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Lol, these are not enough to imply you're loosing your mind.

Though if I were to take a wild guess I'd say it could be PTSD, or depression, or ADHD.. which are all manageable with just little knowledge from reading about them.

Hope you get well soon.

talented321:
And Feel Good is the only good song, plus the party jam Ronaldo. Nothing more..
We all miss mohbad but nigerians are taking it too far..

KPK, Beast & Peace, Weekend, Peace, Komajesun, Ponmo, Backside, etc.

Though there's a lot of mediocre shit he put out, still he's worth the hype.

iLegendd:
You don't need to call him kiddy. A man who got hard, yet didn't succumb has more power than a man who wasn't hard in the first place.

If I tell you not to imagine a dog, immediately, picture of a dog will appear to you.

As long as you're young and energetic human, you can't escape sexual arousal (it's natural and it's healthy). The only power you have is to control it and that's what he did.

There are levels to this shit bro.. there are boys that get an erection just seeing cleavage and big bum and there are men that don't even get aroused by fore play.

He should know his strength and avoid getting into compromising situations in the first place.

ifyboi91:
It shows he is a complete Man. That's man's physiology. It's just like seeing a delicacy you desire so much but choose not to eat. That doesn't obstruct the secretion of saliva from parotid gland. It's a simple physiology just so you know!

I know, it's just funny that even going by your own analogy that a salivating dog would reject food. I wish it weren't that obvious that it's hungry, but hey! It is what it is right?

Reminderz:
I was almost raped by the women I was with when I didn't want to have sex with them... in fact, they did all they could to make me want it, but I didn't fall... was I hørny and extremely hard? fvck yes! they could see it.. but I taught them a valuable lesson and my worth grew more in their eyes... you know the kind of situation when you're looking at a delicious meal right in front of you but can't have a taste of it? exactly!

You didn't fall but you were "extremely" hard.. lol. I can imagine how phoney you looked with a bulge and still forming monk.

Come back and type this epistle when you've learned how to properly control your erection. Kiddy.

Weretuntun:
READ AND COMPREHEND BEFORE COMMENT

If you don't understand my comment, then truly you should remain outside while she dresses.

How's your girlfriend naked while you're fully clothed? I don't get.. aren't you supposed to be naked too or did I miss something?

It's very bad practice for a lady.. in the long run it wrinkles the pussy lips making it look saggy and ugly.

correctguy101:
Hahahaha

Old Baba...

Goan siddon one place.


Funny thing is. As a Lazyman, I'm always broke like you.. So you got yasef a broke brother on a faceless forum..

Blood

Atolu01:
It's his/ its fault. Life doesn't revolve around you and your so called genes. Exactly, he shouldn't bother her with his nonsense.

@embolden. This is so funny.

Actually life does revolve around genes. Imagine dying without an offspring..

That's extinction right there and the chances are very real when one has a fear of approaching his romantic interest.

Unless you have another opinion then I'd like to hear it.

Atolu01:
Move indeed. He should leave her be.

It's not his fault he's attracted to her, it just happened.
But it's definitely his fault if he fails to toast her and propagate his genes and goes into extinction just because he doesn't want to "bother" her.

Atolu01:
Life doesn't revolve around what one person wants. He should leave her be.

Of course. She has to give consent. But that doesn't take away the responsibility from the man to make the first move as women are passive by nature.

Nearly all women would be single if they took this your advice.

Atolu01:
Your assertion is not true. So he should prey on another person? Birds of an abusive feather. You too calm down.

Abuse! Where do you get these grammar from? He's attracted to her and wants a relationship. You need to change your mentality.

Atolu01:
Psychopath. Leave her be. Useless destructive wannabe "predator" abusive gender.

Leave her be as in? If you think you have any other purpose in this life apart from courtship and procreation then you must be sorely mistaken. Every single action you take, man or woman is to ensure those processes are fulfilled before moving on to the great beyond.

So calm down and embrace nature.

Mikel99:
Does this format work most of the time?

It's your best shot. Imagine the kind of pressure you've put her in with such flattery. It will only take the grace of God for her to say no.

Say it exactly like this:
"Hi, what's up, you're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. You're too fine, I hope you appreciate God (Allah as the case may be) every morning and thank him for making you so beautiful. I would love to see you again, give me your number.."

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padi94:
Unfortunately na the sex gan gan dey carry them dey go meet the girl.

Asin ehn.! Who you dey deceive? You approach girl finish dey form detached, only to eventually ask for number.. shey as your ultimate proof of detachment ni..?

Needless to say, acting all thirsty around girls is definitely a big no. Better to start off on a high note.. all carefree and fun, then proceed to vibe while revealing your intentions.

I liked the part where you just minded your business.

But you see that your analogy? No matter how padlock strong reach, e still get key wey dey open am steady.. infact if e no dey gree open easily na still inside dustbin e go find himself.

In dealing with women you have to be always agreeable and offering in things that concern her and you both as partners. But only in things that concern your personal life principles should you be unbending. Unless, you come off as toxic.

Rokiat:
Lmao this is so funny omg

It’s the keep woowing for me. Hahahaha but the guy is right though. How you gonna ask money from another man but have a whole man at home. And you don’t want to even give the nigga pussy. LMAO this is epic.

Every girl is guilty of this, including you, you're all the same. So no tickle my blockos for here.

So what stopped you from thrashing the issue right there.. or nipping it when the bad blood was starting to develop way before then?

Now everything don spoil, you come dey beat chest dey talk of revenge.

Look, the only way you can solve this issue now without slinging yourselves through the mud is for you to go home and initiate a settlement.. patronize her if necessary.

Then make sure moving forward, you dey in charge of your relationship. Stop rewarding bad behavior from her.. not even small ones because na from small e dey start.
And don't forget to reward her when she's being good. That's how you get a happy relationship.

Effizybozz:
Wow, easier said than done
Sometime I want to hug around guys, but that courage won’t be there, I will think they will laugh at me or call me boy/girl or whatever and it killing me very much.

I know it may feel like asking for a whole lot at first, but believe me when you start getting it right, you will realize overall it was just a small adjustment and you ARE still YOU but just more masculine.

Again, take it one step at a time, dress manly, if you're in doubt wear more black clothing, or you can copy the style of any man you admire his dress sense. Talk less, especially when you don't have a particularly strong opinion about a topic.. it gives you an air of mystery.

Or better still, find a mentor then watch and learn. But be careful with this, no go meet cultist oo.

Don't listen to anyone telling you to embrace it.. na man you be! Stop using the word "shy" to explain this problem, use "intimidated," you're feeling intimidated. The right terminology is important so you can know where to put your focus.

You can solve this, one habit at a time.. if you try to be James Bond at once you go too suffer.

So, find one thing you don't like most about your interactions with guys and start small from there. For example you may want to maintain stronger eye contact, make firmer handshakes, always stand straight, don't rest on anything.

You may like to have more input in conversations.. so, always chip in one or two confidently without caring whether you are right or wrong.. na talk dey bring talk. In no time you will be starting conversations yourself.

Start small and once the masculine energy enters you, you can only get better from there. Eventually you'd know how to handle bullies. Understand that they're actually very scared people that's why they act the way they do.

These are survival skills you must have as a man if you must make it in life.. and on time, too. Otherwise you would find that people will just pick on you for no reason, that's if it's not already happening.

true2god:
Romantic relationship is not a business or career.

Of course not, and there's a difference between loyalty and faithfulness.

Sermwell:
You're just being myopic! Does your brother stop being your brother just because another person made you rich? Even the senator will not trust her if he knows this about her! She could dump him tomorrow for a governor or president!

You need to be more sensible with your input. Where have I said you should abandon your family because another made you rich, does that even make sense?

Okay, stop for a second and put yourself in those shoes.. if you're the PA to the CEO of say a brewery company in your area and you get a federal appointment as PA in Aso Rock, would you take the promotional offer or remain loyal to the CEO of the brewery company?

You see why you're the myopic person abi?

chymeze:
Loyalty by shifting her pants right? What kinda wack analogy is this you're proposing? So if another man B gives her more than the senator then by your analogy she should shift her loyalty from the senator to the person B. Then if person C comes and gives her more than B, then she should further jump from person B to C, and continue her whoring until her earth life expires? Please get sense.
Certain facts you must know. First, no matter how rich a person is, there's always someone richer than him. Secondly, no matter how nice a person is, there's always someone nicer than him. So this boils down to one fact, true loyalty should and can never have a price. It should never be bought if not it won't last. To have true happiness in life, one must have qualities that can never be bought no matter what. That's what defines who a person truly is.

I see you have a mindset of one who enjoys living in penury. There's nobody who doesn't pray for helpers, the more the better, so stop being jealous and pray for yours.

Being favoured by many is now such a bad thing that one must remain in a deteriorating relationship just to prove their loyalty? Loyalty to what exactly? You should use the word 'pity' because what you're saying has nothing to do with loyalty.

Who do you think Asake, Ayra Starr or even Sanwo Olu will be loyal to? Yeah you guessed right!

Look, if you're so special to have 10 critical helpers advancing your life and career, be loyal to all of them. You don't choose to be loyal to your right foot and discard the left one.

Wise up, if you want to make it earlier in life.

jagorinho:
Your opinion of loyalty is very flawed and heavily dependent on what each party has to offer, with this it is not healthy to continue this conversation. Have a lovely day.

Loyalty is something you 'owe' and who do you owe if not your helper..? Unless you're telling me you owe your life to 7 billion humans on Earth. When you're not Jesus Christ I don't see how that's possible.

Take the music industry, or politics, for a clear example.. Eminem will always be loyal to Dr Dre, 50 Cent to Eminem and all Tinubu's proteges will always be loyal to him and so on. Why? You guessed right!

Throw away that your cynical mindset and embrace the mindset that famous people you know today have used to climb up the ladder.

jagorinho:
You can't really blame that guy you responded to, your initial post was not well thought out.

By your analogy you are obliterating the need for honesty and loyalty just for material gains in the name of moving up the social strata, that is a bad trait, what if the president comes for the said lady, she will definitely leave the senator and the cycle continues, is that moving up or a girl that has turn to slave to her innate emotions and lacks the ability to be loyal and honest.

Loyalty is to the person who lifted you up and in this case that person is the senator.. not the fuckmate boyfriend.

The fact that you and your guy suffered doesn't mean you owe him loyalty when you make it. But you certainly owe loyalty to the man that lifted you up.

Therefore, if she were to lift you up, then you'd be the one who needs to be loyal to her (lol), not the other way around. Unless you have strong game and can turn around the Dynamics and herein comes the game which Lifespan is talking about.

But understand that it's purely a game and not the way it's actually supposed to be. Most men don't get this, that's why the op has been refused entry into his ex's house.

If you know it will pain you when a woman eventually leaves you, why churn out cash you can't afford to lose and splurge on her.. knowing fully well you're only adding more insult on injury when breakup happens?

Oh you didn't know breakup is inevitable? Think again! Breakup is a natural and compulsory step in the dating process. Without physical commitments like kids and shared properties, it comes even faster than you'd think.

I don't get it, guys act like they're possessed and the funny thing is they do it on their own volition, she didn't beg you to spend on her, but still you did, even at your own expense.

As far as leaving you for a senator, put yourself in her shoes. No one leaves turkey meat to start craving pigeon meat. Not even you, you would leave her for a sugar mummy without thinking twice.

So the choice for guys is obvious really.. work on your finances and dictate your relationships or continue receiving whatever cards are dealt to you in this ruthless dating world we find ourselves.

Unnecessary arguments are the root causes of all these and men must learn to always anticipate and avoid any form of banal back and forth with women because the end result, whether you win or lose, is never worth it.

Although it must be said, that as a good partner, it's the man's job to provide his woman with positive vibes and good emotions and unless the woman is a psychopath, doing just that shouldn't produce the opposite results.

Also in the rare possibility that you've come across a psycho who enjoys turmoil, you must quickly take the moral high ground and not hesitate to totally cut off contact.. forever!