Family › Re: What Should I Do Please? Failed Marriage by Kelechi009: 7:14pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Where in the tale did he say so?
One must commend her for playing the game well. It isn't hard to net a man. Even an orangutan could do it. Goats, dogs and cattle have done it with ease, even. If it has an oven, they will fall for it.
All the preaching they normally do is to get women like this. Here she is, a virtuous non -slay queen in a letterbox dress. I don't know why you ladies say this, most of my relationships have been no-sex based. To net a man is not that difficult, just tell him what you would allow and not allow. Also do not Bill him like he his fully responsible for your livelihood, then you have no problems. As opposed to popular belief, there are so many people I know who got married virgins, as they claimed though. |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Campaigns In Trade Fair Complex, Lagos by Kelechi009: 2:49pm On Feb 18, 2023 |
SmartPolician: [s]Peter Obi should slow down his campaigns and start fixing the internal issues of Labour Party. Most serious voters have made up their minds on who to vote at this time. Get volunteers to man your votes in PBs across the country. This is even more important than campaigns.
Set up your election monitoring team and room for real-time reporting of activities happening across the country. This election must be free, credible and fair[/s] |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Aston Villa Vs Arsenal (2 - 4) On 18th February 2023 by Kelechi009: 2:14pm On Feb 18, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Kelechi009: 7:28pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Persephone1: I love your contribution and I am pleased you try to make others see from men's perspective. Believe me, i understand your points as well. I am not one to throw allegations or speak ill of people without trying to understand what made them who they are. From my write up, i insult no one but rather blame the society for raising both genders the wrong way.
Most Nigerian marriages do not last anymore, they are not standing the test of time. The modern marriage is nothing to write home about due to evolution i.e changes in our ways of lives. There is a shift but Men want to retain traditional benefits of being Men.
Women are taking just as much as financial responsibilities men take, you will hardly see a home where Men provides all in this Nigeria economy yet women are expected to continue with traditional homes. You all play this providing card so much that one is left to wonder if women don't also share responsibilities in the homes anymore. How may Men can successfully run a home singlehandedly?
Most Men lose interest in Marriage because they can't keep up, they have lost the bargaining power and are yet to understand or conform to the new dating norms. Thats where their issues lies, they don't know how to be in "control" because things have changed. They suffer reality shock because contrary to what they were raised with, they need more that having a manhood to thrive in the society.
The truth is Most men weren't raised with love in the Nigerian culture, that is why it is found wanting in typical Nigerian Man. Whatever you wrote here & also in your initial post completely ignores the fact that Nigeria is highly traditional and those roles which are defined and expected of us in the 80s and are still expected of us today in 2023. We can all summersault 100 times and It won't change anything for both genders. In Nigeria. Do you what is funny? This same type of analog love is what people in Western countries miss & they always cry about how they miss Lagos men & how Lagos men take care of them the most, I suggest you should invest more time in watching British black women podcasts. Watch programmes that explore more of black women outside Nigeria. Go on Instagram, see what women are saying about Lagos men. You'll be shocked. Nairaland is a bubble dear, big bubble. |
Family › Re: Is 500k Income Really That Small?? by Kelechi009: 8:21pm On Feb 15, 2023 |
larrypourl: I like your submission. Things are really expensive now mehn. 1 Titus fish is over 1k and will be cut max into 4 pieces, sometimes 3 pieces sef. If he's to eat 3 meals daily, he'll be spending 30k monthly on fish alone, meat and chicken are even way expensive, you'll buy grains, beverages alone fit gulp 10k (Milo, coffee and milk), buy cereals, provisions (peanut butter, toothpaste, groundnut/cashew nut, cashewnut na 2k-2.5k and I fit finish 1 bottle within 3days, other provisions wey u go buy still dey). 6kg gas monthly is within 5-5.5k, a bag of pure water is 250-300 and can be finished within 2-3days. The truth is if we're to eat well, that 100k na just manage for a month, though you'll still have some food stuff spill over to the next month. I avoid beef now cos of the cost, too expensive. 3k beef no go pass 10 piece if dem cut am moderately, not big like party own oo . OP come dey stay Abuja join. Imagine op eating outside, he'd even spend more. Feeding well is relative thou, so make everybody chop according to their pocket jare. Whatever OP spends in Abuja, I spend twice of that in Lagos. So things are really crazy, thats why you have to be careful when you come on Nairalabd, these people still live in the parents houses. |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by Kelechi009: 2:32pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Klass99: You don ment finish 🤣. But you get a like for making me laugh. Yes my sister, some friendship no worth am. |
Politics › Re: APC Holds Town Hall Meeting On Election Management In Surulere (Pictures) by Kelechi009: 9:01pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
Hendrixky: When you tell them yorubas are tribalistic They willl tell you politics is a game of interest
The daily things we see every seconds in the streets is more than enough for tinubu and Apc not to get a single vote in the entire country..a sane person can't vote for tinubu
Vote wisely...this election revealed alot about the yorubas that they are tribalistic. They have been exposed.
Because as at the time Buhari was sick and travelling for medical attention we all was clamouring for him to hand over to a healthy and vibrant Osinbajo. We regretted our action of being stupid to elect a sick old man
But now we have a vibrant and healthy Peter obi contesting but the yorubas because of tribalism wants us to install tinubu again knowing fully well that the world will mock us. The world knows that Buhari is even more healthier than him
The worse part of it is that the pain and memory of the incessant travel for medical check up by Buhari is still very fresh in our mind.not like it happened 20 years ago. It just happened yesterday.. Na wa for yoruba people. They have been exposed completely and what amaze me is that they always claim to be educated...oh it is a shame They are tribalists, they rather die than to see a country florish. |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by Kelechi009: 7:40pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
sync: What have I gotten myself into. Please how do I politely ask her to leave without hurting her feelings and savaging the relationship I use to have with her. I am tired, depressed and jobless! You have 2 options, one is more effective. 1. Come home one day suddenly & break a bottle of Fanta on the ground and threaten her that if she doesn't move in 2 days, you will beat the shit out of her. Ofcourse you will lose the friendship, but this is a super way to chase her away, you don't need leeches anyway. 2. Go & rent a fake Boyfriend, that would come into your house with his bags. Then speak to your friend that she needs to leave because you can't be having intimacy when she is still around. Let her pack immediately. |
Family › Re: How Do I Politely Ask Her To Leave by Kelechi009: 7:36pm On Feb 13, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Man Sets Wife Ablaze In Ogun For Washing His Clothes Instead Of Giving Him Food by Kelechi009: 8:43pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Rahkman: Ogun state should be designated as the seat of satan I notice that state do the craxiet of crimes. |
Politics › Re: No Sit-at-home During February Election - IPOB by Kelechi009: 10:06pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
Obaofaba: Here we go, confirmed.
Everyone can now see clearly that obidients and ipob miscreants are one and the same.
Both are terrorists. Here we go, Fabrizio Romanov.  |
Politics › Re: Can Bullion Vans Miss Their Way? by Kelechi009: 4:00pm On Jan 26, 2023 |
Very possible, my uncle used to work in a bank and the Bullion van once miss their way into our family house  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Are Churches In The South Silent On The Killings Of Christians In The North? by Kelechi009: 4:40pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
YoshihideSuga: Una don go church today dey sing and jolificate, una dey pray for Christians in Northern Nigeria? Tomorrow, una go say "my brethren, my brethren"
Kelechi009, see your people. 😰 Oga what happen |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Students Who Are Now Americans, How Did You Do It? by Kelechi009: 11:54am On Jan 22, 2023 |
ednut1: my hostel mate for school never had a girlfriend or womanise during his 5 years engineering course. We even dey suspect he was gay. He went to USA for masters, a year after graduating baba don marry black American. Another one was a colleague in 9ja , got scholarship and left, he was messaging me about express entry ( but draws were on hold then), he later told me he is getting married soon. . That country no get joy when it comes to green card. Another one na woman, she dey nairaland so make i no talk wetin happen.Its sad sha Err maybe talk in parables?  |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Students Who Are Now Americans, How Did You Do It? by Kelechi009: 11:53am On Jan 22, 2023 |
internationalman: How can you join Armed Forces if you are first of all not a green card holder or a citizen..
I may be wrong though Yes that's correct. So the only option leaves marriage then. |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Students Who Are Now Americans, How Did You Do It? by Kelechi009: 10:56am On Jan 22, 2023 |
atom080: It's quite easy through nursing... As a foreign nurse, once you're employed in the states, you'll be given permanent residency(green card) once you get there.. And to be honest, nursing and other medical courses are the best bet... I see you emphasize most on physical science and engineering courses, but these has limitations on their own side... Sorry sir, but let me just confirm something. Do you mean once I arrive the US and become a registered Nurse, I would get a permanent residency(green card) ? What is the process and where was this written? |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Students Who Are Now Americans, How Did You Do It? by Kelechi009: 6:42am On Jan 22, 2023*. Modified: 11:53am On Jan 22, 2023 |
Gerrard59: cc: Kelechi009, MackyNaija & TWoods.
@Ednut1, (you suppose sabi one or two persons)  So far I have only seen one person who has been successful with Naturalisation and It was by marriage or by joining the US Army. 1. By Marriage 2. By joining the Armed Forces.Every single time you ask this question, the answer you'd get is similar to the one below, I don't know why straight path to immigration should be a secret. You wont get such info on a public forum! No one will give you the link of a public forum., they will encourage you! |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Collecting Change After Giving Offering by Kelechi009: 9:31am On Jan 15, 2023 |
goodmorning40: Collecting change should be better than not giving at all. You are lucky to get the change because money has not entered pastor hand.
I heard of a story, a woman wanted to pay her tithe through online during lockdown. She mistakenly added extra zero on her forty thousand and ended up sending four hundred thousand to pastor, that was all the money in her acct. All her efforts and pleadings to get her change back was futile. Pastor told her it was the leading of the holy spirit
She has long received sense A lot of Pastors are scammers, your duty as a Christian is to find a leader in a gathering of worshippers and pay them your tithe. Not necessarily a church. |
Celebrities › Re: Kanye West Marries Bianca Censori In Secret Ceremony (Photos) by Kelechi009: 7:40pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
DMerciful: Like she said, Kanye never learns. He is going broke because of plastic girls Kanye has already chosen his path. |
Celebrities › Re: Kanye West Marries Bianca Censori In Secret Ceremony (Photos) by Kelechi009: 7:20pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Romanoff: Dude will never learn.
Still the same type of plastic white women who will strip him of all he's ever had. He has a type & it's better to be with your kind of person than not. |
Family › Re: Is 500k Income Really That Small?? by Kelechi009: 6:38pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Tired2022: I'm not catching cruise...I have tried by cutting wasteful lifestyle...in fact I stopped womanising and drinking.
But the reality is I want my kids to go to the best schools and live in a decent environment.
In Abuja here, a decent 2 bedroom is 1.5-2 million. With my 500k per month, it will be very foolish to live in such apartments.
So, I have to do everything possible to double or triple my income to live in such environment.
The fact is that a 500k income in today’s Nigeria is very meagre. Poster, be careful of getting advise from people whom their parents are paying their rents or still living with their families. Your expenses is not over the roof at all, majority of people on the thread don't even stock up their own food, while some are living abroad. 60k utilities and 100k feeding can be looked into and reduced. Don't eat out as much as you would. You need to inform your parents & sibling that you earn way less than you think, therefore their monthly allowance can be reduced. |
Family › Re: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by Kelechi009: 5:56pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Klass99: Hmm......Kelechi, odiegwu! Why do you people assume the worse and always believe this will be the case in every situation?
My friend told me she prefers her step mother to her own mother and she has a better relationship with her step mother than her biological one.
If her step mother maltreated her she won't say that na. There are exceptions to the rule. Okay cool. |
Family › Re: How Would You Express Your Displeasure To Your Wife?? by Kelechi009: 2:54pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
post=119770518: Tell her why you didn't want her to travel to this particular event. SIMPLE AS ABC. People be asking MUMU questions. |
Family › Re: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by Kelechi009: 12:34pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
oakson: Meaning? Meaning you don't have sense with your expectations, you need to lower it to find true love & not a leech. |
Family › Re: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by Kelechi009: 12:20pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
oakson: Any personal issue with that? Is it your singleness? Are you interested? If I were a celeb... wouldn't you jump at me?
Let's wait till then.... Teinku Yes I will jump at you but not because I love you, my aim would be to take every single penny you have and leave probably after few years just like what every celeb on IG is doing. Most celeb marriages are failing and that is the reason, there is no love. ONLY lies. So better give yourself some sense. |
Family › Re: Divorced, Ready For A New Phase by Kelechi009: 11:13am On Jan 08, 2023 |
oakson: This exactly is my grouse with him and his jackals.
God bless you! You have 3 kids, why should a single lady marry you? Do you think it's fair bringing a lady to take care of 3 kids that aren't hers? If you're muslim, then that might make sense but you aren't. The lady will just maltreat your kids. |
Travel › Re: My Life As A 29-Year-Old Nigerian In Accra, Ghana by Kelechi009: 9:59am On Jan 08, 2023 |
Smack23: [quote author=get a nice apartment in Accra Ghana contact via WhatsApp +233571380490 How much does it cost? |
Travel › Re: My Life As A 29-Year-Old Nigerian In Accra, Ghana by Kelechi009: 9:59am On Jan 08, 2023 |
preciousmetals: If you truly understand what is happening in Ghana now you can never say Ghana is better than Nigeria, the only thing people in Ghana are enjoying is light and security, Ghana economy have collapse and a lot of people are going through hard time, I have live in Ghana for 27 years, my wife is a Ghanaian, all my children including myself are all Ghana citizens, so let no one deceive you Hi, I'm considering moving to Ghana very soon. Please can you help me with a breakdown of cost of living in ACCRA to be specific? I'll love if the figures are in US Dollars, so I can properly convert it to any currency. For example, Nigeria has two main cities. Lagos & Abuja, cost of living is different for both, in high brew areas and low brew areas. So I want that type of break down. |