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hakeemhakeem:
Op who gave you the prices you quoted during the presentation? I believed your brother had done the sorting to those guys who works with the company which he added to the prices. If you want more of this kind of jobs buy from him. Moreover, did you have any knowledge / done the job before

I made the first quotation to the company myself based on my own knowledge of market prices. I've always had an idea of the prices.

I've always known, also, that my bro's prices were higher. But I was hoping we could reach some compromise.

Sweetvie:
Excusez moi?
I'm not talking from any experience... That's just the basic fact about you guys. Inferiority complex.
You guys come online everyday ranting about the broke girls and how they are useless or something. Why don't you follow ur caliber?
Why don't you set standard for yourself?
Why are you dating broke girls when you know you can't cope? Mak una dey use brain.
Feel sorry for yourself rather

Men love broke girls because they're inexperienced and men love inexperienced girls because they're submissive, young and impressionable.

Women consider money as the standard when looking for a man but men consider youthfulness, beauty, character and availability.

Men don't need your money and that career of yours only makes you too busy/tired to make out time for him and rob him off of the quality sex life he desires.

The choice is simple for a man really.. make money, go low-key into the conservative areas of the state, pick a young girl - who's usually broke by the way (you don't expect a girl of 19-22 years to have a lot of money) and court her. She gives him maximum love, time and respect. Unlike that rich babe who'll have to check her schedules to make out time or be too tired when she comes back from work, the young girl is always there, always curious and wants to be around you, good vibes and living a bliss life in the arms of her lover.

You have to understand that men and women see dating and courtship very differently. So it's okay to set your standard while we men look out for those character and traits that are valuable to us.

StrongAlphMale:
Ordinary to quote and reply Sweetvie you no fit. But here you are ranting like the talkative you are.

You should be ashamed of yourself. If you like set standard for yourself. If you like don't! Na your cup of tea.

Thinking a broke girl will be loyal to you because of your supposed money is the greatest stupidity ever. Money cannot buy loyalty. A word is enough for the wise.

You need exposure boy. I know you're a village Man but Travel around and be exposed. However till you're able to quote and reply to that girl, until then Avoid me. Don't bother responding back because you'll ignored from now henceforth

Afraid of sweetvie for what? I already replied you on that.. here's my reply again for free if you missed it before...

kenedyx:
From her comment you can see that she's clearly talking from experience. Most valuable men in her life as a career woman are not chasing after her.. they're looking for the inexperienced girl, with firm pointed boobs, low body count, a submissive and nurturing nature and who's only 21 yrs.
She suffers in silence because she can't submit, to any of her colleagues, even if she likes them, because she earns as much as they do and so feels they are equals.

I feel sorry for her but I feel more sorry you because you talk from your imaginations and not reality. You will end up learning nothing.

Now get lost you incel

StrongAlphMale:
What do you mean by find a rich girl?

Bros, Nobody said we are finding/looking for rich girl. Dude, All we said is that we can't date poor broke girls. I really wonder why that is paining you so much. Set standard for yourself man! No sane man settles for less. If a girl cannot settle for less even after hoeing around, why would a sane man settles for less? Don't you have brains to think?

It's obvious you don't know what the phrase "likes attracts likes" means.

Bros You seriously need exposure ASAP! It appears you're a complete village Man and seriously needs to travel and be exposed to the world at large.

What shameless tongue twisting is this.. you've been shouting rich girls ever since so why shifting grounds now?

I said give me an age bracket for a rich girl.. here or abroad.. is that so hard for your miniscule brain now?

You think they pluck money from trees? It would take an average girl till age 35 to become rich in this competitive, male dominated workspace. So basically you've been dating girls who are way older than you. Which I want to now believe are prostitutes and hook-up girls.

You still have a long way to go.. what a slowpoke

StrongAlphMale:
No sane man settles for less. We cannot date poor broke girls son. We don't have inferiority complex and low self esteem like you.

Son set standard for yourself and watch yourself go far in life. never think Your money can make a broke girl loyal and Obedient to you. Money can never buy loaylty. Na Wetin we dey try explain to you since this. Instead of learning you decided to rant.


This is exactly why exposure is important

Let's say you find a rich girl, how old do you imagine she would be? Give me an age bracket. Then give me the age bracket of the woman you'd want to marry in future.
I want to confirm your sanity. You're better off in a show-glass posing as the poster child for idiocy.

Kobojunkie:
OP, see what I mean? Many of these men seek power and control in their unions, and hypogamy—marrying the broken woman— is the only way for them.

You call an inexperienced girl broken? That's utter nonsense. An experienced girl is broken.. she has been broken by many a men's ego, even battered and trampled mercilessly for her to have attained such heights in the society.
An inexperienced girl is defiant in her niaivity and bold in her innocence. It takes a real man to subdue such a girl.

Either way it doesn't matter.. if a man can't dominate his woman, he has no woman in the first place.

Lance03:
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Nobody said we are looking for rich gal man
All we said is that we can't date broke gal
Was ur headache about that

Are you sure? Okay we cool bro.

StrongAlphMale:
Dude I'm tired of your nagging. U seem more like a talkative and the mods will do the needful.

However, ordinary to respond to Sweetvie you can't. Abi u dey fear her? Go to her comment and quote her and reply her!

I'm tired of you. Abeg stop commenting on my threads and don't quote me again on nairaland

Why are you deflecting? I and sweetvie are not having a convo.
It's good to see you beg like a bîtch.

Next time learn to keep your mouth shut and refrain from opening stupid threads like a lost donkey.

Pvssy ass nigga.. what a fvktard

StrongAlphMale:
Seun mynd44 lalastical justwise farano OAM4J Disguy nlfpmod rocktation

Rule 2

It's time to ban this guy. Seun Rule 2 has since been broken by this user

Strong Alpha Male you called yourself.. why are you calling the mods.. are you scared?

StrongAlphMale:
You see exactly why we're saying that likes attracts likes?

Bros , you were clearly not within her league (financially) and you needed to hustle and make money to be in her league instead of blaming your poverty life on her. That girl needed a rich dude just like her kind too. You're not her kind oga. Stop sounding daft!

do you even know what entitlement mentality is? A rich man and a rich girl gets married and they're living happily, you said it's entitlement mentality because the girl is rich too? , and you probably think the man is there because of the money? Omo something Must be wrong with you. u need exposure ASAP! Ur Brain should be checked.

Simply tell us that you were intimidated by that girl's rich (life) which you clearly couldn't afford. Oga encourage yourself to hustle and make money, that is when you'll understand what it means for likes to attracts likes. If you were supposedly rich like that girl or her family, you definitely won't have this kind of thoughts. Na poverty dey make u reason this way!

Too many kids here.

When you say you want a rich girl aren't you also implying you're broke or have you seen a rich crying so desperately to find a rich woman to marry or does he look for a virtuous woman, an elegant, beautiful, young and submissive woman?

When I don't hear you listing things as these in the quality of women you want, it makes wonder if you've ever left the four corners of your cellphone. You dare talk about exposure.
As your in your community.. how many rich men got married to rich women this past year.
You're beyond senile.. you're plain disgusting. Your ignorance reeks and it's torturous.

You want a rich woman bla bla bla.. what are the qualities attributed to a rich woman if not status which is money.. ? So you want a woman with money.. why? You this effeminate gigolo..!

Lance03:
He will end up acting as a father for the gal and the siblings
I will rather remain single than to date a broke gal

So do you want to act like the wife before?

Damn! I don't get these crop of men. Y'all are definitely virgins.. because women don't date men like y'all in real life. That one I'm sure.

StrongAlphMale:
I'm surprised this is coming from a girl. This is exactly what I have been trying to explain to the simp man called kenedyx:

Dude so much believes that rich working class girls are not submissive and respectful. What an inferiority complex!!!!!!!!

I'm glad this is coming from a girl. I hope the guy kenedyx, respond to you Sweetvie, of course I expect him to start arguing stupidly as usual. Dude has inferiority complex and thinks all guys have inferiority complex like him.

From her comment you can see that she's clearly talking from experience. Most valuable men in her life as a career woman are not chasing after her.. they're looking for the inexperienced girl, with firm pointed boobs, low body count, a submissive and nurturing nature and who's only 21 yrs.
She suffers in silence because she can't submit, to any of her colleagues, even if she likes them, because she earns as much as they do and so feels they are equals.

I feel sorry for her but I feel more sorry you because you talk from your imaginations and not reality. You will end up learning nothing.

StrongAlphMale:
At the bolded, you're even more stupid and daft than I thought. If you had said an "inexperienced girl" would make a happy home , that's even manageable but using broke inexperienced girl shows you're a broke man too and you're just going for your kind.

Like I said you seriously need exposure!

It's obvious you're mistaking rich sane girl for those oloshos and hookup celebraties girls you see on IG and social medias. Bros, you really need to expand your sense of reasoning, travel and meet Rich girls. People are meeting Sane rich girls in Russia, Dubai and other countries, that's exposure!!!!! You're stock in your locality thinking life starts and ends on Nollywood and social medias.

Only a poor broke dude will have your kind of thoughts. Of course likes attracts likes. Normally, a poor broke dude will attract a poor broke girl. Thinking she'll be submissive to u because of your supposed money is plain stupidity

A fish should be considered more intelligent compared to you..
Where have you seen an inexperienced rich girl? Girls mature mentally and physically before 15 and by th time they reach dating age they already have all the experience in the world.. couple that with a girl who is rich, by the time she's 25, she would've lived the life a broke girl won't dream to live in her fifties...

There has to be a disparity in income for marriage to work in a traditional sense. This way there will be division of labor and the family can thrive. If you don't get this you're beyond foolish.

You've become so stupid that you want to build a home with a career woman and when she refuses to make important sacrifices for you, you come out and label women.

Wallow in your pit of idiocy and keep dating the kind of women you can't and shouldn't marry, until you realize you've wasted your life..

You want me to believe you can control a rich woman, but you don't want to accept you can control a broke girl. You want me to agree that a rich girl will be naive enough to submit to you everything she has including her hard earned money.. but you don't want to accept a broke girl will be more faithful to you.

You're beyond insane.. you're an îmbecile

Double post.

StrongAlphMale:
Unfortunately one SIMP man called kenedyx said he'll rather be with a broke girl than a rich girl the guy na complete village Man! He has probably never been exposed to rich girls before na why the guy dey yarn dust.

Dude actually thought a broke girl will be Obedient to him because of his Money. What happens when your money finishes? That means she'll find her way and replace you ASAP like the hoe she is Omo some guys are really daft ooooo!

@Lance03 thank you for always saying the gospel truth Comrade. Every sane man Must avoid poor broke girls like plague

Tell me exactly why a rich girl will be obedient to you? That's why you're still a virgin who cannot even masturbate properly.

What happens when the money finishes? What a stupid question.. so you married the rich girl so that when your money finishes you can beg her abi... Broke ass pvssy nigga.

StrongAlphMale:
Son you urgently need exposure ASAP.

Do you think money can keep a girl? Bros a broke girl can stick with you and do anything you demand for as long as you keep sending that cash on her. Son, money doesn't keep a woman!!!!

At the bolded, oga, broke girls don't love you. They love your money instead! The moment that money Is gone, they'll move on to the next Rich dude (the hoeing around continues)

When you say rich girls ain't submissive and respectful, na inferiority complex dey worry you! You need exposure. Perhaps you have never seen or even dated a rich girl before. Na why you dey yarn this rubbish.

You're clearly senile.

Why exactly do you want a rich girl? For status, because you're that much of a debased and effeminate man, you need to hide behind a woman's money?

You think making money is done in your father's garden.. that's why a rich woman will abandon her career to stay home and take care of the house and the kids.

Money doesn't keep a woman, so what does? Pray tell.. Ode!

Don't go and make money, stay there and be expecting a rich girl to be submissive to you.. because you fine like Ramsey Noah or you get big dîck like dbanj.

What a stupid fellow.

Ishilove:
You win some, you lose some. I don't see you winning this.

Definitely not winning this one.
Things we do for family! I'm the proverbial scape-goat.

brain54:
Sure bro…


You the greedy one here. After removing the cost of materials will you still make profit? And also did he request anything from you before he “twicked” the contract in your favor? If he had requested a kickback from you before it was awarded how would you have felt as a brother?


That’s his way of compensating himself for his efforts because he cannot ask a kick back from you as an elder bro!

After subtracting cost of materials and you still make profit then buy from him.

Chop small today and chop bigger tomorrow. This is just a tip of the iceberg of things to come. Think of the doors that will open in your favor after this contract is completed successfully.

That’s asides the maybe strained relationship that may result from this.

A good businessman should NEVER be greedy. Sometimes it’s not about the immediate gains to come but about the future benefits to come that matter. I have personally seen some contractors use their personal money to complete projects just to boost their portfolio.

Here you are complaining of small profit. If he hadn’t helped you would you have gotten the contract? Talk less of profit…

Money is transient. Think about it!

My opinion though!

Thanks man.
He still needs to beat down his prices and make it more competitive.. or next time I definitely won't patronize him.

Divoc19:
I'll get one. Because you said so

...and it's not a therapist you need.. what you need is therapy.

The enemy of my enemy is my friend.
But what a sordid example of the lowest crop of human to be found in the rank and files of opposition Dino has become. Having now spent the equivalent of an eternity in opposition, his fierce rival FFK now seems more presentable than this clown cum politician

That said, I have a very long list of opposition members I wouldn't want to see in the labour party after we've secured the ballot and Dino is at the very top of it, followed ever closely by his comic rival FFK.

Actually that list is very long though.. we will need lots of new politicians.

jmoore:
Those saying the poster is greedy should be flogged!!

Una go just open mouth to spill nonsense!!

The same people that say fuel marketers are greedy for increasing price of fuel are the same people saying the poster is greedy for not wanting to buy materials at higher price.

As in that's just my take bro.. it's business and very straightforward.

Oblongata:
What is happening to you is simply *selfishness*

Your brother was wrong to had used you as plug, he should have used outsider that would be appreciative. How can you even think of sidelining him? Your type is the reason people run away from helping family. But my guess is that you are either too young to understand life, or you are simply a wicked fellow.

Person give you food chop, you wan con hold him hand make him no Chop, no be juju be Dat?

Na wa o, but seriously why him sef no wan gree price na bros? I don do my market survey o.

Ariketolu:
Op. I understand your angle of view honestly, and that is simply what a smart business minded person would think -maximizing profit.
However, trust me you can't have your cake and eat it. You lost every tendency to have it all to yourself the moment your bro sidelined other contractors to secure it for you. He could have worked it for someone else you know, and I fear that will be his smartest option if you insist on not buying from him.
I guess this is your first serious business dealing with him because there was no trace to any prior pattern btw both of you on your write up and oops, you want to spoil it all in your first "hit".

You're right this is our first gig together..
and even if I agree to give in to his wishes on this deal. Even you will call me a fool if I continue to patronize him in this manner. I can't be throwing away money like that na...

Ishilove:
So because his brother got him the contract, he shouldn't make profit?? The brother here is the problem, not the OP. If it was another buyer will he not try to shift a little bit so his prices can be competitive?

Asin eh..

He who comes to equity must do so with clean hands.
He also has the option of beating down his own price to match my own.. if he really needs the money, why must I be the only one to inconvenience my self?
Some advice are just one sided mehn

brain54:
Op honestly…


And with all due respect. You do sound like a very greedy person.

What do you even mean by he has other things going for him? Because he has other things going for him you won’t give him his due?

You have seen food now and you think tomorrow will never come.


Chop this one this time and clean mouth but don’t expect any more recommendation from him…


Simple!

So he's not greedy for raising his prices on his own brother..I'm the greedy one now right? That's just great bro!

yemmit90:
You should've adopted a good strategy the moment you see his bogus quotations and the cheaper ones from other source. He got you the contract, same way he is expecting you 100% to buy materials from him, don't jeopardise your relationship with his person because of today.

I will do this if in your shoes, the moment I see his quotations, I won't even say anything, I will just reduce what I need to buy, 60% from him and get the 40% from other source. He won't suspect anything, since I did not argue or protest his price.

I already gave him the list of all the materials I need so coming around to say I need only 60% now would come off as suspicious. Thanks though.

Divoc19:
That intrinsic part. I have buried it

You need therapy.

Reinamaria:
Come to an agreement with your brother.
See it as your way of supporting him.

Thanks, I will.

Divoc19:
To be successful. You need a mentor. You admitted earlier.

My innocence were long gone before...it's not about that. It's about guidance on making the right choice in life to avoid mistakes later.

Not all dad's. Our parents and spouses are not perfect.

I was referring to your wish earlier of coming as a man in the next world.

Your innocence is long gone you say? Rubbish. Innocence the way I use it is not just about virginity, it's about being submissive and nurturing to a fault. As a woman, innocence is an intrinsic part of your nature due to your hormonal buildup necessary for the nurturing of your babies. So it can't be gone unless you're trying to hide it.

Show a good man that part of you and he will not only mentor you but marry you. He will guide you and help you avoid mistakes and correct them.

You shouldn't be looking for this outside of marriage, though. Don't let any man who's not your husband mentor you!

Reinamaria:
You see that mentality @bolded? Die it! Before it ruins your relationship with your brother.

Brothers should support each other, and not the younger feeling entitled to the older's help whenever.

By the way, you're greedy!

Hahaha... You're right though.
The last thing I want to do is ruin our relationship. I'll think about it some more.

emmanuelbrown26:
Greed is playing at d bolded bro. Either greed is about to get hold of u or ur brother since he brought d deal and knows d worth of d deal.
See, if u want to succeed in business or deals, u hv to let go sometimes, u can't get it all d time. Allow him to supply u d materials, in as much as u still hv some profit. But if there is no profit at all after supply, u can come to d roundtable and do some negotiations with him.
Kill that spirit of Greed right now or u get it wrong

That's deep. But this is business and I believe he and every other business man, made their money this way, doing market survey and comparing prices.
I really wish it was someone else and not my brother... I wouldn't have hesitated.

Divoc19:
Even women need mentors too fortunately or unfortunately, women hardly mentor other women. Their jealousy no go gree. The men mentor women find will always want an exchange.

I use to have one. Everything was perfect later, my life change when I say I no do again. You know what I mean

You don't need a mentor!

Your husband should be your one and only mentor..after your dad of course. The best way to reach your husband's house is as a novice woman who knows nothing and is open to learn. That's why many men scream virginity, though it's not just about that.

You gave away your innocence for a needless experience that would even mar your chances of ending up with the right man.