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Try giving a guy who likes you a gift early in the relationship, even if it's N200 airtime. Just go "Umm, I want to send you airtime."

Don't ask him for anything until after 6 months into the relationship. Let him spend at his own pace, its not your money.

Initiate intimacy at least 50 percent of the time, everyone loves to feel wanted. This should've been number one.

Your tone of voice should always be lower than his and feminine. That includes when you're moaning.

captainking:
This is quite easy.. Harder level is.. Putting your entire palm. On the floor while at it. Knees straight.

Lol, who you wan kill?

haphizz57:
I do exercise every saturday morning. B4 it use to be everyday. Upper satday morning i went to field. Bro fatigue almost kill me. I come be like who send me

Mine was when I tried to play football recently.. after 20 mins of training, I was short of breath. Truly, all work and no play is bad.

haphizz57:
I do all sir. But now adays am chasing money

As you're chasing money bro, try to flex your spine every now and then, especially if you sit for long hours at a stretch. It will help you in old age o.

ChybuzzDD:
Initially, it'll be hard for everyone.

But if one keeps doing it, it'll become easier with time as the hitherto rigid structures(ligaments, fascia, muscles, tendons) stretch and become flexible.

True.

haphizz57:
Am used to doing dis b4

You are either an athlete or you gym/exercise regularly

ChybuzzDD:
I did it quite easily

I always do it every morning before heading out for work, anyway.

You're flexible. Never knew I couldn't do it. Funnily enough, many can't. Old age is smiling at you bro.

I bet many of us here can't touch our toes with our legs straight. Go ahead and try it and let us know if you were able to do it.

I just tried it and the sharp pain I felt in the back of my knee wasn't funny. Lol

If you can play the minimum stake (which is #100 in most naija sites) any time you play, then you'll be fine. You'll be doing it for fun.

But anything other than that, then you're fast-pedalling to your ultimate downfall. Betting no be your mate. There's a reason why many of our youths are still the leaders of "tomorrow" even after many decades.

A recent study revealing the number of gamblers we have in Nigeria is worrying, to say the least.

A simp changed his ways right before my very eyes. It was impressive the level of assertion he attained, became so bossy and borderline disrespectful. He would never go back to his old ways. Just didn't see it happening.

mariahAngel:
You still have a very long way to go, but don't let life thoroughly deal with you before you arrive.

The usual fear mongering. Pfftz, you can spare me the usual, miss. I see you've ran up to take the moral high ground as usual and assumed everyone else is an unbeliever.

I'm only here wondering why you believe life doesn't thoroughly deal with whoever, irrespective of whether you know God or not?

You have a long way to go and not me.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
One sided? Is it not his responsibility to provide? And if he acts like she acted it will mean that he has had a not too good financial experience with her. But the reality still remains. Lots of men have ruined their wives for being generous and open hearted.

Just as it's her job to assist him.. whenever the case may be.

He should trek to work because he doesn't want to ruin his wife's life. Meanwhile, he's still expected to bring home his salary by month end for them to allocate. Okay, nice.

Maybe by "ruin the wife's life," you mean the man made her forfeit one money or the other she's been saving to buy the newest fashion or whatever, funny. Reality, how many men have fallen critically ill, utterly left incapacitated or even lost their lives while trying to be "generous" fathers and husbands? Were they wrong to be kind to their families?

Inasmuch a man knows his woman needs to be taken care of, there is never going to be room for that thing "entitlement".. it must go away and not only that, let her be appreciative, support him and do whatever she knows makes him happy.

Everybody will learn sha.

mariahAngel:
God is what is missing in your life.

How do you know God is missing in his life or is present your own life or anyone else's? Like God's presence is tied to someone's happiness.. be real

Zxcvbnmghtr:
It might be that she is being careful. Alot of men have ruined their wife's monetary base simply because she chose to be open hearted and generous.

Put yourself in the other person's shoe first, what if reverse were to be the case and the wife needed the money? You can see you were one-sided..

ChildOfDoom:
wow. Loaded message. I appreciate

You are right. I have excess energy to burn daily

Not much gaming shops here. It's not an urban area. I will find out

Then when ssce was close, I teach tutorials after office hours to keep me occupied all day till I am exhausted. I then retire to bed

I will also consider reading

I was waiting for you to confirm the emboldened. Bro, just get a babe.. two, three depending on your energy and you would have your mind preoccupied all week.

No carry spend sha.. few thousands here and there for logistics, feeding and airtime will get you loyal babes. Call them often and talk for 20 to 30 mins or even more, just professing your love to them.

Find fulfilment in making someone else happy and you'd see the impact in your life. It would be the end of you chasing quick money with great risks as you would be more responsible with cash.

Stay blessed brother.

ItisWell22:
What’s this? 😩😂😁

Op, the fact you’re aware you’re not doing well, signifies there’s hope.

You can try out the ideas listed by this commenter, in his main post.

And… how about you change your name abeg? 🤔

It is well…

Aje, some people have been chasing the school fees they lost to alabi since 2005 and ended up in trenches. Better to forgive and forget.

ChildOfDoom:
hmm I doubt if one addiction can prevent an old one

When I was addicted to Bet, I tried constant sexchat and masturbation to take my mind off bet, I ended up doing both

Then I tried real sex to end the first two, I ended up doing all three addictions.

I just lack moderation in any thing I do

Your rate of metabolism is really high, hence you have excess energy that need to be channeled out regularly. Reason why you engage in all these acts.

You can't replace a bad habit with another bad one.. makes no sense to me.

Let me tell you something that works.. gaming. Especially football gaming as in PS4. Go to game centers and play till you tire out and go to bed. Or if you have the means, buy it and keep at home and play with your homie. Even Android football games like DLS soccer can be very satisfying. Also, go on YouTube and watch videos on wide range of topics.. can be very time consuming too.

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with keeping women, but avoid prostitutes. Find babes around you and develop meaningful relationships.

Then based on gambling, bro, I can categorically tell you that you have an unforgiving spirit. You must genuinely forgive alabi for every single penny you lost to them from the bottom of your heart if you must move on. Otherwise, you will never break that addiction.

Nothing wrong with being a foodie as long as your weight is in order, but why take more than one soda per day? Don't you drink water? Eat proper and healthy foods till you fill up and you won't need take other junks and Coke or whatever.

Finally, nothing you're going through is new to the human race.. and many people have overcome these and many more, so you won't be the first nor the last. It's just a question of how badly you want it.

Klass99:
But why are you men always looking to someone else (in this case and most cases, a woman) to help you change or fix your lives?

You will have to answer the question of whether she is right for you or not. Do you have a checklist of the things you would appreciate in a partner? How many of those things does she check off on your list?

Klass,

There's something called mimicking.. when two people are in love, over time they begin to mimic each other's behaviors and mannerisms. Therefore, it's impossible for your behaviour to not be modified by your partner over the course of time.. whether for good or bad.

So, a woman who brings positive change to the man is a better choice for him. No two ways about it. And you can't hide it, because if you're good, we'll feel it.



This is BTW, how can a woman in a romantic relationship claim to be celibate? Quite ironic really. Lol.

Best believe you're not sexually attracted to that person, shikena! And that could be because you're easily irritated, very selective, have a high taste and/or a you're a perfectionist.

When you do find that person (it doesn't matter if deep down you believe that person doesn't exist) that will pull down those barriers, you'll be throwing caution out the window with butterflies in your tummy, when you hear his name. Ajeh! Some people are missing sha..

epicpersonas:
Despite the drawback of censorship, the default model still looks good. Upscaling and fixing the eyes would actually make these super cool

Wonderful job bro. Very lovely!

I would love for you to create an album art (cover) for me. What would it cost?

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Klass99:
. Dear Melomaniac Kenedyx, except you are hiring for the role of a voiceover artist, I don't see why I should oblige you.

I'm a private person in real life, you won't even find me on any social media platforms so I hope you understand.

I really thought you were going to surprise me with some vocals I've never heard before.. well maybe I was wrong.

I get what you're saying. I'm a private person, too. Though, I doubt a voice note in my mail would be enough to blow your cover.

Anyway, I'm not hiring at all. I'm into making music, I don't know if you're into that.

[quote author=Klass99 post=126426004][/quote]Klass, do you mind sending me an audio clip with your voice in it?

As a melomaniac, you aroused my curiosity with the way you described your vocals.

You've not found that true love that's strong enough to break your inhibitions.

I assume you're a Muslim. The environment you grew up in has really inhibited you.

It's never too late, though.