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Hi Landers,

There must be someone you admire in this world; that you wish to be your spouse. Who is that ONE person? Pls comment and tell us why you admire him/her.

Thank you.

Hi Landers,

Pls how can I know when a man is really serious about settling down? It is very difficult 4me to believe men now; cause I've been cheated and deceived many times and I dont want disappointment again. This is really affecting my emotions to be harsh on men am meeting now. Pls mature response will be highly appreciated.

Thank you.

I asked some guys this same question "why do u cheat?"

Some told me it is not good to be fucking their girlfriends/spouse only i.e eating just rice everytime, they will like to mix the rice with beans, plaintains, spaghetti etc sometimes. I hope you understood wat i meant.

Some said it is not good to keep on watching just one Television Channel like NTA, they will also love to watch Silverbird, AIT, LTV, Mitv etc. I hope you understood wat i meant.

Some cant never be contented with wat they have.

Some said some Nigerian girls are just too cheap to get.

This na serious issue ooh: Marriage and Family!!! Only takes God's intervention to settle.

It is true some women behave like that when they eventually get married.

But there are still alot of wife materials, not all women are the same.

Hi All,

I also received an invitation. Shortlisted candidates are invited for aptitude test at Ojota Secondary School, Ojota, Lagos, on 29/03/2008 by 12.00noon.

CHEERS!!!

I think the poster made a mistake. He/she wanted to reply a topic rather than this topic.

If a man have True Love, Trust, Money, Good appearance and above all God fearing.

Then a woman will not think twice before falling in love.

@ buzzgonz

What do you meant by your "matters of approach"?

@ Poster, Pls move on with your life.

Many men has sweet and juicy words that can make women surrender to them. But after achieving their goals they start behaving funny.

My Dear you dont deserve him, let him go. But his conscience will disturb him. If he is yours he will come back and if he doesnt come back he is not yours.

But pls ask for the Forgiveness of Sins from God Ok.

Cheers!!!

@ Iceland, u are really BAB.

I have chat, talk on phone, and see physically, quite number of guys here on nairaland, but very discouraged and I am not impressed at all.

The reason is that 98% of the guys I met are LIARS. They lied about their ages, heights, love affairs etc.

I think some guys on nairaland are just looking for babes to sleep with. So babes beware of someone like Iceland and be CAREFUL!!!

Met the Poster too physically, but he is exceptional and different all what he said on phone about himself was true.

Cheers

I dont know why some guys think Sex is the rule of relationship. They believe Sex is wat makes the relationship stronger.

@ Poster, if you cant cope with the no sex till marriage as she suggested, then you are not for her. Look for a sex partner.

@ poster, I dont think gynotype should disturb you from marrying anyone you Love.

I guess both of you are afraid of having sickler babies. But remember ALL things are possible with God.

I have seen marriages of both parents having the same gynotypes of AS and still living fine with their children. Infact, one of my best friend is a sickler, but you can never know, until she tells you; only that sometimes she has rheumatism and are eyes are yellow, thats what can make you detect. And luckily for her just last year Convention (NEXT LEVEL) of the RCCG, God changed her gynotype completely. Some people says sicklers does not live beyond 21yrs, she is 27yrs hail and hearty.

Someone was telling me about a technology that has been set up to detect the gynotype of a baby in the womb, I am not sure how true it is, but I believe something like that must exists. So when your wife is pregnant, you can find out the baby gynotype.

And you can be so lucky that the first three babies you have may not be SS, cause biology teaches us: If two AS parents had connection together, there is tendency of having one SS in four children.

I am not a medical practitioner nor expert, this is my own view it may work for you and bring you and fiancee back if you believe in God.

Wish you your heart desires.

Cheers!!!

@ Poster, None is ugly.

So dont you EVER classify any humanbeing as been ugly.

God created everything to be BEAUTIFUL, so dont you EVER condermed God Creatures.

And your post does not have meaning.

@ Poster

The Interviewer does not mean any harm or wickedness. He simply wants to know your level of confidence and reaction to customers/clients. So pls dont feel bad.

Wish you all the best.

@ Poster

I had similar experience. My Ex-boy calls me once in 3months, I do the callings everytime. If I asked him why he doesnt like calling me? He always reply: He is not working in Celtel or Mtn.

This is one of the challenges I endured for more than 3 years.

But as time goes on, I noticed he calls some other babes. Which means he doesnt love me. So I called it a quit between us.

So funny topic.

@ Poster, I think u just come Lagos, you need more enlightenment on the different levels of Lagos babes.

This topic brought back memories of loosing someone I ever loved in my life, to another babe.

I felt the pains so much, that it affected every part of my life. But I thank God am getting over it, to move on in life.

I wish he comes back one day sha, and if he never return then he does not belong to me.

I think marriage is for better for worse. So why should a wife be rejecting her husband from sexing her. She ought to be submissive.

But the husband should not force/rape her wife; I advise the husband should use his initiative to do what will give him sex satisfaction @home or outside.

If a wife sentenced her own husband to 20 years imprisonment, then another man will come and take her husband position for that 20 years he his absent.

@ Poster, u should have said why do most bosses sleep with their female Secretaries and not the other way, as u said. And I did not agree with your reasons.

By the Grace of God I am a Secretary. A boss can not do all his/her jobs all alone, thats why he/she employs a Secretary to assist. But most married/unmarried male bosses in Naija, cant just be faithful to their spouses/partners, that is why they like to take advantage of their female Secretaries; if she admits anyway. I will not dispute the fact that there are not corrupt Secretaries. But most of the times their bosses lured them.

I had worked with God fearing Christian bosses and none of them have pass their boundaries nor I pass my boundaries.

To say the truth, it is not only female Secretaries that fall victims of their bosses, it happens in other professions too. For example, before some female are employed in Naija, the man in-charge of recruitment/boss has to shag before given a job, if she refuses, she will be asked to look for job elsewhere. BUT IS THIS SUPPOSE TO BE SO?

@ Poster - None!!!

And what has short, tall, handsome and ugly got to do with dating.

My Brother please listen to talk2sulta and emmanas. They have advised well.

Take care of yourself

I would love to work with Oceanic Bank, if given the opportunity to work as a permanent staff.

@ almondjoy I feel U Jare, u are real.

@ twinstaiye u talk true.

@ Poster, dont mind watever names some might hav called you. U have taken the greatest boldness to say wat every woman cannot say out, yet those accusing you are worse. Dating a married man is not a new thing in this part of the world. Infact, for speaking out, God will hav Mercy on you, than the liars advisers.

Jesus did not condermed an harlot, who is about to be stone by group of prosecutors. Yet all her prosecutors could not cast a stone, wen Jesus ask them, whoever among them without sin should stone her first.

I dont know why many people conclude, ladies date married men because of their money.

Our Nigerian Married men need serious prayers to stick to their wives. Some will even lied they are not married to deceive young ladies.

So my Dear Sis. pray hard and let God direct you. He knows what is best for you.

Cheers!!!

I am also a Pisces. 6th March (the same date with the best President Nigeria never had, Obafemi Awolowo)

Yeah we Pisces are so emotional, loving, caring, so sweet, friendly, genuine etc. We are the best partner one can be with.

Dont 4get Pisces are born great, examples are: Pastor E. A. Adeboye (RCCG G. O.), Chief Olusegun Obasanjo (Former President of Nig.), Obafemi Awolowo - although dead but cannot be forgotten in Naija history, etc.

UP PISCES! UP PISCES!! UP PISCES!!!

Cheers!!!

Omarion is too handsome

Why is nobody mentioning BABA SNOOP

INTERESTING TOPIC

@ Focused - good explanation

@ Lola - brilliant reply

Cheers

It is possible for someone not to love, yet allow to be touched.

So She aint lying. She is just telling you the truth. Am sure as you are touching her, she pretends to feel you, whereas her mind is not with you.

Cheers