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maasoap:
Hmmmm! It is serious but society just wouldn't agree that it goes both ways

It happens oooh. I can still vividly remember. There is an incredible level of gender bianess against men in this country and is very unacceptable. What if i come out in a live tv, and demand that all my children will undergo a DNA test to proof they are my children, am sure all the guys in this forum, will be calling for my head. But ladies can say whatever rubbish they can imagine and get away with. I even know a recent case that happened to my maternal cousine. He was molested by his much older paternal cousine, who was living them, still heaven did not fall. Unless that man has a proven case of such behaviour, then the woman deserves to be kicked out of his life

If i were the husband, She is not coming back to my house

YouareaBITCH:
She's being a protective mother, that's all.


Alot of girls abused by their dads, their mothers didn't see it coming.. They all trusted their men too.

Prevention they say is better than cure.



I know of a lady, that has told her little daughter to keep her distance from her uncle's room
Is not like she doesn't trust her brother,she's just acting according to recent happenings

But in all, it shouldn't be the kind of thing to be made public.

pls shut it. But she can bath there son ? Mind you, most grown up guys were molested when they were younger, by much older ladies, inform aunts, cousin's and house help. I am also a victim.

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
what did she benefitted? anything she took was on a temporal usage, she will need more of that moro, that's how your girls end up staying single or end up with bad marriage. In essence its only hungry ladies and poverty wired ladies like you who thinks few thousands are worth your self worth and Personality. In the end she lost someone who cared about her, I lost someone who doesn't care about me so who is loosing

Classy

funmisticqueen:
please i bev you toshow me examples in nature. Yes i agree you should work hard to provide for YOURSELF . it is not robbery, it is a man proving that he can protect and provide for a family. THE SAD THING IS THAT THESE MEN WHO ARE NOT WORTHY WILL NOW START COMING HERE TO CRY.

Why do you think these men want to deposit and go. because they are playing bet9ja with your womb to see which one will score. Every male orgasm can produce children while it is not the same for females. And if they score and cant do the followup responsibility, they then leave the child for you to raise cos they know u will pick up his slack. just look at livingdead and childofdoom as prime examples.

I will create a thread on this later.

Always know that the kind of man you desire, comes at a price. You will have to be very submissive to keep him. I don't see those qualities in you.

funmisticqueen:
yes i agree, it is also good that men should provide for their families which includes eomen and children

ladies in this context, is not your wife. Probably a woman you are trying woo. You and money eeh. Mind you, if i must provide 100% of our financial need, then she must cook all my meal, clean the house all alone and look after the kids as African traditions demands. Do you agree ?

Buffalo2:
Spoilt brat. I ll still blame the mum for not curbing the silly act in the daughter since she was younger. I am dead sure the attitude was not developed overnight, she should have been exhibiting such from her tender age.

You are absolutely correct. Most parents ignore these attitudes only to complain later

awa:
Better for them because the video I saw of the Priest was nothing to write home about. I will still respect Father Mbaka despite showing his human side.
My love and respect for Peter Obi grew 100 times after watching how he handled the Mbaka humiliation with smile and respect for God.

I am now Obikulated......Obi showed leadership and humility.

He has always been a crock.

Ifesinachi22:
Fr. Mbaka is a double edged sword. He loves money & can sell his fellow catholic priest for money.
All his prophecies have centered on money & he channels them to where he can make money. He has forgotten everything about salvation. His embarrassment to H.E Peter Obi last weekend will not be easily forgotten in Nigeria. He , Mbaka needs prayers, as H. E rightly pointed out.This is a man who missed almost all his weekend engagements only to honor his invitation. Everyone can see how Mbaka insulted, embarrassed him. I saw humility in H.E while Fr. Mbaka was talking money, money, money.

I believe Mbaka is the only one embarrassed in that video. No body will take him serious again.

Ifesinachi22:
Fr. Mbaka and Peter Obi Encounter...

Ahead of 2019 general elections, politicians should just leave the church alone.

This madness of turning the Churches into campaign grounds during elections must stop. 2019 general election is another opportunity to unlock Nigeria's potentials. I was thinking that by now, that the various political parties would be at campaign grounds showcasing their Atikulated policies and programs and not disturbing people who want to worship God at his dwelling place, the church.

I agree with H.E. Mr. Peter Obi completely, that there is hunger in Nigeria at the moment but the solution cannot be found in any church. Running from one Church to the other cannot solve the problem rather it will aggravate it.

Please, if it will be possible, the Christian Association of Nigeria ( CAN) should just barn politicians from attending church till after the elections.

Nigeria must get better.

Thank you.

The truth is, even Mbaka as it stands now, cannot even convince igbos to vote against atiku/obi (though I still have reservation for people like atiku) in favour of buhari or any other candidate. Slowly, he is becoming worthless in the eyes of Christians even catholics

chriskosherbal:
God is watching the activities of these men of God if they are actually done right or wrong they will be exposed one day ..


God Bless Nigeria

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They are all fraudsters. Everyone of them. The supposed genuine ones are those that have not been caught, including the Muslims clerics. All na scam. The only real reason i go to church, is to meet people

Gerrard59:
Women have always been hypergamous right from yore, why and how most of you don't know this is astonishing.

If you must be hypergamous, you must also see the real potential to be succesful in a man, to make it big. Anything outside that na oyo

Saffi:
Okay so once you ditch the ex, you’ll still end up with a babe who will love your money in disguise, so what now is the point?


No girl is entitled to suffer with you when you’re broke. This is a manipulative tool that you guys use to brainwash women. If a woman doesn’t possess wifely attributes you desire will you manage her, or go to the next best thing? A financially secure man is a dominant husband trait that most women look for, is it a crime to expect that in a man? We all look for ways we can benefit in a relationship, Biko you people should go and sit down.

Treachery and greed is a trait, all men(poor and rich) detest in a woman and avoid at all cost. Life is full of uncertainty dear. You might everything today and loose all of them to fire or any form of misfortune. Nobody wants to loose his sweet heart and supposed companion when the going gets tough. You wouldn't want your husband to dump you at the sight of a prettier lady.

ednut1:
even u wey dey struggle no like ur condition bt u want make gal like am . Economy hard for guys but nature favours us as a 40 year old man still fit gv women belle with ease. Women take d gamble to see if dem go jam richer or beta guy. Bt some go reach 34 turn old cargo

people like you are the problems we have in this country. The country is hard for everybody, not only one gender

BrownCarton:
The reason why most women will never get married is that they lack "Relationship Stamina" or I call it patience in layman terms


At some point in a man's life, the grind gets real, lots of uncertainty, focus, hardwork and dedication to the crafts/hustle. At that phase, we know our time energy and resources are limited and rather than the lady trying to support, she finds a way to just She doesnt know that deep down, we guys understand that brothers must go through tough times to become "ready made". She disregards her boyfriend/toasters. She never really cares at this stage, and after a while, she sticks out "politely", and hence subtly ditches him, but still keeps him aside more often non-romantically, because she is now hitched with a few "made men". He gets burnt, has no where to run to, but his craft.

When he eventually becomes successful, you realize that she comes back with a different attitude than that which she had when he was still hustling. She asks questions like "where do you live now" "where do you work" wanting to see how things changed for you. She wants to hear the success story, she sees your car (prolly a mercedez or something) she wants to fill back in. She subtly flirts with you shows more desire to be with you and you notice she becomes much softer when she talks to you.

But the brothers know better.


One thing women fail to understand is that any guy who works his ass out from bottom to the peak of his craft/hustle is a "High Standard Man". Such persons have strong belief and confidence in themselves. Women however, like completed products and a lot of women think they could fall back in without being accountable to their actions, and women hate being accountable. It leaves the dude probably thinking whether to ditch her, or to pin her real good. Meanwhile she is thinking she could rekindle whatever she thinks they were earlier supposed to have. This dude then pins all the holes on her... and somewhere along the line, she begins to ask "where/what are we". At that point, this dude bulks and dumps her with real speed. She never sees it coming and she never understands why. They forget that the brother was once loyal but got burned. Now he is woken up



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A master piece by BrownCarton. Very soon, i will stop making female friends, possibly even male friends

Jayslicky:
Finally, I found someone in my line of thought, if I have a daughter I would never let my daughter come to Nigeria. The lifestyle of nigerian women is just pathetic, bunch of no future ambition.

Is really that bad. Most men in this country, doesn't even know what a real companion is, because they have never had one.

Oluromantic:
Lol. No contribution into d relnshp, just grow into puberty and start aiming to explore a guys wealth. Nigeria don't have women I swear. Some of them really deserve to be raped. Their mental faculty is poorer than that of some animals to say d truth.

To be honest with you, we men are serious trouble. We really don't have a companion, just some female that wants to benefit from your success. Most guys are not even sure if there wife or girl actually loves them.

babyfaceafrica:
when a man of God leaves his primary mission(salvation) and starts meddling in politics.. I give up

Olga pack well bike. When we have such a useless man in aso rock.

kimbraa:
Why do these men think some of them don't smell as some ladies smell too? I've been told by a lady that a guy removed his boxers to have sex with her, and once the boxers was off, the odour of the room changed, and she couldn't stand it. What of your mouth odours? I think women are more matured in handling these things than men. She didn't create a social media handle to vent her frustration. At times, you walk past some guys and the stench called body odour could make you cease breath 'till you leave that place.

Is not always battle of sexes. Try to see things from the op perspective. He wants our beautiful ladies to improve there hygiene. Yes some guys smell really bad. You can open a tread on that, not to derail this one.

MVLOX:
I vote for good character... but sometimes u get so fortunate that u get the full package I mean the 3 in one... like my fiancé and very soon wife to be....

Wow, Hope she is not faking ? where did you meet her? To me above average beauty and wonderful character, is priceless.

olsome:
Which of these three will make you marry a lady quickly..

Just pick only one

(1) Virginity

(2) Character

(3) Beauty

Virginity is by far, the least important quality I look out for in a partner. Infact, i don't rate virgins. Beauty and character.

stephenolamide:
This thing Is very rampant,
As in girls nowadays, fall easily for guys in university, I really can't see big deal in this shit, unlike us the street boys, they turn us down easily, and look us like shit!!

Girls why?!

They might not necessarily be there ideal choice, but they have a lot in common, so it's easier for both to mingle. In this part of the world, ladies hardly get what they truly desire, they make do with what is available to them.

iko123:
What we see as pre-wedding pictures these days is weird and embarrassing. This is a mockery to the marriage institution.

It simply shows the lady is the head of the family. Now that is awesome.

Allaboutkatiee:
Lol even though I have so much money
I won't spend a dime on any guy
Call me stingy I won't, let her keep spending on you
Mark my words, she would suck you dry soon
I trust our babes

You mean the one your pastor has been promising you, you will have ? Ain't you tired of waiting ?

NonsoWow:
They are wasting their time. Ekweremadu will never support Peter Obi. All the governors in the south east have tactically withdrawn from supporting Atiku's candidacy. They are just waiting for the election to bury Atiku and his arrogance plus Peter Obi and his bigotry for good

Aboki claiming igbo. Is that how bad you really want to be igbo ?

HunWI:
She destroyed P-Square if not PQ who's Wizkid or Davido in the industry? Coming here to pretend like a Saint Yoruba wake up and change your identity is killing Nigeria.

Please can you explain to us, how she destroyed p square, with a proof not baseless argument.

She is really beautiful

haywire07:
If he hadn't tried to be romantic with you, you probably will still beat a grudge against him for not being man enough to to ask for what he wants

Thank you very much. When i was in second year, a lady visited and complained to a friend, that i didnt make any move on her, when she visited my room.They expect us to read there minds. Honestly dealing with our ladies is such a herculean task. They don't communicate well and expect us to read there minds.

pocohantas:
Lol, no you don't need to so that.
It drops directly into the mail you used to register on NL. You have access to that mail? Check there, you will find all your PMs.

Actually, i didn't see your reply. Nothing much sha, just felt your one of the few matured, responsible and rational people i would love to meet and get to know, outside this forum.

LesbianBoy:
One boy and two girls.

The boy will be a woman wrapper when he grows up

Are you speaking from personal experience ?

SIMPLYkush:
if my kids were this ugly, I would hide them in a cave

If you are actually serious about this, you should have started by hidding your imp looking face away from this forum and stop giving us nightmares.

ollah2:
You get so emotionally and angry when we discuss. Just imagine your choice of words. You are worst than those you criticise and I'm dead sure you attended a Pentecostal church service today.


Nigerian pastors would rather bulld a church and those are the people foo.lish people like you would die for. Your education is a total waste

My brother I tire for them(even muslims). Nigeria is heading for total collapse. It will definitely come to that point. Building churches and mosques will not save this country. Why can't we copy from the westerners