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FamilyRe: I Feel Like I Am Being Used ! What Should I Do? by kendological(op): 12:10am On Apr 22, 2021
braine:
Thats unfair.. especially when the father is in the child's mothers life!

I believe the child bears your surname as the man hasn't paid any bride price nor come to claim the child.


You sef get married and have your own responsibilities. You'll have a genuine reason not to take extra responsibility.
Yes, the child bears my surname. thanks.
FamilyI Feel Like I Am Being Used ! What Should I Do? by kendological(op): 11:17pm On Apr 21, 2021
My younger sister-Nancy (not her real name) gave birth to a child outside wedlock, for a very irresponsible man. This man is in his early forties, while my sister is in her mid twenties; she is younger than me by about 8 years.
The problem with her started from my parents who spoilt her from childhood. My other three sisters are all married and two of them are younger than Nancy, while one of the three is our first born.
My father has this superstitious belief that his mother reincarnated through this sister of mine, she became very rebellious, manner less and untouchable, my father will defend her against anybody when she is wrong, even against my mother, my father would even insult me just to please Nancy.
My mother was using Nancy to settle scores with me, because I refused to be manipulated by her. I am an irreligious humanist while my mother is a very toxic Christian, all my family members are Christian anyways, and we don’t discriminate generally. But my mum was using Christianity to cover her character flaws, she and my father practically turned Nancy against me. Now they are getting older Nancy have overpowered them, and they still interfere when I try to rebuke her.

I studied through the open and distance system of education, mostly self sponsored and occasionally by my father, I have been working since leaving secondary school, I graduated from the university about 2 years ago, I was disrespected so much at home just because I was still struggling. This is notwithstanding the fact that I still render assistance wherever I can. I started a business last year around June and I am now growing gradually. I am supporting my younger brother who is currently in the university. I have earned some respect in the family too.

I spent money on medical bills Nancy during pregnancy and after delivery; other members of the family have been contributing in taking care of her baby. But she is still meeting and having sex with the man who is responsible for her baby. I have seen Nancy trying to show me that the baby is her own on few occasions (I learnt firsthand how a childless woman feels when mothers ridicule her), she does not appreciate, love nor respect me.
I am an enemy to her now because I am against her lifestyle and choices. In fact, Nancy cannot even greet me for more than 6 years, my parents are aware but always make excuses for her like “we cannot force her”, “she is just immature”, “she will grow up’’ etc.

Now the child is almost due to be enrolled into pre nursery, everyone is expecting me to shoulder the responsibility, as the first son. My father always says that the child will be taken care of just like every one of his children as if he has any plan for her. They always let me know that a first son is an embodiment of patience, endurance and tolerance, just when they are about to blackmail me into doing their wishes.
I love this child but I feel that I shouldn’t start wasting my resources on a child whose mother hates me and may turn her against me later in my life, whose grandparents encouraged her mum to disrespect me and whose father may find his way into her heart when she gets to adulthood, making me a loser. If I find myself broke or in need tomorrow, I don't want to start regretting my past benevolent actions.
I am single and in my early thirties.
Please I need sound advice and sincere suggestions on what to do.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kendological(m): 5:37pm On Apr 17, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:
The manosphere is a community strictly addressing only heterosexual men inter-gender dynamics with heterosexual women, we don't recommend advice for bisexual men
Your opinion is noted.
I need other contributions.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kendological(m): 3:38pm On Apr 16, 2021
geedot:
Girls go help girls, even guys s.imps go help girls, na only God fit help man.. The hatred some guys have towards homosexua.ls should be directed to all these Simplet.ons[They're worse off].
I was about to ask what the manosphere/redpill have for bisexual men.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kendological(m): 11:32am On Apr 16, 2021
HeliotJ:
Thank u. I know I will still do more for her. She told me to establish her before the new year for next year and i will do that. But I will not steal.

Please she is having sex with the father of the boy, how about that? She told me if I prove myself she will love me. I need to do everything because she is everything to me
Leave that woman, build your life, start reading this thread from page 1, make it a daily commitment, you will find all your answers.
RomanceRe: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by kendological(m): 5:20pm On Apr 13, 2021
miracood:
I don't know about the rest but an average Hausa man is Redpilled.
Not true, they are the bluest simp, but after marrying a lady they turn red.
PoliticsRe: ESN: Benue Not Part Of Biafra – Govt Warns Nnamdi Kanu by kendological(m): 11:08am On Mar 08, 2021
mike8804:
ESN should stay in their region, any attempt to exceed that will be term as land grabbing. Don't just come southwest sha less that will be the beginning of the end.
Busybody, protect yourself from herdsmen first.
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky To Get A New Apartment For An Elderly Woman Who Declared Love For Him by kendological(m): 10:31pm On Mar 04, 2021
Righteousness2:
Bobri, it's a Good and Commendable act you wanna do for the old mama. GOD Bless you.

But what is more Necessary is your Soul!
JESUS the MASTER needs you to Surrender Completely to HIM.

This is what Really Matters
Rubbish
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky To Get A New Apartment For An Elderly Woman Who Declared Love For Him by kendological(m): 10:31pm On Mar 04, 2021
Righteousness2:
Bobri, it's a Good and Commendable act you wanna do for the old mama. GOD Bless you.

But what is more Necessary is your Soul!
JESUS the MASTER needs you to Surrender Completely to HIM.

This is what Really Matters
CelebritiesRe: Bobrisky To Get A New Apartment For An Elderly Woman Who Declared Love For Him by kendological(m): 10:30pm On Mar 04, 2021
Righteousness2:
Bobri, it's a Good and Commendable act you wanna do for the old mama. GOD Bless you.

But what is more Necessary is your Soul!
JESUS the MASTER needs you to Surrender Completely to HIM.

This is what Really Matters
Soul kill you there.
SportsRe: Stephanie Onusiriuka Ogechukwu Lacks Sponsorship To Represent Nigeria by kendological(m): 10:36am On Feb 20, 2021
Incognito403:
This is serious.

As usual, Ipobians will blame the north and Tinubu for this.

Doesn't she have a state governor?! Doesn't she have a LGA chairman?! Doesn't her state have an agency for sports?! Do they not claim that they have many multimillionaires?!

I won't be surprised if it's Wike that will still sponsor this girl.

Ipodians are ungrateful lots. See how we all rooted for NOI, but in the end they tried to celebrate her as a Igbo woman not Nigerian.

If we sponsor this girl too, they'll end up removing the Nigerian from her and celebrating her as an Igbo girl.

Yet, they're the ones always shouting tribalism. Tribalism kee every Ipodian pig.

Common to sponsor small girl like this, them no fit. If na to burn Lagos, dem go dey flex muscle. Fire burn all evil minded arsonists.
This is how madness starts.
CrimeRe: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by kendological(m): 12:34pm On Feb 18, 2021
shortgun:
Better you let sleeping dog lie.
The said guy have apologised and besides you don't know the ralationship between your sister and the guy.
There's a reason she told u not to go further with the matter.

Modified for those quoting me and insulting their ancestors
How do you provide evidence for attempted Rape?
Rape is one of the most difficult cases to get a conviction not to talk of attempted rape.

My point is OP will be wasting precious time trying to proof this case...which will still end in futility.

A little elderly advice: As a Man Never go to War on the account of emotional tales by a woman; be her your mother, sister, girlfriend or wife....many have gone.
If you like follow wisdom.
Wisdom.
FamilyRe: Outrageous Traditional Marriage List In Akwa Ibom: Man Runs Away by kendological(m): 10:55am On Feb 11, 2021
MASTAkiLLAh:
As a responsible man, if you love a woman thw wedding list wont deter you. From what i know, those things are paid for gradually and not at once, many at times over years. Lets stop demonising regions and their cultures. What will you say about the people who flog their potential suitors with koboko to test their mánhood and bravery ?
Bros.that list is madness.
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Replies Aisha Yesufu Over Esn’s Attack by kendological(m): 4:37pm On Feb 02, 2021
samwillyco1:
Must Nnamdi Kalu make it public, he should remember that fulanis never forgets nor forgive
Do they have the monopoly of unforgiveness.?
CelebritiesRe: 'I’m Proudly Gay’ – Uche Maduagwu Declares (Photo) by kendological(m): 2:40pm On Jan 30, 2021
fuckdemrepented:
I hate Gay men with passion

If u have the opportunity, I will eliminate them all

Every disgusting set of individuals

Why will I be attracted to my fellow man??
You may be gay. Lol.
PoliticsRe: 46 Armed Fulani Arrested In Oyo Are Vigilantes Securing Communities:Miyeti Allah by kendological(m): 9:55am On Jan 12, 2021
Tranquillity360:
Yorubas should stop killing innocent fulanis,every Nigerian have freedom of movement.


Remember fulanis never forgive nor forget.
Is that so?
TravelRe: Sosoliso Plane Crash 15 Years After: Woman Pays Touching Tribute To Her Sister by kendological(m): 1:32pm On Dec 12, 2020
Akalia:
Not everyone will die in the end. In fact many will be alive to witness the second advent of Jesus Christ as a king and judge.
Story.
EducationRe: Share Your Experiences Being Flogged in Secondary School by kendological(m): 3:38pm On Nov 14, 2020
The school head boy flogged me so much, I was crying out loudly, in Jss 2 Materchrisi Academy Ngodo Isuochi Abia State year 2002.
I have never forgiven him, I will surely fix him. Distance is the issue for now. Cosmos will get the wickedness he meted to me.
BusinessRe: Share Your Worst Broke Moments Experiences In Life by kendological(m): 12:34pm On Oct 31, 2020
Olayinka8793:
I don't think l have ever been broke in the true sense of the word in my entire adult life as l am still single with no marital responsibility and my modest barbing saloon business ensures that money flows in everyday, no matter how small even if na 1k l made on a particular day.
But l remembered when l was still a teenager that just finished secondary school and went to live with an elder bro of mine in another state.
As per say l dey live with him and depend on him those times, it is not funny at all anytime he goes broke cos the type of job he does is not one that bring money consistently.
I don experience bastard hunger so tey l ate nothing from morning to night with no hope for the next day.
I don drink garri thrice a day for two days straight until God saw us and provided money for better foodstuff.
We bought foodstuffs on credit so much such that shame always catch me whenever l am sent on errand to buy garri on credit.
I no longer live with him sha and things are much better for him and me too. My greatest wish is that non of my future kids ever experience the type of sufferness and hunger l experienced, reason why l am hustling so hard now before even thinking of girlfriend despite being 27 years old.
God no go shame us.
I am 30, I am managing a small scall business. Only thinking of bettering my life.
CelebritiesRe: Kechi Okwuchi Celebrates Her 31st Birthday by kendological(m): 2:57pm On Oct 29, 2020
Happyguy201:
make this girl go and sit one side abeg .
Idiot.
Music/RadioRe: What Is That Hit Song(s) That Everyone Else Likes But You Just Don't Like It? by kendological(m): 12:27pm On Oct 10, 2020
Vulcan24:
U av to be less busy or high to do 9ja songs
They virtually teaches and promotes sex

We na alternative & country lovers
We choose songs by their lyrical meaning and instrumental display

Coldplay I love
All those 9ja songs are played in brothels and beer parlour to invoke the spirit of shiina and sex
Suggest some hit songs for me, not Nigerian songs.
Music/RadioRe: What Is That Hit Song(s) That Everyone Else Likes But You Just Don't Like It? by kendological(m): 12:10pm On Oct 10, 2020
Hammer2O19:
What is a hit song in the first place, Naija artists are all wack

They gat no hit songs....I listen to good lyrics with good beat and not some piece of shit and noise making

Go and listen to Circles by Post Malone and know how a hit/good song is and should be
I just downloaded this song, the lyrics is too good, please can you suggest any beautiful hit, I don't want Nigerian music
HealthRe: Friday Osadolor Commits Suicide! Edo College Of Education Lecturer Hangs Himself by kendological(m): 8:48pm On Oct 03, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Too bad.....no matter what don't think of suicide

I know alot you all will insult me on this one

But i must say it

Only pussy asss niggarrrs commit suicide...
Hypocrite forming nonsense.
HealthRe: Friday Osadolor Commits Suicide! Edo College Of Education Lecturer Hangs Himself by kendological(m): 8:46pm On Oct 03, 2020
Righteousness89:
Whatever the Matter,
Refuse the Spirit and urge of Suicide! Its Demonic!
Suicide is Pure Self Murder!
Suicide is Destructive!
Suicide is to Hell Straight!

There is No condition you are Here on Earth that is Comparable to Hell Fire!!

Let people know this Truths..
Typical hypocrite.
HealthRe: Help My Girlfriend Is Epileptic. by kendological(m): 5:08pm On Sep 28, 2020
comodo:
Maybe she be Ogbanje
Illiteracy.
RomanceRe: Lesbian Couples Pose For Photo In Lagos, Nigerians React by kendological(m): 12:08pm On Sep 26, 2020
Righteousness89:
This is a Wicked act against God and Against Humanity!
This is Ungodly!This Unnatural! This is an act of Provoking Divine Wrath..

There is no Way we will Modify Evil or act like it does not Matter!
It Matters! When the Repercussions comes it Could Destroy all!

These are the Wickedness that attracts and Invites the Wrath of GOD ALMIGHTY.

Whether you do it in the Secret or in the Open, it is Abomination! It is Evil!

No Matter who does it! No Matter who Endorses it! Be it a Nation or a People! It is Evil! It is Abomination! It is Wickedness! It is Destructive!
STORY.
RomanceRe: Godfrey Baguma “Ugliest Man” in Uganda Marries Third Wife In Grand Style -Photos by kendological(m): 7:27pm On Sep 04, 2020
Richdad50:
shocked

No man or woman before God is Ugly. I have never looked at any man or woman as ugly. I consider the thoughts of it as insult on the one who created him. I only see the different shades of God in every man. I hope you do too.

Richdad
Na story you dey yan.
TravelRe: Norway: The Most Beautiful Country On Earth? The Amazing Landscape (Photos) by kendological(m): 10:45pm On Aug 24, 2020
IfGodbeforus:
This is Lovely !

If the Earth is like this,
I Wonder How Beautiful Heaven Must Be!
I Wonder How the Streets of Gold will be like!

Lord, Make Me to be Accounted Worthy to Be in Heaven! I Pray in JESUS Name
Grand delusion
BusinessRe: Interested In Pos/agent Banking? Here Are Some Tips You Need To Know by kendological(m): 5:43pm On Aug 03, 2020
[quote author=udumosam23 post=92413194]The best option for beginners is first monie or access closa[/quote
Why?
Christianity EtcRe: Sinners Will Cry 'had I Known' by kendological(m): 9:16am On Aug 02, 2020
Righteousness89:
1 Corinthians 15:51-52
51 Behold, I shew you a mystery; We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed,
52 In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed.


You Believe or you Don't Believe, The Agenda on God's Time table is the Mystery of the RAPTURE of the Saints.

That day is the Great day of The Lord. Its gonna be a Day of Joy, Happiness and Settlement for all who will make it. While a day of total Confusion, Sadness, Regrets, Pains for those who miss it. A day where all who have Refused, Rejected and Scorned at the Free Gift of Salvation from JESUS Christ will roll, Cry and wail " Had I Known"

Isaiah 13:6-11
6 Howl ye; for the day of the LORD is at hand; it shall come as a destruction from the Almighty.
7 Therefore shall all hands be faint, and every man's heart shall melt:
8 And they shall be afraid: pangs and sorrows shall take hold of them; they shall be in pain as a woman that travaileth: they shall be amazed one at another; their faces shall be as flames.
9 Behold, the day of the LORD cometh, cruel both with wrath and fierce anger, to lay the land desolate: and he shall destroy the sinners thereof out of it.
10 For the stars of heaven and the constellations thereof shall not give their light: the sun shall be darkened in his going forth, and the moon shall not cause her light to shine.
11 And I will punish the world for their evil, and the wicked for their iniquity; and I will cause the arrogancy of the proud to cease, and will lay low the haughtiness of the terrible.


No Matter How Hardened, Bold, Intellectual or whatever you Have Claimed to be all these while, you Will Cry "HAD I KNOWN " on that day.

Revelation 6:15-17
15 And the kings of the earth, and the great men, and the rich men, and the chief captains, and the mighty men, and every bondman, and every free man, hid themselves in the dens and in the rocks of the mountains;
16 And said to the mountains and rocks, Fall on us, and hide us from the face of him that sitteth on the throne, and from the wrath of the Lamb:
17 For the great day of his wrath is come; and who shall be able to stand?


Today, Death has become a kind of Sport. The rate at which People are Dying is Fearful. The thought that comes to mind is where are they Going to? Some Came across our Messages, but Felt, this is not for Me! I still have so much Years to live. Right now they are in Hell Screaming and Wailing " HAD I KNOWN "

Anyone who Departs this Earth Without Jesus Christ is Guaranteed to Join the Wailers in Crying " HAD I KNOWN "

Today is another Opportunity for Repentance for Somebody! Today might just be Last time of Hearing or Seeing the Gospel. Today is a day of Salvation. Today is a day to Confess all sins to The MASTER and seek for Forgiveness.
Today is the Appointed day of Salvation! Don't Mess with it! Surrender All to JESUS. Mercy Expires at Death! There is No in the Grave!
Repentance is Past (RIP) once your Eyes Closes in Death!

Calm down and Humble yourself Before GOD Almighty. Repent , Amend your Ways and Surrender to JESUS.

The Most Important thing Anyone can have in Life is not Wealth, Properties, Degrees, Business, Position, Power, Wife, Husband or Whatever! The Most you Can Gift yourself is JESUS Christ!

It is a Fearful thing to Fall into the Hands of an Angry God..

In all you Do Here on Earth, Remember, Sinners will Cry HAD I KNOWN
Unnecessary paranoia.
Christianity EtcRe: I Killed This Bat The Enemy Sent To My House At Night by kendological(m): 7:46am On Aug 02, 2020
Miracle7998:
Brethren this is the reason I always tell people to always be on alert and be vigilant so that you will know what kind of things the enemy brings to your house, this is a bat that the enemy sent to my home this night around 10:40 pm and glory be to God we killed it.

You have to stand and fight your enemies we are in the last days
Illiteracy and ignorance manifesting.
TravelRe: Boat Accident At Okrika Kalio Rivers, 16 Persons Rescued Alive (Graphic Photos) by kendological(m): 2:25pm On Jul 23, 2020
paix:
Maybe they prayed to go to heaven. Can you go to heaven alive?
Is every prayer for going to heaven?

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