PunkyVeer:


So at what point do the couple get to know each other? Without the spare-wheels of course. I just find it so weird because the 1st date is very important to determine whether there's compatibility or not. So to be bringing others along

Yeah, maybe they just looking for a free meal

Its not unusual for immature girls doing that on a first date

They see it as free food!

Although this story might just be ........ also!

so simple, since d guy is your boyfriend. Form you are really very excited about a good thing that has happened to you or anyone close to you. In btw showing excitement, draw him closer to hug him and give him a good kiss.
With this your action , his response should be able to show you clearly if he is fine.

ezychris:

Yes i ve @frontpagelawyer. Thanks @justwise
Please your answers have generated a few questions.
1. what are the required documents i should get from my family friend showing that they invited me and are capable of accommodating and feeding me?
2. What documents do I need from my sponsor who is my maternal aunt showing she is related to me?

Getting a visa to visit a family friend as an adult with a small salary ll be a very big mountain to climb I must tell you.

Your social and financial ties to Nigeria is not strong enough. unless u b a high risk taker, I ll suggest you wait till when things gets better.

Caseless:
yeah! While she thought we were listening, we were actually using our minds to do the damage.

You must have used your mind to rape the innocent teacher. chai!

HOAX

PunkyVeer:


Hahaha. Ok. It's 12345678910

Punky dear, can I make use of this number too. I ll also like to have your number

PunkyVeer:


So that means you're not obsessed with work or a user? Btw, they're also known to be great in bed I bet you're whooping & nodding at that one Is that also off centre? *squints*

I think I ll have a very good day today. I am not obsessed with work, but I don't joke with my work either . I am not a user, most people around me says I am very generous (although I have to be convince on a good purpose to part with my money)
About the good in bed. I think I am a regular guy. I sometimes wonders when some guys talks about how much they are able to bang girls for hours none stop. lol. Sex is not about life and death o.... Just do your best in pleasing her and leave the rest.

PunkyVeer:


It means you're a Capricorn. Capricorns love money & love to work. They're workaholics & can be stingy It also means you have a very reserved side to you that makes you come across as cold or unmoved. Capricorns, from personal experience, they like to use people. Like everything they do imo has a gain that benefits them in some way or another. How am I doing so far?

I can't stop laughing about what this says about me.

So much not correct about me. The only point correct to me here is the very reserved part. I wish to be more outgoing and make more friends. but for other points, I am the direct opposite.

PunkyVeer:

Which day?

12th. pls tell me about what this ll mean o

PunkyVeer:

Awww, you sound very cool too. Which month is your birthday?

January

PunkyVeer:


Awwww

Well, September is actually my Nairaland anniversary It's been an interesting year in this place. I joined because I was looking for info on the BBA show & came across a thread discussing the show + the usual bashing, so I joined. I've deleted & came back about 4 times because sometimes I just get tired of it but then I start to miss some of the people I've met here, so I then re-register. Rinse & repeat. I just stay away from threads that make me react negatively these days. It's much better.

Yes o. Most peeps discovers NL through searching for one info or the other. Anyway you have a fan in me!

Wouldn't mind seeing you live one day.

PunkyVeer:


So you've been around? I thought you must be busy out there with life. Good to see you again though I almost don't wanna comment on the comment about following me religiously because now I'm wondering what have he read. Some days are saner than others

Yes , some days are truly saner than others. But overall you have more sane days.
How did you get to know about NL, and what keeps you glue to it.
I read every of your post here.

PunkyVeer:


Ja ne. After all those number of requests, the old guy upstairs deserves to have a seat. I wish I was his secretary, I'd really block people who make unnecessary prayers Anyway, long time no see, where have you been, champ?

I have been fine. And I have been following you religiously on Nairaland!

PunkyVeer:


Gosh, if I was God I'd put some people on block. Do people really have to pray for everything? I just don't get that mindset. Some things don't require prayer but common sense.

In Nigeria we pray for anything and everything. student pray not to be caught while cheating in exams, we pray that there should not b traffic on d road, we pray that electric power should be restored, we pray to be granted visas when we do or do not meet the requirement, fraudsters pray not to be detected, fake pastors pray not to be caught. . . . . . . I can go on and on.
We are so religious!

PunkyVeer:


Hehehe. If I have a kid or my my sister has a kid, at least we HAVE them. Raising them. Unlike your nephews & nieces that are down the drain or flushed down the toilet by your abortion loving sisters. Now THAT'S the difference. I don't give a Bleep about your likes & dislikes. I say what I want when someone throws the 1st punch. So suck it up. A South African girl didn't make this thread & I was respectful until some of you started typing with your butts. Deal

Take it easy o dear! we are suppose to be one. I was hopeful when u said earlier that God willing you do not mind marrying a 9jer guy. But surprised how u allow yourself to be dragged in to e-fights.


Pls ignore trouble makers!

PunkyVeer:


I read here they use alum to tighten their kitten after being bleeped by God knows how many men. It really irritates me when people make ignorant sweeping statements & that seem to be a trend on these streets. It's all good.

Eya, sorry I understand they have really pissed u off today.
Alum story is not true. one or two might have done such o. But its definitely a rare thin. BTW pussy no get metre , u can't no how many dick that have passed through it or number of times.
Stay fine pls.

PunkyVeer:


Then most of you are money grubbing, alum using, smelly vagina & double dating ugly sluts. I also read, asked & checked. Now we're even. Do enjoy the rest of your evening

Its only the money grubbing that can be correct o. Pls what do you mean by alum using

Elegantdiva:
Yea...none of the above...a self-made decent reserve career gf ... not a drunk slut wif no norm nd self value . Why are bin rude? uncalled....

What did your boyfriend confirm. I wish to know.

Elegantdiva:
@ Sunshine....funny enuf i spent my one yr in d west nd my judgment is basically from what i saw. A slim lady in d west is been seen as hungry low life girl.. ..My boyfrnd so much like slim elegant ladyz.. he so much love them slim nd beautifull. Well they all know wat they want




Talking abt SA girls. Yes they av both up and down big ... which has always bin my fear

Its not about being tick or fat. Its about the ass to shoot out and curvy like the pics earlier posted here.

vani86:


I never dated a nigerian girl in my 6 years in Manchester.

The ones i had something with were nigerian girla that grew up in england.

OK. but I am struggling to understand what point exactly you are trying to make on this matter.

PunkyVeer:


I was wondering why I couldn't fit through the door, must be the swollen head caused by this thread Jokes aside, this is nothing because to be honest, most foreign ladies are threatened by South African ladies. I'm talking the ones that live in South Africa, btw. Not only Nigerians but Pakistanis, Indians, Ethiopians etc. Their ladies fear that South African females will take their men & in most cases, unfortunately, they do. Too many broken relationships I've seen & personally I blame the men.

I knew this beautiful Ethiopian lady that came with her husband here about 3 years ago. BEAUTIFUL girl. One day she told me about this affair her husband was refusing to end with this South African he was dating. In my mind I thought she must be breathtaking or something, but I was shocked to see that she was, imo, ugly, it's just that she had an amazing body. The Ethiopian lady has since moved to be with her brother in America. She gave up. I was really sad to hear about their breakup because she was a really nice person.

My point being, this is nothing to get big headed about, especially when it is hurtful to someone else. Only a psycho would find joy in the misery of others.

One of the Nigerian guys I know is crazy about the girl below. Men! Smh

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Yea. apart from the shapes that guys are usually crazy about. SA babes get this advantage over our ladies. Nigeria lady generally sees a man as someone that most be meeting their needs(financial) so much is on a man to b a financial provider, if not u are usually seen as not man enough. They ll likely fall in love with d richest guy available. But SA babes based on my friends in SA, life is simple, you don't necessarily need money to be man enough.

SA babes on this Forum head go dey swell already.
But on a serious note, I have visited and hung out with friends in both SA and UK. If not for papers , Nigerian men ll generally prefer to come back home and pick a wife instead of marrying a British lady. But with SA ladies, you ll realised that love does not cost anything! Nigerian men usually don't even want to date Nigerian babes even residing in SA.

Ubenedictus:
did u make an attemp to research on d topic before accusing people of lying?

My statement was not targeted at Catholic but religion generally. Today Muslim will say they gave birth to a child with Koran in the hand from heaven and died immediately, tomorrow Christian ll say a child was born with Jesus is coming soon writing in his tommy, another an Arabic inscription was seen in by the sea saying Allah is the only way. All these things can't be true the same time.

I find it very difficult to believe that any human body is incorruptible. As someone said earlier NA WASH! Still wondering why people will be lying to preach a religion that is expected to be ''Truth''

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mikolo80:
the same way we said Nigerians will never do suicide bombing
the way we said we will never have gays in Nigeria Abi
your naivete is adorable

Funny u. I don't know of many years to come o. but presently 99% of Nigerian men ll not do 3some that ll involve their wife. They ll only do that with runs girls.

Are u married? Can u do it? do u know anybody that has done it b4?

adorable29:


Na u get sense pass of all the comments have read so far jare!

The young wife may be on his case for a child!

Poster shouldn't try it o, cos if the wife finally gets pregnant, they could plot to have him killed and his chapter closed forever.

Some are saying, bleep her.... Smh. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Make sure their plan doesn't work. The boss ll be dissappointed but deep down will appreciate you for respecting him enough not to bleep his wife despite all the temptations.


So you win both ways!

You dey watch Nollyhood too much. Oga no go use his subordinate for that kind mission. The woman can always find a random guy to do that kind stuff. Oga will not bring his boy at d office to bang his own wife for whatever reason abeg.

PunkyVeer:


Is he hot & smells good? You sound like you mean well but I'm currently in a relationship. If at some point it fails, you'll hear from me. Hihihi.

But let me be honest about one thing that scares me though. It's the thing about blood rituals & something called "iranu", I believe one guy here on Nairaland called it. Stuff like that is scary to hear so even when someone may have good intentions with you, but those things can sort of scare a person because you don't know who's into that stuff & who isn't, yanno. And don't you get scared of guys over there? Like, how do you let go & just trust that a guy is not into the dark stuff? For me that's the only barrier.

Forget what u see on our movies. its a rear thing and not as presented. Just same way in d American film that one guy ll kill many solders with different stuns. even jump from one tall building to another. The purpose is to 'whao' the viewers. Truly rituals exist in Nigeria like most black nations. its just been exaggerated in Nigerian movies.

Happiness87:
this is Nigeria a lot of things are happening, brothers fuk brothers wife's, friends fuk friends wife, guy dates daughter and Mother.

the guy may not be well informed or cannot afford the cost.

there is also a level of stigmatization to impotency, if he uses artificial insemination people will get to know

So a Nigerian boss will now b sending his subordinate to his house in order for him to bang his wife. lie lie. its d same stigmatization that ll not make d husband do d mistake of using his subordinate to bang his wife.

PunkyVeer:


Now that's reality. I always doubt these kind of stories because, where that happen at? I think the people who come up with these kind of tales must have an indecent proposal kind of fantasy, where they're promised heaven & earth just to bang an attractive or powerful woman. Like for real? Are you THAT irresistible? Give me a break!

Pardon us. you can't imagine how much sex runs through an average young man's mind. so couple with joblessness, the fantasies can go beyond control.