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Femsyn:
To buttress the OP's views...

I read this story and i laughed... i laughed hard because marriage is complex and is often more that what meets the eye.

Do you know the couple's story? They alone, know why they act in the manner they do. Look! how a woman or wife react in marriage is borne more of the input of the husband. What you see is what you get.

Let me ask you a question? Do you think the woman would've reacted the same way, if the man is often of the habit of squandering family cash on irrelevant things, stays away from the house with girlfriends, ignores the wife, does not carry the wife along in major decisions and does not take care of the home?

Young men, don't read hastily. The man the OP depicted up there is a responsible man. Most women align with their husbands easily, when the man is doing the needful.

The man has done enough for the reward you saw for few moments. Men, that reward doesn't come automatically. You work for it!!!

My response is not for the OP, because s/he has done justice with the points given thereafter. My response is for men who might read hastily, and assume the wife's behaviour is follow-come.

That is very correct. The man must have proven over the years that he is the leader and deserves to be followed. He must have earned it.

pocohantas:
There is no correlation with my initial post and the highlighted. If there was, the red pilled alfa males would have picked it up before you. They are better at that. I'll suggest you read it again- with understanding this time. Maybe you might pick the obvious sarcasm

You call it sarcasm, i call it facts.

pocohantas:
Men doesn't end in Romance section, Kense. There are a minute number uninterested in marriage, but the majority of Nigerian men and women are still VERY pro-marriage.

Wedding planning, makeup, cake making and aso ebi business are the new goldmine. That should tell you people are really getting married, extravagantly.

Hahaha, you are contradicting yourself. In your first post, you told us reasons why men are loosing interest in marriage, and i think i agree with most of the thinks you listed

Such a heartless man. He deserves to be killed as well

pocohantas:
Very true,

Men are not interested in marriage,

That is why men spend all day in Romance section complaining of the lack of wife materials.

That is why men create numerous threads on how their gfs broke their hearts.

That is why men insult women who divorce their husbands.

That is why men encourage women to stay put with their cheating abusive husbands.

Finally, that is why men mock unmarried single ladies... One would expect them to encourage this set of women.

Because men are not interested in marriage.

The most senseless contradicting men on this forum must be these red pilling alfa males.

Shoot me when they can come up with a SENSIBLE rebuttal. Toor!

The above listed points could be reason why men are loosing interest in marriage. You might be right

Asiri

sirhamilton:
I am surprised to read the comments this post is getting, there is nothing wrong if a lady tells you she is coming to visit you but fails to show up. This could be because she does not trust you enough to be alone with you or something else came up, but either ways no lady owes you a visit. Girls are being raped everyday just because they decided to "come over" . if you had a sister would you be comfortable if she told you she was going to visit any of the guys who have been lamenting on this thread? If you know your intentions are genuine you won't have to block a girls phone just because she didn't show up... would you block your guys number just because he didn't "come over" ( well, unless you are gay )

nice one

Eroms4life17:
Make sure you save this quote because we will remind you one day. Don't complain when you husband refuse to come home after work

or kicks her silly ass out, for been completely useless to him.

Michhy123:
My waiting time expired last year but uncle is not saying anything positive...only to restrict my access to his Facebook page, I can't see his post, who post / comments on his wall etc.i can't even tag him except message to his inbox... IAM trying hard to be myself

Yahoo Yahoo boyfriend. You better find ur way.

bindukwe:
You are well within your rights to doubt the information presented.

The stats may be exaggerated but probably not far from the real figures.

What makes you think pornhub worth over a billion dollars won't have such algorithm running on their site?
How do you think digital advertising works?
How do you visit Jumia once and they follow you to other sites?
How do you think customers are targeted online with huge success?

Very important points

Honestly i feel religion is possibly our biggest problem in this country. All churches and mosques should be raised to ground and industries built in their place. Then all pastors and imams should go and look for job.

habsydiamond:
Have you ever heard a lion or lioness roar before. That sound alone can send someone to an early grave if care is not taken.

There is nothing as chilling as a tigers roar. Go to YouTube and check It out .

Slayers

Nigerianboi1960:
I'm a Messi fan but you're full of shit. Ronaldo is one of the greatest. Messi is the GOAT though.

Yeah, you have got to respect Ronaldo. He is one of the greatest player of all time. I draw inspiration from him. But there is only one Goat, Lionel Andrea Messi is the name

pocohantas:
No make me put person for trouble . We done address am. They are doing better now.

Am glad. No more unnecessary distraction

lefulefu2:
u talking of those big strong buttocks mixed with hard muscles possessed by body builders like dat of Hollywood actor jean claude van damme .i am talking of those soft round bouncy fluffy buttocks possessed by ladies .can a man possess a round soft bouncy feminine looking buttocks? i was told some men have such type of buttocks

jean claude van damme has flat ass as we can see from this image . Once is big, it must bounce while walking. Some guys are just like that. Weather high or low testosterone level. Another example is assuming that guys with high pitch have low testosterone or weak physically. Well mike tyson and brock lesnar are two good examples. The size of a man's ass and voice pitch has nothing to do with his testosterone level.

pocohantas:
I had to attach random pictures, to put things into perspective.

If you are really serious about this, then don't go direct. If you have HR discuss your office General dress code with them (I mean for ladies and gentlemen). Then you can tell them what don't want to see from gentlemen.

God will never answer most Nigerians prayers. We have no love in us

lefulefu2:
biko dat type of fat no good on a man.it could mean the oestrogen level is too much and greater than the testoterone level in his system.except if the fat is mixed with hard muscle like that of body builders own ..but say the azz just soft and fat like woman own dat is abnormal .such a man need exercise to get his body back in shape.how im go dey carry fat about like woman .

Big ass has no relationship with testosterone level in men. Your ass can get big, if you do squat with heavy weights. Eat right, exercise regularly and don't forget your kegel. Then your testosterone level will go up

tollyboy5:
we need to edit the Quran and Bible to accept common sense moral value. these two books has contributed more harm to common sense!

Honestly, i wish they never existed

NuraSambo:
When it comes to domestic violence, women are the major culprit but they always want us to believe that they are the victims.It is not true. Unfortunately our society have limited the narrative of domestic violence to mean wife battery alone. When we consider the cases of domestic violence, we'll find out that it is mostly about a woman maltreating her step child or house maid

Very accurate observation. Then the useless husbands will pretend they don't know what is going on.

Livecamp09:
Why can't a woman be taking care of her man?..
U only become his responsibility when u guys are legally married, if not, you are your parents responsibility... Moreover, ladies have their hands to work and shouldn't see a relationship as a salary paying job..

Thanks

We are the ones encouraging all these rubbish. You should never take care of someone that is not incapacitated. Your wife is your life partner. You can compliment each other based on your strength and weakness. You can buy her gifts, but please dont give her the impression you will take care of her, unless she is disabled

Lamanii22:
All I have to say is that.. A man should be able to take care of his woman... But some people with funny usernames.. Which one is "ewureofAfrica" Like goat of Africa... So funny...

Only an under age or a pet deserves to be taken care of

Winner takes all

pocohantas:
Lol, I never had those high expectations. I was just okay with love. I always loved them sensible, I have a very soft spot for engineers and a softer one for people in IT, good-looking, respectful...etc, nothing extraordinary.

I wasn't into romantic books, neither did I watch such movies or even listen to love songs. Found them predictable.

Now that I am older, my physical and character expectations in a man is very much the same- but the financial part is a whole lot strategic. Don't tell me you love me or have potentials, Jesus loves me too. So, I need to see how he is going to compliment me. I also need him to have some money. We would meet halfway.

Every man requires a level of submission/respect from his wife. If I am going to be doing that, it has to be worth it.

The days of "what are you wearing?" and "shey you will not come and know my place" is long gone.

Lol, before nko. U suppose know him place na. Who needs audio romance these days

Congrats Mr Ronaldo

aro1:
how you know go appreciate beauty and excellence in others when you get steady #30,000,000 wey dey gym in your bank account,a brand new SUV and other freebies..
Infact,if na me.. I go even appreciate beauty and excellence in all animals..

Even in buhari

Jestin:
Kanu was one of the best in Arsenal but was not highly appreciated maybe because of his skin color.

FTC

What skin color does Thierry Henry have ?

Martinez39:
The fact that people have a way of running their emotions is not a licence to be a fool.

Well said. More power to you

pansophist:
If every guy becomes redpilled like guys on the thread, women go hear am , but until then, let's the redpill apostles keep dozing them until it takes maximum effect.

if only 50% of men can do this for just a week, they will turn the table

Davido wants another 30 billion for akant

Fake pastor