mariahAngel:


You still have a very long way to go, but don't let life thoroughly deal with you before you arrive.

The usual fear mongering. Pfftz, you can spare me the usual, miss. I see you've ran up to take the moral high ground as usual and assumed everyone else is an unbeliever.

I'm only here wondering why you believe life doesn't thoroughly deal with whoever, irrespective of whether you know God or not?

You have a long way to go and not me.

Zxcvbnmghtr:


One sided? Is it not his responsibility to provide? And if he acts like she acted it will mean that he has had a not too good financial experience with her. But the reality still remains. Lots of men have ruined their wives for being generous and open hearted.

Just as it's her job to assist him.. whenever the case may be.

He should trek to work because he doesn't want to ruin his wife's life. Meanwhile, he's still expected to bring home his salary by month end for them to allocate. Okay, nice.

Maybe by "ruin the wife's life," you mean the man made her forfeit one money or the other she's been saving to buy the newest fashion or whatever, funny. Reality, how many men have fallen critically ill, utterly left incapacitated or even lost their lives while trying to be "generous" fathers and husbands? Were they wrong to be kind to their families?

Inasmuch a man knows his woman needs to be taken care of, there is never going to be room for that thing "entitlement".. it must go away and not only that, let her be appreciative, support him and do whatever she knows makes him happy.

Everybody will learn sha.

mariahAngel:
God is what is missing in your life.

How do you know God is missing in his life or is present your own life or anyone else's? Like God's presence is tied to someone's happiness.. be real

Zxcvbnmghtr:
It might be that she is being careful. Alot of men have ruined their wife's monetary base simply because she chose to be open hearted and generous.

Put yourself in the other person's shoe first, what if reverse were to be the case and the wife needed the money? You can see you were one-sided..

ChildOfDoom:
wow. Loaded message. I appreciate

You are right. I have excess energy to burn daily

Not much gaming shops here. It's not an urban area. I will find out

Then when ssce was close, I teach tutorials after office hours to keep me occupied all day till I am exhausted. I then retire to bed

I will also consider reading

I was waiting for you to confirm the emboldened. Bro, just get a babe.. two, three depending on your energy and you would have your mind preoccupied all week.

No carry spend sha.. few thousands here and there for logistics, feeding and airtime will get you loyal babes. Call them often and talk for 20 to 30 mins or even more, just professing your love to them.

Find fulfilment in making someone else happy and you'd see the impact in your life. It would be the end of you chasing quick money with great risks as you would be more responsible with cash.

Stay blessed brother.

ItisWell22:


What’s this? 😩😂😁

Op, the fact you’re aware you’re not doing well, signifies there’s hope.

You can try out the ideas listed by this commenter, in his main post.

And… how about you change your name abeg? 🤔

It is well…

Aje, some people have been chasing the school fees they lost to alabi since 2005 and ended up in trenches. Better to forgive and forget.

ChildOfDoom:
hmm I doubt if one addiction can prevent an old one

When I was addicted to Bet, I tried constant sexchat and masturbation to take my mind off bet, I ended up doing both

Then I tried real sex to end the first two, I ended up doing all three addictions.

I just lack moderation in any thing I do

Your rate of metabolism is really high, hence you have excess energy that need to be channeled out regularly. Reason why you engage in all these acts.

You can't replace a bad habit with another bad one.. makes no sense to me.

Let me tell you something that works.. gaming. Especially football gaming as in PS4. Go to game centers and play till you tire out and go to bed. Or if you have the means, buy it and keep at home and play with your homie. Even Android football games like DLS soccer can be very satisfying. Also, go on YouTube and watch videos on wide range of topics.. can be very time consuming too.

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with keeping women, but avoid prostitutes. Find babes around you and develop meaningful relationships.

Then based on gambling, bro, I can categorically tell you that you have an unforgiving spirit. You must genuinely forgive alabi for every single penny you lost to them from the bottom of your heart if you must move on. Otherwise, you will never break that addiction.

Nothing wrong with being a foodie as long as your weight is in order, but why take more than one soda per day? Don't you drink water? Eat proper and healthy foods till you fill up and you won't need take other junks and Coke or whatever.

Finally, nothing you're going through is new to the human race.. and many people have overcome these and many more, so you won't be the first nor the last. It's just a question of how badly you want it.

Klass99:



But why are you men always looking to someone else (in this case and most cases, a woman) to help you change or fix your lives?

You will have to answer the question of whether she is right for you or not. Do you have a checklist of the things you would appreciate in a partner? How many of those things does she check off on your list?

Klass,

There's something called mimicking.. when two people are in love, over time they begin to mimic each other's behaviors and mannerisms. Therefore, it's impossible for your behaviour to not be modified by your partner over the course of time.. whether for good or bad.

So, a woman who brings positive change to the man is a better choice for him. No two ways about it. And you can't hide it, because if you're good, we'll feel it.



This is BTW, how can a woman in a romantic relationship claim to be celibate? Quite ironic really. Lol.

Best believe you're not sexually attracted to that person, shikena! And that could be because you're easily irritated, very selective, have a high taste and/or a you're a perfectionist.

When you do find that person (it doesn't matter if deep down you believe that person doesn't exist) that will pull down those barriers, you'll be throwing caution out the window with butterflies in your tummy, when you hear his name. Ajeh! Some people are missing sha..

epicpersonas:
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Wonderful job bro. Very lovely!

I would love for you to create an album art (cover) for me. What would it cost?

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Klass99:


. Dear Melomaniac Kenedyx, except you are hiring for the role of a voiceover artist, I don't see why I should oblige you.

I'm a private person in real life, you won't even find me on any social media platforms so I hope you understand.

I really thought you were going to surprise me with some vocals I've never heard before.. well maybe I was wrong.

I get what you're saying. I'm a private person, too. Though, I doubt a voice note in my mail would be enough to blow your cover.

Anyway, I'm not hiring at all. I'm into making music, I don't know if you're into that.

Klass99:

Klass, do you mind sending me an audio clip with your voice in it?

As a melomaniac, you aroused my curiosity with the way you described your vocals.

You've not found that true love that's strong enough to break your inhibitions.

I assume you're a Muslim. The environment you grew up in has really inhibited you.

It's never too late, though.

Lol, these are not enough to imply you're loosing your mind.

Though if I were to take a wild guess I'd say it could be PTSD, or depression, or ADHD.. which are all manageable with just little knowledge from reading about them.

Hope you get well soon.

talented321:
And Feel Good is the only good song, plus the party jam Ronaldo. Nothing more..
We all miss mohbad but nigerians are taking it too far..

KPK, Beast & Peace, Weekend, Peace, Komajesun, Ponmo, Backside, etc.

Though there's a lot of mediocre shit he put out, still he's worth the hype.

iLegendd:
You don't need to call him kiddy. A man who got hard, yet didn't succumb has more power than a man who wasn't hard in the first place.

If I tell you not to imagine a dog, immediately, picture of a dog will appear to you.

As long as you're young and energetic human, you can't escape sexual arousal (it's natural and it's healthy). The only power you have is to control it and that's what he did.

There are levels to this shit bro.. there are boys that get an erection just seeing cleavage and big bum and there are men that don't even get aroused by fore play.

He should know his strength and avoid getting into compromising situations in the first place.

ifyboi91:


It shows he is a complete Man. That's man's physiology. It's just like seeing a delicacy you desire so much but choose not to eat. That doesn't obstruct the secretion of saliva from parotid gland. It's a simple physiology just so you know!

I know, it's just funny that even going by your own analogy that a salivating dog would reject food. I wish it weren't that obvious that it's hungry, but hey! It is what it is right?

Reminderz:


I was almost raped by the women I was with when I didn't want to have sex with them... in fact, they did all they could to make me want it, but I didn't fall... was I hørny and extremely hard? fvck yes! they could see it.. but I taught them a valuable lesson and my worth grew more in their eyes... you know the kind of situation when you're looking at a delicious meal right in front of you but can't have a taste of it? exactly!

You didn't fall but you were "extremely" hard.. lol. I can imagine how phoney you looked with a bulge and still forming monk.

Come back and type this epistle when you've learned how to properly control your erection. Kiddy.

Weretuntun:
READ AND COMPREHEND BEFORE COMMENT

If you don't understand my comment, then truly you should remain outside while she dresses.

How's your girlfriend naked while you're fully clothed? I don't get.. aren't you supposed to be naked too or did I miss something?

It's very bad practice for a lady.. in the long run it wrinkles the pussy lips making it look saggy and ugly.

correctguy101:


Hahahaha

Old Baba...

Goan siddon one place.


Funny thing is. As a Lazyman, I'm always broke like you.. So you got yasef a broke brother on a faceless forum..

Blood

Atolu01:




It's his/ its fault. Life doesn't revolve around you and your so called genes. Exactly, he shouldn't bother her with his nonsense.

@embolden. This is so funny.

Actually life does revolve around genes. Imagine dying without an offspring..

That's extinction right there and the chances are very real when one has a fear of approaching his romantic interest.

Unless you have another opinion then I'd like to hear it.

Atolu01:



Move indeed. He should leave her be.

It's not his fault he's attracted to her, it just happened.
But it's definitely his fault if he fails to toast her and propagate his genes and goes into extinction just because he doesn't want to "bother" her.

Atolu01:




Life doesn't revolve around what one person wants. He should leave her be.

Of course. She has to give consent. But that doesn't take away the responsibility from the man to make the first move as women are passive by nature.

Nearly all women would be single if they took this your advice.

Atolu01:





Your assertion is not true. So he should prey on another person? Birds of an abusive feather. You too calm down.

Abuse! Where do you get these grammar from? He's attracted to her and wants a relationship. You need to change your mentality.

Atolu01:
Psychopath. Leave her be. Useless destructive wannabe "predator" abusive gender.

Leave her be as in? If you think you have any other purpose in this life apart from courtship and procreation then you must be sorely mistaken. Every single action you take, man or woman is to ensure those processes are fulfilled before moving on to the great beyond.

So calm down and embrace nature.

Mikel99:

Does this format work most of the time?

It's your best shot. Imagine the kind of pressure you've put her in with such flattery. It will only take the grace of God for her to say no.

Say it exactly like this:
"Hi, what's up, you're the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. You're too fine, I hope you appreciate God (Allah as the case may be) every morning and thank him for making you so beautiful. I would love to see you again, give me your number.."

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