₦airaland Forum

baby124:
The guy that did that will never find peace and happiness in his life. That man must have gone through hell to raise that money to build his house. Yet you squander it. You think he will never come back home or what? What story do you even plan to tell him when he asks for his house. When someone trusts you enough with their finances you don’t take advantage. It’s so sick. I don’t know how people rationalize such behavior.

Money is not easy to raise and abroad, no easy way to make money. You work your yansh till it’s bare. Some Nigerians are so wicked even the devil will shiver. If anybody try this with me I will make sure the person dies in jail. Since you didn’t consider family when duping me, I will not look face when jailing you. I must also sell everything he has, even his children to recoup my losses. Nonsense.

Uyi168:
Something similar happend to a distant cousin..
Worse of, she was repatriated..
She came home and met nothing, absolutely nothing..
The depression she slipped into nor be here..

wittyt98:
24 mill for just 1 TV or the TV company?

Davash222:
Sissy men everywhere.

God, abeg, instead of giving us sissy men, we beg you, please create more broilers for us. Make our broliers lay more eggs. You need more chickens than sissy men.

AntiBrutus:
I was a good girl in uni, can't say same now

pocohantas:
Forget about how a woman treats YOU.

As far as I am concerned, Naija men are the easiest to get a ring from;

Quick steps to hook a Naija man.

1. Speak against feminism.
2. Any thread on MIL/DIL wahala, be on FP, curse the DIL. Karma must catch up with her.
3. Be very pro men.
4. Be pro submissive.
5. Don't ever open that your useless mouth to say cooking, washing and all are not your hobbies. You were born with Persil and spatula for a reason.
6. When he asks for your acct number, develop instant ear problem.
7. Anytime he calls, tell him you are cooking so you can have time to go for mid-week service.
8. When he talks, listen, listen attentively.
9. Online, anyone that insults you, reply with "lol"..."okay Sir"...etc.
10. He will approach you or send a PM. Do your best not to change formation.

Now, I am not the only one aware of these quick steps. So, do not focus on how she treats you, she wants something from you, if she is out for you, she will get it. 1yr later, you are here saying she changed. She didn't change, face off.

Focus on how she treats people around her. People who she thinks she owes nothing. Very soon, those people would be your family, friends, gateman, employees, house help...etc.

OkaNaUbe:
For that long Is the OP not providing for them? Read the post again, o Feministicqueen

Skmoda360:
Most Nigerian women are total liability to any man in the world.....Just remember this

properties4sale:
You don't have single sense!!! I just hate this... Tufiakwa..
This is my issue, all this marriage nonsense, so because the mum said something 2 years ago and its over. .. Abeg, make una go sit down.
Your MIL, is the breadwinner, she can stay where she is, and ur husband join u.

Osagyefo98:
Imagine Enugu state government imprisoned such an aged man for 19 years

Why are these people heartless and have no conscience.

Iamgrey5:
5000 naira a month

As a lady, I am more concerned about the investment the guy has made as against what he earns

Anything can happen in this Nigerian society o jare

UyaiIncomparabl:
Like 500K is ideal. Last last 300K. I did not come to this life to suffer.

When is my Ned Nwoko arriving naw?

miketayo:
Weakest set of heavyweight champions

dingbang:
Its not possible for a man to be broke for a whole effing year! If na me sef be the wife, I go pursue am comot from the house. That's laziness

thesicilian:
You didn't even say one month. If you want to know the true nature of our women, make her believe that you are broke.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lol,,any guy can be broke.

It's just a stereotyped thought of some of you ladies which is flawed in every sense.

Well it's one of the setbacks they experience.[/color]

eni4real:
A rich man can

Biglittlelois:
One experience.

MissRaine69:
An atheist makes the best husband.........

stupidity:
So this evening I went to cut hair, outside the salon I saw this curvatious lady. Engaged her in a convo, and at last requested for her contact. She blatantly refused and walked away. Then I carried my shoulder and walked into the salon and requested a hair cut. The salon operator went outside to power his gen. Immediately I sat down to have me prepared for the hair cut, this lady and her friend hurriedly came into the saloon with chargers to charge their iPhone. Immediately I saw she wanted to charge her phone. I stood up and told the salon operator that I’m no longer cutting my hair. He was surprised and didn’t know what to say. Then I went out, he followed me and then put off the gen.

The girls were like, “Stanley you nor cut that bros hair again”

Stanley murmured some words then the girls took their phones and charger and left. As I saw them disappear from sight, I went back inside the salon and told the operator to go put on the gen and cut my hair. He was looking at me like “is this guy normal”.


As I sat down to get me prepared again, the lady and her friend don show with chargers again. Then I stood up and told the operator, these girls can’t charge their phones while I’m cutting my hair, else I’ll go to another place.

Then the operator was forced to ask the girls to leave for him to make his money.

I don’t condone shakararity.

sixhours:
Hi Nairalanders,

I need your mature advice here. I am in a committed relationship with this lady. She works in lagos and I work in Asaba. I was initially in lagos but was transferred to Asaba. I do visit her regularly in lagos and she comes to Asaba too. Recently, an opening came up in Lagos within the company and I applied to be transferred back to fill this position. My application is currently pending approval. My reason for asking for this transfer is because I want to get married to this lady. And it is best we live in the same state after marriage. She can't move to Asaba because that will mean she has to look for another job. Instead, I felt I can work my transfer back to lagos.

Over the long independence holiday, I decided to visit my fiancee in lagos to share my plans with her. When I got to lagos, I noticed she was all moody. I then asked her wassup. She then said she is pregnant. After saying it, she paused and looked at my face. I was excited. I hugged her. Kissed her and brought out a new wristwatch I bought for her (she loves wristwatches). Then, I started explaining how I applied to be transferred back to lagos because I want to start a family with her. While I was talking, she started crying. I then asked to know what the issue was. She then answered that she aborted the pregnancy. I was shocked. She showed me the doctor's report confirming she was 4 weeks pregnant. But, she said she did not want to receive the usual rejection that comes from a guy when she tells the guy she is pregnant. Therefore, she just removed it. She said, she told herself that when she tells me I got her pregnant, and I start to act up, she will just tell me that she has already taken it off.

Since that day, I have not being myself. I do not know if I should continue with her. She has a big problem. She assumes too much. She concludes too much. She always tries to act like she is smarter than everyone in the room. Before you say A, she concludes you will also say B and C. A part of me wants my application for transfer to be denied.

What should I do? Mature advice only.

JayCynic:
Just take a look at the way Nigerian girls are drooling over a basic dance

I honestly hate the way y'all Nigerian girls go gaga about marriage and weddings, But come at her with knowledge and intellectual stuff, they are always not interested. Come on y'all. there's way more to life than Marriage's bullshit, there's way more to a Marriage than a bullshit wedding dance.

IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.

ArmaniUhuru:
What is this one saying?
Why would they used his photo without his approval? Comot sentiment make you REASON WITH ME

NewDelhi:
Just put her in the mood. Sexual stimulation in girls is more of psychology. They are hardly aroused by what they see physically. Even if you naked for their front, e no fit move them. So you just have to put her in the mood. Remember to make her comfortable first tho. Their mind will be at rest when they're comfortable. Close the curtains, play some blues music, close the door and from there you can move on.

LiveByNight:
Alot of you guys don't realize hut this is the deepest post here

Bro I salute your courage to face life .. I went through that when I lost my partner..

Her passing was the saddest day I will never forget
She went in my arms on a very sunny day at harvanna hospital in surulere after a long battle with breast cancer
We fought long and hard hand in hand against that disease but it won in the end .

I died that day with her ...

For years afterwards my thoughts was filled with wondering if the other side isn't more peaceful than life and least I would get to see her again

Somejow I made it through

I still celebrate her birthday every year

Will never marry anyone else and look forward to the day in old age I pass on and I get to see her again

lefulefu:
biko ooo the govt should restrict the sale of sniper