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luminouz:
Funmisticqueen

Are you serious ? wowo girl feeling fly

And who is that fat ugly lady in a black skirt ?

Ray97:
lol. I experienced somtin similar.. I concluded not fal in love or even get married until i have money after my first failed relationship she had money and stuff but we couldnt blend had to break up after finaly after breaking and making up several times. I thought ive moved on and focusd on my goals to make bills, then a lady friend of mine (sec skul crush) appeard 4rm no wer. I didnt take her serious at first. Then she started confessing love to me writing love poems 4 me and so but i still didnt budge.. One day i gave in, taught ive met "the one" because unlike my first girlfriend she listened and picked interest in my future hussling plans.

one day she just said look lets just be friends.. She kept telling me that she loves me with all her heart and at the same time asking us to be just friends.. I actually saw it coming. She might have done the calculations in her head. If she waits or gives me hope that she'l stick around, she might be experiencing menopause then. lol.

she friendzoned me in such a way that she might come back to me if things go gold for me and at the same time go out to look 4 big fishes. In that we it'll be win win 4 her..

some experience makes us wiser.

From my experience, most of our ladies are very selfish. Most of the ones that hang around, have not gotten a better offer. Ones a better offer shows up, then she zooms. But there are still very few exceptions

DSHADOWWALKER:
Mad people everywhere!Many reasons why nigeria is where it is today,not because of the leaders but because of the fools like this man.If you se a naked lady,why cant you look away??Bastard.
So if u see my food on the table,you are free to eat it without my permission cause i refused to cover my food abi??I am starting to believe the most sane people in this country are the ones roaming the streets

The man is foolish

The man is talking trash.

mrphysics:
Well written.

Every action has a corresponding responsibility and a risk attached to it. Humans are a product of pleasure. 5-10 minutes pleasure and the rest of our lives becomes a burden and challenge to our parents.

As a man, I take up the responsibility of my action and ladies should also have such understanding. When shit happens, it isn't time to do the blame game, neither is it time for logical thinking that should have been done before caressing started from kisses to Mouth Gig to moaning.

Your last recommendation is only practicable online or in words/theory. Only on a rare case do we find such happening and happens to ladies who never went to school.

Every child deserves a parent, to be cared for and love. A child shouldn't suffer because someone is trying to get justice.

Both parties take up responsibility for there actions, not just the man. It's all hands on the desk

chiommy123:
don't worry until you push then you'll understand

Don't mind that heartless fellow. She can even settle down with a dog, so long as the owner is rich.
And what if the man is a victim of misfortune ? Can't you leave your life without a man providing for you ?
My advice to ladies is to mingle with responsible men but always ensure you can handle whatever that comes out of engaging in premarital sex

ednut1:
Lola is at keast 6 years older then peter abi na paul and they are happy .This is how people lose out on partners based on stupid sterotypes. He is a muslim i can marry him. Remi Tinubu and ogun state gov wive wey marry muslim is ur life or parents life better than them. Oh she is from east bt am Yoruba i cant marry. Pple from same village no dey divorce ni I pray pple go get sense in 2019

Intelligent somebody. I pray God bless me with a wife as beautiful as lola

They look like zombies we have here

IHate9jerianss:
Nigerian men both old and young don't ever want to get this.How can you turn yourself into a father Christmas for someone then get upset when that person constantly uses you as a father Christmas[b]?The man-woman relationship dynamics in ngr is a ridiculous situation created by the men[/b]

Your so correct. The foolish men keep wasting there money, but will turn around and blame the ladies. Be bold enough to say no. She is not your responsibility

swiz123:
I was passing by a street which boasted of irritating brothels like week Sunday. Some dirty prostitutes rather accosted me with their stale "I go do you well".

I quietly told them that I wasn't interested but one of them had the nerve to squeeze my little nipples. I was so mad that I wanted beat her to oblivion.

But, what if I had done what I wanted to do, who would take sides with me? Heck!, they could even beat me up or even worse, hand me over to the police.

Men are seriously at disadvantage in this country.

I agree with you, but the guy was wrong for doing that. If it actually happened

It's genetics and life style (eating habit and lack of exercise).

LordKO:
Difference vs Better. The difference between Nigerian women and White women is simply color - neither is superior nor inferior to the other. Meanwhile, goodness is an individual thing, therefore, a Black or White woman who's good, is good. And one who's bad, is bad. So, White women aren't better than Nigerian women.

Any Nigerian man who told you that White women are automatically better than Nigerian women is either joking, myopic or hasn't crossed the shores of Nigeria.

lies, environment plays a key factor in shaping character.

ImaIma1:
That could be true. The very same way white men are smarter, more creative, innovative and mentally stimulated than Nigerian men. I guess it is the environment.

But we usually outperform them, when we go to there country

Possessedchild:
Like how ladies create some assumptive remarks about my lifestyle.

Some men even assume I am homosexual because I like to look sexy.

I detest assumptions please.

Back to the topic. I used to have some ingrained prejudice against women, because from roaming throughout the earth, going back and forth on it, I have not seen any lady who has something to bring to the table than breast and ass. They strongly believe it is a treasure the creator has endowed them with, to weather the financial storms of life. Use what you have to get what you want.

But recently I met a covenant university babe who is a Summer Analyst at Goldmansach, London. Mehn, my raised shoulders came down. Since I met her, she never look at my sexy body, my big preek(which I sent to her out of desperation ) and my sweet mouth. All she cared for was her career. Then I changed my stance and believed there are superior female animals.

Sure there are, but is really painful those wonderful ones are so hard to find.

Saffi:
You have given him sex from the first month of knowing you. Given him all the styles and never denied him sex, what’s there to look for in marriage? I think what toks was trying to say is stop giving wifely duties to boyfriends. It doesn’t make sense. You have to be strategic when it comes to getting married, I’m so sorry. In this generation of lazy laid back men who do not want commitment, if you’re not strategic you’ll have egg splattered all over your face.

Now if after a year, both of you are of a certain age let’s say mid to late 20s, and he’s not made any suggestions about marriage, made efforts about taking you the isle, what is he doing? If you’ve shown you’re worthy, and he claims he loves you why is he not taking that extra step? They’re some exceptional cases, but for the most part of a man sees a future with you, he’s not going to waste time and allow the years to go by without putting a ring on it. Even if it’s just a small registry thing until he can afford a proper traditional wedding, then so be it. Men like to trap good things. He’s thinking about children and your fertile years, he’s thinking about other men who could possibly take his place, he’s thinking about the pressure you may receive from family. All I’m saying is that women should be smart and read in between the lines. Listen to their actions and not words.

First of all, if you keep denying ur man sex, just make sure ur not caught giving it to another guy. If your caught, he will definitely dump your ass, after he must have wasted ur time.

Secondly, he might be wondering, if you would have been with him, if he was still trying to find his feet in life. If you would have asked him to marry you, if he is still struggling a bit. Then now that he has made it, he wants to have a bit of fun before settling down, and your bugging him with marriage, probably because time is no longer on your side. Everything mustn't go the way you want it. You probably enjoyed your teen and early twenty years with lots of admiration from men and you also rejected some men that sought for your hand in marriage. Please, leave him alone. He will propose when he is ready and feels the need to do so.

dingbang:
Naah it doesn't change the fact that the other nigga already chopped her nunu or maybe, gotten her pregnant.

every thing is not about sex

Iamtosignno:
I don't know what wrong with you op
Am in similar situation but have cut off with her without her knowing even my current gf am thinking of cutting off with her sef because something is baffling me about her
I can't be sacrifice my happiness for you in pain
A girl once told me she will truly love her husband but can never love him than herself
I first thought which kind human being she is later I understand her
When you respect and value yourself people will do the same to you
I wonder how much the girl have drain from you wake up Cut Off Her Live Your Life

Most relationship in nigeria, hugely favours the ladies. I was at one fast food yesterday. I saw one hungry looking guy and a lady. The lady was devouring a plate of rice sauce and chicken with a bottle of smirnoff ice and my guy was just managing a bottle of fayrouz.

Jayslicky:
You have good intentions, the girl doesn't love you maybe it's just an attraction, she has refused to leave her boyfriend even if he doesn't care much about her. I advice you still remain friends with the girl but not someone you'll get married to in the future.

She doesn't even meet up with the requirements to be considered a friend. Just cut her off completely

hisexcellency34:
I have spoken to some public commentators and majority of them agreed that there is nothing wrong in Prof Yemi Osinbajo representing President Buhari at election debates because they are two in one. It is a joint ticket. If the President is down, the Vice president takes over and they both share the same goals, beliefs and aspirations about the government.

If Atiku likes, he can ask Peter Obi to Represent him too

If osinbajo must represent buhari in the up coming debate, then he has to replace him as Apc flag bearer. Say no to mediocrity

So You will embarrass bubu. He is not coming

EmekaBlue:
Psquare brand is really over...No coming back except they sing collabo together

see wetin woman with breast,shitbox and smelly toto cause sha

How are you so sure of this

MissRaine69:
And since you know Jack about me
Know this I am way past that stage
I have a career a very good job and I pay for my own shyte. He is on a level.
So no dramas there but you still assume all the women here are hungry, far from it there are women who carry their own weight maybe you have never met any? I cannot fix that unfortunately.

But you sounded very entitled. Well, that's how we identify those aliens i was talking about. Happy to know you have a job, but you still haven't answered my questions

pocohantas:
And I am sure your mum is among the fee that helps out, well done.

She was much more than that. Not because she is my mother

I might not be his greatest fan, but he is great achiever

pocohantas:
Continue deceiving yourselves.

While you continue telling yourself lies. Sure, few women help out, but majority will never ever spend, unless there husband has nothing left.

MissRaine69:
The sacrifice of being suppotive even when he had no money for a packet of noodles. The sacrifice that despite not having an money or assets his dream was worth supporting. The sacrifice of not giving up on him. The aliens you date want you to sponsor their lifestyle with no sacrifice.

You ladies are so funny. In what way are you supporting the young man, if i may ask ? By hanging around him and waiting for a richer guy to show up, so you can dump the poor guy. How has the idea of you not giving up on him, assisted in achieving his goal ? Please, why can't you emulate successful women like Lynda ikeji and stop living your life supporting men? You are not different from those aliens i was talking about.

Bobby4090:
Its not a tragedy. She planned it all to deceive the public. She disparately wanted a baby and he was available to give her one. it was a well rehearsed scheme. Marriage was out of the question from day one.

I agree with your school of thought. What matters is her happiness. Nobody cares what the Twitter lady has to say

If him come carry dread join, na oyo be ur name

Handsome must have a new meaning

pocohantas:
For the husband to be supporting with sucj seriousness, I think it is very obvious that her business not just divides the bill, buy carries a large percentage of the bill.

Enough of this divide bill, lots of women support their homes these days.

Abeg leave that thing. Large percentage my ass. Ordinarily, an average Nigerian wife will never spend her money, until the husband has used up all he has or the situation is very very urgent. Is that how you show love to a man you claim to love ? How many women take there husband out, even if is once in a while ? Honestly, most of our ladies are very selfish.

MissRaine69:
How about looking at it this way? The guy is just showing his appreciation to someone who sacrificed a lot to get him where he is now. I admit “big gestures” are a quint Nigerian trait but not everyone plasters it on social media . That said a guy will have his own reasons. I believe it’s directed to the many people who probably told the girl to leave his “broke arse” and move on!
For there would have been many!!

Hmmm. Have i been dating aliens ? what kind of sacrifices biko ?