tech, why don't you just become his personal tutor and he can pay for your time.

Seems you are the best person in position to help this dude, because self learning is very difficult especially for someone who has never written "hello world" in his life. Just message him and you can help him from there because I see that he his getting so many nonsense advise until I came across your post.

Biko help this man, if it is in your power to help.

VanuatuWycombe:
Accommodation nko?

He doesn't need accomodation, he can sleep under the bridge like other homeless people Then enroute to school when classes are taken place.

VanuatuWycombe:
He would struggle getting visa appointment at the Polish embassy. Booking there now is like a raffle draw. He could eventually loose the admission.

Czech Republic is the cheapest but his visa is not guaranteed.

Na to go meet Babalawo OR Pastor before you apply to polish embassy oh. Because ehn. Make I no talk too much