₦airaland Forum

IamD18:
The best way to handle heartbreak is to avoid heartbreak, and the best way to avoid heartbreak is by not letting anyone be in charge of your heart.

What do I mean? Have it in mind that LOVE does not exist in relationships of this generation, it's all about self and personal interest of both partners. Nothing more.

Be wise! You can't love and be wise at the same time, so choose wisdom over love.

Too much sense

ArmaniUhuru:
What is this one saying?
Why would they used his photo without his approval? Comot sentiment make you REASON WITH ME

We have a lot terrible humans here.

NewDelhi:
Just put her in the mood. Sexual stimulation in girls is more of psychology. They are hardly aroused by what they see physically. Even if you naked for their front, e no fit move them. So you just have to put her in the mood. Remember to make her comfortable first tho. Their mind will be at rest when they're comfortable. Close the curtains, play some blues music, close the door and from there you can move on.

Big Big lie

LiveByNight:
Alot of you guys don't realize hut this is the deepest post here

Bro I salute your courage to face life .. I went through that when I lost my partner..

Her passing was the saddest day I will never forget
She went in my arms on a very sunny day at harvanna hospital in surulere after a long battle with breast cancer
We fought long and hard hand in hand against that disease but it won in the end .

I died that day with her ...

For years afterwards my thoughts was filled with wondering if the other side isn't more peaceful than life and least I would get to see her again

Somejow I made it through

I still celebrate her birthday every year

Will never marry anyone else and look forward to the day in old age I pass on and I get to see her again

They will never understand. Is not all about sex and picking another girl to continue were you guys left off. When you loose someone you have developed a strong bond with, be it father, mother, girl friend or a close male friend. You will definitely feel depressed. Though is not a justification to take your life.

lefulefu:
biko ooo the govt should restrict the sale of sniper

They may resort to otapiapia. Banning sniper wouldn't solve the problem

bettyLad:
stupid boy, you people will be forming love ,immediately ladies get married to you ,you guys ll start cheating ,, see the way you throw your family' into mourning over a girl you will still cheat on .. a lady you ain't even married to yet . nonsense

hi dear, is that ur pics on ur profile ? Are u married ?

shadelek:
[b]To be candid, I don't know the importance of this TV program called bbnai[/b]ja. How has this program contribute to the development of the nation or what are the positive influence of the program on Nigerian youth?

Can you tell me the importance of the champions league final between Tottenham and Liverpool or the importance heavy weight boxing match between Anthony Joshua and deontay wilder. You might not like bbnaija just like me, but others actually do. Learn to respect that.

Lefulefu

JasonScoolari:
His Excellency, Lionel Messi always make the round leather game a joy to watch, a quick look at the second goal and you will see why I refer to him as the KING...

If not for this man called Messi, so many of us would have left the beautiful game and turn our attention to badminton... unlike one he-GOAT waiting for Tap-ins from Bernadaschi and Douglas Costa.


All hail King Messi.

Lol

lilwetdick:
The high rate of sex obsession among Nigerian young men is alarming, night and day, all you will hear these men talking about sex, how they knack one girl and the other like it an achievement, everything you hear about them talk about is sex, sex, nkechi, sex, Bleep, em sweet, her pussy tight, her pussy no tight, i suck breast and all sort of nonsense talk that adds no value to human civilization, the energy they invest in talking about sex makes it seems like sex is the solution to poverty alleviation or a means to prosperity and a strategy for survival in this country.

The reality is this, a sex-obsessed man can never make anything good out of life. men build society not get obsessed about sex, sex is good but shouldn't be your main focus of existence, why waste your time and energy when you can build and have a good life with the youthful energy you are using to Bleep all the girls in the town, why dont you use it to lay a foundation for your future success so that when you are in your mid 30s-40s you wont be part of the losers shouting how Nigeria is the worst place to live.

Truth be told, most poor men of the future from this genertion will be men who used all their energy, time and thought to get sex rather than to build up their lives.

Is really becoming very annoying. All they know is sex

coolfredo:
No wonder if it was lagos to abuja or lagos to akwa ibom u would have said u dont do long distance relationship because it oyibo land now u no mind. Aunty continue n wait

lol, Bad nigga. She wants obodo oyibo husband

Yeah, death penalty for rapist and the same penalty for those that accuse wrongly

ChiefSweetus:
“Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. It is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self. Therefore, trust the physician and drink his remedy in silence and tranquility.”

- Khalil Gibran

Words of wisdom

Altern8:
If I had never interacted with girls from other countries I would have thought all babes were boring.

But true true Naija babes get A1 for boring/dead conversations.

Excellent conversation killers.

You know why guys end up “interrogating” your áss? Cos you ladies don’t know a conversation is a two-way street. Do your part. Engage a man properly and enjoy his company. He is not a circus animal to perform for and amuse you.

If you want humour, go to AY Live. Don’t waste the time of young men.

No offence to intelligent ladies who make it worth your while when you chat with them. You are gems.

Chukwu gozie gi.

pocohantas:
Since you already know[b] Naija girls have limited knowledge[/b], just sit and stare at each other.

I no get strength for back and forth, maybe someone else with plenty knowledge be nice enough to educate you. This is me being a typical Nigerian lady...

We are trying to solve a problem, but you want to turn it to gender war. Trust me, i have seen how woefully ladies have failed in an attempt to initiate a discussion with a guy they like. I had a personal experience last friday.
Poco be honest, you know is not easy been a guy in this country. You can talk Nigeria politics, international politics, football/sports, celebrity gossip with a random guy you meet, but you have to choose carefully, if it's a lady. You dare not bring up any topic relating to politics (for most ladies), which might actually be your preffered topic. Think about it.

anthonyuncle:
it depends on ur level of chatting

99% of discussions starts with a question. Wonder why they are not initiating most conversations , if guys are so bad at it.

MariaLavina:
Thank you for this.

I've been bothering my head about how to explain to Kense88 without having to type much

What about you initiating the discussion or better still try and bend his straight questions.

babyfaceafrica:
sir,don't stress yourself for any Lady.. if u cant connect move on,

yeah, if she seems to be dump,then i have to move on.

kinzation:
lol
he's a Mr.Nice guy

Mr asslicker. Anybody that mingles with ladies, knows for sure that generally most of our ladies are usually reserved at first meeting. Most interesting discussion/conversation usually starts with a question. You can ask for her opinion about Regina Daniels/Ned nwoko marriage, since that is usually the type of topic most them like. Even discussions in television studios usually starts with a question.

GalaxyTrends:
I pray I don’t take my own life before morning.
I caught my husband sleeping with our neighbors daughter in his car this night, I am 5 months pregnant. It was the most disgusting sight ever in my life .

I noticed he was not in the room and his phone was charging , so I called him but no answer, I don’t know what took my outside to his car then I decided to pick up my favorite cd I was playing in his car, but first I went for the car keys and did not see it so I rushed out to the car to be sure I did not leave it open and I saw the car shaking , I was scared at first be I felt someone was about to steal and move the car so I rushed and grabbed the car door handle , they were foolish enough not to lock so I saw them .

All I did was pick few clothes and left to my friends house as my husband chased my naked . I feel like dying because I can’t endure this pain , I can’t sleep I had to block him so he won’t kill my battery.
How do I cope with this now, is it too late to abort this child and pick up my life ? This girl he was sleeping with is just 15 or 16 years old . Will I survive this night.

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A disgrace to men folk

pocohantas:
Lol. The worst part is, they forget these things in record time...

It is akin to cramming for exams. You write the exams and bounce, no single memory of what you read.

One month later, they ask you questions like-
What did you say is that your favorite colour again? Red ba?

My dear we are all humans and we guys are no supernatural beigns. I actually think you guys are putting a lot of pressure on guys. It's not like a typical Nigerian lady really knows much about what is happening in the country or outside nigeria. I don't mean to insult ladies, but most of them have very limited knwoledge about what is happening around them and been a stranger, there is no way i could figure out what she likes or wants to talk about. If i were a lady and i don't like his questions or whatever topic he wants to discuss with me, I will politely tell him or try and change the topic.But please can you educate us on how a conversation between a guy and a lady should flow. The do's and the don't's, and why you think they are wrong.

anthonyuncle:
da problem might be coming from u.

before u start asking questions beyond da norm,
try to know if da lady is a chatting type and if she's interested in u.

How else would you know, if not by chatting with her

MariaLavina:
Lemme guess, you ask these 'conversational questions' this way .

What are your hobbies?

What do you like about culture?

Hey Dupe! what qualities do you like or dislike in a man?

What would you like to change about yourself?
even these questions dey somehow.


The problem is you guys are always in a rush , like you want to know everything about a person in a day. You don't ask some questions directly, you pass some as a statement and wait for affirmation or denial, some questions are chipped into conversations not at the beginning. If you know your way around women, you will have them spilling things to you even without them knowing it.


Stop dishing out questionnaires in the name of having a conversation.

Please can you put those annoying questions in a better and more acceptable form ? We want to learn

Ovasize:
You may never know how difficult it is to forgive until you have to forgive someone who doesn't deserve it.

I try to forgive my friend for what he did to me but each time I remember what he did to me I feel so terrible.

Please, can you share with us, we might learn from it

Tallesty1:
OK....


You can achieve what you want in few easy steps.



1. Make your money. Lots of it


2. Build your own house.


3. Get your own car.


4. Ask for a man's hand in marriage.


5. Collect list and do the traditional marriage and wedding.




He will never complain of doing all the chores

Well said. How many of them still cook for there husband

lilwetdick:
are all women who have slept with bad guys with kids?

so who is a leftover woman....do you think it is all bad guys that can bang a woman well..no, [b]some of them are 2 minutes [/b]men...while some good guys are master fuckers.

many of the women you have dated have been dicked down by men before you met them...

Most of them are actually poor. You can't smoke, drink heavily, eat unhealthy food and still perform wonders with your dick

DEXTROVERT:
Bro
Don't
Be
Deceived
Exams
Are
Not
True
Test
Of
Knowledge

Even
Those
Ones
That
Passed
With
First Class
Are
Leaning
Tailor
Barbing
Or
Trading

Sleep
Well
Bill gates
Was
A
Drop out
Try
AND
Be
One too

God bless you. Am paying the price for denying myself sleep during my school and nysc days. Insomnia is very dangerous. Most drugs for treating insomnia are very addictive

paul100:
Please,i need advice.Since i enter 100 level,i cannot read like i use to read in secondary sch.Anytime,i come back from lectures in the evening after my classes throughout the day,i sleep too much even after setting alarm to wake me,i still sleep till the next morning,and the morning is always covered with classes so i can't read in the morning and my exam are very close.please help me,no insult please

Try and make the most of your day time. Try and read when your back from lectures. Do not do anything once is past 11pm . You might develop insomnia if you tty to deny your body night sleep. Insomnia is worse than failing exam.