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Ikennaford:
Lols really, bro even if a broke lady is not into you , she won't be submissive, when a lady is into you , no matter how many billions she got, she's loyal to only you, that's why is advice to marry a lady that loves you more... Check Rihanna and ASAP Rocky, Rocky is a broke mo'fffuuuckerrr to where Rihanna is, but the bitch is loyal

Of course, every woman will not love you.

But facts still remain. You're better off finding that one broke girl who loves and respect you and marrying her than wasting your time with a rich girl who will never respect you.

You say Rihanna is loyal? Lol, her nudes are all over the internet bro. She has one of the dirtiest pasts you can think of in terms of relationships.. talk about her and Chris Brown.
Lol, Rihanna is a hoe bro.. same with every other rich bîtch.

ogub:
My one cent, I 'll suggests you buy from your brother just plead with him to give some discount, afterall the money still flows within the family, don't think of just now and forget there's tomorrow.

It's funny that I'm the one to plead with him on this.
So but if I do that and he doesn't accept, will I be right to look elsewhere then?

Divoc19:
Aww, thanks a lot
Such a manly quote
I love men that know their onions
In my next life I truly want to be a man.

Hahaha.. then you should also pray for a good mentor. Because as a man you come with nothing, are required to acquire everything and then destined to leave it all behind for your kids. It's really dicey I tell you.

You're welcome.

Divoc19:
Boys of today will not understand this fact. Some older men still do. Believe me at the bolded, I have seen many men fall for this...it disgust me. May God help me to raise my sons to fulfill the commandment of taking charge not wailing for feminine support

Spot on, and as someone who has tasted both sides.. I don't need to tell you which one I prefer.

It's not easy being a man, but once you get it right, it's the sweetest thing in the world.. and you can only get it right when you accept that there's no other way.

Your sons will turn out fine.. teach them about finances and how the can get their shît together or find them someone who can. They'll be alright.

Wawelexy:
Ok bro, do whatever you think is best for you both... Success in your contract....

Thanks bro.

Wawelexy:
I understand you well, but you need to make some sacrifice at times....

I pray I listen to you bros. Me set no trust myself.. especially as I believe I need this money more than him currently. He's my elder bro and he has a lot of other things going for him.

Divoc19:
Any man waiting in his woman to contribute financially in a relationship is a weak man to me. A woman should contribute financially but that just to get her busy. She shouldn't help her man shoulder bills because he is incapable or too greedy to run his home like a King.

I swear no pride in men again. I know things are hard now, but believe me, there's nothing more masculine and sweeter than taking care of your family and living like a king in your own home as a man.

Where's the joy in a woman taking care of you and your kids while you wash and clean and ask her favours? Because realistically, both of you can't be working. Else the kids will be neglected. There has to be division of labor.

Fine, roles can be reversed under certain circumstances and the woman should be ready.. but not to treat that as the standard.

Men should understand that the person with the least resources in a relationship will always be the submissive one. There's no sugarcoating it, it is what it is. And believe me I've seen the strongest of men (both physically and mentally) submit to their richer wives because of this shît. That's bullshit.. what kind of man prays for something like that?

sisisioge:
Well, you have tried. Just tell him you would have to buy from those other people and would give him some rebate once the project is completed. But do this only if the difference in their prices is really much and would cumulatively exceed the amount you have in mind as a rebate for him. That way, there wont be shocking outcomes. Whatever you do, spell it out openly at the begining.

Actually thanks for this suggestion.

Better to buy it cheaper and share the profits with him. So it will be sort of even.

Great input.

sisisioge:
Show him your other quotes then so he can adjust himself accordingly. Meanwhile, you know his suppliers will naturally have cheaper rates than him cos he buys from them and need to markup to make profit....I hope it all works out well for you guys.

I have shown him quotations.. but he insists he didn't even buy them at that price.
And he's the silent type.. he won't push it but I know he'll be very hurt.

I don't see this ending well either way.

Wawelexy:
If after buying from him you still have something reasonable to hold on to as profits, I would advice you just patronise him, cos he might still be the door to a breakthrough contract, but if you spoil the relationship cos of little money, you might not regret it tho but might be loosing a lot, that company could refer you to others who your brother won't be your supplier by then anymore, except by choice.... So Just see it as you are giving him some money and do the work perfectly...

Hmmm. So you also believe this will affect our relationship? But he's the one who chose not to sell. To me I feel like I'm losing money that I shouldn't..

Autobot05:
Oga I'm not saying a 50/50 role. She must contribute no matter how lil. That's how I grew up. And my parents are still together.

Agreed.

sisisioge:
Is your brother selling materials normally or sourcing for it so he could make some money from the contract as well? Did you guys have a prior agreemen on whether or not he gets a rebate from the contract? People and money sha, better thread softly so you dont become a one time contractor in his company or worse, what your delivery sabotage.

He sells the materials. There was no prior agreement of sorts ..just that naturally it's expected that I buy from him since he sells it.

But the honest truth is that I got a hold of his supplier and even other suppliers too.. the difference is just too much to ignore.

@ bolded
I get that, but should I be cheated by my own bro?

Autobot05:
Agreed .. that's why I cant be with a woman that cant contribute financially to the family .

A woman's ability to provide financially to the family should never be a criteria in choosing her as a wife. That's a man's job. Trust me you don't want a woman competing the breadwinner role with you.. it's like a man competing with a woman in the kitchen over lists and food items.. it's a recipe for a chaotic marriage.

I got a huge contract through my brother's company.

The contract is securely in my possession now and I've been fully paid. Initially, the plan was for my bro to supply me the materials

But the issue now is the quotation he's giving me is way higher than what I'm getting elsewhere.

I've asked him to beat down his price but he's adamant. I plan on sidelining him if he doesn't do the needful.

Guys any thoughts on this?

Rayban25:
@ bolded you've really now validated your high level of ignorance...I suggest you just shut up and get more exposure like everyone here else has said because wtf are you even saying?

You've not really said anything.. what exactly is your argument?

That comment was a response to the OP saying broke girls hoe around more than rich girls based on his campus experience. I told him and I'm now you telling you for free that rich bîtches are not saints just because you don't see them on the streets.
They're doing it on coded levels away from public eyes. Na sex tape dey reveal their oloshoism.

So what again is your point you dimwit?

Fahvvy:
kenedyx...

No offense, but you talk like a child ...

Not only do you need more exposure, you also need to work on your low self-esteem and deal with this silly inferiority complex that is plaguing you ...

With your comments so far on this thread, I already have an idea of the kind of person that you are in real life ...

And honestly, SMH tsk tsk tsk nahhhh ...
Either ways sha...
Your reaction to this will confirm my idea ...

I really don't give a crap about what you think of me. And you're just following the bandwagon.

I've dated every type of girl, especially rich girls, regrettably, because those were wasted years I will never get back.
Now what exactly do you want a rich girl for unless you want to dig gold?

My University sweetheart was (still most likely is) a rich daddy's girl. Let me use her as an example because it was a long term relationship so I understood her psyche perfectly.

She never asked for anything. She spent tirelessly on me. She'd come for weekends and stay extra days at my place or we'd lodge hotels... All expense paid by her and she'll give me cash when leaving. I never asked for any of it, she just did it on her own free will. It was dope and at the time it felt really good.

But the rude awakening came when I was badly cash-strapped. I really needed a bail out and she was the first person that came to my mind. That was when I stopped myself right in my tracks. I suddenly realized I had become dependent on this girl and the relationship. Which should never have been so..

As a man, I should never have encouraged such dynamics. Where a girl would be the one providing for me financially. I could always tell deep down she did not respect me. She loved me, yes! But she didn't respect me as a man.

As a man you have no business whatsoever looking for a rich woman. It reeks of laziness and entitlement, the same ones we accuse the ladies of.

A man must be financially stable and independent, there's no shortcut or playing about it. He must marry an inexperienced woman for the sake of patriarchy and for the umpteenth time, a rich woman is a bag of experiences and not suitable for that role. Are there exceptions? Yes, but they do not make the rule.

StrongAlphMale:
At the bolded, it's obvious you're not a Nigerian. In our universities, streets and areas, a broke girl has become sexual tools for every Guy to use and pass around.

Like I said I agree with that guy, you need exposure! You re suffering from inferiority complex my boy!

If you claim you cannot control a rich girl, then what happen to the likes of dangote sons getting married to rich girls? You're really suffering from inferiority complex. Young Man likes attracts likes.

I have said this over and over again that if you think a broke girl will be submissive to you because of your supposed money and gifts she'll get from you. Then be ready for a rude shock son.

See this deranged goat.

Bîtch! that's in your environment and you noticed quite rightly. Now how many rich girls have you lived with and observed how they run their shitz? So you expect a rich girl to be doin hookup on the streets? You're deluded.

You're a lazy, broke and potential gigolo but I doubt you even have the looks for it. You better go and hustle and make your own money instead lookin for a rich girl. Pvssy ass niggaa.!

Autobot05:
Once you empower a broke girl .. they'll start feeling ontop of the world

Empowering any girl is tantamount to giving away your power and you don't ever want to do that. Whether broke or rich.

Provide for her and your children in a very traditional sense. Be a man. Let her be a woman. Any other thing will end in penury.

StrongAlphMale:
From your comments, it's so obvious you're suffering from inferiority complex!

Dude you seriously need to grow up and expand your sense of reasoning. Rich men marry their fellow rich people. Have you ever seen dangote type getting married to a poor broke girl? Bros real life isn't Nollywood.

At the bolded, this is why I know you are a simp. Bros you don't do things to impress a woman, only SIMP does that!!!! Honestly engaging you is like I'm wasting my time. You really need exposure bro.

If you think a poor broke girl will be submissive to you because of your supposed money and gifts you will shower on her, bro get ready for the rudest shock of your life.

Dear simp

"The Good deed you've done for a girl expires the moment a more richer man shows up in her life.

Do you need explanation to the above? Only an insane man will leave a rich girl to a poor broke girl.

You're beginning to sound stupid.

There's a difference between being impressive and doing things just to impress someone. If you have value you must impress people even without trying to.. its not simping that you pull up in your Bugatti, it's impressive.. but its simping when you hire one to show up to your girl's birthday party in order to impress her. So be guided.

Now a rich girl will not be impressed by your expensive car because she's got an expensive car too.. get it now?

Celebrity marriages are for status. Dangote doesn't need a wife to cook and clean for him when he has a plethora of maids and cooks at home. It will be foolhardy to expect a Buhari's daughter or DJ Cuppy or Linda Ikeji to be a submissive housewife. So you better pick your values properly.. you can't eat your cake and have it to eat.

It will never happen and I don't care what you believe. Your chances of having a happy home conducive enough for your kids to grow and learn important core values are more with a broke and inexperienced girl. You will teach her all she needs to know and lead her as the man of the house. You provide for your family and protect them.

Woman wey don Sabi money finish is a no go area. If you like listen.

StrongAlphMale:
Exposure is important!

Inasmuch as most rich girls attract fvckboys and whatnot. However you need to be corrected from the mindset that rich girls ain't submissive. Further more, a sane man must of course go for a virgin. For virginity is the pride of a woman

At the bolded, is it now a poor broke girl that Worth the stress? Bros ,if you Think a broke girl will be submissive to you because of your supposed money. Then get ready for a rude shock. Broke girls hoe alot more than the rich girs. In fact broke girls are sexual tools for guys. So what are you saying?

Exposure really matters alot

Where have you ever heard that a broke girl hoes more than a rich girl? Does a broke guy womanize more than a rich guy? You still don't get the money factor.

A rich girl has more guys around her per minute than a broker girl. She could fvck her Uber driver, her gateman, her cook, her mechanic etc and that's just in case of an emergency. But a broke girl has somewhat limited options.

You want to know the funniest part? You could confront your broke girl who cheated on you and she will apologize and be remorseful but you see that rich girl? You can't try that. Highest you leave because you try shit and she gets you arrested.

Get this, you can never control a rich person. It's impossible. So what am I doing with such a girl again? When I'm not a gigolo.

StrongAlphMale:
Statement like this is the reason why majority of Nigeria girls are broke poor and lazy while waiting for a man to come bail them out of poverty. If you think you want to marry a poor broke girl because you'll probably think she'll be submissive to you because of your supposed money, then get a ready for a rude shock of your life.

I agree with the guy above, you need exposure to correct your mindset about rich girls not being submissive

Imagine a girl you can't surprise nor impress.. you take her out to a place and she's been there before. You buy her a gift but she already has something similar so she's not all that excited. You tell her an interesting story, but she has an even more interesting one to share. Do you get where I'm going?

You're just a passenger in the relationship... You cannot lead her and she cannot follow you on any basis whatsoever. She's like an alpha widow.. only worse because she has the money to finance any lifestyle. So what's your use to her again? Hence you find many of them single.

I really don't care for that guy's opinion nor yours on this matter. I've said it as it is and if you agree that you won't marry them but only date them, then the joke is on you if you still argue.

StrongAlphMale:
This clearly justifies what jeromestarks have been screaming and preaching here.

Bang all these girls but when it's time to marry, look for a clean neat virgin, probably from a conversative State and marry her.

You must be a real man honourable comrade. I Must commend you for this piece of comment. I hope others will learn from this too ASAP

Thanks bro.

The kind of person I am, the way I date, I always make it clear to the lady that this relationship is for marriage and hence I wouldn't condone bad behavior. Maybe you get where I'm going with this.. I can't date a rich girl because I know I won't marry her.

They're not worth the stress.. as having her own money doesn't benefit me in anyway because I don't need it. On the contrary it only affords her more social contacts including fvckboys and whatnot. I can't deal man!

StrongAlphMale:
Read the thread of comrade good hard Dick and his encounter with Rich girls, and learn wisdom from it.

Forget this misunderstanding that rich girls are not submissive and bla bla bla. Statement like this is the reason why majority of Nigeria girls are broke, lazy and waiting for a rich man to come bail them out of poverty. If a broke girl can set standard while can't a Rich man too?

I might create a thread on my encounters with rich men's daughters. Bros the way rich girls think is by far different from these poor broke ones. Try and date a rich girl u go understand wetin I dey talk. forget all this media propagandas

Thanks but no thanks. I'm not marrying a rich girl. Money has never been my criteria for selecting women (that's women stuff) because I make my own money for myself and my kids.

You think say money na your mate abi? Money changes a man thoroughly, then not to talk of woman. That rich girl will be unhinged and can go anywhere and at anytime. She doesn't need you to the extent that she can take care of herself. I don't care about your one-off experience.. because the exception does not make the rule.

A rich girl with experience can never be submissive.

incandescentena:
This One is not exposed.

Get out of your comfort zone

Oh I'm very much exposed. But I'm not gonna marry an 'exposed' lady.. which is what most rich girls are. They've been everywhere and done everything.

When I decide to marry I might just go to a conservative state and pick an inexperienced virgin.

If you'd said broke girl with bad character, I would've said okay. Trust me you're better off with a broke girl. She will appreciate, respect and look up to you.

But you see a rich girl? She will never be a submissive housewife and if she's pretty on top na hypertension go kill.

JackDaAlienz:
I studied ubunja very well and used his tactics to toast a girl today, posted it on nairaland.
And all the red pill guys are attacking me, calling me idiot.. why??
Because I go toast girl??
So because I'm red pill I should not have anything to do with women abi?
Be like say plenty of una for red pill na gays

If not for ubunja, I for just curse all of una
Nairaland Red pillers na idiots full am

Lol, I tend to take EVERYTHING on this forum with a pinch of salt.

Truth is, redpill is good, in the sense that it brings to bare the manipulations and exploitations emanating from the female camps.

But then, once you've understood and mastered the game, one can really do away with all the vile/bitter mentality and be present with the person in the relationship.

She's brave.
I'm not, I would've gone to the beyond by now with at least one of them. True.

I'm always broke. My account balance has always been N0.0

Gosh I still have like a 100 years#

I don't care that she caused it or not. So what if she mistakenly transferred to a wrong account? Let them recover the damn money and save us the long Epistles

All the reasons you stated above are exactly why I'm rooting for Obi.

Still, beyond that, this will be my first time voting in all my years because for the first time I've seen a candidate I can relate to.
Obi is classy, very neat and very presentable, he's humane - still has all his emotions intact...

Not everytime one gworo-chewing malam or one tyrannical political godfather

kennybabs1980:
Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

Of course he'll make the wrong choice in selecting a wife.. he's not mature.

Help him, but never stretch yourself.. you'll regret it. In particular, help him get his finances together as he's struggling with it and he will appreciate you.
Introduce him to a legit business or line he can make profits from. Then he start paying off his loans in bits or however..I'm sure the lenders will appreciate that.