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Tboymessiah:
Thanks so much,
But most of us men believe, such a girl only marry the man because of money, and she may still be having love affairs with the little broke guy, she left for the already made senior man!

I will like to share more light on this, hopefully to hear from u

As she should bro. Do you want her kids.. your kids, to suffer?

For how long do you want to keep being the broke guy? Be the senior man!

As a man if making money is not on your mind 24/7 then I wonder what is..

Though it's wrong for her to marry just for the sake of money if that's what you're asking. But there's nothing wrong in marrying a man who can afford to take care of your kids and the home.

As a man, it's your responsibility and you should shoulder it with pride. Be realistic, who do you really expect to do it for you? It has to be you of course! So be a man about it, make plans and be prepared. Do what you have to do and make no apologies.

Keep your woman safe under your protective wings, otherwise if you force her to look for either money or protection outside, you have destroyed your home and your status as the man and you only have yourself to blame.

Maysdevices:
Real men will always know how to make a woman submissive. Whether a she’s a billionaire or not.

I know rich girls completely under the control of broke men.

Being a man or being in charge is not just about having money. Money comes. Money goes.

How will you keep the control in the trying times?


A broke virgin will still cheat if you do not meet her personal fantasies, you may think you’re in control but women are great pretenders.

A woman doesn’t live in the real world, we live in fantasies, controlling a woman is knowing what her personal fantasies are, not spending money on her.

Rich men’s wives cheat way more than broke men wives everywhere because those men think money keeps a woman loyal. It doesn’t. No matter how stupid or naive you think she is.


One day you will realize being a man is not just about have having cash in your pockets. Money and power are two totally different things.

Yeah.

But the broke guy is not safe either, because you won't think twice before you cheat on him with a rich man or even leave him totally for a guy who is rich and also fulfils your personal fantasies. Which as far as I'm concerned is the only type of guy a woman will never cheat on.

So don't make it sound like a man having a lot of money doesn't turn you on because it does as it fulfils one aspect of your fantasies, especially if you don't make your own money.

Money is very important for a man, as well as masculinity. Lack in any one of them and he will suffer.

Maysdevices:
You speak as though a woman is a child,
but even children one day will detest their parents for not giving them their freedom.

She won’t stay naive and broke forever. She is also not naive in the first place, she is pretending to be to stroke your ego because that is what her mother told her men love.

Get married first and see the true colors of women. Let her employed friends fill her head and tell her certain things even call her a broke slave a few times. Finally understand why life will almost never go as you plan.

The naive broke girl will become the experienced rich man’s wife tomorrow. Give them a few years under your strict disciplined lifestyle. Then you will finally understand why pastors children are usually the worst of the bunch.

What's wrong with being treated like a child? Children are the most loved people in the world. Do you know how many men would just want to sleep all day, even if for one day and have someone take care of them?

Women in their quest for riches forget their role as females, which is to be submissive and loyal to her man. I don't blame them.. a hustling spirit requires you do away with such traits. Though, she may end up alone at the top.

Not that it's bad for women to have money. Personally, I want my woman to succeed and be the best version of herself possible. But can she remain loyal and submissive?

Reason why it's important a man finds a young and impressionable woman and rear her, so she will still be loyal to him even when the money comes.

An already self-made woman doesn't need a man. Except for sex and children. They prefer their independence.

ExudeLoveToAll:
The same mistake you tried correcting is same thing you are doing.

Who told you just as you have broke girl with good characters we don't have rich girls with good characters? This is hasty generalization which isn't true.

The content of ones character should be used to access people regardless of whether the person is rich or poor.

Personally taking one option between a poor girl and a rich lady who both exude sane characters will always lead me in choosing the rich lady because if someone still exude sanity when affluent then truly money hasn't played a role in diverting the person's personality but same can't be asserted regarding a poor girl with sane characters.

Well if you had said a girl with wealthy parents, I would've agreed with you. Seems you're forgetting it takes quite a cunning and ruthless person to be rich.

In all my years I've never seen a self made person who was nice or a pushover. It may sound good on paper, but believe me as a man you can't have the good 'ol traditional relationship with a rich lady, especially when she makes more than you.. unless you'll be the submissive one. At best y'all be equals. So it really depends on what you want as a man and what you can take from your woman.

Tboymessiah:
NasoLifeBe!!!

U have the best comment on this topic!

Let me ask? What if she told you she has a boyfriend and you know she really love him!
What Is Ur take on this

'Overtaking is allowed.' But don't forget there are plenty of fish in the river, too. So seek out other partners as well, so you don't end up wasting a lot of time without a plan B just in case.

I mean women do this all the time.. they double date to keep their options open, so why shouldn't you?

thesilentman:
Am married.Not to one of the women i drilled hell out of their pussies-but one homely young woman with a very low body-count[cos she's frigid]-that chose me.secondly,am still in the game,till hundreds of tomorrow.

I doff hat for you sir. I love the life you're living. It's the dream. Save for the marriage part, though. I doubt you'd have much spare time to game with responsibilities piling up.

True. No relationship like the one where the woman has chosen you. Unless you have tasted this, you will never know what a real relationship feels like.

I've witnessed game from many guys I consider gurus. From the ones that use mind games to those that use money or power, and ones that use aggression or dominance. Still, I must admit, I really like the idea of the personality you're describing here.

ItisWell22:
Yes sir.

So, why would you want more women, when they’re only “bags of troubles”? 😢

In spite of all the bad things men say about (and do see in) women everyday, one thing they won't tell you is that deep down in their hearts, they believe without an iota of doubt that there's that one girl who is different and special and they won't stop till they find her.

Pls don't ask me if I believe this, too.

thesilentman:
There are two methods that i know when it comes to approaching women:The one-banker way and the permutation style.Just like in lotto gamble,when you approach one woman at time-the one banker way-the probability that she will 'fall' is very very low.She might certainly put you on a long thing,like telling you she needed to think about it or some other crap.Instead,you leave her and go the permutation way-multiple approach at a time and wait for result.One must play game with you sha!

Eventually it's still a numbers game. Thought you had a foolproof strategy bro.

Permutation method? Now I'm practically begging for deets man..come on! I'm following bros.

thesilentman:
Rest thir 'my girl' habit-nobody owns any woman forever or like a pair of shoes.This is what i told one of my younger sibling monitoring his girl with calls,i told him,"you will lose this girl eventually,immediately you let her know or think you are afraid to lose her."
My girl? I never call any woman my girl again except my wife.Even women themselves believe you have no absolute right over them until you pay their dowry.

Loolz.

You plan on marrying.. so I can ask.. when's the time when you quit the games and become serious with the lady after all the carefree attitude or you continue with it? Because it's one of those girls you dated that you will eventually marry. So if you can take that kind of behavior from her initially, what makes her stop later?

thesilentman:
Who's following?The summary of number 4 is that if you want to catch a monkey,you act like a monkey.The most recent MW I'm currently banging confided in me cos she had always known i aint the judgemental type.You can bleep any woman that confides with you if you so wish!

So going by this your analogy, if your girl is flirting with other guys in your presence and basically being a hoe, you would encourage her and even flirt with other girls too so as not to appear judgmental.

ItisWell22:
Una no dey tire? 😢

Human psychology is a very interesting topic as it relates to our everyday lives.

I wonder why it tires you.

Take this as an opportunity to learn and ask any questions you may have.

thesilentman:
3-VALUE YOUR TIME-
Example if any woman calls you and you say "yes?"If she doesn't have anything meaningful to say,just cut the conversation short with "am busy pls,next time!" and simply walk away without looking back!

I like this and I agree. 90.23% of the time na billing them dey disguise for that phone call.

Alright I get your idea, you're being standoffish to make her feel the urge to chase you. Okay!

Do you approach women? I do that a lot and I just go direct like.."hey, I like you". It works 60 percent of the time.

But you, how do you show interest to a woman you just met with this aloof behavior and still collect her control. Pls I'm being very practical here, if you don't mind.

Adasun:
u have an inquisitive mind



After all albert eisten said...

Lool, well only someone like Einstein who knew quite a lot could afford to say that. We John snows learn everyday

thesilentman:
ok,since you have requested,prepare to hear the greatest secrets of all time-tried and tested.Don't argue with me without putting these things into practice.Are you following?

Yes pls I'm ready.

Runnerzz:
Lol... Firstly if u need anything to learn to be wtv nature has deposited in u then no need bruv just dey wear skirts and make-up 😂

So what simps are displaying who deposited it in them? Same nature, no?

And tell me you don't read books.

thesilentman:
1.Don't displease yourself to please anybody.

Yeah.

We're interested in the process. Give us a typical example of your interaction with a lady where you've put yourself first and that made her want you badly.

thesilentman:
I am overwhelmed by how many women,both single and taken that wants to lock legs with me.I realize that just as almost every man finds a submissive woman sexually attractive,many women also find a highly masculine man sexually attractive.And this sexual attraction is the strongest form of attraction.
Albert Einstein said if you cant put it simply,it means you don't know it enough.

This is the master key to becoming more masculine.This is what i've used to shift dozens of panties aside.It's just one single rule:
PUT YOURSELF FIRST!

For example...?

Damn! What a fat-headed idiot!
It's the brazen cockiness for me.. These guys think they're talking to kindergartens.

Propaganda government.. pure witchhunting

How did you cum while fixing a condom? I don't get.

For me it was like a litmus test for my ex then, I always wanted to confirm if her moans were actually real.

Her dad was calling and she dare not miss it or it would end in trouble for her because he was a very strict disciplinarian, but then she didn't want me to stop either and neither did I, so she made me promise to go slow.

I obliged until I noticed from her free flow of speech on the phone that she had become way too comfortable with my shallow strokes, much to the chagrin of my libidinal ego. So, with my next thrust I aimed for her uterus.. mehn the "yesssiiiiiiiirr" she managed to muster sent chills down my spine.. the cum that followed for me was inevitable and pure bliss. We shared a moment right there.

She quickly ended the call, but the damage had already been done on the other side. Guess she really wanted to let her daddy know she'd come of age now. I felt so evil.

OP now feeling like a crown princess since the coming to power of his druglord.

Needless to say he's very inconsequential both in the secondary and grand scheme of things.

Abeg swerve!

Shouldn't be a surprise. Women envy men, especially for our penis. Renowned psychoanalyst, Freud, called this "penis envy".

Women have housed this envy since realizing during pre-adolescence that the boys they played with naked as little kids had a penis while theirs' was absent or "missing"

Your girl is obviously conscious and open about it, too. Which is a good thing because she will be less likely to act on it (think trans and tomboys).

I see no issue here.

I really don't look like what I've been through.. just a handsome face that doesn't tell half the story.

Hidden beneath the poker face is hurt and disappointments.. others can't see it, or maybe it's that they feel I'm too privileged to complain.

I once told my roomie back then that my skin is too dull and it seems I'm loosing lots of nutrients.. he told me if he could only have this my present skin tone, he would really appreciate it. I was later diagnosed with jaundice.

I told my ex then I was experiencing the worst moments of my existence and needed a break and she said.. but even at what I say is my worse, I'm still better than 60% of the guys out there. I really didn't appreciate the compliment, knowing fully well I was in a state of depression-induced quarter life crisis and didn't even feel better than my neighbour's dog.

When it comes to empathy, my face tells the exact opposite of what's on my mind and a lot of people have been hurt by this perceived nonchalance.

Well, so what can I do? I'm so misunderstood!

You didn't state if she's financially stable..

She should be able to take care of the baby and give it a quality life.

Additionally, regardless of what she says, you should be ready to send monthly allocations for the baby's upkeep and perform your fatherly duties whether from a distance.

That baby must not suffer because of its parents' stvpidity.

I want to believe her cooking is top notch. Otherwise guys are just feasting on her sultry vibes.

I would've supported Kuti if the officer had attacked him first.. but attacking first even as the officer appeared to be remorseful was very wrong.

That officer has no business being in a police uniform.. he's too timid, was on duty without a partner and didn't have his assault rifle on him.

Obi is but a vessel.. so let him keep apologizing to those who need it for their battered egos.

What I like about obidients is they don't take crap nor mediocrity, no matter how highly placed it comes from. And they have an abundance of facts always available to back up any claim.

They're savages.

Cutehector:
If u think post nut clarity is not real,

There was someone in the bible who was lusting after hiis sister so badly, immediately after he took advantage of her virginity, he hated her.

Show me a very beautiful woman, and i will show you a brother who is tired of fvcking her.

Lol, you're already quoting Bible so it's definitely a guilt trip thing. Getting rid of that guilty mentality should be your main focus for now.

Personally? Post nut clarity ke, when max 10 mins later a brother will be talking round 2. Unless say the babe no just follow at all, asin UG.

Justkatty:
Atleast she told him from onset that she came because of the cash, that alone should have made him know whenever the money finishes she won't be interested again.

So me sef blame the Ken.

What sorcery!

Whoever accepts these useless terms and conditions from a girl in the first place deserves to be banned entirely from the dating world.

Heck, I'm actually the type to require her adding mentally, emotionally and otherwise to the relationship.

Verified cheat code 💯

Jealousy plotline works because once a girl has seen that another girl is happy being with you, it has saved her the stress of finding out for herself whether or not you're a good romantic partner, so she'll definitely be much more receptive to you.

Basically, a guy with a babe is a 110% more likely to get another babe than a lonely and single guy.