₦airaland Forum

UjuJoan2:
So ignore my post and move on. It's not going to matter or change the truth anyway. Denying the odds against women will not make them any less true.

Do women make wrong decisions because of cultural pressures? Yes. Do men exploit their unearned gender superiority? Yes!!!

Does it lead to dysfunctional marriages? Yes. Is it going to change anytime soon? NO.

Main point is there's nothing "wise" about a woman who goes into marriage with vengeance in her mind. Thats what you opined earlier on. You should tell your clients to heal or quit.

UjuJoan2:
What are you rambling about?

It's so easy for people to make grand statements and assumptions, when they've never been in a bad situation.

Anyway, go back and read my posts, then maybe you'll understand my point.

Sorry ma'am, you made an extremely unintelligent and unwise point. The post was clear. The more worrying thing however is that you are supposed to be some "sort" of a marriage counselor. Genuinely feel sorry for those that come to you for advice. (Just confirms my fears for so called marriage counselors in Nigeria anyways. Always felt they don't know what they are doing )

Genuinely thought all federal government employees are on IPPIS. All this resistance to the payroll system simply shows these ASUU guys have been doing a lot of dodgy stuffs.

UjuJoan2:
Maybe you treated her badly while you were courting, because you thought she was desperate to hook you. And you were some kind of 'prize'. A wise woman will tolerate your shit just to ensure she doesn't lose all the years she wasted with you, and then once the deal is sealed, it's payback time.

Don't assume every man is passing through the same thing.

If you don't lay a good foundation, your marriage will suffer.

Wow, this is just ridiculous.

So a man was an asssshole during courtship and rather than end the relationship the lady just endures his shiiiit until the relationship ends in marriage. In a bit to exert vengeance, she makes the man's, hers and by extension her children's lives miserable.

The society is then saddled with scarred individuals. Her sons would likely turn out to be assssholes as well and the cycle of misery continues all because of a petty, vindictive woman.

JFC.

ngwababe:
The babe resemble Adesua, men una dey enjoy ooo.

Sound like one with Lesbian tendencies

Heroine.

Rest In Peace, ma. Humanity is grateful for your sacrifice.

You just can't make this shiiiit up... LMAO.
Can't take the advice they dish out. Who knew?

Supporting LGBT rights set everything in motion. It's a slippery slope now. Anything goes...very soon paedophilia, necrophilia, xxxxphilia will be perfectly ok.

Also notice how it's always a mum thats raising her son as a girl. See Charlize Theron, LMAO. Misandrists (basically, feminists) have so much hate in their hearts they can't even love their male children. Lol

They are high as fucckkk..

Women: voluntarily chooses to date and marry violent thugs because they look hot and they hope to change them into loving husbands.

Reality hits those women.

Women: "feel bad for us for our own poor choices"

Lol

Love as we as we talk about it, romantic love, doesn't exist. It's all neurochemicals messing up with our brains and we almost always snap back to reality when the effects of these neurochemicals wear off.

Marry someone you are compatible with, someone who respects you and you're at least physically attracted to.

Smallboy01:
I'm not broke, but if I'm broke that shouldn't give u some much audacity to bash guys, whereas broke girls are the ones who end up being the sluts and whores on the street, using their body to fetch money with absolutely zero dignity, broke guys have the clear chance of getting freed, but I can can't say of the girls who have been drilled beneath their pucci and have been Involve in several abortions.
No lady shouldn't call any guy broke ass cos many are hustling out there and the broke girls are getting laid by the so called rich big boys .. U See the difference?.

#TeamVirgin
#Team Caucasian

Eww I hate 9ja girls! Tueh!

It's quite amusing how they think guys that are against broke shaming are broke themselves. Some guys have been on both sides of the divide; they were once broke and are now well off. They can actually feel the pain of broke guys.

99% of the Earth's resources is in the hands of 1%. It's an unfair world. The poor will always be here. You have to be an extremely shitty human being to mock the poor. The lowest of the low.

Nice wirte up and mostly true but you just messed up the thread with Cossy's picture. Those breasts aren't really attractive these days.

Unpopular opinion threads almost always devolve into shitshows (enjoyable shitshows, TBH ). Opinions tend to be too controversial for that not to happen.

As for me, I say jail Nigerian couples who give birth to more than one child. We are too many, almost 200 million, cramped up in less than 1 million square kilometers. Couple that with the shiiiit economy and it's just a monumental disaster waiting to happen if we keep procreating at the present rate.

And, oh, I will also ban religion in the country. Seems to be the major reason why Nigerians conveniently throw logic and reason out of the window.

Psalm2423:
Please leave that asslicking brother. He read with his phone upside down.

Genuinely believe he's twisting the narrative to dance to the gallery.

The post clearly portrays a woman who deeply adores her husband. She obviously enjoys what she's doing and the man must have been nothing short of an amazing husband to have her adore him to that extent.

This whole idea that anything African/traditional must be inferior/backward smacks of inferiority complex.

AwkaetitiBabe:
The man pays the bills, brings money for food, clothes the family and all. Yes he deserves the respect and love. It's really not easy being a RESPONSIBLE man.

FIX THAT FOR YOU

Kaycee54321:
Bullshit. Any man content with that kind of false worship is a piece of crap. I will never treat my wife that way and I'll never raise a daughter that will lick the soles of another human just because he has a penis.

Africans and false sense of self worth.

No where in that post did it say the husband treats the woman badly. She does all those acts in his absence; she wasn't forced to; she did it because she wanted to. Not that I'll like this level of reverence from anyone but I wouldn't be as worked up as you are now if others are ok with it.

Learn to respect how others live their lives. At least that's what most of you that pretend to be less African/Nigerian than others preach.

Fountainofyouth:
The ability for someone to get nàked and fvck someone they have no feelings for is what amazes me.

You have got to accept the fact that men and women aren't the same. This has been stressed on this forum several times and that's why most folks are of the believe that a cheating husband is much less dangerous than a cheating wife.

WalkerMichael:
OP. one advice - TAKE THIS TO THE FAMILY SECTION

Folks over there at the family section almost always advice couples to end their marriages over the slightest issues.

He's better off staying here. Or maybe the sport section, or the religion section, or the auto section, anywhere but the family section.

She wants to go for what is called the c0ck carousel

OluwasureGig:
they should bro [b]but unfortunately banks these days are filled with sadist women acting like they started seeing their period [/b]recently. before dem go attend to you sef you for don vex comot

Thought I was the only one that observe the emboldened, lol. They seem to hate their jobs.

From the comments, I gotta say this is one of those very rare moments when all nairalanders unanimously agree that an OP is full of shiiiit. Op, imagine how bad you are at your "job" to achieve this unenviable feat.

Just quit already.

overboard:
A pretty hard read though!

A good Monday morning torture.

Chi59:
Mtchew... How does his looks concern you?
The way you wrote, I thought he was blind, lame in one foot, and bald.

All these aren't half as bad as buying diapers. Frank should just end his life

Literally every marital conflict that is brought to the family section is followed by a barrage of individuals mostly females advising the fellow to quit. This is genuinely confusing because I'm damn sure there isn't one marriage out there that is without a conflict.

No, really, why bother marrying then since we are required to throw in the towel at any sign of difficulty (which is inevitable)?

I can't say I'm knowledgeable or experienced enough to give advice on marital issues but I can clearly see this section isn't a good place to get one.

Just a congregation of bitters.

It seems he misses his bachelorhood. You've stressed how financially well off he is. He probably thinks he's wasting his peak sexual market value (SMV) years with just one woman when he could easily have a dosen every week.

He could end up regretting though.

The drop in quality from Osimehin to Onuachu is massive.

jihday:
See how them dey press us like today's bread

Not sustainable

faceland:
May be because they didn't plan, including the civil servants that are stealing files to adjust their age and dying their hair. They are trying to recapture what they think they missed. For some of us, that is not an option as our looks would betray us.

I have always claimed 10 years older than my real age because due to struggling, that is how I look.

Almost 17 years ago, when I was about writing WAEC, I came down from bike and paid, the bike-man said "thank you sir ", from then I became aware that I look older than my age and started even banging 30 years old without mentioning my age but acting older.

People trust older guys, if you doubt me, try and rent house if the landlord wouldn't be looking at you carefully if he thinks you are in your 20's or younger, but once they see someone that looks 40 up, no much questions asked (even if na BQ you want rent)... Same with police, if am passing the worst part of town on my way to work (to buy weed) and police are violently slapping those innocent small boys, I would pass while pleading on the police to take it easy on the kids and sometimes they listen.

LMAO

What in the actual fucckkk??

I swear to God I just hate the world sometimes with all these depressing stories.

Went to cut my hair but my barber wasn't around. I met the apprentice and in a bid to encourage the young man I allowed him have a go. He did a decent job on the hair but then completely messed up my beard and mustache afterwards.

Let's just say I ended up looking like Kanayo O Kanayo.

What? Where did you get that Nigerian guys like tall girls? Most prefer average height (5.2-5.11) and if forced to choose between ladies at extreme ends (4.11-6.5) they would probably go for the former.