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Asquare84:
This is the reason why we need to see pastor for prayers before embarking on any journey

What happened to all that prayed but died.

Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.

You need a brain resetting slap.

Possiblegee:
Lol

You people need to stop peddling falsehood.
My first masturbation was at 14, I am 30 now.
I eat well, exercise well, as fit as a fiddle, my sex partners usually tire out before I ejaculated, sometimes I just let them rest after they come, then finish it of by myself, sometimes we crescendo almost together.
Masturbation is really a good source of self control, don't bring in superstition into it.
But like everything, too much of it is bad, especially if you are sick, hungry or malnourished.

niyidenrele:
Left at 36,... 2yrs after met my heartrob, happily married now,

I hope to find love like you.

kzubyar:
it depend my younger brother got job and live with his family were as am 32 still staying with my parents. It all depends

Same here, I am 30 unemployed setting up a business. I really never wanted to leave my father, even when I earned good money, I just graduated from university at 29, mostly self sponsored. Supported my parents a lot. Have my own room in a house managed by my dear dad. I have always been alone since I was 14, but close to family. Whenever I leave then, I must have found love.

Kenplay:
With my personal Experience, Observation and inner conviction, I think I dont want to be part of any religion again. This thing is truely an opium of illusion meant for people who cant take their destiny in their hands and for a sheeple masses.

Despite withdrawing from religion I found myself even having a better moral compass which I cant explain. We are throwing away common sense, hardwork and universal principles to leave in illusion. At the end of my observation I have come to the conclusion that its what you do for yourself that counts more.

When I see poor people dying of hungry in a country which have the capacity to be the global industrial hub I know we have throw away common sense, Nigeria biggest investment to South Africa is Religious buildings (Church) while here in Nigeria the South Africans brought us MTN, DSTV, SHOP RITE e.t.c which employs thousands of people and gives profit to our Investors inventing in the stocks and shares of those companies I realise religion is lack of common sense.

No amount of religion can make you succesful without application of common sense.
No amount of religion can make your marriage succesful without application of common sense and consideration for your partner.
No amount of religion can a nation grow and prosper without application of common sense, productivity and good policies.

At the end of it I think am leaving religion, its not worth it. Even uprightness and moral comes from a person inner conviction and not because of religion.

Welcome to rationality.
Check out Nigerian Humanists (@HumanistsNG): https://twitter.com/HumanistsNG?s=09

GeoAfrikana:
I'm so angry right now. As you can see, I'm creating this post in the middle of the night.

There are many negative things people say about MTN. Sincerely, I've always given them an open mind but tonight I discovered something very terrible about them

Summary:
When you subscribe for night data, MTN doesn't only deduct from your night data balance, they also deduct from your main balance.

Explanation
For long I've been using the MTN pulse plan. I buy 1.5gig weekly. But because I usually need to download tutorials from YouTube I support my data with their 500mb midnight plan.

I've always noticed that my 1.5gig doesn't last long. Within five days (sometimes three days) my data would have finished.

I spend a lot of time online but there's no way my daily usage can reach 400mb. Most of my time online is on WhatsApp, searching google for information and staying up to data with industry gists on Twitter.

This night I subscribed to the MTN night plan, then used their app to check my balance before browsing. If you use the mtn night data regularly then you know there's no way to check your balance with USSD.

Luckily for me, the MTN app shows the night balance. So I was able to monitor both my main data balance and the midnight balance.

Guess what I found?
MTN was deducting from both accounts simultaneously.
No wonder, this is the snake that has been stealing eggs from my poultry.
I was so angry that I wanted to remove the SIM but I decided to collect evidence before removing their SIM.

Below are two screenshots. I took the first before downloading a video from YouTube. The video is 48mb.

Then I took the second screenshot after the download had completed.

As you can see, MTN didn't even touch my night data again. They deducted virtually everything from my main balance.

This is so painful. I feel cheated.

MTN did the same thing to me, I wasted my monthly subscription, for a nonsense YouTube free midnight data bonus.

Rediff1:
There is still something Nigeria fail to realize.
How can a lady grow to a level of Captain of aircraft?. Its unheard of.
Air crafting and Piloting especially when going to war is a very sensitive duty which requires maximum level of Braveness which women is naturally UNCAPABLE of.
The truth is, women can never have a strong heart or bravery a man can have. Don't get me wrong, am not been Gender Based but even Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said, " Women are not Completely created that is why God create men to be their guidance.
The prophet also said a woman should never occupy any leadership position, not even a head Mistress because no matter how educated a woman is, she can never match up with the natural attribute of leadership God bestow to Men.
That brings me to a Rank of captain, a captain is supposed to be in charge and command a group of soldiers on an aircraft when going for a mission. (Soldiers which will consist of Men).
I think Nigeria's constitution need to be revise and limit the maximum rank which women can reach in military.
Don't get me wrong, I love women women, am just speaking the truth, please don't insult my opinion. Meanwhile, check out the announcement Below

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FortuneDeGreat:
Madam Ngozi is not an Igbo woman, but was married by an Igbo.
Her tribe is Niger delta.
PERIOD!

Stupidity is infectious.

hope4nigeria:
i collected BOI loan #2m, I was thinking of business to invest that business, and the money will not go down the drain, I bought fairly used standard DYNA coast #950k, and I bought golf 3 direct Belgium #1m. I stationed at deidei building material market, I transport goods twice a day that fetch me nothing less than #25k, If I buy fuel, 4k, I go home with nothing less than #20k, without stress, then when I close 5:30pm. I will enter town and do car drop with the new golf3, before 8:30pm, I return home. I can confidently tell you I safe #23k everyday after flexing, at month end, I bank deduct loan repayment, I will still have more than excess cash to do other project. In less than one and half year, I was able to set up tiles Business, I've been supplying tiles to people in there houses with my DYNA, Im getting more profit. That's how it all started, when bank saw my repayment performance, they offer to grant me #5m for my next loan. Tho I'm yet to decide. Did I inform you that I'm a graduate Bsc. I will never further my education again, all I'm thinking now is money, money and money, and I will never work under anybody again.

Your last sentences gave me good hope, I am an unemployed graduate, I have been working on a grant, to start a business.

hope4nigeria:
you see when I say everybody Don dey mad for Nigeria, you think say I dey lie, many people follow contribute to killings in Nigeria, imagine that mumu thinking of cool cash forgetting Fulani knife can cutoff his head.

Very risky business.

shogsman:
Buy 4 bikes and make 8-10k per day ,one of the Best decisions I've ever made.made my money back in less than 6months by absolutely doing nothing.
By God's grace I'm getting 6 more very soon.

How did you solve the risk of riders stealing your bike.

Omihanifa:
As long as there are plenty of jobless people coupled with Nigeria's harsh economy gaming houses will still be relevant in years to come

Cause an average gambler prefers to have that paper betslip in his hands than having it on phone because he/she sees it as a cheque waiting to be Cashed

Please I don't know how to bet naija works, but can I start the business with 400, 000?

ProfDview1:
I don't know if this is the America I have lived for over 50 years and never got any problem.. Stayed in Europe over 30 years, Asia for over 20 years, I never experience racism untill I got to Nigeria, I was welcomed by tribalism.. Lo and behold, I enter one chance bus of tribalism....


Meanwhile I am still searching and single oo

pls

I need a lady (she must be a nairalander)

She must be rich, plus her parents comfortable

Average (height, boobs and ass)

She must be ready to spend on me

Fair or chocolate

She must trust me

Educated or self employed with hand work


Christian

Between 20 - 23

A Nigerian

She must think of a good future not make up

She must be able to reason well not like a fish

She must be good in conversation.

The most important one
She must be a godly virgin (pls note, godly virgin not just any virgin).


Thank.. Pls quote me if u av any... No insult

Joseph the dreamer.

ProfDview1:
Without Tinubu, will u vote for El rufai?


Without El rufai, will u vote for Tinubu?



If no no, then who do u Wana vote for? Ibori?






I need a lady (she must be a nairalander)

She must be rich,
Average (height, boobs and ass)
She must be ready to spend on me
Fair or chocolate
She must trust me
Educated or self employed with hand work
Christian
Between 20 - 23
She must think of a good future not make up
She must be able to reason well not like a fish
She must be good in conversation.


The most important one

She must be a godly virgin (pls note, godly virgin not just any virgin).

Thank.. Pls quote me if u av any

Are you for real, any girl with all these qualities, will not settle for marriage at 23.

godwinkessi:
U just said that to ur supreme commander? Sorry for u as you’ll be facing the disciplinary panel and you’ll be executed

You think this is Nigeria?

merit455:
That's why ur life is upside. Your life is not straight. Satan,get behind me

Religion is a scam, don't die of HBP.

Mizwisdom:
Number 1, is not general, maybe your tribe which I suspect is Igbo.

African parenting is the best, it trains for future. Our problem is that we are fast losing our original, African parenting style

Pretend you have sense tribal bigot.

Don't enter your BVN.

My mother attends deeper life, she is a sadist, discriminates, has no respect for my father, no love for the family, very manipulative and only has some regard for my 2 brothers attending deeper life church. My father is a peace loving man to a fault, he sometimes annoy me by letting nonsense happen in the name of peace.

Take care of your father, deal seriously with that mummy's boy, if he ever try any rubbish, your mum will reap her reward in due time, without anyone interference. That boy will deal with her.

Chuknovski:
I thought ogboni is a cult that had supernatural powers? well if otherwise its adherents should desist and follow the leader,JESUS

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for those who think I am mocking the dead or trying to condescend others personal beliefs, please be considerate, am here to elevate Jesus not to argue with Atheists.. those who die in Christ have eternal life john 3:16, Luke 19:10, 1theselonians 4:14, john 6:50, and a host of others, also I am personally happy that Jesus saved me twice I have escaped bullets, am not a cultist or a military personel its just his grace..

Stop displaying your idiocy.

Lamanii22:
Where's your advice lol... Abi kini "damnnnnnn niggarr" ni shey kpelu what the OP said
...

LOL.

Monaco2:
It was over 10 years ago I was in the living room reading wen all of a sudden my neck began to bend to one side, I was scared cus I was alone I thought I was going to die n all that came to my mind were my mom n siblings, I tried using my hands to straighten my head but all to no avail naso my eyes begin b like say e wan tear.... as I was passing out I was hearing voices saying hold e leg hold e hand hmmmmm. Woke up hours later on the floor with my hands stretched out to each side on top of two cushions.... till this day I still don’t know wat happened

Epileptic seizure.

I was walking on a rail track wearing a big earpiece, something just made me turn to see a train coming behind I ran very far away from the track, as far as is not necessary.

IntersexSherry:
don't mind them. He only talks like this because he is a man so for him its like fun. He doesn't understand how all this feels for someone who identifies herself as a woman. Do you think i enjoy having masculine traits in my body as a woman? Do you know the suicidal feelings it gives me each day ? but i try to stay strong and face life the way it is. With negative people like these who have refused to be sensitive, you keep making our lives more miserable.

My dear be strong okay, I know it feels. If you are okay without surgery let it be so.

greatbuc:
your feelings and heart is deceiving you my brother. You are a complete male +. You decided to choose the gender that is less dominant. God will judge you with what HE has completed in you so you either live a life of deceit or accept your manhood. You have done the first good thing.. Confessing your situation.. I gathered from your story that your male side functions 90% maybe you ejaculate but you did not say. Your female side is inaccessible since you said its a tiny hole..no menstruation .. Where do you want your husband to satisfy you from. Fear God my brother. I have feelings within my heart that I want to be rich..just like you have for being a female but what I am not is I won't force people to tag me so since I have no evidence i.e money yet.

What is this one ranting about?

Theconglomerate:
Born loser,no wonder. Kill yourself,thanks.

Try to pretend you have some sense.

obiekunie2:
tufiakwa!!
i reject this poverty on behalf of lalasticla!
Nonsense and ignoramus poor people mentality post!




the only use for old clothes is to get it burnt!

Must you expose your stupidity?

Exmilitant:
I went to NECO Office at creek town to get my result, while waiting, i decided to chat with a very pretty girl who was equally waiting. Found out she was dumb and deaf. i quickly produce a pen and book so as not to miss opportunity. After enough promise and much persuasion through writing though, the girl agreed to follow me home.. On the road to my house She warned me not to touch her as it is her first visit to my house. No problem, i wrote back. when we got home, i took her to my room and wanted to go get her some snacks and chilled malt when this suppose girl grabbed my cock and started struggling with the zipper of my trouser.... When i finally slide into her, this girl began bleating like a goat i don't know how long and loud she bleated but when i looked up, my mother, aunty, sister, and two neighbours where standing right by the bed and staring.... I shall never forget that day 8th january 2003...

This is funny.

Focusingmore:
I can't generalise, but it seems you can access the poor ones easily i think.

They are accessible off campus, in the hotels and elsewhere but family houses.

Takeproft:
I don't classify lucky dube as a good reggae man. Very shallow music and no depth. Everything I look at for in reggae music are lacking in his songs. Marley is miles above every other reggae artist. High inspiration and depth. There are also other good ones in that regard.

Your judgment here is shallow.

roughdiamond:
Hausa marriages last as well. I found out that most of my brother's secondary school friends in Jos got married before they completed their secondary school education. Some married during their higher institution. They are very happy with their families. I can't tell about the Yorubas because I haven't really stayed with them. But most late marriages are usually found among Igbos

Hausa divorce and remarry more than anyone.
Yoruba, Igbira and Edo have more single parents and broken homes.
Igbos marry late.